r/fatpeopledating

42 [F4M] Bay Area, California

A confident women who loves God, family, and the people closest to my heart. My faith is the foundation of my life, and I strive to live with gratitude, kindness, and purpose. I'm looking for a Godly man who has a genuine relationship with God, leads with integrity, and values family. Someone who is emotionally mature, supportive and I'm not looking for perfection—just a man whose faith, character, and actions align with his values.

I love watching wrestling, sports and anime.

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u/UnderstandingLucky49 — 4 hours ago

26 F #LosAngeles, I’d Love Some Loving & Sweet Friends!

Currently, I’d love to meet some people that’d love to be genuinely kind and supportive friends! I don’t mind Women nor Men. But I’m might wanna always be licked or licked on you! Hehe! I find genuinely kind folks hard asf to find. Especially online ! I am open to a lot of things so let me know. Please be transparent and I’ll let you know! Thanks ,

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u/Financial_Painter902 — 8 hours ago

32 [F4M] Western Washington looking a connection.

I’m a plus size woman from Washington currently a single mom going through a divorce. I’m looking for friends, or just someone to chat with online. I’m a homebody at heart but love a good adventure or going shopping. Im pretty shy at first but once I feel comfortable and safe I open up. Feel free to DM me or ask for my Snapchat.

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u/No_Camera4538 — 2 days ago

Miss driving with a partner

Driving to a 4th of July event today & I’m in a dress… I just miss having my thighs grabbed or rubbed in the car… do any other women in this group grab their own thighs to curb that urge when driving? I feel crazy & I know it sounds weird - but sometimes I find ways (like this) to try & curb the moments that come up & make me feel lonely.

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u/Icy-Street-8791 — 3 days ago

45 M4F The search continues!

HEY! Thanks for stopping bt! Lets get to it. I'm 5'10", curly strawberry blonde hair, blue eyes, big heart, kind of sarcastic. I'm smart, funny, loyal, creative, considerate, respectful, romantic. I hope you're much of the same. I would ultimately like to find someone to spend my life with, my person, adventure partner, kitchen dancing, netflix binging, porch coffee drinking partner. I want to fall in love again.. If this sounds like something you're interested in, please send a message or chat. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/Obi-Wan-Nobody — 5 days ago

27 f Midwest

Hi agaiiiiinnnnnnn!

Still casual about this but would like to talk to someone who is good at holding conversation, interesting and maybe a little quirky. Definitely in the Midwest. Life semi put together

I like singing/karaoke, reading, movies, tattoos, swimming and live music. I can be adventurous but also enjoy being home!

I might be shy at first but a yapper when it gets unlocked. 5’9….maybe 5’10 not sure. Girly, Capricorn, love talking about the controversial things, neurodivergent ✨👾🛸

u/Round-Fish9848 — 5 days ago

31F, looking for something special

Hellooooo everyone! I'm not very good with these things so hopefully I do this right. I'm looking for love. Like genuine love. I'm not looking to rush things or any hook ups etc. I know not every conversation will lead to a spark but with work and school I just never get a chance to get myself out there and meet new people. I just want the opportunity to love and be loved back that's all. I'm a hopeless romantic and am hoping to find someone I have a connection with. I love spooky things, dolls, animatronics , reading, drawing, hiking, animals, cartoons, and anything pink. Thanks! Message me if you're interested

🩷🩷🩷

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u/IAmYourRarity — 8 days ago

42 [M4F] California/Online | Looking for someone who is weird like me!

Hello! Newly minted 42 year old here. (if this number is meaningful to you then definitely please say hello!) I'm a nerdy fella, but not really a video gamer or anime guy at this stage of my life. More of a board/tabletop gamer and a nerd books kind of guy. I'm 5'8", about 190 pounds, brown hair/eyes. I love pickleball, cooking, pizza, lasagna, rock climbing, sitting on the couch, and playing "guess my fart".

Fellow nerds get top priority but anyone who finds my little self-description appealing is welcome to say hi!

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u/Regular_Snacks — 8 days ago

Just an fyi mostly to the ladies

The idea that calling out predatory behavior is harassment is bananas. These grown ass men had stolen social media photos of college aged girls and were “trading” like goddamn baseball cards. Personally, I’d beware of any hobo that uses that sub.

u/fatgoblinwhore — 9 days ago

I need advice.

You guys, what are your honest opinions on long distance relationships? I’ve been chatting with an older gentleman and I don’t see it going anywhere. He had real heavy baggage and he is a lot older than me… roughly 20 years older… he has some pretty bad trauma and when we first spoke on the phone… like legit our first phone call he trauma dumped on me so bad I felt I had to talk him through it… we stayed on the phone for three hours and it ended up being a nice phone call… throughout the month it was more trauma… and the more he shared the more it felt like I had to take care of that… I don’t have to do anything but because I’m a people pleaser that trauma he dumped on me I felt the need to take it off his back but now I can’t because I don’t see it working out. He showed so much interest in me..:. Consistency was there! Every response he sent was long and meant something… now it’s he’s always tired from work. Calls twice a day and the calls are like 5 minutes when they used to be hours… we never met and he plans on coming to see me, it’s ironic… I told him I was planning a trip in the summer and then the one weekend he picks to fly out here is the weekend I chose to go on vacation… I don’t think he bought tickets or whatever I think he’s just saying all this but doesn’t mean any of it.., I mean it would be nice for a man to want to genuinely like me for me… and not use me as a conversation piece… this is just crazy! I really enjoy his conversations… but I noticed the butterflies went away and the laughing has decreased by 70 percent. Idk I’m just lost because I feel he played with my emotions after I told him I been single for over 5 years… I think I ignored all these red flags trying to be a hero… idk what should I do? Please help!

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u/FlimsyOriginal2716 — 10 days ago

41/F seeking companion

41/F/Oregon divorced. 5’4, larger lady. (Don’t jump right into asking for photos) I work a lot & my availability is limited to every other weekend due to my coparenting schedule. I am seeking someone that is Local & willing to meet after a connection is established. I am not looking for someone wanting to hide on Reddit but claim we have a connection. I enjoy reading, time with friends or family, board/card/video games, road trips, movies. I am not great with crowded events, but I would like to slowly branch out to experience more things with someone who is understanding of social anxiety. I’m pretty blunt/direct, communication is very important. No one under 30, no one that is poly/enm, not into FWB/hookups. I would like to meet someone who enjoys reading, is independent, patient & enjoys PC gaming.

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u/Icy-Street-8791 — 10 days ago

Egads Man!

Has anyone else noticed the stark contrast between men and women’s posts? A lot of you dudes come out dick swinging. Not to rain on your parade but not to many gals are looking to hookup with a stranger. Not when they’re dudes that want more AND treat them with dignity and respect. Remember, her in box is flooded with offers for random dick. Why should she choose you?

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u/fatgoblinwhore — 10 days ago

M47Ireland /uk

I’m a 47 year old male, tattoo beard and musical six one tall looking for a uk or Ireland based USSBBW to chat and hopefully have a LTR in friendly and would love a chat so gimme a shout and say hello x

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u/Wide_Two9882 — 10 days ago

Why is it so hard to find someone anymore?💔

Hiii! I’m 33 years old, live in Ontario Canada. I’ve been searching for my safe place but only find people who want to use. I am pan, looking for good vibes! I’m sassy, witty, playful, bubbly, kind. My love language is bullying 💕 (plus touch and gifts)
I’m outdoorsy, I love to hunt and fish, camp. Take me four wheeling, build me a bon fire.
I’m also a great baker and cook. I love to read and game quite a bit.

u/PinkSpice87 — 13 days ago

49 transf looking

I’m interested in open minded older men and women. If you message me, tell me where you saw me…and don’t start with a bland opening.

u/ChristyAustyn76 — 12 days ago

28m Michigan M4A

Hey! Fat dude from Michigan looking for someone.

Love...

Museums

Camping

Cars

History

Memes

Food

Road trips

Music!

Love conversations too! DMs open/HMU!

u/drewcstu — 11 days ago