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My bed feels way too big tonight… just saying. lnssta: lunajezza

I like routines… especially when they involve the same person. I’m not here for one-time anything. I want something that builds, something we both get used to… in a good way.

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u/SpudMonkApe — 2 days ago

18 [M4F] in Stoney creek looking for first time

Never really been sexually active with a woman and want to lose my card. I think I have the looks and body for it want to get it over with.

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u/Antique-Programmer11 — 4 days ago

54 [M4F] #Burlington or Hamilton - Got a thing for older men?

Many people here seem to admire the young Adonis or a hung BBC. But surely there must be a woman or couple that enjoys the pleasure that only experience can bring?

I am an educated, professional male who has had his share of sexual adventures. Life is short so I would love to continue to enjoy myself with new people and situations.

I am 6 ft, 195 lbs, grey blonde hair, well kept beard and green eyes. What I don't have in a chiselled physiqued, I make up for with skilled oral augmented by 7.5"

Open to a varied sexual menu from sensual to wild. Intrigued? Msg me

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u/Yyzguy19 — 4 days ago

21F4M - Feeling a little rusty…

This is a long one so get ready...

As per the title, it's been a while since I've had sex, especially outside of a long term relationship, so I'm feeling a little rusty and would love to find someone to help me gain some experience.

I'm 21 years old, white, 5’4”, 145lbs, not super chubby, but have been putting on a bit of weight recently. I've got long brown hair, glasses, and a few tattoos. Despite the pictures on my profile (thank you good lighting and camera angles) I'm not a model by any means, I've got stretch marks, hip dips, a tummy, imperfect skin, and unfortunately lots of insecurity to go with it, so please be someone who understands that.

If you've ever skimmed my profile before, you know I'm very open sexually and love to explore when I feel secure with someone, but I honestly don't have much experience outside of past boyfriends and that's starting to feel like a setback. I'm looking to find a guy or two that I find attractive, both physically and emotionally. I'm looking for someone who's patient and open minded, who's genuinely interested in me as a person as well as a sexual partner, and someone who is flexible enough to accommodate me in different aspects such as availability, travel, hosting, and the like.  

Sorry, but for this, I'm not looking for virgins or guys with very limited experience. You don't have to be an expert, just have some experience under your belt. I'm honestly a little nervous about playing with guys who are more experienced than me, but I'm hoping it'll help me learn a thing or two. I'm actually nervous about several things and I think that may be why I'm so picky about meeting people here, but I'm really looking to get out of my head and enjoy some time with someone who's patient, understanding, and supportive. I am still pretty set on finding someone who fits my usual type so I'll list some traits I'm interested in:

• White/caucasian men

• In shape, fit, or skinny are body types I'm into, sorry but no overweight guys

• 30 or under, I may be open to an age gap in the future, but not for this, 31+ need not apply 

• Shorter is a plus but not mandatory 

• Good hygiene all around 

• Ideally does not shave pubic hair, waxed or natural is preferred

• Confident and patient and willing to go slow with me

• GREAT at communicating, I need someone I can talk to and learn from

Absolutely non-negotiable is someone who's very serious about their sexual health and tests regularly, and only plays with people who test regularly. I don't want to have to worry about catching something from you when playing together (I also test and play exclusively with people who test).

I don't really know what to expect from this honestly, I don't even really know for sure what I want, I do know I wanna take it slow and start really vanilla and work up from there (no promise it'll ever get kinky, but please be open to it if I'm comfortable). I can say for certain there are some things I'm NOT interested in exploring ever and those are:

• Receiving oral

• Receiving any kind of anal play

• Being anyone's submissive

• Using most, if not all, sex toys

Some maybes are the following, and I'm happy to discuss them more and what they mean to me:

• Kissing or making out

• Giving oral sex and swallowing cum

• Potentially submissive acts but only in a situation where there isn't a power dynamic

• Creampies

I think that's about it. I'm not sure how much interest this'll get, but I will try to respond to anyone who seems genuine and who fits what I'm looking for. Please, if you want me to message you back, include in your chat the following:

• Basic introduction and description of yourself 

• Why you're interested and what you're looking for 

• Your favorite drink (non-alcoholic or alcoholic) so I know you read this

• Be willing to send a selfie (and verification down the line) and mention that in your message

• Tell me which traits from my preferences you do or don't meet

• When did you last get tested for STDs?

• Are you from Hamilton/whereabouts do you live?

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u/green-jello-fluff — 9 days ago
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The plain facts: I'm 6'1" and 190 lbs. I have a shaved head and a short beard. Eastern European mutt background if that matters to you. I'm single without any drama, never had (or wanted) kids, and I have two self-employed type jobs that allow for free time. I live in downtown Toronto, not Hamilton, but I figured I might as well post here because Hamilton is the shit and I like going there.

What I'm looking for: dating toward a monogamous relationship, though I'm not allergic to fooling around. I'm only into bigger women. You don't have to be twice my size, but if you were, that would be the opposite of a problem.

What I'm into: I write scary stories, make dark ambient music, fix old computers, cook really good for a filthy casual, and drink black coffee like I'm trying to cope with something. I collect old books, audiocassettes, synths, and intangible infohazards. My favorite pen is a Staedtler FineLiner, and my biggest heroes are Townes Van Zandt and H.P. Lovecraft. I'm extremely ambitious in creative terms, not so much in material ones.

What my life is like: I've been a city mouse my whole adult life but I have friends all across the country, including way out in the forest. I keep on thinking I should go somewhere else before I get too fossilized, but true love would sure be a good reason to stay in Ontario. I'm always walking. I make excuses to do errands in far-flung neighbourhoods so I can get a walk in or play some music in the park. I go to a lot of shows. Sometimes I'll bear down and work 100 hours in a week, sometimes I'll put on the same album for a week straight and write a crazy story. I drink with my friends occasionally and I'm fine with weed smoke though it usually gives me the fear brain if I inhale. I quit cigs about three and a half years back but I don't mind if you smoke those either.

Who I'm looking for: I'm hoping that you're laid-back, kind, inquisitive, and appreciate nuance. I like creative types a lot. If drawing, writing or playing music are among your lifelines, I'm genuinely interested, especially if you like collaborating or talking shop. I'm a sucker for a good voice, and it's pretty much mandatory that you read. I've always been a subculture kind of person (diy/metal/folk kind of stuff) but it's totally okay if you're not alt, so long as you're weird.

Who I'm not looking for: no single moms, please. I've been through a lot and I want to be mutual emotional priorities with someone. From where I'm standing, that feels incompatible with a partner who's already started a family, and I can't possibly emphasize enough that I never want to have kids. No aggressive people and no culture warriors, double and triple please. People's character traits are much more important to me than their object-level beliefs; as long as you've thought things out to some degree, I respect you. Nobody who's not fat, please. I wish I was physically attracted to all body types but I'm only feeling it when a babe has a whole lot of squish.

What my deal is: I'm lonely and I want to rub your butt and read to you in bed.

Pictures of me here: https://imgur.com/a/kZmvOq1.

u/sixvoltcross — 8 days ago