My wife got me into it without realizing it . There was a few things she did brought up when we first started dating that got me into it .
I don’t know if I am alone with this, but my perception is that women are conditionedby society to not appear as sexual beings and to appear as nice, sweet, soft and very agreeable. Additionally, growing up I also was conditioned to believe that this is true.
Which made it even more intense when I first got to know how incredibly slutty women can be…I firmly believe that at least the wilder type of women is even sluttier and dirtier than man are. Which…of course was very shocking to me when I first got to know this. But in a good way…I absolutely loved it and it turned me on so much. And since date I have pretty mich exclusively dated slutty girls.
Maybe my first shock moment was when a girl I was seeing told me that she and her girls all cheated on their boyfriends during their vacation to Marbella some months earlier…and even had two guys there who were so amazing in bed that they got to fuck all four girls. She herself fucked five guys in 14 days and broke up with her boyfriend when she came home…some of the others were still in their relationships when she told me. It is so incredibly slutty and dirty to do such things….but omg it made me so horny, even though it really shocked me back then.
What was your first „shock“ moment of your hotpast journey?
A thought I keep coming back to, how these other guys saw her spread open for them afterwards. My wife (44) has a fairly neat little pussy, hangs open a little more than it used to and lips spread. After I fuck her I love seeing her laid back with legs lazily spread wide and her pussy open, engorged, lips spread, pink & wet and oozing cum down her crack, pooling on the bedsheets.
I love thinking about the guys that have seen this exact view, at her most vulnerable and exposed. Her longer term exes must’ve seen this hundreds of times. Her pussy has taken so many poundings, very very gradually aging and loosening. They may have started the fuck thinking what a neat little pussy and by the end her lips are hanging and spread.
In doggy too, if we’ve had a hard or long fuck and finish in doggy when I pull out I can see the gape, see her pink open hole and folds. And if I pull her cheeks up and apart I can see inside her cunt, like the cavity. I love that other guys may have held her open like this, seen their cum deep in her. And her just knelt or laid there exposed for them, well fucked and satisfied and now just on display. Open and fucked.
What are your favourite things to hear about from your wife or partner. And how did you first start talking about?
My top 3:
Don’t be shy. And girls. Has there ever been anything too juicy you’ve not told your partner about?
My girlfriend sprinkled in some details on her sexual past, but I never asked more details. I knew that before getting together with her (she was 20), she was pretty sexually active and took part in a MFF threesome, had sex at her work with her black manager, and would regularly have sex in her hand me down van in high school. Once she logged into her Xbox account and she was in a group chat of guys that she gamed with, and they were all begging in the chat to get more titty pictures (she has 38DD tits) Prior to me, she was dating a married man who was much older than her. She also shared in a bragging way that once she gave a blowjob to a guy who's cock was as big as her entire arm. I wish I asked her what it was like, or if she ended up fucking him too and getting details of that interaction.
A few years ago I learned that my girlfriend still occasionally texts and sends lewds/nudes to two of her ex boyfriends. I want to know what my girlfriend looks for in this and wonder if she still thinks of fucking them. I found some dick pics in her old phone and I wonder why she kept them in her phone. Finding all of this turned me on but I have never told my girlfriend. I'm not sure how to ask her to share her sexual past, I would love to hear about her previous experiences.
We’ve been steadily getting into hotpast more and more over the last year, and my wife is getting comfortable sharing details when we sext or fuck as she see’s how much it turns me on.
Well this past weekend, we visited her family beach house. Now she had mentioned before how she’d had some fun at the beach in her college years, but never gone into greater detail. Well this weekend I was bold and suggested on the drive there that “we have a rare opportunity where we can fuck while you tell me stories in a place that you were actually previously fucked!”
She was quiet for a few moments and then gave me a wry smirk “I hear you.”
What followed for the next few days was a cascade of stories about how she was fucked on a lifeguard stand, how she was giving handjobs at the beach as teases for the main event, and how she was trying to get a boyfriend inside her while in the ocean. She was generous with the details too, about how their cocks felt, how big they were etc.
It was a huge step forwards for us and some of the most playful and exciting sex!
I can’t wait for what’s next 🥵
She was on a solo trip to Jamaica after breaking up with her ex. They were supposed to go together but fell through obviously. She didn’t really go on the intent of hooking up just to relax and clear her headspace. Anywho she was hanging out at a beach bar at night and was having fun talking to other travelers and locals but there was a local that was eyeing and bought her a drink. She found him somewhat attractive but they ended up drinking more together and was dancing to the music. At one point she was grinding on him and was able to feel his boner through her shorts and got instantly wet. She asked if he had any plans and asked if he’d like to come home with her.
After getting back to her Airbnb they drink a lil more in the couch with her legs on his lap and he caressed her legs and she eventually started rubbing his crouch with her feet and they start to kiss then eventually she gets on her knees, pulls his pants down and start stroking and sucking his cock fitting as much as she could in her throat. She kept on gagging on it until she asks her to undress and they start fucking with her on top. It was fine until he flipped her to doggy and started ramming her like crazy and that’s when she was grabbing the sheets and started to moan/scream in pain but after awhile she was able to bare it and enjoy it while he was ramming her wall.
After that she hooked up with him for the rest of trip
In no particular order for my better half:
Fucking two men within a few hours of each other
Anal on the first date
Ass to mouth
Fucking in public
Multiple (dozens) of one night stands
Facial on a first date
Wife just shared this with me. Like yesterday, before she lost her virginity, she would tease guys just by dry humping or grinding on them. They would be fully clothed. The guys would be grabbing and squeezing her whole body. Making out, you name it. She said it would make her super horny to see all the guys being weak, losing control. The desire just made her soak wet. She said it was a fun experience for her. Sadly, after she lost her virginity, she stopped doing it.
I swear that so many of my wife’s stories involve her being in the water and wearing less than she normally does. The guy she fucked in a pool locker room, the other she fucked at a lake, what she did at the beach on vacation once….if she is wearing a bikini she is most certainly getting fucked. Anyone else?
I would love to go back in time and watch her suck and fuck the black guy she dated her second year in college. She doesn’t talk too much about him and when she does it’s mostly negative. All I get about him are snippets of how he was too big and how that made sex painful and uncomfortable rather than pleasurable. He was also a bit narcissistic and thought that his big dick was god’s gift to women.
I’d love to go back in time and watch her in action. I imagine going back in time sneaking into her room while they are fucking and watching her ride and enjoy his monster cock like a seasoned porn star. In my fantasy I find out she lied and she really couldn’t get enough of his monster cock.
One of the few times I wish she was lying to me.
My wife wasn’t a prude by any means but her previous sex life was also very vanilla. With the exception of a FWB while she was in between relationships, all of her stories were while in a long term relationship with one of 4 guys.
Body count in the single digits, no one night stand, no threesomes or gangbangs. Even the craziest stories involve the same dude, the marathon sex, the road head, the mile high handjob, all the same guy that she was in a long term relationship with.
Part of me is glad she wasn’t such a slut, but another part of me craves hearing a good MFM threesome or gangbang story.
My wife telling me this story was the first time I realized I was into hearing about her past exploits. Apparently she was at a graduation party and ran into her ex. They started talking at the party and he somehow convinced her to go back to his place.
Apparently the talking didn't last long, because they got naked pretty soon after getting there, and then her mouth was wrapped around his dick. She had sucked him/fooled around with him before, but never finished him (or fucked him). She decided to suck him clean, but didn't know how big loads are, so was really caught off guard with how much came out. She was a trooper and swallowed some of it, but couldn't handle it and ended up coughing the rest onto her chin/chest/hair. Oh what I would give to have been able to watch all of that go down.
Met my now wife five years ago. She's from a conservative country, olive skin, dark hair, exotic features, tight body, gorgeous but played the sweet, conservative, traditional but in no way religious girl. We started long distance and planned our first meet in a common city.
The first night: I walk into the hotel room and she immediately jumps me. Aggressive making out, stripping fast, pushing me onto the bed. I reach for a condom and she physically stops me, says she "doesn't use them," hates how they feel, wants me raw. Then proceeds to suck and fuck like a complete pro, deepthroating, riding me cowgirl with her tits in my face, arching her back, putting my hand on her neck to choke her while I fuck her. Then she swallows my entire load and tells me I'm the first guy she's ever done that for.
When I pushed about her past, she confessed 8 partners before me. I believed it at the time. Maybe because I wanted to. I heard she kept saying she only had guy friends, and had only a few boyfriends etc.
What I learned later: She spent years backpacking through Europe. Tons of stories about "traveling" but now I know what that meant. She loved to party, get drunk, did drugs in clubs. Partied hard across the continent. She also had trips to the US and other countries, always staying over at some "male friend's" house.
Last month I found her old laptop.
It confirmed what I already basically knew at this point:
- Mirror selfies in lingerie, topless bed shots, shower nudes sent to various guys
- Photo of her completely naked riding another man's cock cowgirl, tits bouncing, actively being fucked
- Doggy-style shots — her ass-up, back arched, naked on top of some guy while a third person took pics
And it wasn't just Europe. Found evidence she was getting passed around in her home country too — plenty of local guys, not just foreigners. Hotel meetups, car hookups, guys she "studied" with. She was a slut long before she ever got on a plane.
That "first time swallowing" line? **Bullshit.**That "8 partners" number? Complete bullshit. A girl who fucks like that, who has this volume of explicit content with different men, who partied across Europe, traveled to stay with "male friends" in the US, AND was the local cum-dumpster back home? She was a complete slut and I should have known the second she refused that condom and guided my hand to her throat.
She has no idea I found everything. She still thinks I believe the 8 partners story.
I'm fucking find it hot. Knowing this gorgeous exotic woman I married was a documented slut for half the world, that she let multiple men photograph her, pass her around, use her holes both abroad and at home, it gets me hard every time. I jerk off to the thought of her past almost as much as I fuck her present.
Anyone else surprise discover their wife's wild past and can't get enough of it?
She said they were hanging out in her boyfriend’s bedroom and the guys told the girls to get naked. They were either topless or nude and they made fun of how small her boobs were. Both girls started making out with the men, her with her boyfriend.
After a bit he threw her onto his friend and wanted to make out with her friend. They took the guy’s clothes off and she sucked off his friend while her friend sucked her boyfriend. She started to ride his friend and her boyfriend pulled her over to suck his dick while he made out with her friend. Other guy was being left out so he fucked her from behind while she sucked her boyfriend’s dick. Her boyfriend was still making out with her friend.
The guys didn’t cum and then her and her boyfriend went to another room to fuck since the guys couldn’t cum in front of each other. She fucked him and he came. Not sure if her friend and the other guy fucked or did more.
My wife once told me about her ex’s intense craving for exhibitionism. During one of their camping and hiking trips, he bought her a pair of tiny souvenir shorts that barely covered more than her underwear, the fabric so short it rode up between her cheeks with every step. He made her wear them with an oversized t-shirt that hung loose but did little to hide the curve of her ass or the flash of skin when she moved.
Every time they stopped to fill the car, he insisted she be the one to walk into the gas station and pay. She said the thin shorts clung to her, leaving the lower half of her cheeks completely exposed as she crossed the forecourt. The breeze kept lifting the hem of the shirt just enough that anyone looking got a clear view of how little she had on underneath.
Coming from a strict South Asian family, she had never shown that much skin before, not even overseas. Standing there in the bright station lights, feeling strangers’ eyes on her bare thighs and the barely-there shorts, it felt completely forbidden. She admitted the mix of embarrassment and the way her pulse raced under all that attention still stuck with her years later.
Those key moments from her past are made infinitely more sexy when I think about the connection she had with the guy, specifically the eye contact.
It may be with a longer term boyfriend, him on top making love to her looking into each others eyes and saying “I love you” as he ups the pace towards their climax.
It may be her riding a guy, looking down at him as he writhes in pleasure from her, reaching up and grabbing her big tits as she grinds on his cock. She sees the pleasure in his eyes and he tells her he’s going to cum. The smile in her eyes as she rides harder and faster knowing she is going to get a big load any minute. Fuck.
Or her bent over in the kitchen or living room getting fucked hard from behind, looking back over her shoulder and looking him in the eyes. Her strained eyes. Maybe telling him how good he is, how big he feels, or that she’s close, or to fuck her harder, or asking if he will cum in her.
Her laid on her back, legs spread and looking down at a guy lapping away at her wet open pussy. Watching him work. She tells him she’s close, keep going, there, there, yes. She holds his eye contact as he brings her closer, she straining, on the edge, eyes intensely looking at him. He holds her gaze as he brings her over the edge, loudly moaning for him, thighs shaking, cumming for him….and looking into each others eyes.
The time will inevitably come when she will run out of stories, when she’s already told you everything. Is there a particular story you always go back to that always turns you on?
For me it‘s the time her college bf decided to take a little blue pill on a weekend trip. They ended up having sex 6 times back to back in one night stopping only to get a drink of water.
I had a guy come to the house yesterday to work on a heating issue in our bedroom's walk-in closet. I had made the arrangements a few days earlier and my wife was at work yesterday when he arrived. He did a great job and was very professional.
So my wife gets home from work just before he was finishing up. She comes upstairs and into our bedroom while I'm talking with the guy and sees him and says, "Oh, hi ____. I didn't know it was you coming to work here."
He looked surprised and happy to see her. They had a pleasant exchange and my wife mentioned how she sees him at the bank where she works. A lot of people recognize my wife from work so I didn't think anything of it.
After he left my wife then told me she knew him from back before she worked where she is now. I asked how she knew him and she gave me "the look." I knew instantly where this was going. What a rush of emotions. I was getting nervous and excited, turned on and just a tad jealous.
My wife then proceeds to tell me she had a one-night stand with him and explained which one he was. I knew the story as I had heard it before, but now I had a face to attach to it.
She met him on a night out with friends at a bar and got flirting with him. He was in the military and visiting home briefly. He's a big guy, muscular, just the type that she liked to hook up with for casual sex. He invited her and her friend and boyfriend she was out with to a party he was going to and my wife and her friends went. As the night was winding down my wife indicated to her friend that she was going to take this guy home.
They started going at it once they got to my wife's place. She took him to her bedroom and got on her knees for him and sucked his dick. My wife then got a condom from her nightstand, he put it on, and they got to fucking. She was bent over, presenting herself for him and he railed her from behind to a nice orgasm. He came in the condom and they fell asleep.
The next morning they woke up and he was rock hard. My wife stroked him and sucked his dick until he came again: this time all over her mouth.
I am kind of amazed at how cool my wife was able to play it when she walked in a saw some guy she had a wild one-night stand with in her bedroom doing work for her husband. The guy definitely looked very surprised to see her. I guess he hadn't noticed any of the pictures of us in the house. Then again, he was pretty much just up and down the steps and straight to our closet the whole time.
To top it off, my wife and I planned on going out to eat afterward instead of cooking at home since we didn't know how long he would take or how involved things would get. Needless to say, I had a hard time concentrating on anything else the rest of the evening and just couldn't stop thinking of my wife coming home from work, looking all professional and sexy to find a past fling in our house. She knew what was going through my mind and she was subtly teasing me all evening. Finally when we got home we had some absolutely incredible sex!
So I (23F) and my bf (24M) have been together for about two years now, when we first got together we didn’t have sex for a few months and when we finally did I automatically said “round 2?” And he got really weird and made a “joke” along the lines of “idk what you’re used to but I need some time to re fuel” I laughed but I got weirded out.
Later that night he asked me how many ppl I had been with I said around 10 he got upset and asked me questions about the guys, what race were they, where did I meet them blah blah blah. I was honest and he got upset I could tell it was bothering him. It kept getting brought up until one night when we got home from the bar he asked me about my past while I was sucking his dick. I was drunk so I went with it and he loved it he came in my mouth so so much. It started with a story here and there and now we’ve had a threesome with another guy once and things are going really good lol.