r/sextoy

I have bought enough stuff at this point that I am done guessing. I just want one thing that women actually swear by. Not the same five names every blog repeats because someone paid them to say it.

I went down a rabbit hole last night. Reddit threads, random reviews, a few store pages like Bellesa Boutique. And somehow I walked away more confused than when I started. Too many options. Too much noise. What I actually want is something strong, consistent, and not trying to be cute or clever. I do not care about packaging or app features or colors. I just want to know what actually gets the job done.

So ehre I am asking real people. If you have tried a dew of the popular ones, which one do you actually reach for a Tuesday when nobody is watching? Not the one you show off. The one that works. Would love to hear what lives up to the hype. Thanks!

Hi guys! I just got my first vibrator two days ago, this vibrator has a un wired remote, wich needs batteries inside.

I cannot unscrew them at all! They're so weird shaped??.

Today i went to buy the battery only for the remote because the vibrator one's came with the package, and a screwdriwer. I was thinking:since i cant seem to unscrew them, what if tomorrow i go to the same place and see if they do that kind of service (unscrewing stuff for people) and if they can help me, would it be weird?

Let me know!

Looking to buy my first toy.

I'm looking for something compact that can be cleaned, dried and stored easily.

I read many recommendations about the stoya fleshlight, but from what I've understood it's not very compact.

So I'm considering the quickshot or one of the Tenga Flip models.

Worth noting that the Tenga toys cost 2-3 times as much as the quickshot.

I've also saw the "Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator" that looks very interesting but I am not sure it will be good as a first toy, would love to get some opinions on that? And same for "TENGA AERO Suction Control"

I'm curious to hear from other people to see what their experiences were like. Here's my list:

1. Lube isn't optional.
2. This is one I myself didn't take too seriously at the start of using toys by myself. But, it makes everything safer and feel way better. I prefer water-based lubes since they'll go with any toy. One thing I DEFINITELY wish someone would have told me is silicone lubes should NOT be used with a silicone toy. It messes with the material and destroys the toy.
3. Buy the toy you actually want, not what people keep telling you. Nerves are normal and okay!
4. My first toy was a bullet vibrator because that seemed the easiest to buy and keep hidden, but it wasn't what I actually wanted. I hardly used it and ended up going back for a wand vibrator and dildo (what I had wanted originally). It's a little awkward and can be intimidating to pick out a new toy, but that's normal and okay.
5. Buy and use toy cleaner!
6. This one for sure I did not do when I first got into toys. But it's sooo much better for you to clean the toys before and after using them. Especially if they're stuffed away in a drawer full of other random items. This also helps your toys last longer.

Those are my 3 things I wish someone had told me before I bought my first toy, so what do you wish someone had told you?

Partner and I currently using a satisfyer pro 2 and we love it. I was wondering what would be the next step up from this one. I'm looking for a similar air pulse type toy but something stronger. What is the best of these types of toys?

I dropped it and it got slightly scratched. How have you fixed it?

Tried tape (legs up taped to wrists) and it was an epic fail. Looking for any ideas from people who have a tried and true set up for spreading someone open well for long sessions of edging a clit. Think knees back to chest for easy access to clit. Please and thank you!

I was looking for a dildo sizeable enough that i could ride, i already have the gape keeper 55 and the erebus 80 from topped toys

I’m a teen male who still lives with his parents. are there any really discreet sex toys that can easily be hidden?

For context, I'm a woman. I like to use a dildo while laying down. However, ideally at some point I want to have the dildo inside while I use my hands for different things. The issue is that if I let it go, it eventually starts to slide out. Does anyone know what I'm talking about and is there a solution?

I live with roommates so I’ve been looking for something quieter lol. I was checking out WhisperBullet because the smaller one seemed better for clit stimulation since that’s usually what gets me there anyway. But the price is not cheap compared to the random ones I usually get from different stores, even tho those always die after a while and are sooo noisy.

I wanted to ask if anyone here has had WhisperBullet long term and if it actually holds up?

very curious what oral with a tentacle toy feels like? Is it fun, do the suction cups actually do anything other than texture???

I obsoletely LOVE giving my toys oral and choking on them.. holding it til I tear up and gag, it just scratches my brain in the right way and I want to explore a new sensation!! Thought tentacles would be that for me if it done how plays with my throat in a different way plus I would be able to go futher down on the toy sense it’s longer by nature-

So in conclusion dose anyone know what that feels like??

And second what dose deep throat a toy futher into your throat feel like???

Thank you 👉👈

I’m planning to create a new adult brand, but I’m not too familiar with the types of products people like. My plan is to collaborate with Taoist practitioners in China to have them bless the products with a "spiritual charge" (just for fun, no religious involvement), hoping to bring a little good fortune and positive energy to people’s lives.

With the current economic downturn and difficult times, I want to create something that not only helps people enjoy themselves but also gives them a sense of "spiritual recharge" — like a playful way to bring some positive vibes and a touch of luck. My goal is to make everyone feel better, brighter, and more energized. After all, life goes on, and humans are resilient.

New to toys. As said in title, is it safe to use it to cover p**** with it (with water lubricant added) for this purpose

I can't really find specific source on internet that have the answer

I'm 20F and am in search of my first sex toy.

My parents are going out of town in 6 days so still have time. But gotta make it count.

For someone who hast had a sex toy before vibrators seem logical.

But dildo's seem so hot..

Already have the perfect location where I won't be bothered. The privacy of my car, just need my first toy to be perfect!​

I love my Lelo Sona cruise and I wish I could use it during penetrative sex, but it's too bulky. Is there a good clit sucker out there that is thin enough for that? I've tried the WeVibe Chorus but that kind of vibration doesn't do much for me.

EDIT: Thanks everyone; I'll be giving the Melt a try!