r/MisogynyDating

You know whether the thought of being alone with a man who sees innocence as something to defile rather than preserve makes you wet between the legs.

You know whether you crave the kind of perverse, degrading sexual use that most women would recoil from, and the humiliation of knowing you submitted to it willingly.

You know whether you ache to be called a good girl not for how well you follow society's rules, but for how good of a job you've done of serving cock.

You know whether older men deserve to have you receptive and easy and pliable and willing, for them.

And you know whether you're up to making yourself into a cute little human flashlight on your own - or if you'd benefit from a firm hand to show you your rightful place in things. If it would be so much easier to embrace being a pretty little set of fuckholes if only you had the right man to make you do it.

Looking for an ongoing freeuse slut training dynamic with elements of ageplay and/or petplay, and many other potential kinks too. Preferably with an in-person element in the UK, but I would consider a purely online dynamic provided you're not excessively camera shy.

Shoot me a chat if this feels like it might be something you need.

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Hi I’m a bad girl ☹️ I can’t stop cumming.
I can’t be trusted with my own orgasms anymore. I need someone serious who wants to teach me how to behave and how to be a good girl!
I want to be all yours!
(When I say someone serious I mean it!!!) I need your help
Looking for Dom/me🥺🥺
I’m gonna discuss my limits and kinks with you Superiors.

Formerly feminist, now trying and wanting to embrace a good traditional lifestyle with clear hierarchy, gender roles, purpose and leadership with a special someone ☺️💐

I loveeee degrading and being robotifed

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Hi! Long post disclaimer, but I've put a lot of work and thought into it, to attract the right property. This isnt for everyone, but thats the point! Read to the end before responding.

About me:

I am 45, 6' tall, I weigh about 140 lbs, skinny/fit build. I have been called handsome, sexy, even beautiful lol but I'm definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I have celiacs and a high metabolism. If you like tall, skinny guys that are in good shape but also kind of geeky/nerdy, im for you. Anyways, I have smoky blue eyes, dark blond hair, im going clean shaven rn, and i have glasses. Im well endowed.

I'm a glass is half full kind of person, very energetic and positive. I'm intelligent, emotionally intelligent, a good communicator, i have a big heart and a lot of love to give, and emotionally available. I'm very affectionate, loving, caring, very loyal, and very sweet. Im aggressive, and go after what (or who) I want. I have a very high libido and a dirty mind. I'm a dominant, soft/pleasure leaning but I definitely have a sadistic/feral side. I'm a survivor and have been through a lot that made me stronger, smarter and the man I am today. I'm completely clean, 420 friendly with a dash of psychotropics, otherwise completely ddf. Not a big drinker but I'll have a drink. I can be kinda weird i suppose lol I love to laugh, and make others laugh, i make jokes all the time, I have a wide vocal range and do all kinds of voices lol. I was raised in classic Looney Tunes and Monty Python, so if that gives you any idea lol. I love whimsy. I can be emotional, and i do suffer from some ptsd and anxiety, but its well managed, especially with the 420. That being said, I may need reassurance initially, but the more I can trust you, the less i'll nerd that. Trust is pretty big with me. Touch is my primary love language, i also communicate well with music. I'm very unique, and a good man.

I'm into gaming, cooking, working out, music (mostly electronic genres and rock/metal), movies, hiking, camping, diy projects, tech and more! Im mostly an introvert and stay in but if I had an adventure partner, I might want to go out more lol doing stuff on your own sucks.

I work first shift, and sometimes can be slow replying in the mornings, most of my free time is in the evenings and on weekends.

About you, and us:

I am looking for a woman that is a genuine submissive and is ready to build something with ne, earn my trust,  and completely give herself to me, be owned totally by me. If you're new to being a submissive, thats fine, so long as you are 100% certain that is who you are. I expect to be able to train you to be the perfect sex slave and sub for me, so inexperienced is actually preferred but an open mind is essential. This can be intense and a lot, but its absolutely worth it, for the right girl. I like some playful sass, but i'm not looking for a disobedient brat, unless you're ready to be trained.

I am into curvy/smaller bbws, busty and a big ass, however, I'm open to other body types, if you meet most other criteria. You can definitely gain weight to become more what i want. I prefer younger, and the primary reason for that is attitude and energy. If you're closer to my age and think you can keep up and match my energy, you can reach out. You should be emotionally available, be ready for constant communication, and to be mine in every way. I have dived in with my whole heart before and gotten it broken, so I need to know that you are all in. I need to be able to trust you, and you need to be able to trust me and feel safe with me too.

I am looking for someone reliable, consistent, with good communication skills, honesty, someone who is affectionate, needy, and clingy, truly submissive, completely loyal and ready to be owned. Child free. We can discuss kinks but I will say im not into scat or anything too extreme, or anything that would cause you permanent damage. You should be open to trying new things, and into degradation. A cum fetish and an oral fixation are high on my list of must haves, although you can be trained into those. All your holes will be trained and molded to me. My slave/sub should be dedicated to making ALL my fantasies a reality, and a threesome is one of them. Dont misunderstand, i am the most loyal person in the world. I'm not open to sharing you. You should derive pleasure from serving and pleasing your Master, and have a lot of love to give, and be 100% ready to be owned, loved, protected and cared for.

I want to be worshipped. I want to have someone by my side for the rest of my life that is going to protect my heart, dedicate herself to my pleasure and happiness and do everything she can to contribute to and build a strong life with me. I want to be loved, cherished, I want to feel sexy, desired, and needed. I want to feel safe, and secure in the knowledge that you're not going anywhere, that you are completely loyal to me, that you truly do belong to me. I want to feel respected. I want to hold you accountable. I want you to follow my rules and let me lead, I want you belong to me mind, body, heart and soul. I want to claim you and fill you up, and break your mind with how hard, how much, I make you cum, with how i make you feel. I want you to be my cumslut, my fucktoy, but also my love, my heart, my partner. I am very possessive, and I want to be proud that you're mine and totally loyal. I want you to be proud that you're mine too. I want you to take care of all my needs, not just the physical ones, and i will in turn provide for yours and protect you. I want you to wear a collar, so everyone knows who you belong to. Possibly a tattoo with my name and bite mark. I am multi-faceted, and will show you a love unlike any youve ever dreamed of, and i will ruin you for any other guy. You will belong to me. If you say that you belong to me, you had better mean it, and back up your words with actions.

I want to have a deep connection/bond and love that can only be experienced in this kind of lifestyle/dynamic. I'm looking for constant fun and hotness and romance and affection and love. I'm looking for someone to return all the energy and effort that I put in to a relationship. I like clingy, needy, obsessed sub/slaves, and ngl im clingy and needy too. I want something magical that grows every day. Something where we both work together, not against each other. I want to guide you, love you, help you grow and help you realize your full potential. I dont care if you're btoken, so long as you're ready to be rebuilt. I'm looking for something real.

If you are in a good position to relocate in a few months, if you know your place and true purpose, and you are a true submissive ready to be owned, we should talk! I do want you to visit before you move in, so be ready to do that soon, im not looking for endless online but I am willing to start online. I am willing to be flexible on the timeline, but in the near future is the goal. I am possibly willing to help you get here, but I need to trust you first.

You made it to the end! I know, it was long but its hopefully being read by the right woman. First impressions are important, no low effort messages or dead texting. Dont reach out if you have others in your dms, im looking for someone intentional. No ghosting, be ready to talk! Make me feel like your priority from the beginning, be ready to give this 110%. If you say brb, then brb lol, or follow up, not tje next day, but in a reasonable amount of time.

If this post resonates with you, you should introduce yourself! If you're ready to be completely owned and love me the way I need to be loved, prove it. Send me a message, and show me, not just with your words, but with your actions, why you're serious, and why you're different from the countless women who have gotten my hopes up, claimed to be mine, only to ghost me, so dont be a ghost. If you commit to me, you had better mean it and stick to it. Really tired of girls saying they belong to me and disappearing. Dont play with my heart! I wont play with yours. ;)

Are you ready to fulfill your purpose and be the ultimate slut for me and more? The only person to judge you is me, and our relationship can be whatever we need it to be, because its ours. If you want something real, and you're actually ready to out in the work, im just a message away, but its up to you to claim me, because I'm ready to claim you. Its up to you to step up and be what i need you to be. If you're just going to fold and give up when it gets real, dont waste my time.

Cis females only.

Kinks/things im into list: My primary kink is cumming inside/filling you up, especially if you want/need it. Im also into breeding but im not currently in a financial position to have a child. I'm also into oral both ways (ive only ever come from oral once, I can be a challenge, love giving oral), kissing, touching, skin on skin contact, cuddling, anal, anal play/eating ass, cnc, public play, tpe, spanking, biting, watersports, threesomes, free use, restraint, edging, teasing, sexting, sexy games, toy play, breast play/anr, degradation. I love to give praise, goals, rewards, etc.. Open to others. Possibly interested in exploring prostate stimulation.

I have lots of fantasies i want to make a reality too.

Not into: scat or anything that could cause permanent harm. Sharing my property. Lying. Disloyalty. Lack of communication. Fake submissives. Ghosting. Lack of commitment or effort.

I know it's truly unethical to treat someone's mind/life/identity as something to fuck with. But Jesus it's hot. And a lot of fun.

I've had subs before, over the years, who have let me play with them and manipulate them, but always within sensible agreed boundaries and limits.

Hell, I'd take that again, at this point. But there's always going to be some itch within me to wish I could take things further - to really test the limits of, not only what's ethical, but what's possible. How far _could_ it go?

For what it's worth, I'm a 42 year old guy from the UK who has been learning, studying, and using hypnosis for over 20 years (including training and working as a hypnotherapist). I'm in an ENM lifestyle dynamic, but I'm craving some fresh meat.

Hello !

I’m a 28 years old white man, based in France, looking for a submissive woman between 18 and 35 who wants something real. Experience doesn’t matter. What matters is your desire to obey, to learn, and to take your place at a Dom's feet.

I’m a firm and intentional man. Dom and Master. I build dynamics on structure, honesty, and consistency. Rules, expectations and daily connection, those are 3 important things for me. You’ll feel guided, claimed, and protected.

I’m playful and nice, but I expect respect and obedience in return. I want something immersive that could grow toward 24/7 someday. Tasks, rituals, and control that goes beyond just play.

Kinks include breeding, anal, humiliation, spanking, orgasm control, CNC, choking and much more. Always with clear limits. No blood. No scat. Beginners are welcome if you’re willing to learn, obey and surrender.

If this speaks to you, reach out. Tell me who you are and what draws you to this dynamic.

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Do you crave to give up control completely? To have every disobedient thought scrubbed from your brain through harsh treatment and structure.

Very sadistic here with 15 years of experience both online and offline.

No males, no sugar babies, no bbw.

Are you a gen z girl who understands that your only purpose in life is serving men? Then perhaps I’m looking for you.

So keep on reading and apply if you need to be owned

Who am I?

I am a 46 year old man, 1.83m tall, slim, with short brown hair and green eyes. I have a nice job, live in the Netherlands, am currently single, and have a lot of experience in the BDSM and kinky fields. For example, my last 2 relationships were long term TPE relationships, and my first steps into this beautiful world were about 25 years ago.

Kinky me

I am strict, a sadist, but also very caring. So I can be a jerk and enjoy it, but I can also cuddle you a lot. Aftercare, rules, hard limits etc are very important to me. I don't have many limits. The few I do have are children, permanent damage, and poop.

My kinks

I love humiliation, degradation, objectification, pain, CNC, using you like a slut or let others use you, control, training, free use, (hidden) public, TPE and pretty much everything related to these things.

Vanilla me

I enjoy walking, nature, animals, city trips, picnics, F1, football, board games, music, but also just lazily watching a movie or series on the couch, gaming, cuddling, etc.

What I'm looking for?

A nice girl, 18+, slim to curvy, girlish, submissive, obedient and open minded. I am really looking for someone to build something IRL with. I love TPE, so it would be a plus if you are interested in that. Someone who proudly calls themselves my property. Furthermore, I actually really like it if you are inexperienced. I love training you, etc.

Are you interested and up for a chat? Then feel free to send me a nice message or check my profile for other contact options.

P.S. To show me that you’ve read everything, tell me what’s your favourite fruit.

Warning: By Clicking on and Reading the following words you may find my words stuck inside your head. If you are in public or in any way will need to have your composure for the next few hours I discourage you from reading this post any longer. You have been warned.

Still reading eh? You're certainly a bold one. Well I guess you sort of have to be if you're on here looking to invite people to have their way with you. It does require courage after all, courage and commitment, two things that you shall require in abundance if you are to get through this post with your mind intact.

Tell me love, sometimes even you don't know why you're here do you? A part of you craves dominance, but you seldom understand those urges. Surely "any sane person shouldn't be having such thoughts", perhaps you find yourself saying. It can get overwhelming can it not, thinking and pretending to conform to what you "must" want and what you "mustn't".

It is at times like these that you perhaps wish that you can shut down all thoughts, you wish that the agency to act upon your desires was taken away from you by someone you trust, someone you give yourself to. Someone who can make those decisions for you.

After all, you don't need to think, you don't want to think. You wish to be held down and used as the good little fucktoy you know yourself to be. I wonder what images that brought to your mind. I wonder if you felt a bunch of hands holding you down, if you felt the tip of the penis just about to penetrate your pussy.

Well if it didn't, I know it did now and I know now that your hand is just itching to touch your soaking wet cunt. You're waiting for permission? I told you already, didn't I. You may be my good little slut and touch yourself. But remember that the second that you do, you shall lose all agency. You shall be touching yourself because a nameless faceless stranger on the internet asked you to. But that just turns you on even more doesn't it. After all it perfectly itches your need to be abused, your need to be used as a tool of pleasure.

How do I know this? Because I've done this for long enough to be able to use any sluts like you which might come my way and wrap you around my fingers. I love manipulating and using women as my good little fuck puppets. Do you crave manipulation? Are you asking yourself, "Why am I getting so damn aroused". Well slut, it's because I'm manipulating you as you read this, persuading you to give in to your desires. I know your wet cunt wants to be touched and I know you're touching it right now.

You see I'm very good at pushing buttons. Nothing gives me more pleasure than taking a pretty little influencer types and turn them into my personal pornstar. I can be sick and sadistic, disguised in charm and intrigue. You wont know what hit you as you're three fingers deep into your own pussy, giving me whatever I ask of you.

Do you often find yourself getting attracted to toxic manipulative men who just seem to use you, yes? Well then this is the perfect post for you to cater to all of your manipulative urges while not having to deal with the traumatic and toxic exes you've had the misfortune of knowing.

I know you crave attention, I can give it to you. I know you crave abuse, I can give it to you. I know you crave humiliation, I can give it to you.

Question is, what can you give me?

There will be no real harm of course, no negative consequences, I'm a twisted man, but not a monster, but the question is how far do you see yourself going, how far do you think you can be made to go?

Mention your first name, age, what you look like and your current city in your first message. So that I can understand who you are and can use the time to get to know you better.

So if you're looking to 'be talked into doing something reckless' then message me and tell me what you look like, tell me how old you are and you want me to do to you and touch your aching wet pussy (yes, I know it is) as you type each word.

And I can assure you, that messaging me wouldn't be the most reckless thing you'd do today.

I’m really into the idea of moaning with a complete stranger. We don’t know each other. No conversation, no small talk, just using each other for our own pleasure. I am the dirtiest, most perverted and deprived woman you'll ever find. Today I want to get off on making your fantasy come true. lemme know if ya interested. Let’s talk, and have some fun?

My name is shanna and Im from california but temporarily in the south for training. Im a pro athlete and currently in prep for an upcoming pro competition. I’m an EXTREME california girl so I sound absolutely dumb as nails when I open my mouth but I listen and take orders very well 😛 Im Arab + latina so I am extremely possessive of the man who chooses me and want to be your only one. I don’t play when it comes to relationships. As soon as im owned, all social media is gone and you are my world.

I was raised in an extremely patriarchal/misogynistic/purity upbringing so I know my place. I was homeschooled and only attended prestigious christian private schools and took feminine manner lessons as a teenager. I was taught submission to men from a very early age and rejected the entirety of feminism. I’m a professional athlete and take extremely good care of my body and refuse to let myself go, after all, i want to be my future husbands pride. I want him to come home after a long day and use me and to take all his frustration out on my body after i’ve cooked him a steak. I want to be your sex doll and the only thing that makes you cum.

I take patriarchy very seriously and to me this is not a kink. I value femininity and my ability to serve and worship a man who decides to chose me as his property. I truly believe men are superior and it would be an honor to find someone genuinely serious about this lifestyle, rather than someone who views it as a kink. My parents taught me how to serve my future husband and to me, it’s a joy to be able to serve.

I am very specifically looking for MONOGAMY. I have no interest in being a poly, sister wife or whatever. I want one man alone 🩷

If my spiel interests you, feel free to dm me :)