22 [F4M] who’s for real here? I’m Latina single into femdom. I love redwine and sushi and I like to get baked.
currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i think it forced me to grow up a lot faster than i expected.
before all of that, i used to believe people when they told me who they were. now i pay more attention to what they actually do. i’ve watched friendships slowly drift apart, seen people become strangers without either of us realizing it, and learned that the little things usually matter the most. the people who are genuine never have to convince you that they are.
my life is pretty simple these days. i spend a lot of time watching psychological horror movies, looking for another sushi place that’s worth trying, or finding a cozy wine bar with a really good glass of red. i love evenings that don’t have a plan, where the conversation just keeps going because neither person wants to leave.
i’ve always been the type of person who’s curious about something. one week i’m filling pages of a sketchbook, the next i’m reading about a random topic that caught my attention or looking for another series to get completely invested in. i like people who get excited about things and aren’t afraid to show it.
my circle is definitely smaller now than it used to be, but i don’t see that as a bad thing anymore. i’d rather have a few people i genuinely trust than spend time surrounded by people who don’t really know me.
that’s honestly where i’m at in life right now. still learning, still changing, and still believing that the best connections happen when nobody feels like they have to pretend.
what’s something you’ve learned about people that you wish you’d figured out sooner?