Now we might have a problem
(Sorry so long) Older couple, been together awhile. A few months ago I had mentioned the vixen-stag kink I was feeling. She had the usual first responses and said she wasn’t interested, but did kind of play along. Our sex went through the roof in a great way. She started experimenting and admitted to some sexual habits she wouldn’t share before. We have an amazing relationship. Love each other deeply and are attached at the hip when together. I mistakenly thought she might consider the LS. A few weeks later she shut down everything. No fantasy play, no role-play. I fully accepted she is a hard no. Our sex life did, however, get even better. I had, last week, stopped by a LS club to check it out just due to curiosity (she was out of town). I let her know ahead of time. Apparently, when we met up this last weekend, she said she was upset by the visit. I explained that I was just curious, have no interest in any other women (100% true), and just wanted to give it a look. After hearing her being upset about the visit, I agreed not to go again. Then, as of last night, she expressed that all the sex talk (involving us only, no vixen stuff) is stressing her. Now, sex is a problem I guess. This has taken a bad turn and will have a huge negative impact on our future. We shared this by phone because she is out of town. I am hoping she clarifies this when we meet (the comments made me choose to end the call politely with a “love you”) Question is, wtf is going on here? She is an highly intelligent, self confident, independent, accomplished person. We are a total match in our life. Last night’s revelation is a huge red flag. What say you, oh wise one’s?