Has anyone had any experiences with a vasectomy and the nurses saying something or nothing at all?
I am going to get one but I’m nervous because I am so small soft. It basically turns into an innie lol
It does turn me on when my wife makes fun of my small one but it’s just nerve wrecking lol It also doesn’t help that I’m 6’5” with a fully hard 4” cock.
Just wanted to hear some stories
Interesting find.
I've been into SPH for years but never explicitly told my wife it's a "kink." Instead, I just call my dick little and small all the time, make jokes about it, and she's occasionally played along with a comment here or there. But she's never been explicit about it—just matter-of-fact.
Today she wanted to order a new bathroom faucet, probably about 6-7 inches across. She asked if I had a ruler so she could check the spacing. We're home alone, and I'm always joking about my dick being small, so I pulled my pants and underwear down right there and pulled on my little dick and said, "Use this. It's about six little dicks across."
She looked at it and laughed and said, "It's not that small."
She was talking about my dick. Not the faucet. She was saying my dick isn't that small—which means she was acknowledging that yes, it's small, just not that small. The subtle acknowledgment that it really is small, without actually saying the words, was such a turn on.
She didn't perform. She didn't try to humiliate me. She just confirmed the scale in her off-handed way. "Not that small" means "small." She basically called my dick small while I was standing there pulling on my little dick to measure a faucet against it.
Now my little dick is up to its full four inches long and four inch girth just remembering it. The casualness is what makes it real. She wasn't feeding a fetish. She was just being honest. And that's the hottest part.
I've often wondered if you lot are more thrilled or frightened about the general shift in society towards women being and feeling more sexually liberal. I personally feel so pleased and hopeful for the new generation of women who are living in a world that is more accepting of women's pleasure.
As a millennial I have straddled both sides - I have hidden my true feelings about partners inadequacies because I thought it was just something we unlucky women had to do. I'm feeling a bit of a societal shift though and, as we all well know, I feel empowered and will be quiet no more.
How does it make you feel? As size matters allies, I imagine it makes you must feel proud, encouraging, horny. But conversely are you all nervous that you'll never be able to have a woman settle for you?
This was 1980. I was 19, my girlfriend Lisa was 21, and my sister Jane was 23 and had just moved in with me after leaving her husband.
Some background - Lisa and I were pretty wild. We'd done group stuff, strip poker, skinny dipping. I was always the smallest guy there and she knew it. She'd been with plenty of guys before me, most average, some pretty big. Growing up, Jane and I had seen each other naked occasionally - just that sibling thing, nothing sexual. But once she moved in with me as adults, I definitely had an exhibitionist streak even though it seems weird given I was working with a little dick. I actually enjoyed her seeing me. My bedroom door had a faulty latch and would swing open on its own, and hers stayed open at night so she could hear her kid. I'd walk naked to the bathroom in front of her open door, sometimes hard in the morning. She "accidentally" walked in on me jerking off in my waterbed once, and another time walked in while Lisa was riding me. I saw her in bra and panties plenty, caught glimpses of her naked too. Presumably accidental but who knows.
So this one night Lisa is over and we're all drinking heavy. We step out to the porch to smoke. Jane never really drank or smoked so she was absolutely hammered. We head back into the den and I get the courage to ask her why she actually cheated on her husband. I knew she was unhappy but wanted to hear it from her.
She gets this serious look on her face and starts explaining - married at 16, he was lazy, they were broke, she wanted out. Then she looks right at me and says something like "the crazy thing was Bill had the smallest dick I'd ever been with but he was the best sex I ever had. Only guy who ever made me come."
She's staring at me. Lisa is giggling. Jane starts giggling. I'm just sitting there.
She knew. Of course she knew. She'd seen me hard when she walked in on me. This wasn't her sharing a fun story about her affair. She was looking me dead in the eyes telling me that the smallest dick she ever saw belonged to the best lover she ever had, while my girlfriend who knew exactly how small I was sat right there.
I had to go upstairs to pee shortly after and could hear them laughing their asses off from the bathroom.
The humiliation was unreal. Lisa already knew I was small but having my own sister basically confirm it to her face while pretending to be giving life advice? That stuck with me for a long time.
I was out with a trans girl last night. We were making out at her place. She seemed pretty into me when we both get naked. She commented her cock isn't that big when she looked at mine and said "actually I'm bigger then you". And yeah she was.
She measured us both and she was inch bigger then me. She couldn't stop giggling. She said since she's bigger I'll be the one going down on her. She had me give her head for an hour. Then when she was hard she fucked me. All while commenting how bigger she was then me. Personally I have no regrets.
Last summer I was in Barcelona and spent some time on the nudist beaches there. One trip I was setup next to a couple, she wore a revealing bikini, he was naked. She was petite, B-Cups and very trim from Canada. She was super friendly and started a chat having heard me take a call (so knew I was British). We started about talking about the city, the weather, how long there etc. the guy commenting in limited English (he was Spanish) from time to time.
I went for a swim and came back, thanking them for looking after my belongings. She then asked if it was cold in the sea, I stated it was cool, but not icy cold, she giggled and was looking directly at my dick. I'm pretty small flaccid, doubly so after cooling off in the sea.
She was very brazen, which I liked, I don't mind banter style CFNM, provided it's not said in a cruel sadistic way, or blatant body-shaming. She commented on being brave, going to a nude beach and not being well endowed (she must have said "not very well endowed" a dozen times), and was I ever embarrassed etc.
I said I wasn't and it was ice to be free, that my wife had no complaints, and it was a grower. She hinted and not believing me in a 'prove it' kind of way, but the beach was busy and I tend to find it hard to get hard at a nudist beach.
After another while of chatting, some quiet time, me keeping an eye on their items as they swam, she returned and 'demanded' a pic of me and her B boyfriend together. I obliged, she took several in different aspects, promising not to share pics of me, but that she posted his pictures all over and sent to her friends, that did cause a stir in my dick, but nothing more. Later I got a pic with him, but she refused to be in it.
I gave them my email address to get pics, there was a selfie of two of the three of us, but alas was never sent anything sadly.
He seemed fine with it all. I enjoyed meeting new people. I think she might have shared the pics with her friends in hindsight, but in a cap and glasses, maybe not too obvious, and there are too many millions of pics out there to be seen by anybody I know?