r/WeightGainTalk

I have been at McDonalds today and i just ate my Burger there, 9 Nuggets and a McFlurry. At one time, one person walked by me and told me how fat i am and that i should eat more Burgers. After a Moment i realised what he said to me and i got pretty hard at that time. I couldnt respond to him, because he allready left the restaurant after i realised what he said to me. To me, i am a male, 21 years old and around 320lbs or 150kg. So i am pretty fat and i didnt know that i like to be fatshamed like that in public.

This is definitely a rant but I feel like it’s so hard to actually find people into weight gain who want to be friends. I wish I had a support group of others who just understand what it’s like to want to be bigger in a world full of skinny diet culture. I want friends where I don’t have to hide my fatassery and can lift me up when I need it.

Instead my DMs on tumblr are filled with anonymous creeps just looking to get off, which is fair considering what this is, but I wish I could just feel less lonely and find people who accept me for what I am

I think I’ve had this fetish since childhood but all this time I was only interested in other people’s bodies getting fatter not mine own. I struggled with my body image the recent years and I even managed to lose some weight lately which made me basically the skinniest I’ve ever been. I was practically starving myself some days and I think this is why something finally clicked in me.

The curiosity started growing in me how will I look but with even more to grope and squeeze?! Sometimes I get really horny squeezing the sparse chub on my belly and I feel like its clearly not enough for me to get off. I imagine how much better it would be if I had my belly like hanging over my panties and maybe even lying on my lap?

I even tried stuffing myself like once or twice but failed miserably and at the end I was like wtf is wrong with me. But the desire is still there I think. Even after I cum I dont hate the thought of getting some more meat on me. So, weightgaintalk enablers, should I just give the fuck in????

I just can't help but be turned on by any number going up. My weight, my girth, my calories consumed - I feel like I'm spiraling, but instead of down it's up. I just want to be bigger, wider, fatter, more in every way.

I've become obsessed with breaking records, and when I can't, I feel inadequate - Becoming just another wannabe fatty. I always feel like my highest is not nearly high enough.

It's gotten so bad I wonder if I would eat non-stop everyday if I were able. Is that truly so bad? To be nothing but a completely unproductive pig just consuming non-stop? Sometimes all I want to do is eat and eat and eat and eat and eat...

Could I be the only one?

Like everything in this kink, starts out small. Eating wayy too much infront of friends. Looking ridiculous in small clothes you’ve forgotten to replace. This is totally just a horny rant idc.
Getting stuck or wedged or anything embarrassing that involves a total stranger, just knowing they think you’re a fatty.
Knowing how repulsive you are to honestly most people is kinda of hot, like way beyond just having your stomach poking out your shirt or food around your face. Not caring about ripping a fart out in public just because the satisfaction and relief is way better than any embarrassment you’ll feel.
Complete waffle but it’s cute being a cow.

Good day to all you lovely folks!

On Monday April 21, 2025 I completed the Boston Marathon in a time of 2 hours and 44 minutes. For those of you who are unaware, the Boston Marathon is one of the most prestigious individual sporting events every year, and my time placed me in the top 0.01% of global marathoners.

Well, feedism has a nasty habit of rearing its ugly head, even amongst the most fit. Today, more than a year separated from the race, I’ve gone from a measly 145 lbs to nearly 176 lbs, totaling a little over a 30 lb gain. This may not sound like much, but for a previously elite athlete, this has brought about a massive change in my life.

Every time I brush my belly, I’m startled by the squishy sensation and my lack of abs. My ass and thighs have outgrown every pair of pants that used to fit. My calves have lost their trademark definition. I wake up every morning, hungry and horny, unable to focus until I’ve filled my belly and touched myself. It’s horrifying and beautiful all in one go.

Now here’s the kicker. If I make it to just over 340 lbs, I will be in the top 0.01% of global men for body weight. Imagine that. Elite athlete to elite fatass.

This is my goal for now. If anyone would like proof for my story, feel free to inquire in the DMs!

Happy eating folks! Can’t wait to be a proper hog like some of you :)

as i lay here tummy out, legs gently spread, my pulsating clit; i wonder if this is what im meant for, if this is my life. i feel it running through me like a rush of water; coming over me over and over.
pushing myself to my limit is what makes me cum, I have to be bloated, stretched tight and aching for cum and pregnancy. All i want is to be a beached whale housewife, free use to her hubby. i can’t wait to live this life with someone who will encourage and keep me and my pure desires at the top 🤍🤍

My wife claims she has no interest in gaining, Andy even has zepbound in the fridge. The thing is, she refuses to actually take it, and stuffs herself almost nightly. She’s gained 60 pounds in less than a year and constantly teases me at it. When we’re having sex she encourages me to play with her stomach and comes harder than any other time.

She’s so fucking sexy and when she stuffs herself she puts on tiny halter tops it’s so hot I can orgasm without even touching myself

heya everyone, i'm 21F from Australia and i'm a feedee - i've always loved food, i just eat for comfort, i love the taste of food, nothing makes me more excited than food. i've always liked the idea of being softer too, because it makes me look feminine. ik i have a great personality and so many cool interests yada yada yada.

but unfortunately, my body shape is my downfall... i feel like feeders only have a certain type of body they find attractive (hourglass or pear shaped) - i'm more apple shaped, so more of my weight goes to my belly and tits than my butt. i even feel like guys outside this fetish would still date an hourglass or pear-shaped girl, but never an apple.. the whole body positivity/plus-sized movement barely even represents girls with an apple-shaped body. i never find influencers with my body type, or anyone who's actually been loved in my body shape.

i genuinely feel insecure, i just don't feel pretty at all bc my body isn't shaped like other girls. i just feel like i'll never be pursued by a guy, idk how to make myself feel better :/

Anybody else feel like the feederism scene in Ireland is just none existent?

I (24M) have been into this stuff for ages and there’s never been any content creators that came out of Ireland or never has there been a decent following when it comes to this community. Which is strange seen as more and more women now seem to be embracing a thicker body more than ever but none seem to aware of this stuff.

Are we just completely shut off from the likes of the UK or the US where it seems like every second person is a Feeder/Feedee etc?😅 plus it makes trying to date someone or find somebody who’s into this near impossible.

I've been making a lot of progress in accepting I'm a gainer. First, I talked it in therapy and it helped me confirm it's not twisted or wrong, it's just a different sexuality. Then, I chose to tell my friends, because all of them are body positive people and they don't judge people just bc they're unusual. They are all queer and neurodivergent, so I knew they wouldn't tell me it's disgusting or something.

I planned a lot what to tell them, and if anything I wish I had gone for a more gradual coming out process. I wrote a long message explaining everything, which is fine (specially since at that time I needed to feel understood), but perhaps it would've been better if I had started by saying something like "ykw? I never felt afraid of being fat". After a few weeks saying that I find fat people very attractive, and finally the coming out message. But it was fine, they all reacted with respect.

Time went on, and I kept seeing gainer content and planning my gaining process (I need a good job ASAP, new clothes are expensive for a poor student :c ). But after some time, I needed to keep talking to someone. So I tried feabie, and a few posts for chatting on this sub. It didn't work, people just stopped texting. My best friend also has a weird kink, so we joke about both our kinks and that's been helping.

The other week, a friend told me about an app that gives coupons for free food after a certain amount of steps, so I replied "Oh, you gain back all of what you lost? I like it haha!" They paused for a second and then kept talking. This friend in particular hasn't asked anything about my kink, and I know they won't. It's fine, I know being respected already is a privilege. But I still wish I could talk more about this.

It's not just a preference, it's an identity. It's a part of my life, and it will only become more important for me. So it's sad to just act as if it wasn't important

I work at a small bakery and while setting it up today I couldn’t help but think that I’m literally playing around with a minimum of 20k calories and it would be so hot if I bought everything and stuffed myself until nothing was left.
Just stuffing my face silly with cookies and brownies.
I can’t imagine how fat I would be if I did this

I can just imagine all of those calories adding to my massive arms and my apron belly

... is that it takes more to really push yourself. If you run regularly, what it takes to feel really tired and spent goes up. If you downhill ski a lot, the steepness or challenge of a run needed to make you feel the thrill of pitting yourself against the mountain increases.

And if you periodically stuff yourself, even if not all that regularly, it takes a lot more to really feel you are at your limit.

In other words, at lunch today I went to a big buffet restaurant near my work, stayed for an hour, and kept track of the approximate calories I was eating (they have signs at each serving dish). I had about 3500 calories -- well more than my recommended daily amount, and all within an hour -- and feel ... full. mostly. Definitely not FULL, not waddling out full, not hard to breath full, not even "I couldn't do another full plate" full.

I wish I hadn't had to get back to work, taking another 15-20 minutes and eating some more of all my favourites might have gotten me there? Hard to be sure.

And I'm not a regular stuffer, maybe 3-4 times a year I go this hard, but I've also had such incidence for a lot of years, and had some years where it was a lot more common. I guess I really stretched out my capacity, and still do it often enough for my capacity not to shrink too much.

Anyway, I'm annoyed that 3500 calories worth of food is apparently not enough to make me feel I'm near my limit these days. Not sure what I'm going to do the next time that I really need a feedee fix.

Hello beautiful people!

In my half-decade or so actively taking part in the community, I've noted two very distinct types of feedism. The first is totally, and wholly benign. It's about celebrating beauty wherever it is, even if it's unconventional. Fatness is idealized, and the act of getting fatter is one that's akin to an expression of love. This is the type that the vast majority of the community aspires to.

The second type is far more problematic, if not more prevalent. I've seen this play out time and time again on both this platform and feabie, and each time it feels so grating and offputting that I question why it persists in our community. You know the type I'm talking about. It's feedism solely through the lens of misogyny. It's an excuse for fit, conventionally attractive (almost always) men to treat fat people like shit because they believe that they have no recourse. It's feedism that people employ to degrade their partner and turn their body into something nonconsensual. It's the type of feedism that gives us all a bad name.

I'm not saying a good bimbofication arc is unwarranted, or that contrast can't be incredibly sexy. I for one am very partial to dishing out a nice bit of degradation. I just think we all need to take step back and recognize that we aren't entitled to anyone by virtue of the fact of their size or shape. Fat people have autonomy, and frankly, a whole lot of dating options that won't be dicks to them.

Have any of you noticed similar patterns? I'd be curious to hear about your experiences-- especially at the intersection of feedism and toxic masculinity.

Just a heads up that there is an upcoming (first airing June 10th) documentary called "Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise" which supposedly "details allegations of of manipulation, coercion and exploitation from plus-sized women who were part of a social media community."

These sorts of things tend to bring attention to the community, including some legitimately curious people but also scammers, trolls, the righteously indignant, and so on. This sub may not get much attention, but it is always possible. Also there is some chance that people in your lives could hear about it, depending on what secondary promotion it gets.

I'm not linking to where I read about this, but it was an article on USA Today, you can do your own searches.

I've put more of an effort into getting my wife to gain recently. Been getting her takeout at least once each day and ice cream most nights. Additionally I've been giving her bigger portions and trying my best to keep her on the couch. All of these things put together have led to her getting steadily bigger.

Honestly, I've probably been paying closer attention to how she looks than she has been. Every little detail on her body has caught my eye. Her shirts are getting tighter on her sleeves and back, her hips are getting even wider, and her tummy might be sticking out a little bit more now.

We've done some weigh ins and have both seen the number on the scale going up. I've asked her how she feels now that she's gone from 230 to over 240 in two months. She said that she doesn't really feel like she's put on any weight, maybe a few pounds at most. Hearing her say that was such a turn on to me. I know that she's been gaining. I can see it on the scale, I can see it in how her clothes hug her now, I can feel it when she rides me, fuck, I can even see it a little bit in how her arms stick out a bit more when she walks, making her walk look more like a waddle. She's gaining a pound a week and the most she'll admit to is maybe a few pounds.

By the time she admits that she's actually turning into a blimp, how big will she be? 250? 270? Maybe I should stop weighing her so she has absolutely no clue how heavy she is.

Is anyone else going through this? Since I started working mostly from home, I’ve gained a significant amount of weight. For one thing, I sit at my computer all day and only leave the house to go grocery shopping; for another, snacks and sweets are always within arm’s reach. It all started in 2020, during the COVID pandemic, and since then I’ve put on about 25 kg. No one here keeps an eye on me—I can eat whatever I want—and nobody sees me getting bigger and bigger. I don’t necessarily mind it, though, but naturally, I do sometimes wonder where this is all going to lead. Is anyone else in a similar—or even identical—situation?

Just a rant: Like the title says, I (23F) recently started wearing maternity sized clothes although I’m not, nor even have been, pregnant. I’m in my final year of college and joined a sorority a few years ago. Ever since then, I’ve gained a considerable amount of weight from the excessive partying/drinking lifestyle. I’ve since gained a decent sized beer belly, and that’s mostly where the weight has gone.

I was complaining about my favorite sweatpants not fitting right and my amazing roommate got me a new pair she found on clearance. However, what she thought was an “m“ for medium was actually for maternity. Since they were a gift (and she couldn’t return them anyway as they were final sale clearance), I kept them. I tried wearing them and realized that they actually fit much nicer than any of my other clothing, mainly cause of my beer belly/weight gain. Ever since, I’ve had a few maternity items (largely pants) in my wardrobe and I’m scared others will find out and think it’s weird. So far no one has commented on them but I’ve heard people gossiping/whispering about my overall gains before.

hi all u gooners I finally made an account after lurking for years… anyway pls enjoy my deteriorating health for all your nasty purposes :P

as the title suggests, yes I (F20) went from a bmi of around 20.5-.8 to 29.1 in less than a year thanks to a myriad of changes in my life and have never been more horny thinking about how I ruined my body so fast. I started new medications and im a heavy weed smoker so I spent this past year arms deep in Ben and Jerry’s, Starbucks before class, and fast food. On the plus side I’ve been able to make some side cash on all the old clothes I’ve been selling that don’t fit anymore LOL

anyway this morning I weighed myself at 177lbs (im 5’5”), which means im 3 lbs away from officially being considered obese. I nearly came in my pants right there I swear… especially because I hadn’t thought I gained any more significant weight recently. I really had to soak in literally just how fucking fat I’ve gotten. I completely let myself go from an XS to not being able to fit anything under a L. It’s really getting out of control the amount of food I shovel in my mouth in one sitting. I also have been drinking way more soda and accidentally pavloved myself to get horny when i burp so thats awesome. I barely even have a jawline anymore and my cheekbone definition is totally gone it’s so obvious how fat I’ve gotten and it turns me on so bad

I’ve never been so horny to let my athleticism rot. I wouldn’t be able to tell you when the last time I worked out was, and my stamina has gotten so bad omg I’ve been huffing and puffing around campus as I’ve gotten heavier and lazier because my fat ass can’t do stairs anymore 🫩 I get so out of breath sometimes that I get dizzy and have to take a breather so I just take the elevator instead :P