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26 [F4M] #Central BBW looking to have some fun!! :)

I've had success posting here before, so I'm looking again. If I missed your message from one of my previous posts, apologies!

I'm 26, 5'4ish, BBW and searching for a fwb situation :) I am brunette, have dark brown eyes and can be shy at first but playful once I’m comfortable.

I'm looking for an older man and honestly, the older the better. Confidence and experience are a huge turn on for me :) I am on the submissive side and enjoy a man who can take charge. I'm looking to have fun and explore things kinkwise. Not interested in a one time thing!

It's really important that you can host and I don't mind hotels.

If you're interested, please DM me with a bit about yourself (more than a ‘hi’) and I'd appreciate a SFW photo early on too! :)

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u/Disastrous_Start_597 — 11 hours ago
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40 [M4A] #central looking for late night fun 1st week of June

Visiting on business and staying in a hotel. Looking for a (very discreet!) late night hookup in my hotel. Will stay close-ish to angel tube station. Depending on when i'm done with work and related things I'd be looking to meet quite late, most probably around or after 23:30.

I'm a married and secretly bi guy, 50 yo, European/caucasian, and into any gender, as long as we 'click' well beforehand. As I'm serious and not looking for fakers or time wasters we'd chat a bit on here, and then move to whatsapp if the trust and mutual interest+possibility is there.

On our encounter I'm not looking for anything social as the main goal is to enjoy ourselves and go our own ways after. Penetration can be on the menu if you're into it and have a vagina; if not it typically will not happen for me on a first date. If you're super femme I might get tempted 😄 If it does happen it's always protected.

I very much enjoy playing with each other and mutual oral. If you're only into giving or receiving, I will most probably not be interested.

I'm into any body type as long as we hit it off. I myself am pretty regularly built, well endowed, have a tummy that needs a little bit of shrinking, and am of below average height.

Optionally I'm into panties, but that doesn't need to be part of this if they're not your thing. Should you want to ask if i'm bringing any: i won't but you are welcome to wear or bring 😉

Lastly and importantly, I'm not looking to waste my time, and i'm serious about meeting up. That does not mean I'm OK to meet after two or three messages. Building up to the date is part of the fun. I'll be upfront if I don't see it happening, and hope you are the same level of seriousness. As this is for both our enjoyment, any pay date is out of the question.

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u/hotr — 6 hours ago

28 [F4M] #Canarywharf - looking for submissive well hung M into ballbusting (Max 34)

Looking for a unique experience with a well hung M into ballbusting during our trip to London from the 25th to 27th. This will be like a random encounter scenario with small talk that could lead to ballbusting and eventually sex. Please let us know if you’re interested. She has lots of fantasies but wants them to feel realistic and normal so it has to be someone who is dark minded about ballbusting and as mentioned well hung and fit.

Must be no more then 34

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u/Objective-Upstairs36 — 13 hours ago

24 [MF4M] #Hackney doubleteam my fwb

Sup lads, looking for a chill straight bro around my age to smash my slut with. Spitroast, Eiffel Tower, ideally DP/double BJ too. Proper rough shagging, just using her holes to empty our balls and have a laugh together. hmu if you're down 👊

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u/boyswillbeboys01 — 22 hours ago

29 [F4M] #SE Looking for company

Preferably handsome, white and single.
Chances of things going nsfw soon is less.
I know these factors contradict, but here goes my self control test. But I do wanna explore life a bit outside my mundane blue schedule.
I’m single, working professional and kind of an introvert.
Rest of the details will be given if I find you interesting?

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18 [F4M] #North looking for fwb

Big on cuddling and kissing, if it leads to me it’s fine as well. I prefer someone who’s muscular and couple years older than me (never too old) & able to hold a conversation. I like being picked up aswell.You must be able to host pls :)

I’m 5’6, 68kg, brown skin with curly black hair, blessed in both areas;), willing to verify

A pic if I accept ur request would be perfect

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u/Unlucky_Silver_561 — 2 days ago

19 [F4M] #Central recently got cheated on and could really use some help with a little “project.” i'm open for threesome too!

boyfriend just cheated me and i need to get back at him. he’s the only other guy i’ve been with so my skills might be limited. lmk, u must be able to pick me up bc i don’t have my license! need to get back at my ex for cheating. if u've got a nice dick that i can put in my mouth, i’d love to chat. dms r open!

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u/NewHedgehog8442 — 2 days ago
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25 [M4F] #West Looking to cheat

Hey all!

In a commited relationship, but missing the fun and excitement that's out there, so figured I'd turn to Reddit to find some discreet fun on the side.

A little about me, I'm 6ft1, built like a rugby player, so can definitely throw you around lol. Huge nerd, and own my own aerospace startup, so I'm constantly stressed and needy someone to take it out on 😌

Anyways, hope to hear from you soon 😄

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u/ResonantGamer_ — 1 day ago
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38 [M4F] #SE in person cock rating

This is something I have been thinking about a bit recently, I love the idea of having you rate my cock, it’s certainly not the biggest, but I’m pretty happy with it, and I’ve never had any complaints, and I’d love to get your feedback.

I’m pretty open as to how this would play out, but something along the lines of meeting up somewhere public for a vibe check, and then either find somewhere nice and quite, or back to mine or yours. Once there, I get myself hard and then there would be no obligation for you to do anything other than just judge it.

However if you liked what you saw and would then like more then I would be happy to play.

Happy to share either SFW or NSFW photos to verify

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u/Athletic_rider_ — 2 days ago

32 [F4M] #Central – let’s risk an awkward Friday night dinner?

Hello! I’m currently visiting London and have come to the groundbreaking realisation that eating dinner alone makes me look like a tragic main character in a indie film. I like that most of the time, but not this week.

I’m looking for someone to join me this Friday for a proper meal, decent banter, and if we don't actively despise each other by dessert, seeing where the night leads.

The vital statistics:
- I’m Asian, 5’1”, and structurally sound (good proportions, if we’re being technical).
- I’m a writer, which means I am contractually obligated to prevent awkward silences, even if I have to start inventing folklore to fill the gaps.
- I live in Amsterdam, but I’m currently in London until the end of the week.

What I’m hoping for (bravado aside):
- Ideally, you are reasonably easy on the eye. Let's not set the bar at "supermodel”, but "doesn't scare small children" is a solid baseline.
- Please possess at least one genuine hobby. If your primary pastime is doomscrolling, you'll need to pitch me the most unhinged thing you've read this week to qualify.
- Chemistry is entirely unpredictable. If we sit down and realise the spark is aggressively absent, there will be no dramatic scenes. We will simply finish our food, politely acknowledge the lack of magic, and part ways like civilised adults.

I’m more than happy to swap photos once we chat to ensure we’re both visually aligned. If you’re a local (or a fellow traveller) who knows a decent restaurant or you fancy a light debate about books or travel, hit me up.

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u/ritualsinrepeat — 4 days ago

22 [F4A] #Uxbridge looking for a friend

Hello,

So I am not exactly from London, but I'll be in London from July 19th for the Brunel University summer camp. So I was thinking of making a friend or close companion whom I'd known in that area as well as we can hang out together, chill or have coffee or walk, we can decide later. A little about me is that I am a massive bookworm and Potterhead, and I write HP fanfictions too. Just don't be a creep. Also someone local would be nice. Thanks.
Edit: PEOPLE, I'm not here for your porn!

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u/Fearless-One665 — 3 days ago

28 [F4A] #Central Looking for some fun next week!

I've got a pretty specific time slot. Will be in the city next Thursday evening, 28th May. I am planning on booking a hotel, probably central but can figure out the details.

I'll be travelling into the city after work so likely won't be available until around 8pm onward.

Maybe we can grab a drink beforehand but to put it bluntly, I want to be fucked. I'd say I'm bicurious and definitely open to having my first experience with a woman so open to all!

We can get into preferences but I'm definitely sub leaning. Age preference would be 25-40 ish. I have pictures on my profile of my body type + can verify/send face pics once the vibe has been established!

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u/here-for-now-1 — 4 days ago

21 [F4A] #Central /North Lets chill tonight?

Hi!

This my not be the typical post y'all have here, apologies for that. I've just had a fairly long week, and I have a little bottle of wine I would like to drink tonight(its not even a fancy bottle or anything). Drinking alone feels awfully depressing, and the club on a wednesday night is not really my scene. Would anyone be interested in going to Primrose hill/Regent's park around 9pm, and just chat and have a drink? Or bring a book along and we don't even have to talk. or play some nice music and chill? I'm open to most chill stuff and am very easy to talk to. Please DM.

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u/Ok_Algae_136 — 3 days ago

28 [F4M] #North For Male Sub

Princess new to dommeing looking to explore with subs of all ages, strong preference for athletic men with full lives who are intelligent and kind.

I am 5'7, black hair brown eyes and black skin, athletic hourglass figure.

I will always respect your boundaries and expect similar.

I'd love to explore cuckholding, findom and general submission - there's a lot of room for us to explore.

Attraction is paramount so please be ready to exchange pics early on. Please message with a bit about yourself, what you enjoy inside and outside the bedroom and your dream dynamic.

💋

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u/Unusual-Sun6906 — 3 days ago

27 [M4F] #Central – Dominant, attractive and fit man looking for good submissive girl

27, 6’0 attractive, fit. Can provide pics to verify and expect you to do so too.

I like taking control and being dominating. Looking for submissive woman to explore with.

I can host in central London.

IMPORTANT!!
If you are not able or comfortable to send pics to verify, do not message me.

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u/Time-Ice-7072 — 3 days ago

19 [F4M] #central south asian int student looking for someone similar and preferably older

Im new to the country, well not new but its been a few months and its so lonely, i went on a date and i found no emotional or relatability with someone white, even though he was very good looking, so im now thinking i should prioritise dating men from south asia to see if it works or not.

Please please do tell me how old you are and where in south asia are you from

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u/Bitter_Pop247 — 3 days ago

30 [F4M] #North London someone to regularly hangout with

Hi 😊

I’m looking for someone to regularly talk to, get to know properly, and hopefully eventually meet if we vibe well. Not really into one-word conversations or people who disappear after a day — I genuinely enjoy building connections, whether that turns into friendship, dating, or just having someone to share random daily things with.

About me:
• Southeast Asian / Filipina 🇵🇭
• Based in London
• 5’3
• Plus size and confident about it ✨

I’ve actually met a few really lovely people from Reddit before, and some of them turned into genuine long-term friends, so I thought I’d give this another shot.

I’m pretty easygoing and enjoy doing fun casual activities like:
🏸 Badminton
🎱 Pool
🎮 Arcades
🎬 Cinema dates/movie nights
🍜 Trying new food spots
☕ Late night talks and random chats

I can be quite talkative once I’m comfortable, and I appreciate people who can hold conversations and match energy. I enjoy humour, teasing banter, and people who are emotionally intelligent and kind.

You can probably get a better idea of my preferences from my previous posts as well 👀

If you message me, please send:
• Your age
• Where you’re based
• A little bit about yourself
• Maybe your hobbies/interests or what you’re looking for

“Hi”, “hello”, or low-effort messages will most likely be ignored 😘

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u/Sapiosexual_attracts — 4 days ago

28 [F4M] #ne - free house for the week looking for someone to get sexy with meeee

I have a whole house to myself for the week and am hornyyyyyy.

Let’s meet for a drink nearby and see if there’s a good vibe going. I like music, watching doctor who hundreds of times, reading and yapping with my friends.

Message me a bit about yourself! I am looking for hotties (men or women) who will pleasure me and make me feel good. Have a few toys and fun things to experiment with if you’re down.

Looking forward to hearing from you :)

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u/thecurvesonthisbitch — 5 days ago

27 [F4M] #East London Looking for my Romanian beau

Hello fellow Londoners!

I'm Fi, a 27F medical student and bartender, currently living in London due to uni

I'm aware that what I'm looking for is rather niche, but I feel a real affinity with Romania as a country, and with Romanian people

I want to meet a sweet Romanian guy to date seriously, and maybe settle down with. I'm sick of dating apps haha

Feel free to slide into my messages 😁

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u/theeclecticwriter — 5 days ago

32 [F4M] #East London

Afternoon all looking for a someone to go for a coffee with and a nice walk around the park and just have a casual chat :)

Live in east London which isn’t the best place.. plus it’s a Sunday so not much going on round here…

Looking for friendship and fun :) x

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u/Mountain-Plastic-875 — 7 days ago