Just some thoughts.
I had so many against me for speaking facts about what it means to be a side. Can we all agree that the label side was created so that those of us that didn't have a label nor space to be understood was created so we can be recognized and understood?
Can we understand that side literally meant no anal penetrative play?? Because we are not interested in anal? That's why there was a side label created! We do others things aside from anal and therefore it should stay that way correct?
Pretty much everyone was against me including the moderator on there for saying ppl shouldn't be claiming top/sides and bottom/sides when side literally was created for us that are not into anal to be recognized!
And they want to welcome tops and bottoms into a label that was specifically created for us actual sides! I know this community truesides doesn't have as many members, but that's ok.. I'm trusting that it will grow when ppl fully understand what and why the label side was actually created!
Unlike the other community I just left. The amount of welcomed delusion in that community is beyond. I'll stick here where I've read and it's sounds like the moderator actually understand that we are not into anal! vs the other moderator in gay sides.