r/PetplayHaven

For about as long as I've been a person, I've known that I was a wolf. Not in a therian or reincarnated-from-a-wolf way, just that I feel so embodied by the animal that I could only ever imagine myself as one. I have multiple sets of ears, tails (clip-on and otherwise), and even a tattoo of a wolf paw print on my butt. My first plush animal was a wolf. I have dozens of wolf plushes, blankets, and cool posters, etc.

So, I'm a domme and a top. I enjoy being aggressive, biting, snarling, everything. Which is great for subs and me because they get ravaged and I get to be a woman-eating monster.

Buuuttttt I also like pet play. And being the pet. And this is where things get complicated. When I do pet play, I want to be the domme wolfish girl I always am, but I want to be called puppy and have my tummy rubbed and generally engage in a lot of behavior people would see as being submissive. But the way I see it, you should be so lucky to have this big evil predator show such vulnerability around you!

However, most people who are submissive and into pet play generally prefer to be the pet and be ordered around/treated like an animal/etc. Which leaves me in the weird space where when I explain my fantasies to people, they're all like, "woah, I've never heard of pet play being done like that before!" And it can be frustrating but I understand! It's a unique dynamic. I want someone to be my handler and then get overpowered and lose to the pleasure of being rutted and "forced" to have my puppies. Which I think is so deliciously degrading, to be a human used by an animal. Anyways.

Does anyone else have any odd dynamics they practice? Is there hope for me yet??? Woof woof 🐺🐺🐺

I want be be a live-in pet.

For years now i've had this fantasy of being a pet for someone, wearing collars and leashes and doing whatever it is they want me to do. Sometimes when i'm falling asleep, I pretend that i'm sleeping in a crate that's been decorated with blankets and stuffed animals by my owners to keep me comfortable as they sleep in their bed. I want someone to love me as their dog and use me when they feel pent up, to be my master in every sense of the word. When I misbehave, I want to be spanked and chained, when I'm a good dog i want to be rewarded with pets and cuddles and time in the bed. My biggest wish is for someone to take care of me and to service them in return. While they work at a desk, i'll be there at their feet, looking up at them or using my mouth between their legs to please them. I want to feel their hand stroking my hair while I do.

Nothing would make me happier than belonging to a master, someone I can love unconditionally and provide relief for, someone who loves me as their pet and treats me well while still enforcing that dynamic between us. I'd like to wear ears and a tail, to crawl on all fours and whine like a needy pup.

Some thoughts before I head off to work for the day <3

For some time now I have become increasingly interested in doing petplay (as a pet).

The problem is that I feel like this isn't the solution my brain has found to fill the emotional void I feel.

What do you think about this ?

So I’m quite new to the petplay space. Im 22 MTF and have been kinda loosely paying attention to petplay and debating whether or not to do it myself. I’ve been avoiding it rather heavily as it’s really hard for me to open up internally and letting myself explore things. So, just this week I just said fuck it and now I’m trying it, but I would love some advice on what to do.

I have probably a billion questions and would love to talk to someone one on one about this sorta stuff. I’m not trying to advertise or anything, I just wanna ask questions and try to figure out if this is a good space for me or not.