r/TheReal_ScatEaters

Hey everyone. I hope you can give me some advice. My wife and I (both 34) have been together for 13 years and are married. We have a happy relationship and we also do BDSM in our sex life. She is the dominant one and I am the submissive one. This often brings a huge amount of intimacy between us.

At first, she wanted me to drink her urine. This brought us even closer and made me more submissive, which also worked well for our sex life.

Now she wants to take it a step further. She has told me in a dominant way that I will eat her poop. Preferably with her sitting on my head and the stool going straight into my mouth.

I was initially in shock and resisted a bit, but I get extremely, and I mean extremely, turned on by the idea. I can’t think about anything else anymore. She also said she will dress in the sexiest way possible to make it as easy as possible for me. Her goal with this is to completely break my pride and increase intimacy even further, because she sees it as something very intimate.

However, I need some advice. With drinking urine I was able to separate the sexual part from the rest of our lives. But I’m a bit afraid that after this I won’t be able to look at her the same way anymore or that I might feel really inferior within the relationship. She could also bring this up in arguments or use it as leverage.

I can’t ignore it—I get very turned on by this and really want to try it. But I need advice: will this have an impact on our daily life? Does this happen more the more often you do it? Could this mentally break me? And if we do it, what’s the best way to approach it?

Thanks in advance for your help.