r/eroticgaymassage

Point me in the right direction for a sub category. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I am an in shape, gl, older gay guy who enjoys a real legit massage where we are both nude during the massage.

It seems whenever i mention this i am asking for something very strange. They tell me they don't use draping and they prefer i am nude but the masseur doesn't seem to want to be.

One guy even said he was okay to take off his shirt yet he posted his service on a m4m site we all know. If something develops during i may be open, but the intent is to be relaxed in a sensual setting otherwise it's just like going to a regular spa which i don't prefer.

So question? Is this really an odd request? I've had mutually nude in the past so i didn't think so.

I am looking to get some tips of how to push the boundary with my new masseuse.

Went to a new clinic and chose this masseuse since I prefer male therapists, and he was cute lol.

Anyways, as he walked me back to his room, I was surprised to see that his was on a different floor, farthest from the entrance - and here, my spider senses started tingling. He asked what my problem areas were - lower back, legs, shoulders, the usual. I strip naked and get under the covers. He starts by applying pressure on my back and legs, and glutes with the sheet, I assume to loosen my muscles. He then lowers the sheet so that the upper portion of my crack is showing and starts massaging my back with oil. His touch felt different from other male therapists. There was a slight touch (pun intended) of almost lingering, and some lightness to it and whenever he would stroke my whole back to my lower back, and it felt he kept lowering the sheet so more of my ass was exposed (my full ass never got exposed, sadly).

When he started massaging the back of my legs, when he revealed my leg and cheek, he never put the cloth under my leg to fully conceal the bits as how other therapists have done, but rather just rolled it up to fully expose one of my cheeks, and just lay the sheet over my crack. He had no problems oiling up my cheek and massaging my upper leg. Again, with that lingering touch, but he didn’t get close to my balls, or any wandering fingers by my crack.

When he turned me over, he started massaging my arms and it felt like he had no problem with my hard resting on his stomach (or some other body part, I’m not sure since I had a cloth on top of my eyes) while he went through the motions. Again, with that lingering touch.

Sadly, that he only massaged my upper torso and never touched my thighs.. he said the message was over, thanked me and wished me a good night. I saw the clock, and there was 15 minutes remaining in my 90 minute session.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Was the remaining time meant for me to finish myself since he didn’t, since I feel like 15 minutes was still a lot of time left. Not sure if im reading into it, since an oil massage does innately have a sensual component, but I ended up re-booking a 2 hour session a month from now, cause apart from the curiosities I have, it truly was one of the best massages I’ve had, and I wonder if it was because of my perceived extra layer of ‘something’. He was also of East Indian descent, and i haven’t come across many East Indian men who choose this profession, so it rattles my brain to wonder if he chose it since East Indian culture has been historically super conservative and this can be a way of discreet fun?

Tell me I’m delusional or tell me I’m on to something, but open to comments. Thanks!

So a couple of weeks ago, I happened to visit my regular massage therapy centre, and chose a different masseur this time.

So for anyone who's unaware about Indian Abhyangam Massage, they're usually same gendered massages. I took a 90 minute therapy, and wasn't disappointed.

I did the usual, undressed and changed into the disposable undies they provide. The first 15 minutes were a sit down massage for the upper body. All this while I kept getting a light tingle in my cock, even though the therapist wasn't even anywhere near it.

Then the massage started. I was asked to lie face up on the massage table and man, the masseur went to town with the most amazing massage. He wasn't attractive or anything, but having a man rubbing warm oil on you is erotic as fuck. Abhyangam massage comes with long head to toe rubs, and to facilitate clean strokes, I asked him to get rid of the undies as they were hindering the full clean top to bottom strokes. I was fluctuating from being raging hard to soft throughout. Then after massaging every inch of my body, he asked me to turn to the back.

While on my back, he spent an amazing amount of time on my butt and I was moaning and raising my butt all this while. Then, he ran his hands all over my crack with some hot oil and rubbed my hole soo fricking hard, I surrendered and came the hardest on the massage table. All while not talking a word. He finished the massage and asked me to take a steam. While I was in there, he admired the amount of cum lying on the mattress liner.

Once I was done, he cleaned my body up with a towel and I came back and rubbed one out again, thinking of the amazing encounter.

PSA: He did not care about my briefs this go around.

My fourth massage was after a decent leg work out. Also did arms and chest but mostly legs today.

Him: What are we doing today?
Me: I had a work out before coming - legs.

Completely draped

When he comes back in it’s immediately different.
Squeezes my foot gently once he’s in. - 1st time

Stands over my head - can see his shoes below me- and goes to work on my shoulders, stretches my arms back, bends them, and loosens me up. Seriously, I did work out so it felt really good. Couldn’t help but to groan some.

As he’s moving down my back, he’s leaning more and more into me. I can feel his body pushing against the back of my head as he moves further down to my ass. I have very short, tight, can see plenty through type boxer briefs. His fingertips go completely underneath the band. - 1st time

Of course, it has to be an accident. Once, but then twice, then with his fingertips underneath he slides his hand all the way across my lower backside. - 1st time

Definitely chubbing at this point. He moves to my left side, uncovers my arm and side, takes my arm and places it to where it hangs off the table. He begins massaging my side and there’s no mistaking he is not worrying about my briefs. My hand feels a part of his body, must have been leg because of the height of table and my hand. Twice. - 1ST TIME

Half his fingers go underneath sometimes then work up in a circular motion that goes from the middle of my back to the hip joint. Fucking hellll!!!! - 1ST TIME
Repeats on my right side. All the same except I’m leaking some when he goes for the circular motion stroke.

Fuck - I’m hard as a rock - he covers my right side up. Then moves back to my shoulders and back. More of his fingers slide under my briefs each time and he’s lightened the pressure so much it’s relaxing me wonderfully / but gives my cock time to relax.
Move of his body is pushed against the top me.

He moves down to my legs - uncovers my left leg and thigh.
1st fucking stroke up my leg — up in my briefs — all the way to my bottom of my ass. He is working at medium pressure and slips between whole hand and just thumb. I am noticeably wincing when he pushes on a sensitive or sore part. Those hurt so good pains.
He slows pace and decreases the pressure - as he’s up underneath my ass, the backside of his hand way more than brushes against my plump cock. He does it twice in a row then lifts my leg to do some stretches - felt his goal was to pop that side but it didn’t work. He covers my left side to repeat the process on my right side. But no cock grazing on the right side - 1ST TIME

He has me flip over works on my scalp and upper chest.
He then uncovers my left side and he begins pushing his thumb against the hip flexor area and glides underneath the band of my briefs. He’s applying some pressure but it’s mostly light and long strokes up and down my side and completely underneath my briefs. He moves to my abdomen for a very short time then he lifts my leg. Has me bend it and it’s now in a triangle shape. This man leans over and idk what part of his body is ON TOP OF MY COCK as he reaches over to push down my right leg. He stands straight up, puts my leg back in the covers and goes to my right side. He repeats this stretching and leaning - I’m so hard at this point - he has to feel it. - 1ST FUCKING TIME

He covers my leg back up, places both hands on either side of my hard cock and rubs up and down. Fuck my lifeeeeeeee.
He moves to my abdomen and does the same motion.

Then ends the session. Next session - 2 weeks.
And he got the biggest tip I’ve given him so wish me luck.

So a couple of weeks ago, I happened to visit my regular massage therapy centre, and chose a different masseur this time.

So for anyone who's unaware about Indian Abhyangam Massage, they're usually same gendered massages. I took a 90 minute therapy, and wasn't disappointed.

I did the usual, undressed and changed into the disposable undies they provide. The first 15 minutes were a sit down massage for the upper body. All this while I kept getting a light tingle in my cock, even though the therapist wasn't even anywhere near it.

Then the massage started. I was asked to lie face up on the massage table and man, the masseur went to town with the most amazing massage. He wasn't attractive or anything, but having a man rubbing warm oil on you is erotic as fuck. Abhyangam massage comes with long head to toe rubs, and to facilitate clean strokes, I asked him to get rid of the undies as they were hindering the full clean top to bottom strokes. I was fluctuating from being raging hard to soft throughout. Then after massaging every inch of my body, he asked me to turn to the back.

While on my back, he spent an amazing amount of time on my butt and I was moaning and raising my butt all this while. Then, he ran his hands all over my crack with some hot oil and rubbed my hole soo fricking hard, I surrendered and came the hardest on the massage table. All while not talking a word. He finished the massage and asked me to take a steam. While I was in there, he admired the amount of cum lying on the mattress liner.

Once I was done, he cleaned my body up with a towel and I came back and rubbed one out again, thinking of the amazing encounter.