Type of couple/hubby's I come across!
Just wanted to throw a post out here about something I’ve noticed after being in the lifestyle for a bit.
It feels like almost every couple or husband I talk to fits into a few specific categories. Figuring this out early saves a ton of time when you're trying to see if you actually align.
Here is what I usually run into:
The Virtual Chatters: Husbands who just want a high-energy, lusty text chat. Usually has a pretty heavy sub/bottom vibe. Personally, I’m just not into this. I'm looking for real-life connections, so I pass on these.
The Text Trainers: Couples who want "cuckold training" or coaching, but strictly over text. They want someone to tell them what to do, but it’s 100% online and they never actually want to meet up.
The Voyeurs: Husbands who love watching everything happen from the corner of the room but stay completely hands-off.
The Stags: Super hyped-up guys who love talking up their partner. They get a massive thrill just seeing them happy and satisfied.
The Shared Experience Couples: They want everyone involved. Mutual chemistry across the board is a must for them.
Strictly Business: They just want a clean, physical setup. No emotional strings, no drama, and pretty much zero small talk afterward.
For me, being upfront about what I want helps filter out the online-only chatters and virtual trainers pretty quickly, as I focus on real-world chemistry.