r/SoCalR4R

Take me out for some drinks and dinner maybe then let’s go back to your place? Looking for a friend who can help me get over my breakup by getting under someone else lol. Please be respectful, send me a selfie and your stats and I’ll do the same. I love OLDER respectful gentleman

You must be able to come to me so that you can cum for me! Message me and let's trade pics, please send first If you're a DL man ++++ Let me jerk you at my place, in the car, or outside Let's have fun and have no drama I'm 28, Latino, cutie with a fat ass

Hello :)

I’m looking for a nice chat that could possibly lead to some laughs and connection maybe a hug? A little distraction from everyday life, per se. Beyond that, well I suppose that’s up to us. :)

About me: Married BBW (175) brunette

Moderator is asking for more information about me. So I’ll give it a try.

I’m incredibly shy but ironically enjoy a great conversation. If you do too, we might have a good chat in our near future.

Please be local-ish. Lol

If you feel like taking a chance, please say hello! Maybe you can include a nice normal photo of you too?

Thank you! Have a great day!

sensual, short, plus sized and androgynous gal here in search of a friends with benefits for the summer or longer! I have a pixie cut, brown hair, olive skin, fat ass and juicy tits and love to have them sucked on for hours.

im open to something more serious than just sex if the vibe is right, but for the most part I just want sex :) I just ask that you be single or in something open. I live with family so am unable to host and prefer to stay local, and not interested in car play!

PLEASE READ ALL —

5’2”, curvy/BBW (210 lbs), redhead, hazel eyes, Mexican.

prefer you live close and host not driving far. my dream would be to meet a man that has his own place and we can meet frequently at his.

***must be ok with period sex.
Looking for an experienced guy who’s comfortable with a woman during her time of the month and knows how to make her feel good.

Prefer someone nearby with an old-school Latino personality and good conversation. Bonus if you’re respectful, laid-back, and drama-free.

Love a well seasoned freak too… into dom/slave, bondage, gags, face slapping, watersports etc…

Got some pics on twitter (linked on my bio)
HMU

Hello. I'm 5 '2 about 126lbs and I'm looking to be someone's pillow princess. I'm open to anyone so nonbinary folks are welcome, as long as a strap is involved. Ideally I'm looking to meet with someone who's able to host and meet up regularly. I would want to verify you're the person you say you are before meeting. Send me your favorite fruit so I know you read this.

Looking for:
- casual fwbs
- attractive and fit or semi fit build (nice biceps a plus)
- open to switch
- after care
- foreplay is important!
- between the ages 21- 30year old

Not into:
- rough sex, demeaning, BDSM, breeding

If this seems like you please hmu, tonight before 8pm would be great;)

Married. No kids. Dog mom. Career I genuinely love. Friends and family I adore. A life I've worked really hard to build.

And yet...

I still catch myself missing having one person who's excited to tell me about the ridiculous thing that happened in their day. The person I can't wait to text when something funny happens or when I hear a song that reminds me of them.

I'm looking for the kind of connection where...

A random "good morning" text somehow makes your whole day better.

We send each other voice notes from the car because it's easier than typing.

We become each other's favorite notification.

We flirt shamelessly, roast each other relentlessly, celebrate each other's wins, and somehow turn the most mundane conversations into inside jokes.

I want someone who's genuinely curious. Someone who asks questions because they actually care about the answers. Someone who remembers the little things. My coffee order. The book I'm reading. The name of my dog. The meeting I was stressed about. The tiny details that make someone feel seen.

I want chemistry that isn't forced. Banter that comes naturally. Conversations that make you look at your phone and realize it's somehow been three hours.

I love people who can be sarcastic one minute and unexpectedly sincere the next. Intelligence is incredibly attractive. Kindness is non-negotiable. I want someone who wants to make time for me the same way I want to make time for them. Someone who believes the right person should feel like a priority, not an afterthought.

I'm not interested in playing games or collecting matches. I'd rather have one incredible connection than a hundred forgettable conversations.

Chemistry is everything.

If this sounds like you, tell me one tiny thing that made you smile today... or the most ridiculous thing that happened this week.

Bonus points if you make me laugh in your first message. 

Well hopefully I can help you fulfill a fantasy. I am a 6’3 Caucasian male former college athlete now first responder; and I want to help you fulfill a fantasy.

Please reach out to me if you’ve ever wanted to give back to a local hero.

Looking for CarPlay rn and to be rearranged by a gentleman who’s respectful with a big dick and appetite

Hosting a game night for women and just us straight dudes. Tuesday 7/7, 8 pm. Near the Grove in Labrea.

Under 45 in shape or average bodies only. Women and couples welcome to join. 7 men confirmed so far and we’re all in the snp group. Limited spots.

The game involves taking turns giving each other commands that we must follow. Like jerking off, frotting, oral, switching the power dynamics in the group from dominant/submissive scenarios allowed. No vaginal or anal penetration is permitted.

More details once you’re verified.

I’m 32, 5’8, 145, white, cut, str8

Hi! I am a Korean college student from the Southern Los Angeles area, and I am posting to explore.

I am open to meeting after messaging and exchanging pictures to verify. I am open to all types of people, so feel free to dm about anything.

Physically I am around 5’10” and 130lbs, if that matters to anyone.

I’m really over ONS, NSA, casual, boring, vanilla sex. I crave a safe space in which I get to explore my masochism and cum really real hard without feeling like it’ll never happen again. Generally these things take time to build which makes me mostly disinterested in casual things.

However, if your dick is big and you think it’d do the job of making me cum… (>7in long and >5.5in girth)

Also, it’s F4R bc I’m really just interested in pain and orgasms so anyone can provide those. But yeaaa I also love a big dick!

Please message me w dick size bc I do enjoy big ones but if your plan doesn’t even involve your dick, I’d love to hear all about it.

Hope to make something happen!

You must be able to host and have recent test results!

Pretty simple a request but let’s see what happens

I’m a 45 yo divorced, childfree (hope you are too) gal looking for a consistent ish date/pal for some local culture. Specifically, looking for a plus 1 to catch a candlelight concert like the Tribute to Metallica at the Lido Theatre. It sounds a lil corny which I sorta need right now lol

I’m not looking for anything serious, just a new friend for a concert or two, maybe a museum (LA has some fun exhibits coming soon, care to carpool?), and happy to see if we have any chemistry.

To clarify, there are plenty of posts for insta-hookups but that’s not for me. Wishing you luck though.

Please include your age and a lil about you. Maybe your fav band(s) of all time or songs. Local OC folks preferred but happy to chat w anyone single and smart in SoCal. (Driving & traffic is what it is ya know lol.) Being funny and chill is a plus. Have a hobby or two you love? A bit about your physical stats are helpful (like I’m 5’2”, 140#, black hair, brown eyes). Hope to hear from ya soon.

Modern dating has genuinely made me question if people even understand what they mean when they say they “want something serious,” especially men, because why say you want a real relationship and then approach it with the energy and effort of something completely casual?

I’m open to long distance if the intention is real, and I don’t mind traveling to meet. I’d love to meet within the first 10 days of texting because real chemistry deserves real-world energy. I believe consistency is romantic, good morning texts, asking about each other’s day because you actually care about the answer, making plans instead of just talking about them, and remembering the important details that matter.

I’m looking for a real relationship where both people show up, put in effort, and genuinely want to build something together. I’m not interested in endless small talk or connections that drift without direction. I want something that moves forward daily with intention, effort, and emotional investment.

Age isn’t a big deal as long as you’re of legal age, emotionally mature, and ready for the level of effort a real relationship takes. I’m dating with intention and open to marriage within the first year if the connection is right.

I miss being genuinely pursued and choosing someone back, men that know how to charm, be intentional, woo, putting in effort to make me feel romantically pursued and feel special. Real compliments, meaningful conversations that go deeper than “wyd,” and flirting that feels warm, playful, and intentional instead of instantly sexual. I want emotional connection first, with attraction and intimacy growing naturally.

If you are the type that your idea of consistency is reaching out whenever you feel like it, no rhythm, no momentum, like you’re talking to a random stranger you met at a park or a concert with zero intention behind it. If the conversation flows or dies after a few messages you can't be bother No stakes, no effort, no sense that this is supposed to be building toward anything, please stay very far away from me and don't text me.

I want to feel chosen and choose someone right back. If you value consistency, sincerity, and building something long-term, send a detailed chat invite, let’s build something real together.

5'7 Hispanic in East Los Angeles looking to have some fun with people from Reddit. Something casual would be nice, I have a lot of free time on my hands so lets plan something out. Tell me about your interests and hobbies. I love all women, don't be shy, I dont bite unless you want me to ;) DM me with a picture and we can get to know each other from there. I can host.

Im 19 FTM / very masc lesbian and have only been with women but have been super curious lately.
Im conventionally attractive, skinny, alternative style with tattoos and piercings and 5'2
looking for someone within a similar age range 18-23 who is also conventionally attractive and fit no chubs sorry
can very identity and expect u to as well!

Hey there. I’m looking for a sweet, casual connection heavy on cuddles and you using that tongue to get me dripping before anything else. Open to FWB if it feels natural.

Interests: watching movies and anime, playing games, hiking, and traveling when I can. I’m easygoing and affectionate.

If you’re clean, respectful, and love giving, drop me a message with a pic and your favorite movie quote.

Single submissive Latina 34F around 137 lbs 4’11 looking for a good looking BWC for a possible FWB. I am std free. Can’t host. Looking for a guy I can have fun with. Picture on profile.