40 [F4M] #San Antonio TX Seeking non-vanilla gentleman for meaningful LTR
Explaining who I am on my dating profiles is a struggle at times; my attraction is vast. Over time I have dated masc men, effeminate men, cis women, transwomen, etc. I am naturally bossy so that carries over to private life and enjoy being a top. Tend to gravitate towards those who enjoy feminization, sissification, FLR, gentle femdom, etc. Is the extent always linear? No, however as long as it is there to some degree I’m content. Although the thought of you doing dishes in a frilly apron is quite splendid.
I’m an absolute sucker for silver foxes and older blonde haired blue eyed types.
Hoping to find someone who can balance both vanilla and non-vanilla aspects in a healthy, loving relationship. I want to be that best friend you can confide in, send stupid memes to, share witty banter, learn endlessly from one another, make memories with, and be that forever safe space.
More about me: 40, Latina, size 8/Medium, extremely femme. Enjoy a full face of makeup/lashes, love doing my hair, and wearing skirts or dresses. Tend to lean top - prefer the sensual GFD side. That means pegging, wearing lingerie for me, even chastity if it tickles your fancy. Also, if you enjoy dressing en femme, I tend to be very encouraging and supportive. Some verse/switch is enjoyable as well. No kids, never married. I enjoy nerdy things, boring dry period pieces, going for long walks, Jane Austen, scary movies, sour things, and jalapeños. Volunteering, some sports, thrifting, repurposing things, and staying up late watching scary ghost videos on YouTube. Kindness and helping others is important to me. I’m a ENTP and Virgo through and through. :)
I attempted to make a sincere effort describing a bit about myself so low effort replies will be ignored. Sending a random “Hey” message is the best way to get ignored. Definitely not interested in anyone who is married, in a relationship, unavailable, simply seeking a hookup, or someone to play with online. I do not want to be someone’s backup plan, emotional affair, or GFE. I am not interested in anyone with a dead bedroom situation, disapproving wife or GF, etc. I am not here to help you explore or get off. Having an established relationship before physical intimacy is important to me. Lastly, I am more than just the sum of all my kinks and would like to be treated as such.
Please be at least 35 and local to my area. My joy should not be dependent on traveling to meet you or seeing you one weekend every 3 months. Not interested in anyone in Austin/Houston/Dallas/CC as those do not really allow for in-person dating to see what the other person is truly like.
I know exactly who I am, what I like, and want; you should too. Please have some self awareness in realizing that by messaging me and expecting me to make an exception for you despite not at all matching with who I am seeking is quite nonsensical. 🙃
Thank you for reading my post. If you believe you are a genuine match, start a conversation.