r/UKfemdompersonals

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"what the fuck? Who actually wants to be friendzoned?" I'll be straight with you, it's a kink thing, but it can be more than that too. I'm looking for someone I can actually get to know and like as a friend first, who's into some freaky shit which I'll explain later down the line.

Non-freaky me: I'm into MMA, videogames and art, not huge into music but looking to get in, I enjoy getting outdoors and I struggle to find a way to describe myself without putting myself to sleep, it's an exciting life to me okay? Jokes aside I enjoy getting into the weeds of any art I consume whether it's comics, videogames, TV shows and anime, that's my main hobby.

Freaky me: here's the fun part, I'm into a very specific type of thing, basically I'm a virgin and I really enjoy speaking to sexually active women who are out of my league and being teased for the fact, tell me about your lives, your dates, the sexy details therein, I guess you could call it a cuck thing but it's not quite that. The difference is hard to articulate though. And of course I'm into all things femdom but that's not really what this post is about, still if you're interested I won't say no. TL;DR, tease the shit out of me for not being the type of guy you'd see sexually and basically just keep me around as a kind of virgin jester/pet.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, I have nice abs, a nice jawline, my face is more often described as cute than hot, I've got brown soft hair and big ol' blue eyes, I wear glasses and I'm white if you care.

I wanna say that I do not genuinely see myself as a lesser human being for being a virgin, I just had a relationship like the one I'm describing once and have been yearning like you couldn't believe ever since. That said, it's fun to talk about it that way.

As for what I'm looking for, I honestly can't even get too specific here, be really pretty, be interested in more than the kink stuff, be willing to share at least 1 sfw face/ body pic so I can tell you're out of my league. I'll oblige of course. Please no "Dracula talk" as I like to call it. "Is mistresses boy ready to be punished?" YEAUCH 🤢. Just be yourself and if you like me we can just go from there. Also I really like voice calls (sfw ones(and nsfw ones but unfortunately I don't live alone)) and streaming the super hard bullet hell games I play, and I really want someone to share my art with. Hell even if you're not interested in the rest please drop by so I can show you what I drew last night.

There's a lot I didn't mention in this post because I super secretly deep down want you to ask me about it (note to self, delete this part so that they don't think you're an oddball who can't carry a conversation without being asked some random bullshit every few seconds)

soft domme (with teeth)

i like taking care of what's mine, but i also like making you beg for it. looking for something long-term and online with someone who can handle me being sweet most of the time and absolutely cruel when the mood strikes. i have a lot of kinks and i love to erp so hopefully you're good with your words and okay with getting flustered at inconvenient hours. the way i dom is basically just being really attentive and slightly bossy about it until it's time to not be nice anymore. i want to know how your day was so i can tell you i'm proud of you, and then i want to make you earn that praise in ways that leave you shaky. i want to give you little tasks that make you feel useful, and then i want to absolutely ruin you text just because i felt like it.

you: patient, eager to please, actually texts back, very online, can keep up with a dirty mind. someone who gets fluttery when i check in on you but also squirmy when i decide to be mean. okay with me kissing your forehead one minute and degrading you the next. likes being told what to do in a nice way, and also in a not-nice way.
me: will hype you up constantly, remember the little things you mention, give you tasks that feel like hugs and then hold the praise just out of reach until you're desperate. i have a lot of energy and i want to aim it at someone who wants to be aimed at, cherished, and occasionally destroyed.

i have ocd and anxiety! please be patient!

let's see if you can handle me being a little bossy and a lot cruel when i feel like it.~

About me : 

I am a 21 year old black woman based in London so I am primarily interested in submissives who are either local or able to travel regularly. I am a size 18 dress size and curvy. I am open to exchanging pictures and verifying as I understand the importance of mutual attraction.

I have over 3 years of experience as a Domme both online and in person, although I strongly prefer in person dynamics. I value quality connections and I am intentional about my kink life so I am not interested in rushed dynamics or casual play partners.

Vanilla me : 

Outside of kink, I enjoy theatre plays, dressing up and going out for cocktails, trying Italian restaurants in London as I’m always on a bit of a personal search for the best one in the city and just generally enjoying good food and company.

I also love reading, especially feminist literature and thriller novels. Writing is another big interest of mine. I enjoy writing about topics that are important to me as well as random social commentary. I enjoy hanging out with friends, clubbing and I have recently started getting into board games and I can be a bit competitive. I also absolutely love ducks and regularly go to parks just to see which is probably one of the least intimidating things about me.

My kinks : 

As a Domme, most of my interests revolve around femdom and power exchange. Some of my kinks include :

• Worship (ass, feet, pussy, body worship, etc)
• Pegging
• Humiliation & degradation
• Chastity
• Feminisation
• Service oriented submission
• Watersports
• Pain play (CBT, ballbusting, impact play)

I do have a sadistic edge so a submissive who genuinely enjoys pain and suffering for my pleasure would naturally be a better match for me. I also highly appreciate service oriented submissives who enjoy being useful and obedient.

I practice using RACK (Risk Aware, Consensual Kink) and the traffic light system (Red, Yellow and Green)  so communication and mutual understanding are extremely important to me. I value submissives who are emotionally intelligent and who are respectful of boundaries.

I appreciate submissives who are naturally generous, attentive and understand that devotion for me is shown through effort, consistency, acts of service and thoughtful gestures.

If you are interested, send me a message with the word cherries included so I know you read the whole thing. I will go through my messages but I will only reply to interesting messages with detail and important information. Any messages that are low effort or are just straight up an attempt to sext me will be ignored. Thank you for reading :)

I’ve never fucked while I’m high but only wanked and everytime I end up lasting wayyy longer then normal. I wanna experience a high fuck now and see how better that is. Southampton area

I'm cultured,educated and creative.A curvy curvaceous bbw women - a tease who's open -minded and loves to laugh.

I'm looking to meet a man i can explore my pleasure sensual domme side with.

I would like to meet someone as friends first - lay ground for FLR.

I’m a geek & chatterbox but I'm very selective about who I connect with.

*Vanilla me*

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Me - Buxom,brown eyes,5'2 ,size 16 - 18.

I'm naturally dominant and passionate about life.I'm a volunteer in my community and I believe in social justice and peace.

Again I'm a big geek!

° I love film photography and I collect old film cameras!

° I like art, museums, and galleries.

° I love X-Men,DC movies.Comics

° Jigsaw puzzles

° A24 films

° Reading

° Documentaries

° All things spiritual.

° I'm also a gamer - Playstation! (Yuck to Xbox) Currently playing Assassin's creed - Valhalla & Cyberpunk!

Music: I have a wide range of music I listen to - Dean blunt,jimi hendrix,janis joplin vagabon,aphex twin yeah yeah yeahs, kid cudi,led zeppelin, erykah badu, the cults, korn,aliyah and red hot Chili's and movie soundtracks.

Films: The warriors,fear and loathing in las vegas,kill bill, matrix, midsomar,ghost in a shell,death becomes her, half baked.

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*Kinky me*

So obviously there is my list below but ideally I’d like to find someone who's into:

~ ANR

~ Submission

~ Chastity/key holding

~ Blindfolds

~ Candle wax

~ Tease and denial

~ Facesitting/Smothering,Queening

~ Men in lingerie.

~ Worshipping

~ Erotic photography.

~ Voyeuristic

~ Servicing

*Hard boundaries*

Blood,scat,age play,race play, fisting, anal, no pegging.

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*Ideal man*

Physically I like people who are strong,chubby,muscular,and rugby built! Bikers & vikings are welcome!

Come through with the right vibe and be yourself!

~ We need to discuss our kinks and be open and comfortable with each other.

~ I don't like being called Mistress, I prefer to be Domina.

~ Must be local and be able to meet!

Please only contact me if you are sincere about communicating and be clear with your intention!

*Please state your age,gender & location or I won't answer*

Must be local to Shropshire, UK ONLY!

No hassle. No drama

Thanks for reading my long essay 😂

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