r/fatpeopledating
34F4M - Online only. Looking for someone to be silly with
Hi! I'm 5 feet and around 260 lbs, asian, and super weird and random.
I'm looking for someone fun to chat with whenever I'm free, usually between 6 PM to midnight Singapore time.
About me:
- loves games!
- loves voice calls, but only on weekends
- silly, random, weird, funny
- looking for something fun and not-so-serious
You:
- doesn't mind sporiadic chats
- silly and funny
- would love to be down for voice calls on weekends
Hit me up with your best joke!
u/rosenight30186 — 3 days ago
41F Seeking Companion in Oregon
I am a 41yro divorcee from Central Oregon. I am a larger woman. I work a lot & stay busy with my kiddo. Every other weekend I have free time (7pm Fri-7pm Sun) & I usually spend it with friends, running errands, reading, watching a movie or playing a video game. I enjoy cooking / baking for friends/family/coworkers. I am a pretty direct person when socializing - my boundaries / expectations are easily communicated. I think I am funny, my coworkers say I am pretty random, my friends say I’m good people. I rarely drink. I do not smoke or dabble in thc. I have a few tattoos (just in case this is a problem for anyone).
I am looking for a companion for my kid free weekends. I am hoping to meet someone local to me (within a couple hours distance maximum). Someone 35-45yrs old. Please be 100% single (no Poly/ENM). Mostly stable in life would be preferred, as I bring that to the table as well (Job, own place, car, a life). Let’s get together to see a movie, have a board game night, take a beach trip, go get coffee, cruise around & jam to music together. Enjoy some laughs & good times with no pressure. Let’s build a flirtatious friendship & see where things go. Let’s read books together & share feedback. Video game together.
u/Icy-Street-8791 — 3 days ago
50, trans and open to chat
MorF Leave me a note that you saw me here for a response.
u/ChristyAustyn76 — 4 days ago
33 (F4M) - Canada
The irony of this being an anonymous app isn’t lost on me — but there’s something so uncomfortable/awkward/terrifying about “putting yourself out there”, so to speak.
I am a 33 year old woman from northern Canada - just freshly entering my “separation” phase. (11 years together, 9 years married)
Currently in the throes of packing up my entire life & preparing to sell my marital home.
I am kid-free — however I do have 2 furry little dependents.
I work from home & am trying to figure out where my next chapter begins.
I’m not necessarily looking for a relationship at this time, but conversation would be a welcome distraction! I could genuinely use something to look forward to each morning, you know?
I prefer men that are a little older than me - especially an emotionally mature man! Someone who has interests/hobbies/ someone that can hold a conversation!
Full disclosure: My career consumes the majority of my life, so I’m not exceptionally quick to respond.
u/LadyMacBeth-1606 — 5 days ago
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[19/F]#Arizona wishing to someone hear this
I honestly never imagined I would find myself writing something like this, but lately I have been feeling like I am standing in one of the emptiest and most confusing places I have ever experienced in my life.
About four months ago, I finally ended a relationship that had been going on for an enormously long period of time. Looking back at it now, I realize just how much it affected me. It became such a gross, selfish and constantly negative environment that, little by little, I stopped recognizing certain parts of myself. It affected the way I thought, the way I carried myself, the way I looked at myself and even the way I see my own appearance today. Sometimes I look at myself and honestly feel disappointed or awkward because I know there is a version of me underneath all of this that I somehow lost along the way.
and then, when that whole nightmare finally came to an end, I realized something else.
a lot of the people I became close with after moving to a completely new country many years ago have naturally moved forward with their own lives. They have families, relationships, careers, responsibilities and their own paths to follow. And honestly, I cannot blame them for that. It is completely mature and natural, and I will always support them and genuinely cheer for them, even if our lives are not as connected as they once were.
But understanding something logically does not necessarily make it emotionally easy.
Suddenly, I found myself surrounded by this strange silence. The relationship was gone, the old connections had naturally changed, and I was left alone with myself and everything I had ignored for so long.
That emptiness has started affecting me more than I would like to admit. I have slipped into unhealthy habits, become much more insecure, started feeling awkward and useless, and sometimes I genuinely wonder how I ended up so far away from the person I thought I would become.
It is such a horrible and unbelievably difficult experience that I would never wish this kind of loneliness and inner confusion on anyone.
So maybe this post is simply my little scream into the internet.
Maybe somewhere there is someone who understands what it feels like to suddenly lose the structure of a life you spent years building. Maybe someone else is trying to rebuild themselves after a relationship that changed them in ways they never expected. Or maybe there is simply someone out there who feels like being a refreshing, rare and bright little point of light in somebody else's otherwise very confusing chapter.
I am not expecting anyone to fix me. I think I just want to feel human connection again. A genuine conversation. A little kindness. Something that reminds me that life can still contain beautiful and unexpected things after an incredibly difficult chapter.
This is me trying to find my way through the mess instead of pretending everything is fine.
And if you are going through something similar, I hope you remember that being lost does not necessarily mean you are permanently broken.
Wishing everyone reading this all the love, kindness and peace in the world.
Because honestly, everyone deserves those things!!!!!
u/jasamnatalija — 7 days ago
18m4f (ontario Canada)
In all honesty ive had no luck with women in my life i cma barley get a girl to talk to me i haven't had my first kiss i haven't had my first date hell I haven't even hugged a women who wasn't family.
I feel alone i just want someone someone i can talk to I want someone to hang out with someone to hold someone to cuddle
Hell id be ok with an online relationship someone to talk to all day throughout the day someone to call maybe even sext
But most importantly I want someone to find me attractive someone who doesn't mind a big guy someone thats into guys bigger guys so if that's you dm me
My interests:
Boxing
Mma
Wrestling
Trucks
Favorite musicians:
Ella Langley
Sabrina Carpenter
BigXthaplug
Morgan wallen
Prime Luke bryan
Braxton keys
Queen
The beetles
Elvis
Favorite TV shows:
Grimm
The Office
The ranch
The rookie
Tires
Story warz on YouTube
Kill Tony on YouTube
u/Motor_BoatEr9810 — 7 days ago
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41F BBW/SSBBW - WV
Just a plus size girl looking for good conversation, maybe more.
Introverted, not built for parties, clubs, or crowds.
I enjoy drawing/painting, reading, video games, Netflix marathons.
Getting in the car going exploring, finding new places. Taking scenic photographs.
I like to cook, but love to bake.
There’s more, if you wanna know something just ask.
Im old fashioned I guess, and nothing is like it used to be anymore.
I’m not religious, political, or poly.
u/Hour_Worldliness_681 — 10 days ago
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[F46] Arizona - Nerdy professional looking to chat, see where it goes
Hi! I'm 46, based in Arizona, and figured I'd give this a try. Looking to connect with a nice guy, starting with just chatting online and seeing if there's a spark before anything else.
Quick facts about me: I'm a professional woman with a demanding job, a total nerd at heart (books, sci-fi, random deep dives into whatever has my interest that week), and I don't have kids. I'm pretty introverted and genuinely love my quiet time at home, but I still want good conversation and real connection with the right person. I like to travel and I am open to adventures.
u/NoWhereaas1337 — 10 days ago
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28 [F4A] #Texas/Anywhere Princess Looking for Her Soulmate
Hi I’m SSBBW looking for my person. I currently live in Texas but I am not attached to this state. In fact I actually enjoy the colder states more so I am totally okay with you living elsewhere as long as there is the intention of meeting.
I’m at a place in my life where I dam ready to find the right one and get married and settle down. And I’m open to whatever relationship dynamic that looks like. We will figure it out together.
I don’t really have a type (physically speaking). I find all ages, genders, heights, weights, and ethnicities attractive. I am more so someone who falls in love with your personality.
And definitely don’t worry if we fall for each other fast, I don’t care. If we are meant to be we will know it and will adapt to how we feel and how fast or slow to take things.
I love reading, watching movies, cooking, relaxing with my cat, learning new things, journaling, going for walks, and recently started weightlifting.
Let me know if any of this interests you and feel free to message me.
u/Rock_Chick_97 — 10 days ago
40 [M4F] - Ontario / Online - Seeking a big, confident woman to steal my thoughts
I'm tall, strong, dadbod, dark features and timidly confident in myself. I think too much and end up working too much too. Life as I live it makes it hard for me to show vulnerability. There's a stress in carrying yourself that is hard to put down...
Lucky you, you have an inside track.
I work too hard, think too much, and really, I should be doing it all for someone.
I'd like to meet someone I'm excited to hear from in the morning. Someone who consumes my thoughts, and makes it hard not to obsess and be obsessed over. Someone who pulls me by the shirt towards her.
Very kink friendly, but also can carry a normal conversation, from flirting to profound. I'm cautiously hopeful to meet someone interesting here!
u/iltuogato — 12 days ago