r/pleasureland_Oc

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Is it worth going that way or am I waisting my timeslutty cross dress

Okay ladies (and honest husbands) I’m genuinely curious…

How common is it in the lifestyle for a husband to have a regular “jerk bud” or solo play friendship outside of full swaps? Not talking about random hookups, but like that one guy he always ends up texting when I’m out of town, busy, or not in the mood 😅

I feel like this probably happens WAY more than people admit, especially in more open-minded swinger relationships. Some of it honestly seems kinda hot to me 🥵 but I’m curious if this is actually a normal lifestyle thing or more of a quiet fantasy/side dynamic people don’t openly talk about.

Would love to hear real experiences from couples who’ve navigated this. Or some people that woudl be interested in something like this, Honestly I think it would drive me crazy knowing he had a guy over using a pair of my panties while they sat back and stroked their cocks watching some porn 😅 and I don’t even know if I’d be able to control myself if I accidentally walked in on it 👀 I'd definitely stand in front of them like this for at least a minute 😘