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Gay Sensual Massage Therapist Brisbane: Why I do a stigmatised job without cynicism 🏳️🌈
G’day everyone,
I recently hung out with another guy who does the same kind of massage as I do for a bit.
And we got to talking about the job, and I realised, he feels exactly the same way I do, so now I don’t feel shy in sharing this with you all — if I’m crazy, then at least I know I’m not alone! Haha.
So, here goes. Here are some thoughts I have on what I do:
- I feel like what I do has meaning.
I think, in Western culture, we are brought up to keep a distance from each other, and touch and closeness is seen as something only couples can do and in private. But at the same time, so much of our culture is sexualised.
I think we are all touch-starved. I think we were meant to come into contact with each other more often. A lot of people are scared — afraid of other people, other groups, other ethnicities. Scared to get too close to another…
And I think that starves us of something we need to thrive. Whether it is love, or connection, trust, or togetherness… I think this is a basic need that we don’t acknowledge, engage in, or seek out for ourselves.
I believe this can have an impact on your mental health, physical health, and overall wellbeing. So, at the very least, I can offer this to those that need it. And I think, considering the benefits I believe this can bring, that is worthwhile.
- I can help people who might feel alone
If you are a gay guy who is out and proud, it can be easy to forget what life was like when you weren’t.
And there are heaps of people out there who still haven’t come to terms with their sexuality, or if they have, still haven’t started living life as a gay or bi man.
And I think hiding part of yourself like that is painful. Not just psychologically, but physically too. And before you start thinking, this is all a bit too woo-woo for me, suck it up and keep reading.
If you don’t have anyone gay around you, or just nobody to talk to, I’m happy to be that person while I massage you. I have seen some of my clients become so confident over time. A couple of clients saw me for their first ever experience with a guy — and months later, they are telling me about how they are dating someone, or meeting people on apps.
And you know what, that makes me feel bloody proud. So, yeah.
- People leave with a smile
I once was in a job where debates and arguments were fairly normal, office politics was a nightmare, and no matter what you did, there would always be someone there to throw a spanner in the works.
Now, people come to me with problems. Perhaps out of alignment, soreness & stiffness, trouble sleeping, hoping I can help. And when I’m able to lighten people’s loads, and they walk out of my door with a smile on their face, it puts one on mine too.
And I quite often get text messages days later from people telling me all sorts of things, such as:
~ I don’t need to take pain killers to sleep anymore
~ My back hasn’t felt this great in months
~ Even my mum has said that my posture’s improved
~ My wife says I need to get a massage from you each week or she’ll divorce me (yes, I was extremely proud of this one)
So… I feel like, sometimes guys come to me for one thing, which I deliver, but also, in the process, I give a great therapeutic massage also. And I like to help people!
- This job has opened my eyes so much
I was once VERY conservative. Very well-mannered, always neat and tidy, and “well-behaved”. I am still neat, tidy, and well mannered. I am always respectful & professional… but, now, I allow myself to be a little naughty sometimes, and NOT feel guilty about it.
I see so many people carrying around trauma & stress. People who have lived with pain for years, or months. I have met politicians, athletes, artists, immigrants… all types of people.
My massage room is almost like a non-stop science experiment. I get to see people from all walks of life interact with the space, and me, and it is fascinating to see just how similar we all are, while also still being unique.
And let me tell you one thing: It does not matter if you are black, white, or purple, if you are as thin as a rake or as wide as a house, as tall as a skyscraper or as short as a mouse. It doesn’t matter if your you-know-what is huge or tiny, you’re the best looking person or extremely slimy, we are all the same. All the same. All the same. This part doesn’t need to rhyme, you just need to get it through your noggin!
Even the best looking & most successful guys get nervous. And we all react in the same way to feelings & emotions.
I don’t know. I think… because I get to interact with so many people, I’ve really started to realise how superficial we are as a species.
Yes, some people can be more physically attractive than others, but what attracts me is what is beneath the skin. And not in a soppy, emotional sense — I mean, a person’s mind, the neural pathways they’ve developed, the experiences they’ve had, the feelings they are willing to express, and the stories they can tell.
Obviously, I still love it when a great looking guy rocks up for a massage. But, I can say, honestly, hand-on-heart, I can find extremely attractive traits about all of my clients. And so, I do try to help them acknowledge those parts of themselves too.
- I sleep well at night
I sleep very well at night, because I feel I am doing honest work.
I am up-front about what I offer, and I am confident that I do well to meet and exceed expectations.
But I also sleep well at night knowing that I’ve achieved something during the day, helped someone feel a bit more comfortable within themselves, or loosened up some tightness.
In addition… this work does tire me out sometimes, in a good way, which is also why I sleep pretty well these days!
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Being openly gay is so much fun…
I have a theory, and before everyone from Indooroopilly to Logan to Noosa starts typing angry essays, just hear me out.
I’m increasingly convinced that “homophobia” is not actually fear of gay people.
I think, deep down, a lot of it is jealousy.
Because honestly? Being openly gay can be bloody fantastic.
You get older and suddenly realise half the rules everyone stresses over are made up anyway. You stop caring whether strangers in the Queen Street Mall think you might “look gay”.
You can tell your mates you love them. You can hug people. You can actually talk about emotions without pretending you’re emotionally constipated because some bloke at the Broncos leagues club in 1987 said men shouldn’t cry.
You can have lots & lots of NSA fun. Without feeling guilty.
And also — let’s be real — I think some people are not scared that gay people exist.
I think they are scared they themselves might, god forbid, even slightly enjoy something “taboo” if they ever let their walls down for five seconds.
Because if you are genuinely, completely comfortable in yourself… why does another grown man wearing short shorts in New Farm ruin your afternoon so badly?
Like mate, relax. The sun is out. The river is beautiful. Go get yourself a little oat latte in West End and unpack those feelings.
And before people say, “Nah mate, I just disagree with the lifestyle,” I would simply like to point out that straight people invented:
👩❤️👨divorce
👩❤️👨cheating
👩❤️👨Gold Coast schoolies
👩❤️👨gender reveal explosions
👩❤️👨 baby names spelt with eight unnecessary Y’s
👩❤️👨 spending $70,000 on a wedding and serving dry chicken breast
👩❤️👨 getting into fist fights outside a Valley club at 2am over literally nothing
👩❤️👨and whatever the hell happens at the Caxton after State of Origin
But we still love the straights, right? Just disagree a bit with their lifestyle, sometimes, yeah? Haha.
So maybe nobody should be throwing stones here.
Anyway. That’s my TED Talk. Happy to hear counterarguments while sitting at a coffee shop in Bowen Hills pretending this weather counts as winter. Gotta love Brisbane!
Have an AWESOME weekend 🏳️🌈🫶🏻
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