r/flrindia

Hello everyone, I am 22M and have been trying to search for my someone special to be in a FLR, not just online or something. I want to live it with my partner. The problem is, this part of me can't be yet shared publicly cause it's still taboo and how me and my partner lives is none of anyone else's business.

But the problem is them how am I gonna find her, she is not going to knock on my door. So one have to find, a safe place where people understand that this is more than a kink, one time thing, it's a lifestyle and where to find such person.

So my question is, for your own case where did you find your partner? Is there any safe no judgement app or place. Where I can hope to find my partner to be?

I see a lot of FLR posts focused on chastity, orgasm control, or denial. That’s great if it works for you, but that’s not what our FLR is built on. Don’t get me wrong—we definitely have our own kinks, and they’re centered around her absolute dominance. But those are an expression of our relationship, not its foundation.

What’s funny is that early in our relationship, she told me that one day my devotion to her would become much bigger than kinks and sex. At the time I didn’t fully understand what she meant. Looking back now, she was absolutely right.

I submit because I genuinely admire my wife. She’s incredibly capable, makes better decisions than I do, and has this calm confidence that naturally earns people’s respect. My family and friends adore her too, and honestly, I feel like I hit the jackpot. Serving her isn’t just about intimacy. It’s about making her life easier, trusting her leadership, and taking pride in supporting someone I truly believe is extraordinary.

Being with her and obeying her have only made my personal and professional life only better.

For me, devotion comes from admiration—not from sexual control.

Does anyone else have an FLR that’s built more on genuine respect and admiration than on sexual dynamics?

100's of people wanted to talk to me daily but I'm also just human.

So I decided to launch a very personalized bot trained on my ideology, my writings, and my thought process.

I talked to it consistently and trained it overtime before making it public.

And the amount of love it is getting is INSANE!!!!

I am now receiving DMs that it has helped them navigate their relationship better.

I seriously want you to do try it out since it is not a generic chatbot, it is actually very well versed with D/s dynamics and the psychology behind it.

Do check it out on www.flrindia.com.

Oh, and also, we've launched an FLR compatability quiz too. Just check how compatible how you are ;)