r/Rexburg_Hookups

Looking

Looking for this morning.

I am new to Reddit and trying to better understand and get something going. Here’s what I understand or want or think would be nice.

First, I’ve seen a couple posts about people masturbating together. I think the post are from guys. I think that’s pretty hot. I have a fantasy of a three-way with two guys that basically can share, have their way with me, teach me things, and it just be fun all around. If you’re a guy with a guy friend that would be into that, please reach out. Maybe a little love-triangle type of thing to add whimsy to life.

Second, I want a friend with benefits. I think. I study at BYUI and school is important to me. I don’t want to parade around as someone’s girlfriend because that’s too much societal pressure for me. It’d be nice to have someone that I can meet up with on campus and we both do our homework but we can also sneak around on campus. We can have midday hookups. We can consider early morning or late night hookups. Honestly, I’d be down for whatever if I can trust the guy.

Third, leadership, trust, and discretion are huge for me. I don’t have a lot of experience but my favorite experiences have been with guys that almost told me what I wanted. If someone can make me feel comfortable and trust them— they literally could make me melt and submit to just about anything. This may be a bit extreme, but if I am hesitant to trust someone’s idea, that person being a bit more dominant/forceful, has worked in the past. I am a nervous/overthinking girl and sometimes I need to kind of be told to “shut up and take it”, (I understand that not everyone is comfortable with doing that though). With discretion, I am a minority at BYUI, and arguably, one of the more “known/visible” ones. The absolute last thing I need is this business being whispered around the university. Let’s keep it private and enjoy it.

Fourth, I think I lean towards the “bratty sub” category of people. I grew up being treated both like a doll and a bit like Cinderella. I don’t really know how to explain, but I like to get what I want. If a guy gives me what I want, I literally will give him whatever he wants. I don’t love being told no, but if someone explains why it’s better for me to be told no then I normally understand.

Fifth, this is just here as an “about me” type of section. I am not white (if that’s your preference or if you’re going to weirdly fetishize me, be gone). I am 5’5” with a curvy/chubby/athletic type of build. I workout several times a week, but I enjoy my snacks here and there. I would prefer someone who takes care of their health and that’s strong. You don’t necessarily need to have muscles, with the right amount of confidence (borderline arrogance) you can get pretty far with me. I’ve noticed that the type of guys that draw my attention are usually one of the following:
“mean to everyone, but me”
“golden retriever until you hurt someone that they care about” “quiet but confident”
“stoic?”
“laughs if someone says his dick is small because he knows he’s literally got a third leg”
“tall, hung, beanpole”
“grunge/alt/hates everyone, but secretly yearns”
EDIT: I don’t prefer facial hair (more so beards)

I LOVE being called cutesy names. It’s like foreplay for me. Doll, Baby, Sweetheart, Love, Babygirl, My Sweet Girl, Princess, Pretty Girl. If you make it possessive, +10 points.

Anyways, I think that’s pretty much it. Reach out if you want or if you have more questions. Bye 🧚🏾‍♀️

Oh! Also, I am really only interested if you’re close-by. You can be far away, but you’re driving to me every time. If you can’t do that consistently, then maybe seek something elsewhere.

Just how the title states, I really wanna make out and just kiss someone. I know it’s weird but hmu 🤙🏽 i am looking for guys.

28 m here