r/MN4r

I like conversations that linger long after they end.

Please reach out if you'd be interested in meeting right now for a bit of fun ( I have condoms )

This page is intense hahaha but figure life is about trying anything once!

I’m a 34 yr in the Twin Cities. I like roadtrips, crosswords, any creative craft out there, and love grabbing drinks and trying new spots in the cities with friends. I’m so glad it’s Spring/Summer - we all earned some outdoor patios and concerts in the part!

I’m a BBW with little dating experience and seeking dating or a FWB to gain more experience. Trying to let my freak flag fly this summer, if you catch my drift. Truly the goal is to find a safe, kind dynamic. Too good to be true?

About you: You enjoy sex with larger women, you’re down to clown, and you’re kind to the shyest girl at the party. Must hate Trump. 🖕🧊

Shoot me a note with your age (and anything else about you!) and your favorite movie to kick things off.

Happy hookups ya horny animals. ✌️

I’m looking for someone genuine to talk to regularly. Someone who likes quiet nights, comfort shows, sending random thoughts throughout the day, and maybe a little harmless teasing once we get comfortable.

I’m single and usually prefer older guys who know how to actually hold a conversation. Dry replies are my natural enemy.

Tell me what you’re currently watching, your favorite underrated anime, or the movie you swear everyone needs to see at least once. If we vibe, maybe we become each other’s favorite notification.

not looking to force anything, just miss having someone i genuinely look forward to talking to. i like playful people, good banter, and conversations that randomly turn into talking for hours without noticing. bonus points if you can flirt a little without trying too hard. tell me something random about yourself and i’ll match the energy

Looking for casual fwb

I'm alone, I just had my shower and feeling hornier than usual and really damn good in my body while
'm alone.
Ofc it is so boring so I thought why not have fun with strangers on Reddit and maybe show off.., I'm in a flirty and turned on headspace and ready to have fun and enjoy the moment instead of holding back, as far you're gonna obey me and don't forget to like the post so l know you're serious..

hmu

North of the twin cities.

Looking to move up in experience, 26F. I usually take the safe route on everything ( still do ) got recent test results ( proof also ) along with condoms etc.

If I were to try having sex, it would most likely be with someone who's had a vasectomy, ( gonna need document proof of that too if you want to play )

I'd host just cause it's easier for me ( I'm only available evenings because of work schedule ) if I were to meet someone, gonna have to be under 50, has similar interests with being nerdy.

I'm very inexperienced, and no, you wouldn't be the first one to ask the same question either, if you ask me what kinks I'm into, then I'm just gonna ignore that. To speed up the process, I'm very inexperienced.

You wanna play? I need proof.

Honestly just looking for something simple, ongoing, and low-pressure with the right person. I miss having someone reliable to text, hang out with, flirt with, and keep each other company when the mood hits. Not looking to complicate things or force a relationship, just want good chemistry, good communication, and someone who knows how to keep a vibe going. Must be local, clean, confident, and drama-free. Can host later once we’re comfortable.

i’m down for a casual hang that doesn’t feel like a waste of time. fwb if the connection’s there. let’s keep it easy, fun, and a little hot.

arrow up if you want to find out how my wet coochie tastes

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

Be nice

Looking for a one time thing, quick fuck then thats it. Hmu

Hmu if you can keep up :)

Mailbox will be open for a short time. Please be near the twin cities area.

I’ve got a curious mind, a teasing personality, and a growing list of kinks I’d love to experience someday. Just hoping the right person eventually crosses my path and matches my energy.