r/gaysauna

Hi guys, I've never been in a gay sauna personnaly, but how woulda chastity cage be perceived in a sauna ? 😉

I’m currently exploring and really fancying a sauna as a safe place to be myself.

Whats the etiquette? I’m a top and happy to be blown and top.

Hi,

I’m a 27yo Side (Sometimes Bottom) looking to go to my first Sauna, I’m based in Nottingham, after doing a bit of Reddit research I’ve come to the conclusion that Darlaston Greenhouse is the closest/best option for me, however if anyone knows a better place that is around a similar distance please let me know!

I guess my question is what day/time is busiest? I know it’s an older crowd that go to saunas but is there a time that people around my age tend to go?

I'm chubby and 18, but i would like to try some sauna in Paris, what should i expect?? And which sauna would you advise me to go?

I went to a sauna a couple of times in Chelmsford (can’t remember what it was called, under the arches) years ago, and wasn’t too unsuccessful. However most of my hook ups were on the now defunct Craigslist (oh how good that was!)

Now I’m in my early 40s, not unfairly, not fat/overweight,but not ribbed nowhere near it.

Am I going to be totally disappointed going to a sauna wanting to blow and be fucked by multiple guys without reciprocation?

I’m prepared to go to London or elsewhere for maximum success, but have no idea what to do to do so these days.

Hey everyone, visiting Plymouth early june.

Im going to go to manticore as my first gay sauna, I plan to lose my card with a real man instead of toys,

Im not sure how to signal im a bottom, I cannot find much info in it. But I'll be sure to take plenty of condoms etc. As I don't want to risk any infections.

I would love to take raw but im notnl sure people are trustworthy, unless ive known them a while

Any advice for a newbie?

I’m planning a long session at the sauna soon, and I really want to push my limits and see what my body is capable of handling.

For the bottoms who frequent bathhouses/saunas, what is the maximum number of tops you’ve been able to take on in a single day? what do you think is the realistic "human limit" before it just becomes painful or exhausting?

How do people carry it around with them when just in a towel or naked day. Seems key bands too loose and the small lube bottle too easy to loose. Was thinking shoulder bag or something. Tried pre lube but gets washed off or dries out before being fucked. Last fuck was far too dry for my ass and did not like it lol Anybody tips?

Hopefully at Touch Sauna week after next and was wondering how Naked Day is? It’s been a long time since I have been and hoping to Top and Bottom. 35M, 5’9” and in good shape through regular weight and cardio training. I felt ‘popular’ a few years ago when I went!

I’m not sure if I’ll ever go to a gay sauna, but I’m curious — is it okay to wear a butt plug there, or is it not a good idea?

If anyone has done this, could you share your experience?

Hi there. I will have a night in Ft. Lauderdale and want to plan on going to a bathhouse. Can anyone give recommendations as to which to try? I’ve only ever been to Club Dallas. Looking for a fun welcoming vibe with all different kinds of body types, races, ages, etc. is there one that fits best with that in mind?

Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated. If there is another that I didn’t mention please feel free to recommend. Thanks!

I just found out that the sauna for men in sheffield is closed. According to my research, it was raided by the authority but the reason was a bit vague. Was it because of drugs?

Anyway, it’s a bit sad because, although I don’t frequent much to that place (last time I was there was November 2025), the vibe was friendly.

Hopefully, it will open eventually.

I want to the sauna recently and LOVED it. I want to play with others though, obviously I know how to ask if someone wants to play but do I just eye fuck you to let give you a hint I’m interested in you lol

Are there men going to the london saunas wearing chastity cages? Or is that not a thing and frowned upon?

I’m a straight, 40 year old curious guy who is just exploring things these days. I went to Vault 139 for the first time on a Monday just after it opened at 1PM. I waited in the small park outside it until I’m pretty sure there are other people there. I love getting blowjobs. I enjoy getting my dick sucked. But I my only experiences are with women. Since I’m curious, I went in. I paid £14 and was given a box to store my things. I got my free drink and started to walk around. I was wearing a shirt and shorts and slippers. I saw men sucking each other and fucking each other in cubicles and in the seats. Now, I’m a southeast Asian guy. I don’t have a giant cock. Mine is just over 5 inches long. 😆 As I walk around, even after seeing cocks, sucking, and fucking, I couldn’t get my dick hard. I watched a guy suck another and I started to touch myself. I masturbated whilst watching. A guy a bit older than me approached me and held my hard dick. I think he was disappointed about the size and left after giving me a handjob for about 20 seconds.
I went everywhere there with my dick out just like the others. I stayed for about two hours and I got sucked once. I didn’t even come. While others get sucked multiple times by different men. I hardly got any action.
I wasn’t really disappointed but I found it funny. I’ve never seen so many penises in one day. Maybe size matters. Hahaha. I think having a dad bod and a not so big cock is not the most attention grabbing sight. Anyway, I may come back again just for the viewing and drinks. Everyone was nice though. Many touched me and gave me handjobs for maybe a minute or two but none sucked me. Maybe I’ll get lucky next time. 😆

I’m going to my first gay sauna on Friday. I would be lying if I said I’m not nervous

anyone been there me1 sauna Rochester) what’s it like been quite curious but kinds shy to go by myself?

So me and my bf ( me , 25 bottom and he 31 and a top) have been talking about making a trip to Northwich sauna at some point in the future.
He’s been before they changed it, I’ve never been a gay sauna before.

I was just wondering how the sauna experience is for couples who want to fuck their way through the facilities.

We’re obviously not opposed to maybe getting someone in and know that people would watch but just thought I’d ask. As my impression of saunas seem like they tailor to single people.

I’ve also taken a look at the website and saw a few things I wanna try like the swings and glory holes. But thought I’d ask and see if any recommendations.

Sorry if these are silly questions