r/WorcesterR4R2022

If you are here, thank you for taking the time to read. Let me start about who I am.

I am a 51year old Dominant male from Rhode Island. I am originally from the west coast, moved here over 20 years ago and now call this place home. I get asked all the time why did I move here. The answer... I moved here to take care of my father and I ended up staying.

I have been in the lifestyle for as long as I can remember and it is a part of who I am. I consider myself a Daddy Dom, I revel in the nurturing, protectring, as well as guidence aspect of a dynamic. To be honest I am not a big fan of calling a relationship a dynamic. At the end of the day that is what it is... a relationship. That is what I want and need. I am not looking for someone who is a temporary place holder until I find the "next". I date with purpose and do not deviate from that intention. I am not a fan of one night stands or play partner(s). I need the relationship and all that comes with that.

That all being said this is what I am into. Praise, soft degregatgion, taboo, CNC, public play, vouyerism, aftercare, and many other kinks. I do have a huge thong fetish that I should have grown out of by now but I still find them irrestable.

If you have gotten this far I'm sure you are asking what am I looking for in an individual. I am looking for my equal. Anyone that is truely in the lifestyle understands what I mean by this. This person should be smart, down to earth, honest, caring, loyal, understanding, fun, open-minded, uninhibited, wanting more out of themselves and life, enjoys the simple things, will always be the person they truely are, and finally not afraid to communicate.

Of course there is so much more to all of this and that comes with time. So if this intrests you at all please feel free to send me a message and we can see where it goes.