r/sissymaid2

Should I lock up my sissy clit, and for how long?

Acceptance from my wife has provided so much freedom to explore and express my femme self. Whilst its easy to present an idyllic vision of a femdom fantasy, reality is a foundation of hard work and constantly demonstrating to her how this benefits both of us.

When I first told my wife, she accepted it because she loved me not because she was naturally predisposed to it. Clear boundaries were set and I began to dress in front of another human for the first time.

Sometimes she was fine with it, sometimes she struggled. Where had her protector gone? Why so many femme or camp manerisms. There was the introduction of chastity, and the introduction of questions and insecurities for her.

We talked, and talked and talked. We discussed her fears, my urges, we agreed revised boundaries and frameworks of behaviours and tasks. We agreed that if I was going to so this it must benefit her, so the housework became my responsibility with high standards that must be met and at the end of every weekly dressin session the house must be spotless with no trace of my transformation remaining after the event.

Over time, I demonstrated that the chores were done with minimal fuss, I eagerly absorbed her feedback desperate to improve and purchased additional equipment to exceed her expectations. She was happy that she could relax whilst I worked, and I was rewarded with a relaxation of sime of her boundaries.

If i could offer any advice to anyone struggling introducing crossdressing into thier relationship is to firstly communicate regularly and honestly, help her understand why this is important to you and somewhat out of.yoyr control. Secondly, work to make her understand how it improves your relationship, show her how it makes you more emotionally avaliable, softer and more caring, more helpful and more productive. If your dressing is a benefit to her rather than a burden, she is much more likely to engage with it when it is happening.

By the way looking for a keyholder for this cage

Let’s do this, free of charge, you can even choose my outfit or lingerie…..

How may I serve you today Sir?