r/r4rSeattle

28 [F4M] Let’s hang out! You can dote on me and grope me in your car :)

Heyyy~ I’m looking for a new friend who is chill and discreet near North Seattle.

You: Charming, dominant, and good at all kinds of smooth talk. Tall (pref 6’+) and strong/fit. You like girls with a bit of squish and something to grab onto. Capable of being soft and gentle, but confident with roughness/intensity with clear communication. Maybe you have some experience as a dom. You have a car and you’re willing to drive.

Me: Petite, curvy, mixed race, and alt. A bit bashful but easily aroused. 420/alcohol friendly. I cannot host and would prefer daytime hangouts for now. I’m looking to have a nice time, not trying to change either of our situations. Public vibe check first is preferred but I’m open to ideas.

Both of us are DDF/STI-tested and do not use hard drugs. Depending on how things go, we will use protection unless discussed otherwise.

If you’re interested please HMU! Tell me your age and why we’d be a good fit ;) Bonus points if you send a recent pic. Help me shut my brain off for an afternoon and let me melt in your arms.

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u/lilncurvy — 11 hours ago

30 [MF4M] Adventurous couple looking for a third encounter

Hello there, newly wedded couple looking for a third adventure. We got married early in the year and we don’t want our sexual life to get boring, we are both in good shape and looking for a third who is interested in a tag team, you and I take wife on

Among other things wife enjoy the most is we being busy on her, enjoying the flow. we are clean and tested so should you too be, anyone is up to standard as long as you are a bit experienced

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u/Similar-Bother5229 — 10 hours ago
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48 [M4M] Central District married guy just needs a JO bud.. for now..

I’m a relaxed, nerdy, married bi guy in the central district near Jefferson and 23rd. My wife says it’s ok for me to find a JO bud. I’m hoping to find someone sane and honest to kick back and enjoy being nude and stroking together. Potentially open to other situations if the vibe is right, but that’s all I’m looking for at the moment. Anybody on my neighborhood? Let’s chat!

I’ve got pictures I can share and love to show off, too. 😁

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u/BZandCat — 1 day ago

44 [F4A] visiting soon looking to make new connections

Will be visiting soon for a few weeks and would love to connect with someone local and discrete. Not looking for drama please be near Tacoma or willing to come near me. I’m mature and a working professional so would prefer someone similar. I’m outgoing, love to stay active, go out, being outdoors, and just having fun wherever I go. Tell me about you in your message and let’s get to know each other.

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u/TwoOwn9425 — 2 days ago

23 [M4F] - Verified - Seattle/West Seattle, a couple weeks ago I met a girl on here

A couple weeks ago, I met a girl on here. She was 19, cute, shy, feminine, and had that submissive energy I like. We started with a few messages, some teasing, and that quiet tension where you can tell pretty fast both people are curious.

We met, clicked pretty fast, and ended up messing around. She was soft at first, but curious, and once she got comfortable, it was easy for me to lead. Nothing felt forced. It just built naturally.

Last week, we realized we actually went to the same gym, one that had a jacuzzi, so we said why not train together and cool down there after. The workout itself was normal, but the tension was still there. Little looks, teasing between sets, standing a little closer than we needed to.

When we finished, we went to the pool area for the post workout cooldown. There were a couple people in the pool, but the jacuzzi was empty, so we had it to ourselves. At first we were just sitting close, talking, letting the heat settle in. Then the teasing started again.

My hand was on her thigh first, slow and relaxed. She got quieter, leaned into me more, and didn’t move away when my hand went higher. I kept it slow, teasing over her first, feeling how her body reacted before doing anything more. Then I pressed a little firmer against her clit, just enough to make her breath catch, backed off, teased her again, and let her sit in that tension. She shifted closer, opened up more, and I took my time there too, teasing her hole before my fingers finally slipped inside her.

I kept going slow at first, steady enough to make her lose that shy composure. Her breathing changed, her body got tense against me, and she kept trying to stay quiet while I kept my hand right where she wanted it. Then I stopped being so gentle with it. I pressed harder, kept the rhythm steady, and she started shifting more against my hand like she couldn’t help it. Every time she tried to hold herself still, her body gave her away. She was leaning into me, gripping close, barely containing the sounds she was trying not to make.

By the time she came, she was already right on the edge. Her whole body tensed, then shook over my hand while she tried to stay quiet. Afterward she just sat there flushed, quiet, and a little out of it, like she had definitely earned her post-workout reward.

You never really know how good things can go from reddit until they do.

She knows I’m posting this and was good with it.

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u/daddyValtra — 2 days ago

29 [nb4m] Free Use Summer Cumdump

BBW nonbinary tomboy lesbian —married, very discreet — NEEDS to be used by raw cock.

Free-use, cum-hungry, cock-obsessed. Use my holes to make your cock feel good.

No safe words. Not on birth control. I love cnc and REALLY rough sex. Cover me in your cum. Get me wasted. Choke me til I pass out. It doesn’t matter what I want. I love serving men who just want to use my holes to cum.

I’m still looking for an ongoing thing. If I don’t respond or accidentally stop responding, just message me again ❤️

Virgin okay, younger okay (19+)

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u/fuckdoll4cock — 4 days ago

29 [MF4M] Young couple looking for an average size casual

We are young couple in the city looking to explore, most especially an average size, partner does not enjoy a big size, she wants a s she can handle and enjoy all the pleasure that comes with it to the fullest

if you have a big size do not message, we are clean recently and tested last month, I’m not looking for anyone that is not into sharing me with my partner, it’s a mmf situation. we are looking forward to having a pleasurable one

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u/Ok-Woodpecker1346 — 3 days ago

30 [F4M] Late bloomer seeks eager beaver.

^(First of all, I promise that I am one (1) entire real human and not a bot or a scam.)

Hi, hello, howdy.

I've had very few sexual experiences in my life, and they were, for the most part, rather miserable. I swore off the whole business for quite a long time, but these days my curiosity is getting the better of me, so we're taking another crack at it. If you're interested in teaching a thing or two to someone relatively inexperienced in a patient, friendly manner, feel free to read on.

Me:

  • Vaguely shaped like I fell out of a Botticelli painting (but that's probably overselling it so don't overestimate me).
  • I have all of my teeth, and most of my wits. At least one person has accused me of being intelligent (but I'm the one posting on an r4r subreddit so maybe they're being a bit generous).
  • Curious, sincere, a quick learner, and open-minded within reason.
  • DDF, clean, non-smoker, all that good stuff.

You:

  • Late twenties to early forties, give or take.
  • Unmarried/unattached/not attempting to cheat behind someone's back.
  • In possession of at least two brain cells to rub together. Maybe more.
  • Willing and able to show someone the ropes (no, not that kind) without being pushy.
  • DDF, clean, non-smoker, all that good stuff.

I would like a vibe check first to see if we get along, prior to making any arrangements. It could be a singular encounter, or perhaps something recurring, if all goes well. I'm also not in any great rush, so I'm going to be selective, but please don't be shy. If you're still keen, drop a line and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/8millionbeesinacoat — 5 days ago

44 [NBF4M] Looking for online AP

I’m a female bodied queer person craving dick - currently in a monogamous relationship with a woman. We may open up to a penis having person in the future, but for now I’m in a perpetual state of hunger.

I’m looking for someone who’s interested in a strictly text-based scenario. We will not be physically meeting. I’ll just have to fantasize about your cock in my mouth or teasing my pussy lips and clit until I cum. Taking cock and cum deep inside me is almost always on my mind lately.

I may be open to mutual masturbation phone sessions, but can’t do video or other potentially identifying media.

You: A great writer and game for this kind of relationship. Ok sharing dick pics and/or tribute video. I tend to like thick cock, trimmed pubes, and impeccable hygiene. Age, race, body type don’t really matter - having a well shaped and groomed cock does.

Me: curvy, fit bbw type body, brown skin, gorgeous pussy, big tits, willing to share pics.

If this is of interest, shoot your shot. I’ve heard I may get several responses so apologies if it takes me awhile to get back to you. I’ll respond to everyone, even if it’s just respectfully declining. Ghosting is rude.

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u/Ok-Exercise3550 — 4 days ago

32 [F4M] #Lynnwood - Watersports, anyone? 💦💛

It's been a while since I've had a partner, and I'd love to have more kinky experiences! Piss turns me on more than anything, but I haven't had much luck in the past finding someone really willing to indulge. Not really something I can put on a dating profile. 😅

I've done golden showers, so I'm looking for something more exciting than just that. Not into diapers, anal, bdsm, piss drinking or in mouth/on face. Nothing degrading. If this is something you're into, please tell me your wildest piss fantasies and what exactly you'd be down for doing. Currently just aiming for a one-time thing, so I want the hottest scenario you got! 💛

Looking for 21+ who can host not too far from Lynnwood. DDF, 420 ok. Condoms required for PIV. Single only, no partnered people or couples.

About me: white, dark hair, blue eyes, 5'3", 130lbs. Little bit of a mom-bod but I prefer clothed anyway. Will not share photos or personal information for obvious reasons.

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u/Throwaway_JH420 — 5 days ago

28 [F4A] casually looking for chemistry n hoping to come away w from it w an Fwb

Switch queer nd curvy petite enm nerd who would love to find a lowkey fwb to get up to some spicy fun with this summer. I tend to b more vanilla when I’m first getting comfy w folk, but do open up to more depending on the person. Similarly I’m extremely vibe dependent, and prefer a low expectations first meeting in public before committing to more :’) I also have a bunch of roomies n thin walls so bonus points if you can host haha. Message me w a brief description of urself or I wont respond, pic4pic when we chat. Looking forward to hearing from y’all :))

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u/queerdhd — 6 days ago

31 [MF4M] Couple looking to explore a third desire

Hello everyone, couple looking to have a casual sexual fling, we are a young couple who had had ups and down in our sexual life, wife has a very high libido, way more higher than mine but I’ve leant to live with it. We are open to exploring a third with the aim of satisfying my partner

We have been married for some few years now and we’ve had an agreement that once in a while we will be doing this. We are not looking for time wasters or uninterested people, we don’t discriminate either

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u/Competitive-Note8877 — 6 days ago

30 [F4M] - last minute hookup?

I’m home and a little horny tonight. I was curious if I would be able to find someone to meet me at a bar near cap hill. If things go well it would be nice to be able to walk back to my place. I don’t know if I have a lot of rules. I like to cum and safe sex is important to me and I don’t know if I’m looking for anything absurdly kinky at the moment. I like being fingered and eaten out and having my nipples pinched and sucked. I’m decently attractive and can host and live alone and am black and fun to be around and it would be nice if I could find someone to be a positive distraction for the night.

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u/DryGanache- — 8 days ago

42 [F4M] not your typical R4R post

yep, not at all your usual post, but taking a stab in the dark! casually hoping to find my forever love but open to friends and lovers along the way.

i’m attracted to kindness, authenticity, playfulness, depth, emotional intelligence, and communication.

i lean demisexual and take time to get to know people before engaging in consensual discussions of intimacy or hopping into bed. enthusiastic consent and communication are non-negotiables (and ugh, so sexy!). i’m a huge fan of the long game, the slow burn, and the mental and emotional energetics involved.

vanilla:
i’m a driven health//academia professional by day, rescue dog mom by night🐕, and aspiring green thumb 🪴
i am just as happy on an adventure as i am browsing vintage stores and listening to records or watching a movie
neurodivergent 🌶️ with a huge heart 💜 and a healthy dose of sass
huge advocate for mental health and am always putting in the work on myself
cuddling is one of my favorite forms of human connection
music is a major love language of mine
active, fit, and easy on the eyes

currently unpartnered.. and selective about who i give my time to.

non-vanilla:
dipping my toes into kink in the right settings with the right partners - just because i disclose this here doesn’t mean i’ll want to jump right in. open to light power dynamics and bondage, couple and group play, and i’m sure there are others. all are nice to haves, i am more interested in the person and dynamic, cultivating trust between us, and whatever manifests from the truly safe and uninhibited space we create together.

you:
can show me you read this whole thing by reaching out and engaging in conversation as if we’re already friends. disclose your age and location and tell me about yourself.
please don’t want an AP or be cheating on your partner - i am not interested.
be roughly 35-45, healthy, active/fit, emotionally intelligent, kind, respectful, witty/clever, and wanting something deeper than just a fucktoy. huge bonus points if you’re queer/bi/pan.

i will not respond to “hey, hmu” or any other form of lazy or blanket/template messages you send to any old woman on here.

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u/Wishful_Drinking563 — 7 days ago

42 [FF4M] Happy Pride!!! 🌈🦄🌈

Testing the waters - we’re a few months out from being able to make this a reality, but are curious about interest on this queerest of weekends in Seattle.

We’re a female bodied queer couple looking for a sexy dick to play with. Big bonus if you’re into acts of service. Though you will be our submissive toy, we expect you to be very clear and communicative about your boundaries, likes, and dislikes. Enthusiastic consent is mandatory.

About us: The younger of us (42) is brown skinned and curvy, 5’4”, muscles and softness combined to give a luscious body feel, big titties and tight pussy, loves to give blowjobs, and curious about breeding. The older of us (52) is 5’9”, mixed Latina, more curvy and soft, likes thick cock and hard poundings.

Together, we’re a caring duo that wants to use you in the sweetest and dirtiest of ways. We expect to establish a relationship before any physically sexual activities occur. Knowing each other for awhile, to ensure a good fit, will make things even hotter when the time comes.

About you: You are someone who knows that submitting to two older queers will satisfy you in ways other relationships will not. You have a full life already and are looking for something unique and fun to enhance what already exists.

Very clean and hygienic, well groomed cock and balls, and take care of your feet. Bonus if you authentically like to cook and clean. Ability to control your orgasms and go multiple rounds with short recovery time is a plus. Though you will be our submissive, know how to be dominant and aggressive on command.

We’re not looking to catch feelings, but do expect to develop some kind of friendship along the way. To this end, you need to be some level of queer or strong ally, have a generous spirit, and understand how your masculinity is enhanced by being in touch with your femininity.

So reading all this, would you be interested to explore in a few months?

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u/Ok_Negotiation8300 — 9 days ago

40 [F4M] I’m exhausted of the dating apps.

Anyone just want to meet for a drink? I’m so sick of swiping.

I’m 40f based in West Seattle/Burien. I’m curvy: size 16 with curly blonde hair and glasses. I’m heavily tattooed, but you’d never guess and not open to discussing or fetishizing it.

I’m a hairdresser, and I love my job, but I work long hours. I ride a scooter that I need a motorcycle license for. I enjoy camping, river floating in the summer and I go out for drinks and socialize frequently. I’m the kind of person that picks up free stuff from the side of the road. I rarely sit still. I like sci-fi movies and memoir books. I have 1 cat.

I’m ultimately looking for a relationship, but I’m not in a hurry getting there. I’m in no way desperate, just in search of some consistent companionship with the right person. With plenty of fun and good times getting there!

You be 35-45, preferably hwp or dad bod. I prefer facial hair and short hair. Height and race doesn’t matter. I’d prefer not to travel too far. Please have some ability to have a fun time over drinks and let’s just have a good time meeting new people.

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u/Vast_Magician8687 — 8 days ago

29 [MF4M] Hot couple looking for an interested third encounter

Hi there, couple here who has an eye for an adventure, we enjoy exploring a third once in a while mainly on wife’s request, I’ve never been against it though I find it so much fun and pleasurable. it’s an hidden fantasy of everyone only if we are trying to pretend

l’m not looking for anyone looking to judge or just waste time , I’m looking for real interest, a single or interested third regardless of your size, what really matters is your interest

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u/No_Claim183 — 8 days ago

25 [nb4m] - I don’t know how much longer I can take this

Im so sexually frustrated it’s starting to make me feel clinically insane. I’ve never truly been fucked right before, not in the way that I crave. I always make these wild plans and talk big game about the ways I wanna be used while sexting but in reality, I’m too awkward and clammy and anxious to even flirt with people. I always shy away at the last minute. I’m also not conventionally attractive and usually get ignored by people I’m interested in, which just makes me that much more needy. I need somebody who doesn’t care about all that and can coax the filthy slut out of me because it’s deep in there and feral and clawing at its cage to be let out. There is so much unfulfilled desire in me, it’s spilling out everywhere and becoming pathetic. I’m kinky as all hell and have a deep desire to submit but not with just anybody, I need to be psychologically engaged to point where I let myself slip into it. Once I’m there I’ll do all sorts of tricks. Letting myself get treated in the ways im too ashamed to admit I desperately want, and then maybe try to fight back little once I’m comfortable. I just need to get used right, just once, is that too much to ask? I’m going crazy, help me :(

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u/spicedtwice — 9 days ago

28 [FM4M] Looking for someone to make private content with

My bf and I are looking for someone who's clean and willing to make a personal video with us (not for posting).

We want to ride out a fantasy of me blowing both of you and cumming all over my face and boobs. We'd first get some drinks at a bar probably and then go to a nearby nice hotel so it's a neutral place for all of us.

I'm 5'1, 130lbs curvy petite build, brown hair, brown eyes. Looking for in shape men with around 7 inches hard. I normally go for tall brown skin men but all are welcome to message. Wanting to be a one night thing and we want to be very discreet.

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u/CivilArea9144 — 10 days ago

30 [MF4M] Married couple on a work stay looking for a third

Couple here for work, hubby here for work from chicago, wife accompanied currently looking to explore another dynamic while we make the most of our stay, we are looking to have a third over majorly around a casual male and hubby taking me on, know this is an agreed decision from the both of us

Anyone bellow 20 won’t be welcomed, I’m a Latina and local mix while hubby is a full local breed, we will entertain any race or color who just want to explore

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u/Lopsided-Option5180 — 9 days ago