r/NCBros

Throwing this out here because I’m searching for a very specific type of long-term, low-key dynamic. I'm a masculine, straight-looking guy in my early 40s, and I’m looking to find another like-minded, down-to-earth bro who is in a similar life stage.
I’m completely on the DL. I have a busy daily routine with work and family commitments, so I completely understand and respect the need for total discretion, tight schedules, and strict privacy.
Ideally, I’m looking for a real friendship first and foremost—someone I can actually bond with, go to the gym with, grab a drink with, and just thoroughly enjoy hanging out with. I’m really into homebrewing beer, though I haven't set up my gear in a few years, and I’d love to find a buddy who might want to get into hobbies like that together.
To be completely honest, I had this dynamic years ago with a close buddy in the military. We started out as just good friends, eventually discovered we were both straight-curious, and started having some clean, mutual fun whenever the mood struck. But the best part was that it never made things weird—we could hang out alone, do normal guy stuff, or be in our usual social groups without a single person ever knowing.
Physically, I know exactly what I'm about: I am strictly into clean, straightforward mutual fun (JO/oral). I keep it very simple, so it’s a hard pass on kissing or anything beyond that.
If you are a masculine, discreet guy in the greater Asheville area who misses having a genuine, uncomplicated brotherhood with some benefits on the side, hit me up in Chat. Let's see if we connect