r/gaysauna

Hello,

I'm a 43year old french guy. I've lost 15kg over two years and am now fairly average but I still have insecurities. I'm also vision impaired, not blind but wear glasses.

I tried three different saunas (1 in Bruxelles, and 2 in Paris), and I've yet to have sexual encounters there.

I really want to have worry free fun, as I know friends who does. But I have a hard time getting action. If I wear my glasses I feel like guys won't even look at me, if I don't wear them, I can't even see the guys faces until I'm so close we are basically already kissing, so I don't know if somebody is looking at me or interested in me. I'm in fear to overstep or do non consensual things on guys because I could have misunderstood something. And with all this overthinking I'm not really excited I think.

Last time I had a little victory, as at the start I began to feel some confidence, got in the sauna (which was sufficiently illuminated) without my glasses, and a few minutes later a guy sat close, we made eye contact and began to talk and kiss but he only wanted to cuddle and talk. And when I said myself I'll go participate in the action in the hammam then, I couldn't... I couldn't saw faces and stress got me.

I would love it to be simple and just have fun.

Thinking of visiting Pipeworks for the first time (19), is it worth the visit?

Has anybody been to the Meat Market party in Amsterdam that’s hosted at Club Church and Free Willie’s? I would be going as a bottom hooded. Any insight on what type of guys show up as tops? Does anyone have experience whether being a bottom hooded or a top roaming around? Any insights welcomed.

First time visiting Acqua so I went in with no expectations. Lovely welcome by the owner at the door who showed me to the lockers and the communal area which put me at ease and feel welcome. The clientele was decidedly on the older side which isn't a factor for myself but could be on your visit.

Sauna itself was heavenly. Perfect temperature. Met a guy in there and we watched each other masturbate while chatting about various topics. Easy, laid back, no pressure. Went our separate ways when I decided to check out more of the facilities.

Steam room was excellent. No one in when I was there but this just ment I could lay down and soak it all in peacefully.

Took a walk of the various cabins, gloryholes and porn rooms (gay and straight porn available). Took a seat in one of the gloryholes and blew 1 visitor. Don't think he had sex in a while because the load he blew was massive damn near choking me but was fun.

Hung out in the porn theatre/play room for a while and had some fun with a bear (not usually the type of go for but he was sweet with a nice cock).

Tried the hot tub which by far was the best feature of the venue. Temperature, strength of the jets, even the choice of decor in there was to my tastes. I could have stayed there all night and really took the stresses of the week away.

Must have been closing time at the clubs as 4 younger guys (late 20s) joined me in the hot tub for a soak. After some discussion we all decided to get a cabin together. I'd recount my experience but it was quite cramped with the 5 of us and limbs were everywhere.

To summarise, nice little venue with friendly clientele if on the mature side. Condoms and lube could sometimes be hard to find but by asking the regulars seemed to be a ready supply. Some of the cabins could be quite small with multiple partners and there was a lack of comfortable viewing areas should you like to be watched. Upstairs area was kinda dark and had a baffling dark corner which served no purpose (some small light strips would go a long way). Not the busiest sauna by far but a comfortable one to visit and exist in a gay space within our culture.

3/5 average experience (maybe good for a first timer)

Thinking of trying W3 Blackpool next.

I’m someone who’s totally new to this. Two quick questions!

1. As a curious guy, can I go there to just watch (and maybe play with myself) without engaging with anyone else?
2. Do you have any suggestions for Vienna or Munich?
   Thanks

Is it weird for me, a 19 year old chubby bottom, to want to visit london, book a hotel for two nights, solely so I can partake in sucking dick at Vault139's two pride nights?

I’m the guy who is half bottom and half top😅

I had experienced both but only once in my life. But I really wanna go to the gay sauna, should I go for it and do you have any tips on that?

When you first walk into my local bathhouse you gotta go through the gym area first before getting to the fun areas, anyways I went up to this guy (I wanna say he was in his mid 30s) I made sure it was clear I was looking at his ass so he got the hint I was trying to top, I led him to the dark room and I started fucking him on one of the benches, I think he was nervous of the guys watching cause he felt tense so I asked if he had a room, cause trying to ram it into someone that’s not relaxed isn’t very enjoyable, anyways he thankfully did, so we went there instead. we fucked doggystyle for a bit and made out inbetween him catching his breath. he didn’t want me to blow inside so I gave him backshots instead, I was pretty pent up so the load shot up to below his neck lmao then I left to the wet sauna area to relax

After chilling in the sauna for a bit a guy approached me and starting groping my dick, since i had time to recharge i was able to get bricked pretty easily again, instead of fucking this time he started giving me head, usually I avoid receiving head, since I usually start grabbing their hair/head and use the mouth as a fleshlight and sometimes I accidentally get rough which makes me feel bad, but this guy was into it, I think he was the type that liked getting used, anyways at this point I was standing up face fucking this guy with both hands gripping the sides of his head, and I nutted on his face after I wanna say about 5~ minutes. The load that time was much smaller but still a decent amount, he wiped some of the nut off his face and ate it infront of me which made me immediately horny again

Instead of giving myself a few minutes to recharge I went straight into the dark room again cause I was horny, there was a chubby dude in the sling who was probably fucked a few times before cause he looked loosened up, anyways I was only semi hard at this point cause I went there right after the sauna, but after I put my dick in my him i immediately got bricked again, I could feel some of the nut from a previous guy in there (either it was that or an obnoxious amount of lube) either way the slickness was a huge turn on and I fucked him before dropping my final load of the night, even though I couldn’t see it I could feel this load was smaller than the other two, anyways I went to the showers to wash off then headed out for the night

I’m 24, vers, bi and not don’t loads with guys tbh. Haven’t been fucked before

Is there like a way to wear ur towel in a specific way or something to signify ur position? I’m 18 and I’ve noticed despite bath houses having a bottom majority I mostly get approached by other tops, (I guess they assume younger guys r usually bottoms?) anyways I’d like to know a way to get more bottoms to approach me

I work within the area and wondered if I should pay a visit. Give it a whirl as it were.