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38 [T4M] #maryland #dmv Looking for bi or pan guys for something real

Cis is okay!

Hi there! I’m a Trans Non-Binary, Queer and Creative type. I’ve been told I’m a bi/pan guy’s dreams with how I mix femme & a bit of masc together.

Fairly open to many types of connections. Ideally I would love a relationship/life companion but I’m not forcing it. Until then I’d love a fuck buddy or FWB.

Currently live in Baltimore but I am looking to move. Probably back to Chicago or NYC? Open to relocating for the right connection.

Ideal Guy: Ambitious, passionate, loving, kinky, well-traveled. OPENLY Pansexual, Bisexual, Queer etc
Extra points if you're goofy and can hike a national park during the day and then get fancy for an opening night gala in the evening. I do have a thing for skinny/scrawny hairy guys but I’m not gonna turn down any handsome guy.
No hangups on race or height. Love tattoos and love body hair.

I love anything artsy - museums, dance, theatre, films. Love traveling to new cities, nature, hiking, national parks. Board games and DnD. Huge foodie and new restaurants.

\*\*DMs are open\*\*

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u/MasterpieceNearby198 — 11 hours ago

22 [TF4A] #RI nerdy chubby golden retriever gamer girl looking for her best friend and love

* PLEASE READ THE WHOLE POST BEFORE MESSAGING, THANKS *
* open to poly!*

Hi!!! It's nice to meet you! Let me tell you some stuff about me! Im 22, have ADHD, a trans fem, I live in the northeast us (about an hour from boston) im chubby, im a handful (but you'll love it) and I would love to spend time with you!

My hobbies are that I like to cook, game, I play on ps5, pc, and switch! (although mostly pc) If you want to know more please message me and I'd be happy to tell you more!! I am also a content creator/making an indie show! So if you've ever wanted to date a (niche) content creator, now's your chance!

Lately I've been playing a lot of The Binding of Issac and Overwatch, so I'd be happy if you played games with me! Ngl I would do cosplay if I had the materials! I have one for Harley Quinn, Amy Rose, and an eevee costume, If I get costumes/cosplay I will wear them! I promise if you were to give me the chance, I am super loving, and that you would get so much attention and love. You would feel seen, heard, and cared about.

I am fairly clingy and I'm trying to find someone who's not always so busy, I get lonely and I would like someone to spend time with!! I would love someone who i can spend most of my day with, or at least someone who can communicate often! I also super prefer calls and I use discord as my main platform!

Preferably, you would be UNDER 35 and in the us.
Willing to communicate, learn, and grow with me!
And can also talk a lot! I get *very* clingy, lol
I'd also want to feel like a priority!
And if you would help support my dreams, be my rock, and be there for me emotionally, that would be the best!

I love the bob/linda relationship in media, they are like the best relationship ive seen. I would love one like that for myself.

I want something long term, and serious. I date to marry! I also want to maybe move to canada sometime. I would prefer if you were also in the us, but if you REALLY think it'll work/you're willing to change sleep schedules to stay up with me, give it a shot! (if you've read all the way down here, say the word water, let me know what would be your perfect day, and why you think you would make a good partner!)

IF YOU MESSAGE ME WITH JUST A HI/DONT TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF AND ANSWER THE QUESTIONS IM GONNA IGNORE IT
ok thankssssss

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u/Key_Zone562 — 14 hours ago

[FtM4A] (cis okay*)

32 | Trans guy | Germany
Imagine a slightly tattooed Dark Vampire Prince with long dark hair, a dark beard, piercings and a suspicious amount of black clothing, that’s basically me.

I may look mysterious and a little intimidating at first, but I’m actually incredibly affectionate, empathetic and sensitive. I love deep conversations, dark humour, animals, nature, metal and goth culture, weird little adventures and people who are unapologetically themselves.
So basically: dark and spooky on the outside, warm golden retriever energy on the inside, but still flirty and, confident.

I’d love to meet someone with whom I can laugh, flirt shamelessly, talk about absolutely everything and see whether there’s a genuine connection. Bonus points if you like tattoos, vampires, dogs and men who look as though they might live in an old Transylvanian castle but would actually make sure you got home safely.

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u/UnhappyViolinist3143 — 19 hours ago

26 [TF4A] #Florida/Online femme Looking to find a future partner and lots of flirting

I travel for work so as long as you are in the US it’s okay. It may not be that hard for us to meet up if we connect.

Hello! I am beginning my exploration on my femininity. I know that’s not for everyone and that’s okay! I’m not sure where I’m at with my gender so nonbinary as of now. I don’t mind if you’re much older as I can connect with anyone!

I love to play games. I play a lot and I love good movies and tv shows. I use to cook a lot but that was a while ago. My DMs are open!

I would prefer US or Canada only. It makes connecting easier and that is what this is all about. Your gender totally doesn’t matter and I do have this marked as NSFW but anything is welcome! I’d be happy to make friends!

I play games on PC mostly. If you play games, tell me what games you play.

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u/TheCubThrowaway — 1 day ago

[MTF4A] [hungary] looking for any kind of connection

Hey im Phoebe 19yo currently 6 months in hrt looking for a meaningful connection if we click we can talk about other things too. Not neccessarily looking for cis but if ur nice we can try

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u/gaxaiYunO — 3 days ago

31 [TF4A] #ohio seeing what’s out there

Hi my name is Janie I’m mtf pre op looking to see what’s out there.a little about me is I like going to concerts, being outdoors, watching movies, going to the gym. Message me if you want to know more or if you have any questions!

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u/D0528 — 4 days ago

28 [Tf4A] #CT Cis ok, Looking for my person

Hi, Im Riley, Im a 28 year old trans woman in connecticut. Im looking for a partner that can also be my best friend. Id love if we shared hobbies and could hang out a lot. Im a pretty big homebody so if you are too thats a plus. Im into video games, movies, baking, cooking, and baking. For games I play a lot of roguelikes, deadlock, league of legends, and im on a baldurs gate kick right now.

Im chubby and tall, very warm and emotionally open and comforting. Id love to keep a cute clean house and bake sweets for my partner :). Im currently working and living with a roommate, looking to go back to school this winter.

Kink wise im super open and a sub leaning switch. Could talk about that more after we get to know eachother 🩷.

Thanks for reading and I cant wait to chat.

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u/needymouse23 — 4 days ago

[MTF4M] (cis okay) | Europe #Online | Lonely, early transition trans girl is looking for a serious relationship.

Heya!

I've been looking for a boyfriend for a few months now, might as well just try reddit. I myself am 22 years old, so you should be at least 18 years old, bonus points if you are a bit older than me. Just fyi, as I am early in my transition I still sound pretty masculine, but I am working on it.

I don't really care at all for how you look, since I don't see myself as particularly pretty aswell. I believe I can fall in love with anyone if our personalities click, that's the most important thing. I want someone that I can just hangout with, play some games with and comfort each other. Big bonus points if you're from Europe bcs of timezones.
I've never been in a relationship so I'm pretty inexperienced. I don't really know what I am doing, I just know that I am lonely :,)

If I have caught your interest even slightly, and you would be willing to put up with me still being really early in my transition, shoot me a dm and we could get to know each other :)
The more effort you put in your text, the better your chances are. If you have read this entire text, start your message with your favorite emoji. ^^

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u/Ok-Chemical-9855 — 5 days ago

[MtF4M] cis welcome! 25 year old newly out trans fem looking around

Hi! I’m a 25 year old black trans girl, just started estrogen a few months ago, but had to pause due to unrelated circumstances, so not always looking the most feminine. I’m looking for a sweet guy that wouldn’t mind getting to know each other for a possible LTR. Looking for a kind, confident, and funny man who can help me when I’m feeling down. Some fun things about me:
Loves cats!
Loves music, been getting into avant garde and experimental edm recently.
From Georgia originally!
I was adopted at 8 weeks old
Loves helping others

If you live in the USA/Canada and this sounds interesting, hmu! Can’t wait to talk to yall :)
Please don’t ask for nudes. I really rather not send any. My profile has me on it as well :)

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u/Connect_Rutabaga_739 — 6 days ago

[MtF4F]+[4MtF/NB] Trans girlie's in the West Midlands UK looking for pretty person :3

Heya! Nice to meet you all! I'm looking for another person whether you're a (cis or trans) woman or enbie ^^ I'm a super nerdy fem trans girlie. I'm also super kinky and horny pretty much all the time xp I'm not looking for sexting or anything like that, just real connections. Something to touch grass with :3 I'm a switch btw :3

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u/fishgirl47 — 7 days ago

[F4A] (cis) 25 y/o trans girl looking for a little online companionship

Hey my online handle is Cotton I live in Virginia but I'm not social transitioned and lack the confidence to go out and meet people so I'd love to make an online friend or partner I'm pansexual and polyamorous. A little about me im a huge geek I love dnd, fantasy, comics, sci-fi, weird games, and music just to name a few and im a touch autistic/adhd and very awkward but I'd love to make some new friends (Sorry if I don't reply right away my sleep schedule is fucked up)

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u/CottonsRpAlt — 9 days ago

[MTF4A] 22 yr old tgirl looking for long term someone(?)

Hai, i’m Kat! Im from illinois. I’ve known i was trans for around 4-5 years now but only started DIY hrt 4 weeks ago. I suffer from PTSD which makes meeting friends / keeping friends really hard and i’ve been lonely for a long time. Which is why im here asking YOU to DM me! :D
I love music, i love video games (especially deadlock atm so if ur looking for a duo, im ur gurl >:3). The reason i say looking for “someone” is just because my expectations are lowish and i sort of just go with the flow in terms of relationships so, tbh, we’ll just see what happens if we become super kewl with each other :3
Thanks for reading!

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u/TeddyWntsSprite — 8 days ago

26 [TF4A] #Florida/Online femme Looking to find a future partner and lots of flirting

I travel for work so as long as you are in the US it’s okay. It may not be that hard for us to meet up if we connect.

Hello! I am beginning my exploration on my femininity. I know that’s not for everyone and that’s okay! I’m not sure where I’m at with my gender so nonbinary as of now. I don’t mind if you’re much older as I can connect with anyone!

I love to play games. I play a lot and I love good movies and tv shows. I use to cook a lot but that was a while ago. My DMs are open!

I would prefer US or Canada only. It makes connecting easier and that is what this is all about. Your gender totally doesn’t matter and I do have this marked as NSFW but anything is welcome! I’d be happy to make friends!

I play games on PC mostly. If you play games, tell me what games you play.

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u/TheCubThrowaway — 8 days ago

19 [Mtf4M] (cis is ok) Looking to meet new people and see what happens, Australia Wa

Im 2 months into hrt and into gaming, working out, cooking, and art feel free to chat and hopefully get to know eachother ;)

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u/Sar0333 — 8 days ago

[MtF4M] - 29 Chubby Trans Latin Girl cis ok

Hey im just looking to talk and get to know someone. Ultimately looking for a relationship so no sex talk.

Im from california and working and going to school. I love to garden and have a small plant collection of succulents and cacti. I play some video games mostly fps like valorant and overwatch; currently playing a lot of dead by daylight. I have two cats that are my babies and love to snuggle them.

I would describe myself as independent, kind, and chill. My aesthetic is autumn/witchy/gardener vibes. Im looking for a guy who is nerdy, sweet, and who can treat me like a woman and take charge.

*if it matters im a bottom only, so no i will not f**k you. 😊*

Hmu and let's chat.

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u/Transfemchub — 9 days ago

24 [MTF4M] looking for dating/relationship Cis Men

24 | MTF 🏳️‍⚧️ | Pre-op | 6 months on E 💕 | Philippines 🇵🇭

Feminine, playful, and a little chaotic ✨ Looking for cis men who are respectful, genuine, and know what they want.

Pokémon lover 🎀, mobile gamer 🎮, and always down for good conversations, food trips, and late-night talks.

Looking for genuine connection + good chemistry. If you can match my energy, say hi. 😉

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u/Icy_Complaint_8939 — 10 days ago

[TF4TF]

Hello, my names amber im from slovakia, im looking for a trans female friend, maybe more

Hobbies : - I like to play sports of all kinds, i love soccer, tennis and ice scating the most, i also like cooking, card shuffling + card games, drawing, sleeping, going out with friends, playing video games and yapping but im a good listener

Interests (sexual) : - Im into trans girls, futa, furrie, femboys, a little bit into diapers and ass more then boobs

What and i looking for? : - A tf friend/gf/partner, height doesnt matter at all, idealy dominant but also can be a switch, age around 18-21 idealy from europe but im willing to fly out if i find the right person, Ill try my best to be respectfull lopta, cheer u up when u need it and comfort u also im letting u smash/Ill smash u pretty much anytime u would like to ;3

If ur interested let me know, either dm me or if u cant then just comment and Ill send u a dm thanks for reading 🖤

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u/Abdl_Amber — 8 days ago

21 [NB4A] looking for long term online (goon) friend

Hellu :3 My name is Milo, I’m 21 and nonbinary (amab).

Im looking for a friend to occasionally goon together, send nudes to each other but also maybe do normal friend stuff like talking, gaming etc.

About you:
Pls DON’T be a Cis MAN…
Please DON‘T be older than 26!

other than that really don’t care if you are born male, female, intersex. I’m pansexual and fine with everyone >\\\\\\\\<
I don’t mind if you are trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, a cis woman or whatever floats your boat

If you wanna know more about me and/or are interested in being my friend, I’d be happy to hear from you.

Also pls pls pls introduce yourself a bit if you text me :3
I’ll be looking forward to hear from you

Smol kiss ;>

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u/First_Associate_1358 — 9 days ago

[NB4A] 21 looking for long term online (goon) friend

Hellu :3 My name is Milo, I’m 21 and nonbinary (amab).

Im looking for a friend to occasionally goon together, send nudes to each other but also maybe do normal friend stuff like talking, gaming etc.

About you:
I really don’t care if you are born male, female, intersex. I’m pansexual and fine with everyone >\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\<
I don’t mind if you are cis, trans, nonbinary, genderfluid or whatever floats your boat

Please don’t be older than 26!

If you wanna know more about me and/or are interested in being my friend, I’d be happy to hear from you.

Also pls pls pls introduce yourself a bit if you text me :3
I’ll be looking forward to hear from you

Smol kiss ;>

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u/First_Associate_1358 — 10 days ago

[TF4A] 19 passing bisexual transsex woman looking for something healthy and long term with someone close to my age preferably

hiya

first of all, check out my profile for pictures, i not only pass but am good looking

anyways

I'm erva, a 19 year old transsex f, I'm looking for something healthy and monogamous with anybody (but it will most likely be with a cis man)

I'm vewwwy bisexual vewwy 50/50, so just about open to anything

i'm 5'6 with a slender petite frame

I like stem and politics, I'm a marxist myself and I engage in politics via organizing and volunteering

but

for my partner

*looking for ppl who agree with my marxist views

I just need someone whos gonna give me time, like simply that, like so many men just dont have the time for me, there away all the time; getting ignored hurts so much

I like men with soft monotone voices and preferably at least 5'10

Im only into men around my age, no older than that

NO MEN OLDER THAN 22

with women Im fine with just about anything, but preferably an older passing or semi passing transsex female

but thats about it

also dont message me asking if I'm into older men, Im not, sowwy

cya

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u/Objective_Fun_2732 — 10 days ago