r/fincucksearching1

I hope to find a gentle soul who will help me to stop thinking, to stop the ego trap of selfishness. Who can help me just let go and let Mommy take over, trust in her to do what is best for me and not think about it anymore. Have a good and interesting day.

You can use me to surprise your bf with gifts or you can use me to fund your dates. I just wanna be a good loser and worship the ground you two walk on.

On the lookout for a woman who truly is sweet/soft at core and is able to capture a balance between sweet and severe.  Looking for someone who wants to be Mommy in more than just title, who can bring a maternal vibe to every aspect, even if we play with bmail.  The softness, the gentleness should feel authentic, and pervasive.  Metaphorical example: whispering in my ear how I am  your good little loser, while hugging and praising me. Whispering sweet nothings to me while emptying my account “the way it should be”.  To impose cruelty through the lens of care and compassion.   Though findom can be very transactional, I am hoping to find someone who can help me feel that what we are up to is not.  I do have interest in extreme things, but the approach is key. 

Bottom line for this fetish is that I don't have a lot of resources to offer.  Can't work more than a part time job, spent a lifetime being drained by various women.  Not much left in the tank. Budget can be variable, but limits are real.  I am hoping for a compassionate and intelligent lady (knows who Camus and Nagarjuna are, as an example, and likes to read books in their hands, listen to John Coltrane on vinyl) who has a genuine interest in control and having someone in thrall to them.  As long as amounts are less important than obedience and devotion and a sense of friendship at heart, we will get along fine. 

I know I am not for everyone, but I can be loyal and devoted to the right person.   I have a long list of fetish interests, some more fundamental to me than others, and can share those, as well as limits in private as you wish.  My preferred method is Throne at moment, though I am open to any method that assures anonymity at first.  If we become long term, that will of course change, and many other methods will be fine.  Enjoy the day/night,  fellow fetish traveler.  

Looking to get back into long term submission.

Huge foot and armpit sub that craves humiliation and degrading.

Other kinks include cuckold, orgasm control/CEI, tasks, forced bi.

Throne, you pay and gift cards are what I prefer for now.

Monthly budget around 250 USD

Ideally US based; PST. But open if schedules can line up

I have few findom friends and I'm very into cucking losers. We're looking for a loser to own and break and shape into the perfect beta (within limits obviously).
Had fincucks before and we mainly engage in censored conditioning, orgasm control, Joi/cei and humiliation Among other things.
You'll be denied and humiliated and not allowed to ask for photos (she'll send as she pleases).

If you're interested start with AV betas 😈

Imagine falling for a polyamorous domme. She has multiple partners, loving and worshipping her. On top of that, she’s a notorious Reddit slut in her area. All you can do is drool and dream of being them, knowing that you’re not good enough to even touch her. Begging and pleading and sending to hear her get used by other men who make her feel better than you could imagine.

Idc how much of a bitch this makes me anymore. My brain has been permanently reprogrammed. I genuinely would rather be a cuck to a queen i adore and worship than go out and hookup with a random. Ik it makes me such a bitch, but man i feel like im built for this. Love that u let us be apart of your superior sex lives. I feel like i still get to be useful and is a way to show a domme how devoted u are that youd even be willing to fund and watch even if its embarrassing