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27 [ftm4m] #queens - looking for friends/fwb

27, black, 5'0" pre-op masc FTM looking for someone to chill with. 420 friendly and down to game/watch movies/etc.. open to nsfw if it gets there

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u/ftmfacial1233 — 2 days ago
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53 [F4M]#Brooklyn Cute, Asian, Divorced Mom Seeks Kindness & Release

Mature and Attractive. Gym 3+ times a week. Seeks kindness and service from a SWM. It has been over 12 months since I have been with a man due to some family circumstances that have distracted me mentally from focusing on dating. I seek a kind man who is reasonably attractive and kind and loves to be of service. Seeking gentle touches, receiving oral and penetration if all goes well. If you can give a decent massage- a bonus.

I am happy to explain why I am posting this when we talk. Be willing to connect via phone, exchange a face pic after we chat and meet near my home in BK but in public- to be safe for everyone.

I would describe myself as attractive, looking younger than my age, feminine and curvy but not thin. Great skin. Long hair. Very personable and sane.

Ideally, you are a SWM age 30-55 and reasonably attractive, kind, educated, socially sound and confident and someone who likes to please. Having a sense of humor, a reasonable level of emotional intelligence and respect is a must.

I am looking for tonight, Sunday or Wednesday.

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u/throwawayBK123 — 3 days ago
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33 [M4F] #Brooklyn nyc - looking for an extra single guy to join my girlfriend,I & an extra female for a group fun.

Must be mobile if you aren't in our borough.

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u/CC_Inquiry — 2 days ago
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21 [F4M] #NYC fat Latina gives good head and rims

Young fat Latina girl looking for mutually pleasurable experience, can be one time or on going but you need clean test results. I love sucking dick and rimming. I can be dominate or submissive. I’m down for car play but I cannot host nor will I pay for a room. Located in queens. Open to all races and body types, preference to indian men. Message me for pics

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u/HoneyPrudent852 — 3 days ago
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[F4A] 29 #Manhattan Rainy Night Makeout?

Looking for preferably alt/artsy/quirky to get cozy with in this rain? especially outside, it feels so nice after this crazy heat today.

Plus, BIPOC, degen and cute af

Yap about your nerdy interests in between breaths

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u/throwitonthecurb — 4 days ago
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46 [M4F] NYC handsome/hung looking for someone younger

Me: 46, 6ft, handsome, blonde hair, blue eyes, works white collar office job, hung, don’t take myself too seriously, and normal.

Looking to have some discreet NSA fun with a younger woman. I’ve met a couple amazing girls from this site, so hoping I get lucky again. I don’t really have a type, but bonus points if you have dark features (brown hair, eyes, skin). Please just don’t be crazy. Also, if you have a completely blank profile, a little background in you opening message would be nice. (Sorry, not into couples).

More NSFW pics on my profile if you’re interested.

https://i.redgifs.com/i/bluedrearylocust.jpg

u/thickbrush — 4 days ago
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40 [M4M] #NYC - Curious Man Looking to Experiment

So basically, I have only had sexual interactions with women up to this point in my life, but I have been curious lately about experimenting a bit and trying new things. In particular, I am really curious about meeting up with safe, clean people and having a chance to practice giving blowjobs. I have never done this before, so I’m a little nervous and shy to say the least, but equally eager to try it out.

About me, I’m 40, live in NYC (Manhattan, but I can meet anywhere in the city), safe and clean, I have never had a disease or STD in my life. Ideally, I would want to meet another guy in the 25-45 range, but that’s not a definitive rule. It’s more important to me that we get along well and just have a good chemistry.

I’m NOT looking for anything anal related, at least not for now, I just want to experiment orally and maybe playing together in other ways. Would also be open to receiving oral, but we can see how it goes, no pressure on that.

Reach out to me if you have any questions, are serious, and are safe and clean. I am more than happy to send photos, I just don’t want to post them on here for privacy reasons. Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/DriftingTony — 5 days ago
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25[ftm4m]#manhattan - smoke n smash a cuntboy

Hey I’m a 25 year old trans guy looking to be used tomorrow. I’m Black and passing with long hair, I’ve got a beard and I’ve had top surgery but not bottom.

Looking for a guy who wants to use me. I get so wet whenever I’m high especially from edibles ngl and I love the thought of a guy just using me over and over while I get higher and higher.

I’m going to be in the city tomorrow(Wednesday) around 35th street so I’m looking for someone to host around midtown or below since I live in Brooklyn. I’ll be free after about 8/9 pm so I’m looking for something later in the night.

Other kinks I’m into are: bondage, spanking, rape play, dp, degradation / humiliation, daddies

I’m not into; misgendering, choking, scat/piss, pain anal.

Your pic gets mine. Looking for tmr only

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u/tboy9998 — 7 days ago
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30 [F4M] #NYC - Are FWB Still a Thing?

Hi there!

Looking for someone fun and easygoing—open to chats, hanging out, and something casual and more if there’s a good vibe.

Me, I’m black, fit with a booty šŸ‘ you’ll want to grab, easy to talk to, love to flirt, and enjoy warm weather. So looking forward to this summer!

You, I’d say asian guys are my absolute weakness. But also open to others! If you’re fit/in shape and attentive in the bedroom, then I’m probably already excited for what’s to come next.

So, if can hold a convo—with good banter — please say hello!

FYI- I don’t mind being picky - zero & low effort messages will automatically be deleted, and be willing to trade photos to gage interest :). Looking forward to you!

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u/winknsmilex — 10 days ago
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26 brown chubby [F4M] in #Queens looking to get groped

So I'll be visiting new york next week and I am trying to get my groping fantasy fulfilled. I'm south asian and chubby so if you are not into that please move along. I need a man who understands boundaries and has a frisky pair of hands that can take care of my sensitive nipples. I'm not looking for penetration but I would prefer to feel something big in your pants. Hope you know how to treat the kitty too!

I'm into anime, city adventures and šŸƒšŸ˜¶ā€šŸŒ«ļø. I would love a pervy tour guide who just can't keep his hands off me while showing me around the city.

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u/yappingyapper5000 — 11 days ago
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Hey all! First, heres (some of, sfw-ish) me:Ā https://imgur.com/a/m-8NrMNxM

I can't tell if the dating apps are worse than ever, but after the last few folks i've seen i'm taking a break to just focus on work and hobbies; i'm super busy in the era of 9/9/6 anyways, for better or worse, but from time to time i'd love to have someone chill to chat with, check out new restaurants, and, assuming there's mutual attraction, have fun. I guess this is just a proxy to a dating app with more clear intentions. I feel like there must be women out there who are kind of in a similar spot?

Me: East asian, 5'8, pretty active at the gym and with active hobbies in my free time, youthful, probably average-ish looks, a bit edgier and snarkier than first apperances might suggest. I'm easy-going but pretty career focused and ambitious, and just as happy to sit around bantering and being unserious as i am to talk about philosophy, politics (i'm quite left, to the extent that matters), or life. Kind of a gets-into-rabbitholes kind of person whether it be more academic things like history and science as more totally useless things like interior decoration and tiny homes or cold cases and mysteries. I like to travel when i can and last year went to Europe and Asia, without being too specific.

I'd love to show by not tell but, uh, you know, this isn't a dating app with prompts so that's a bit weird, so ill say that generally i think most people who know me would say i'm quite witty and fun to chat to about mostly anything.

It's generic i guess, but I also do love me some checking out new restaurants in the city and just generally exploring the city, but as i hit my 30's and a lot of friends move out of the city or are getting married, and I on the other hand am presently single and ass deep in work, don't get to do as much of that as i'd like. And while it's fun to go out to bars and on dates, sometimes i kind of miss the more relationship type "let's just hang out and grind TV and eat snacks".

So that's a bit about me, and what i'm looking for. Obviously posting here so the hope is there's mutual physical attraction and potentially meeting up, but i'd want to chat a bit first. Clean, DDF, etc etc., and expect the same. I'm relatively on the dominant side, like rough sex, and am open to kinks and trying new stuff, but, as cheesy as it is to say, i'm kind of past theĀ totally randomĀ hook up phase in my life and prefer more regular partners that i actually have like, some chemistry with.
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You: If you read all that, cheers - ideally you're in your 20's or 30's, have some passions/interests in life, shorter than me lol, and in decent shape. Otherwise, mostly we'd have to see if we have good vibes and i get along with a wide variety of people, so it comes down a lot to if we hit it off. If you're quite shy or introverted that would not be a good fit.

If you're interested, chat me and ideally tell me a little bit about you, and if this post is still up, i'm still looking - have a good weekend all!

u/xVqXhfcAtEP — 9 days ago
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29 [M4A] #Queens - Anyone want to help with my fantasy?

Horny handsome guy looking for someone to help fulfill my fantasy of you coming by, joining me in the stairwell of my building and having some quick sneaky fun. Please be DDF, send me age/stats and what you might want to do yourself!

Open to something casual but longer term if we hit it off, can occasionally host.

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u/GoldenFillet — 9 days ago
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31 [t4m] #bushwick #ridgewood #queens #brooklyn- athletic cd with nice fat ass- any curious guys need to bust one?

I can host in Ridgewood Queens near Bushwick- looking for now until 2-3am. Down to host curious guys who need to bust one- also down with bulls who know how to give it nice and deep. Hit me up.

Ok with first timers.

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u/FatBubbleCD — 10 days ago
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28 [F4M] #Brooklyn - soccer, sun, and fun

Hey! I’ve been a regular poster here over the years and have had a lot of successes. I’m looking for someone to consistently meet up with. I’m very wordy but I’ll try to keep this concise.

I’m a 5’7ā€ Latina, living in Brooklyn. Weigh 175 (and losing but still chubby). I have colorful hair and a good amount of face piercings. Also have some tattoos and plan on getting more in the future. Into all things artsy, painting, drawing, crafting, music, art shows, etc. This summer I’m looking to be outside, whether at the beach or at the park having a picnic. Also really into the World Cup, so I’d love to find someone to go to watch parties with!!

I am very much in search of an actual connection with someone. I like to learn about someone, what they like, what they value, etc. As meaningful as that stuff is to me, physical attraction is also important. I am most into tall (5’8+), Latino men, 25-38 years old. All bodies are nice, but I do have a stronger preference for muscular/dad bods/chubby guys. I think mutual attraction is important and ask to exchange pics early on. Also I get quite a few DM’s from other women or couples, sorry but I’m 100% straight!

I want to focus more on getting to know someone than putting labels on things but I’m looking for something casual to begin with. I’m open to things developing and becoming more. I’m also openly dating right now so open to connections of all sorts.

Hope to hear from some cool people!

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u/blvdf_ — 11 days ago
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35 [F4M] #NYC seeking long term Dom

Hi šŸ’• I’m looking for a IRL Dom with a steady hand, a quick mind, and just enough mischief to keep me on my toes. I looking for someone that can help me turn off my brain and make me surrender to them. Bonus if you’re to mental submission. I crave a mix of being treated like an absolute slut one day and cuddle and pampered the next - only if I’m good šŸ˜‰

What I look like- I’m tall (5’11) professional black woman, plus size with big breast and a nice ass. Looking for a Dom that’s taller than me. I’m attentive, playful, and appreciate structure with room for spontaneity. Not here for games… unless you’re the one setting the rules. Let’s create something fun, kinky, and a little addictive.

My kinks: Some of my kinks include: breath play, impact play, cock worship, toys, public play, bondage, edging, wax play, body writing, free use and CNC

I tend to lean more towards being a service sub with a few bratty moments. I enjoy great conversations, gardening, reading, music festivals, binge watching shows, and outdoor activities.

Im not looking for hookup. I would like something consistent and see where it goes

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u/ObjectiveCycle1350 — 13 days ago
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29 [m4m] #NYC - DL buddy

Need a DL guy who can be a friend and also fool around. Into BJ,HJ,JO together and edging. Verse bottom if it gets to that.

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u/Specialist-Post2306 — 13 days ago
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38 [M4A] good looking, chill dude seeking like-minded hot person #Brooklyn

Bi married white guy. 7inch cut cock. Always horny. Would love to chat with a hot guy or girl. Maybe meet up. If Guy, prefer white or black, hot, and bi.

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u/Express_Dealer8323 — 13 days ago