r/StraightFemboyDating
23 [Fb4F] - Nerdy femboy in search of role reversal relationship <3
Hewwo! ♥
I'm hoping to find something meaningful. I'd love to one day be in a role reversal relationship with a caregiver/little dynamic. I'm pretty sensitive and absolutely love being babied and cared for! I see myself being a stay-at-home partner, taking care of things like cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, buying groceries and making sure you have the easiest time after coming home from a long day at work! If possible, I'd also like doing some work from home like electronics repair, manufacturing useful products for people or anything else I might be interested in, but I'd primarily be focused on doing everything I can for you! I'm also very submissive and into gentle femdom.
It can take me a while to warm up to someone new, but once I'm well-acquainted, I can be really affectionate- I'd text you every other hour for virtual hugs (I need a lot of them!) and I'd love spending time on voice calls, watching stuff together or playing co-op games like Portal or Human Fall Flat. And I can totally ramble your ears off talking about my interests, something I'm working on at the time and so on! Unfortunately, I'm very far away from the developed world, but I'd be fully open to relocating to you if you could help facilitate it. And while we are still apart, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours so we can spend the most time together ^^
As for my appearance, I'm 5'6", have fair skin and I'm pretty slim, with long wavy black hair and dark brown eyes! I haven't explored different styles all that much, but I do love wearing black, and also cold-shoulder tops!
I tend to age regress involuntarily when I'm in my comfort zone, but not to a very young age, I would say I'm more of a middle. I really like being childlike in my behavior and speech, and I'm scared of doing some grown-up things like driving or going to the doctor by myself. I love to snuggle in a blankie and cuddle with my favorite teddy bear at bedtime, it's hard for me to sleep without that. And I like making pillow forts for me to hide inside! I'm also a bit of a crybaby.
I'd love being with someone caring, protective and dominant. Someone who'd hold me and make me feel safe, speak to the waiter on my behalf at the restaurant, hold the door open for me, stuff along those lines! I'm also an atheist and would highly prefer my partner be the same or similar in that aspect. And I'd be most comfortable meeting people who are under 35 years old ^^
To add a bit more about myself, I spend most of my day in my room, working on random nerdy stuff, watching youtube or TV shows and movies, playing PC games, and sometimes I'm just sat there staring at a wall hehe. I also enjoy going out on walks, having fun with diy rc vehicles and hanging out with stray cats! I'm entirely self-educated, proper schools don't exist where I live. I've always been into learning about the things that pique my interest from youtube and other online platforms ever since I was little! I love fixing things and understanding what makes them tick, and working on a lot of different things like custom smart home stuff with ESP32s, high voltage stuff like tesla coils, long-range radios, hardware hacking, etc! I value privacy and I'm strongly against mass surveillance, I try to avoid any online service that's known to disrespect user privacy and use open-source software whenever possible, like running Linux on my computers, de-googled Android on my phones, and self-hosting my own services like Immich, Home Assistant and cloud storage!
Hope this post did a good job at expressing who I am. I want to write soo much more, but I'd rather not take any more of your time. Here's a yummy cookie for making it to the end! 🍪
u/fluffie-pixel — 5 days ago
Do I look like a girl from this angle?
u/codeluna44 — 9 days ago
FOR THE EMPEROR!!!! AAAAHHH!!!! anyways how's you night going?
You can always hit me up in my dms, I just like chatting lol
u/TheMiracleOfAgony — 10 days ago
how do i find girls that like femboys in arizona?
help, i just want to find someone that can like me but it seems impossible as a straight femboy
im 18, single, and ready to mingle 🙏
i know im not the cutest but id like to believe im relatively cute
but if theres any ladies that might be interested then please message me 👀
u/IndependentFit3950 — 12 days ago
My 18 year old tits. I’m only interested in 18-19
u/Just_A_girlw — 14 days ago
22 [F4M] #Illinois #Online Domme looking for long term D/s dynamic
Hello all,
I’m a 22 year old girl from the great state of Illinois looking for submissive men to serve me. Our dynamic could take different forms, but ultimately I’d want my needs and pleasure to be prioritized over yours and to be in control of you sexually. I can be more gentle or degrading, I’d say I’m a mix of both. It’s fun to take new personas in bed so to speak. I want a relationship that’s not fully focused on sex where we can at least be friends. Ideally we’d start out as friends in a D/s dynamic and maybe it would get romantic from there.
I am very comfortable taking the more traditionally masculine role in the relationship and am fulfilled by it. I would be happy to spoon you, hold you, initiate sex, call you my girlfriend, make you wear skirts, crop tops, panties, thongs, jockstraps, speedos, etc. I can reassure you, protect you, make you feel sexy, everything you’d expect in a 1950’s relationship. In exchange you would respect me and my authority, submit your body for my pleasure, work to please me and look to support me.
To tell you a bit about me, I work full time as a secretary. Physically I have a slim figure but I’m not super skinny overall, I still have some curves. I’m pretty chill in my personal life. I’m a big fan of shows and movies so I’m always down to talk about those. I also like to run to stay in shape.
For kinks I’m into anal/pegging, joi, subs showing off to/for me, degradation and humiliation, being worshipped, control, being adored/simped for, feminization, cucking and forced bi. I understand some of these aren’t for everyone and they’re not all mandatory. My limits are bathroom stuff, gore, incest, age play, all the extreme things and I’m also not a big fain of inflicting a large amount of pain.
I’m attracted to guys that have a slim, muscular toned, etc. build. I like both feminine and masculine men so if you’re a femboy or gym guy I’ll still be interested in you. If you want to dm me please include your age and a description of you physically and what you’re looking for. I’m only looking for 19-35ish men. Have a good day!
u/DomTop41 — 10 days ago
PLEASE i need a girlfriend im desperate
u/IndependentFit3950 — 13 days ago
22 [M4F] Catboy seeking deep connection with experimental music lover/maker in #Chicago #Online
Does a night of attending a concert and listening intently to some amazing musicians on stage, and then having thought provoking discussion about what we saw afterwards, sound romantic to you? If you're one of the few people that can say, "yes," then keep reading!
I'm here today looking for, "the one," (so that means I'm monogamous) who really gets me, and appreciates music and art the ways I do. Previously I had settled for those who didn't get it, or even worse, looked down on me for how I am, but now I will be completely open about how weird, but hopefully lovable, I really can be. For now I'm talking about the important things, but the intimacy side of things will be touched on at the end, and I encourage you to move on if at any point you learn something about me that makes you think this won't work.
What kind of partner am I?:
I hope to be the one you can trust to be your truest self around. Sometimes I am sarcastic and poke fun with some dry humor but generally I am very accepting. I can be a bit dense sometimes therefore I request open and clear communication, which I will also give to you consistently. Honesty is, in my opinion, the most important thing in a relationship. Everything is built upon that. My laid back and somewhat shy nature can come off as boring to some, but if I feel truly accepted for who I am around you then I begin to open up. You won't need to be the big powerful domme woman all the time with me, it's okay to be vulnerable and need comforting. I think while I don't always give the most wise advice, that I am a really good listener.
As for an, "about me.":
I'm a musician, at this point I'm sure of that. Will I be working day jobs to pay the bills? Yes, but music will always be my passion and primary focus. Almost everyday I can will be spent experiencing it as both a listener and creator. I need someone who is in that same sort of headspace, who can live a life of music and art and creativity. It's not a glamorous one, unless I get lucky. I'll never have the kind of career that can buy a house, I don't and will never want kids, and obviously living with a music maker is gonna get noisy at times, so you'd best be someone who loves the noise or joins in with it. We can talk specifics about our tastes if you're interested but to give you a really quick example of how, "out there," I am here's one of my favorite songs. If it's new to you then I'd like you to try and listen very intently to it, and tell me what you think of it in your reply to this personal. If you're someone who is saying, "you think that's weird?" then absolutely come show me what's what because I'd love to meet someone who can push my own boundaries further.
As for the more boring stuff here's some general boundaries I didn't mention earlier that I'm going to set:
- I'm not religious. If you are that's fine, but do not at all push anything on me
- I don't really indulge in drugs/alcohol, I'm not against you doing so as long as you are safe and responsible. If I can tell you've got a problem or you really need that stuff to have fun then this won't work.
- No bigots! Pretty simple, if you can't tolerate my terminally online queer friends and such then DNI
- OBVIOUSLY you should be at least 18+, otherwise I'm not too worried about age as long as you know what you're signing up for with someone, "younger."
A brief physical description is that I'm a 6' 0" skinny guy with glasses and long brown hair (very generic). I do have interest in exploring dressing fem in public, as a non-kink thing, but that's going to be a ways down the road from now. I am not one to be picky about your own appearance/body. As one of the best male role models once said...
"I like girls."
- JoCat
Finally, time for the gross, nasty, and absolutely vile kink stuff...
I think what's most important is just to establish that I am 100000% a sub, not much of a switch at all. Sure I've had one or two sexual experiences in the past where I took charge but if you're not extremely confident as a dom and enthusiastic about the role then you're not going to be very satisfied with our bedroom life. I am open to a lot of things, especially if it's something you yourself really love doing. I'm the sort to match your energy but I do not engage in the following...
- scat/piss
- illegal things
- extreme pain/emotional degradation
- things involving other partners
I'm going to go on about the things I like, some fantasies, etc. Do not feel as though you need to meet any of these though it'd probably be best if you're at least on the more, "gentle femdom," side of things. Obviously as the title may have suggested, one of my big things is petplay. As someone who can overthink a lot and feel tons of self doubt I'd love the security of having an, "owner," who loves me unconditionally, and whom I submit to unconditionally. I also like the idea of someone who can physically overpower me and have their way with me. Being a service sub is something I feel I'm great at. I will please you, to the best of my abilities, in any way you command! I do have a soft spot for the mommydom and caregiver/little type of dynamic as well but please don't feel like you're going to be expected to literally baby me. I am a capable adult who can take care of myself, I only mention it for the rare few who are very enthusiastic about these things. If anything I've mentioned is a huge turn on for you then we can discuss it more but otherwise don't worry about it if you're not into this stuff. I am well aware of how niche it all is.
LAST PART:
I'd heavily prefer someone local, let's meet up and do some things together. If our personalities don't connect then feel no shame in moving on, as I will do the same if I feel that way. Again, you deserve the perfect fit for you. If you're online then you have to be capable of relocating to Chicago because I worked hard to move here and it's where I plan to live out my life (unless things go extremely wrong.) We are going to start as just friends first. That has to work out before we can go any further. If this exhausting personal seems appealing to you then do reach out, but definitely try to put some effort into your response and tell me all about yourself! Hope to hear from you soon!
u/IceTheNice — 11 days ago