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[MtF4MtF] looking for like minded friends

I am just looking for like minded friends to chat with and see where it goes.

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u/Beth9191 — 9 hours ago

27 [TF4A] - UK/EU/Online - looking for someone to yearn over

hi! i'm e, 27, been on hrt + voice training for around 3 years, and otherwise socially been out for longer. i am looking for friends or a relationship 😄

i work full time in tech (and am extremely passionate about it!), play a lot of games (currently deadlock, but also retail wow, overwatch, etc), and have varied interests from eurovision (ask me a country + year in the last 10 years and ill have an opinion!) to tech and basically anything nerdy. and even if i'm not interested today, you could change that!

i am also an absolute yapper. if i'm comfortable with you and enjoy your company i will send you like 400 messages per hour of basically whatever comes to mind. in fact, i yap so much if im on vc i forget what im talking about half the time lmao. i like to think i'm funny too and will crack jokes about anything and everything, even when it's slightly inappropriate to do so!

despite all of that, i'm quite low maintenance - as long as you don't actively hate me yapping, i'm happy 😄

lastly, i tend to wear my heart on my sleeve a bit and am generally quite kind, thoughtful, and caring. i'm not perfect in this regard but i am always trying to be better!

what i am looking for:

  1. someone in the loose age range of like 23-35. older within reason is fine, it's just more about difficulties connecting with people older;
  2. someone who is capable of holding a conversation - prove it by starting one with me! i make a best effort to do the same;
  3. someone who has some overlap with my own interests. i find it really hard to connect otherwise, sorry!;
  4. someone who is a sub or sub-leaning switch;
  5. (if things go well!) someone who would be open to moving somewhere in the uk/eu;
  6. someone who is normally +-6 hours UTC.

if you read all of this madness and want to give it a shot, drop me a message with a quick intro & a cool bug fact or your top 3 dotfiles or your fav pokemon (or anything else!). hope to hear from you ❤️

lastly, just a note i am monogamous. sorry!

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[MTF4M] (cis ok) Looking for real friends with extras type relationship

I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-50,somewhat in good shape (body hair is a plus in my book) speaks English, and from either Europe or North America

Looking for someone who I can have good conversation with regardless of topic, someone passionate about his intrests, an overall nice person who knows what he wants and maybe would like to be a little bit intimate sometimes

I'm 23 years old from Eastern Europe I'm trans pre hormone replacement therapy but naturally quite feminine

My interests are sketching, gardening, gaming, roller blading and drag

If you are truly interested message  me privately Say your age, where are you from, and just little about yourself I'm less likely to respond to an empty profile And I won't respond to just a "hi there"

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u/Blizzy_Phuff — 1 day ago

[MTF4M] Cis Okay, Has anyone found true relationship, BF or true love here ?

Hi I'm a Pre-Op MTF who passes as a Femboy, I'm 21 from India.

So I have been posting for more than 2 years here, and all I got is creeps in my DM or emotionally unavailable men and even ghosters.

So if you have found someone genuine and you in a genuine long term relationship, let me know, would love to hear your experience, Atleast it will keep my Hope Alive 😅

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u/Sapphire_Witch616 — 1 day ago

[FtM4A] (cis okay, trans preferred) UK, looking for something serious

Hey, 24 year old transmasc from the uk (he/they) looking for people to chat to.

I’m punky, very into diy and the natural world. I love hiking and camping and being in nature. I’m very autistic and struggle to be outside in public at times but I love to be in the peace and quiet of nature. My happy place is laying in a field on a sunny day. I suffer with chronic illness too however so my energy can be varied but I’m in therapy learning to take better care of myself and pacing.

I’m a bit unconventional and I look quite alternative (piercings, tattoos, coloured hair, patched up clothes, heavy eyeliner) I’ve been on T for a year and a half. I’m not super masculine but not mega feminine either, I sit somewhere in between but identify myself with the transmasc communities. I’m currently fundraising for my top surgery.

I don’t know if anything will ever come of this but might as well give it a try. I’ve been single for 5 years after a very abusive relationship and suffering homelessness. I am in a much better place now and I’m trying to make it as an artist (I’m doing my first market this month, wish me luck).

I care a lot about community, reciprocity and doing acts of kindness- I like to go litter picking in my spare time, identifying and learning about new plants and foraging them, listening to mostly exclusively non fiction books about the natural world and our connection to it.

I also have a mishmash of music in my playlist including a lot of punk- folkpunk mostly. I’m very political and the hope for a better world is something I hold value to in everything I do. I’m really inspired by solarpunk ideas. I’m big on protesting and showing up for my communities when my body and mind allow.

I’m a bit allergic to being online and I am not the biggest fan of the internet, I feel like such an old man next to all my friends, but adventure and experience is what I prefer.

My dream is to one day live in a van and travel around and when I’m older to build my own house and grow my own food. I’m looking for another person or people who value the natural world, acts of kindness and want to feel loved and free.

Polish by birth but have grown up in the uk for most of my life and have not many ties to family but my friends mean a lot to me. I do speak Polish. You do not have to live in the uk, I’d be happy to chat to anyone from anywhere and learn about all types of cultures and lifestyles.

I’m a good gift giver and working on being a better listener but I will always do my best to make time to support the people I care about. I try to look on the brighter side and love to make dumb jokes and laugh about whatever. I’d like a relationship with reciprocity not only sexual but in what we do daily. I wish to be cared for and I promise to do the same back if we hit it off. Acts of service, words of encouragement and feeling known are my biggest love languages.

I’m a switch in bed but have topped a lot more than bottomed. I’d like to find someone that would enthusiastically top me, be happy to give head and be into switchy dynamics. I’m very kink friendly and experienced. I’m very open to non monogamy too.

If you’re interested let’s chat and get to know each other.

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u/pretty_curious24 — 2 days ago

18 [mtf4m] (cis okay) USA/online

Uh hihi, I'm lovely looking for ltr

about me

I really like music, drawing, and reading

I also play games and especially like multiplayer games as I enjoy doing things with friends

As far as appearances go, I'm about 5 foot 8 and thin

Unfortunately, i dont pass very well and have a rather un-feminine voice

I tend to talk a lot, so it would be nice if you do too

And I am usually quite busy as I enjoy having many things to do

P.s. apologies if this is poorly written. I wasn't quite sure what to say

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u/sad-gurlUWU69 — 2 days ago

[MtF4A] #online. Looking for friends to game with or a dom to break me! Both in one are good to, I like both!

Im “kinda” new here so please bear with me!

Hey! I’m Chloé! 20, Tf, U.S! I’m looking for either a Dom or friends who share the same interests!

How about some fun facts and basic info to start?
I’m so unbelievably a lesbian
Huge marvel comic nerd
I play Fortnite and marvel rivals (CYCLOPS MY GOAT, HES HERE)
I can’t bake for shit
I can’t live without music at all, I think I’d die.

Let’s get into some more details!
I guess an easy way to say what I’m looking for in friends are mostly people who will play games with me! But also maybe share some of my kinky interests and we can maybe talk and share! Maybe more to\~

What I’m looking for in a dom is oh where do I start? I’m looking for someone who at the start seems kind and caring but then over time turns more sadistic and ruthless on me, I love Chasity and it’s a huge dream of mine to forget what an erection even feels like, and to be reminded that I gave it up willing or not.

Some of my general kinks include
chastity
Censors
Bullying
Unfairness
I’ve maybe wanting to try cucking to, it seem interesting but never had an experience with it!

I’m really open to anyone but cis men, anyone fem presenting definitely has an easier time stealing my heart though! There’s so much more to me so if any of this sounds interesting I can probably talk for hours about some of it! (I know the entire Fortnite lore. It’s the only reason I actually play it)

One last thing, I do have a partner and we are poly, we don’t really have the time to do anything sexual often so that’s why I’m looking for a dom!

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u/Pleasant-Animator-32 — 3 days ago

[MtF4T] depressed trans girl looking for any kind of human social interaction(I do NOT date people who are NOT trans)

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i like music, horror, reading, roleplay, gaming and much more

I'm fat if thats a deal-breaker

I mostly play single player games like Minecraft, megabonk, risk of rain 2 and stuff like that but I occasionally play Fortnite and overwatch

I'm currently in my first year of college

i dont mind what gender you are as long as youre trans

id love to learn about you!

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u/Optimal_Bag9000 — 3 days ago

[MTF4M] (cis ok) Searching for a real friend who'd be interested in fwb

I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-45,somewhat in good shape (body hair is a plus in my book) speaks English, and from either Europe or North America

Looking for someone who I can have good conversation with regardless of topic, someone passionate about his intrests, an overall nice person who knows what he wants and maybe would like to be a little bit intimate sometimes

I'm 23 years old from Eastern Europe I'm trans pre hormone replacement therapy but naturally quite feminine

My interests are sketching, gardening, gaming, roller blading and drag

If you are truly interested message  me privately Say your age, where are you from, and just little about yourself I'm less likely to respond to an empty profile And I won't respond to just a "hi there"

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u/Blizzy_Phuff — 5 days ago

19 [mtf4A] Passing bisexual trans girl, looking for a smart soft spoken guy or woman, plz no sexpests

Hi I'm Erva, as my title said im 19 and im from the south. I've never really lived anywhere other than my home town nor have I traveled that far. I'm currently just volunteering for the community and stuff, I also like reading and programming. My fav language is linux assembly, x86 mostly preferred. I plan on going into medical school.

Physically, I've been told that I'm a mix of slender and petite. I'm avg height (5'6) but in terms of my frame, I'm smaller than the female avg (or at least from my measurements). I'm honestly quite skinny too skinny, current goal is to gain around 30-40 lbs, end weight goal is 160-170 lbs. I'm on hrt, plan on altering my dose for maximum affects.

I've kinda had a messy life, but things have been going well recently, I know I'm capable of making it.

Also I like L4D2, but kinda been bisy. Would like to do some assembly code with you.

heres two selfies of me from this week, first one was taken on my dads phone, the second is just me outside checking out how a new makeup technique might look

https://imgur.com/a/2HLIHb6

also forgot to add that im bisexual vewwy 50/50

u/Objective_Fun_2732 — 5 days ago

[MtF4A] 19 year old southern Trans girl looking for people to chat with and vc with

Hello everyone ^^ im luna! I'm a 19 year old Trans female over in northwest Arkansas in the USA. Im a little oas 1 year on hrt (boobs are awesome). I really like to listen to music and sing even if im not the best at it. I also really enjoy playing games with friends and partners. I just recently got my diploma from a technician school.

Im a switch and a rather gentle top and bottom. I really want to put emotions first and foremost. Im open to pretty much anyone at or below around 30 (that's about my comfy max, tho it might be stretched if we get along well) I try my best to respond as fast as I can. I hope to meet all of you new people^^.

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u/lunahowl2849 — 5 days ago

43 [mtf4a] lonely transfem/enby music nerd looking to be loved on and chatted up. Cis ok

Just looking to talk to folks and see where it goes. I am open to friends, maybe eventual online/irl relationship. TBH the goal I guess is just a meaningful connection. Things about me:

Getting this out of the way:

I am a bit chubby currently but am aggressively working on fixing that and in general have been thin for most of my life and intend to keep it that way.

I have major depression and issues with social/general anxiety. If you do not wish to deal with this then I am not for you.

I am a friendly but shy and introverted person so I work best with those that will maybe be a little extroverted and warm to help make me comfy. When comfy am a yapper tho :3

Am probably goth in spirit but not so much in fashion. I am quite tomboyish actually.

My interests are mainly music and I tend to go through genre phases sort of. Current obsessions are shoegaze, noise rock, goth, post punk, and various types of synth pop. I also play guitar and bass. If you are a music person or play any instruments I may already have a crush on you.

I also really really love horror movies especially 80’s slasher flicks and just fun dumb gory stuff.

Want to get back into reading. Mostly poetry and again horror. If you’re into horror or true crime that would be super cool.

In terms of what is ok with talking like….I am ok with flirting, am open to nsfw if we are attracted to each other. Please do not be overly sexual with me right away as it takes time for me to really build an attraction to someone usually. I am ok with sharing selfies or maybe other stuff over time.

If it matters I am a switch but lean more towards bottom.

I am looking for someone who:

\- can help me come out of my shell and be warm and affectionate if that is the vibe we are having.

\-is ok with being the person to usually text first due to social anxiety on my part.

\- will let me ramble about my interests and talk about myself and will also do the same because I would love to know all about you :3

\- is hopefully not super far from me so there will not be headaches about time differences.

Please send a message telling me a little about yourself and we can hopefully start chatting ☺️

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u/notarobotdolphin — 5 days ago

[MTF4M] : Interested in Meeting New People

Hi everyone, I'm interested in meeting new people, whether that's friendship or potentially more. All are welcome for friendship, but I'm only interested in men romantically. Feel free to message me if you'd like!

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u/baecations — 6 days ago

23 [TF4F] #UK lonely Demigirl looking for a relationship

dorky transfem demigirl thing from the UK, looking for a long term relationship with another trans or cis femme around 20-26 years old. Not looking for guys and no chasers!

Hobbies are collecting action figures, painting and customising them doing model making stuff and playing video games. My fav stuff to watch is Doctor Who, Classic Simpsons, anime, cartoons and a bunch of other stuff too!

Romantic, kink friendly for the most part but I'm not really sexual. Strictly monogamous. No hookups please! Cool with long distance but would prefer if you're from the UK too!

Feel free to DM!

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u/BoneBrothLover — 5 days ago

[FtM4A] (cis) | dutch kinky trans guy 23 looking for romantic dom

basically what it says on the tin :) hi I'm ant, 23, i like video games and art and I'm a puppy :) looking for someone to love me and dominate me <3 preferred if you're also a kinky freak!!!

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u/transgenderant — 6 days ago

[MtF4M] Dubai-based, looking for friends.

Hey guys, I’m from the Philippines 23. I pass as a woman, so nobody can tell I am trans. Would love to connect and create friendships and see it from there. Not interested in ONS, if you’re “curious” do not message me at all.

Not into Indians and Pakistani.

Thanks.

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u/Past_Turnover2591 — 6 days ago

[Mtf4M] cis ok, chubby black trans girl looking for love!

Hi! I’m a 25 year old black trans girl, just started estrogen 3 months ago, so not always looking the most feminine. I’m looking for a sweet guy that wouldn’t mind getting to know each other for a possible LTR. Looking for a kind, confident, and funny man who can help me when I’m feeling down. Some fun things about me:
Loves cats!
Loves music, been getting into avant garde and experimental edm recently.
From Georgia originally!
I was adopted at 8 weeks old
Loves helping others

If any of this sounds interesting, hmu! Can’t wait to talk to yall :)

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u/Connect_Rutabaga_739 — 7 days ago

[Mtf4A] 19 looking to find a new partner that I can chat with and voice call

Hello everyone ^^ im luna! I'm a 19 year old Trans female over in northwest Arkansas in the USA. Im a little oas 1 year on hrt (boobs are awesome). I really like to listen to music and sing even if im not the best at it. I also really enjoy playing games with friends and partners.

I just recently got my diploma from a technician school.Im a switch and a rather gentle top and bottom. I really want to put emotions first and foremost. Im open to pretty much anyone at or below around 30 (that's about my comfy max, tho it might be stretched if we get along well) I try my best to respond as fast as I can. I hope to meet all of you new people^^

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u/lunahowl2849 — 7 days ago

[MTF4M] (cis ok) Looking for long term friends with extras type relationship

I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-45,somewhat in good shape (body hair is a plus in my book) from an English speaking country (especially Canada)

Looking for someone who I can have good conversation with regardless of topic, someone passionate about his intrests, an overall nice person who knows what he wants and maybe would like to be a little bit intimate sometimes

I'm 23 years old from Eastern Europe I'm trans pre hormone replacement therapy but naturally quite feminine

My interests are sketching, gardening, gaming, roller blading and drag

If you are truly interested message  me privately Say your age, where are you from, and just little about yourself I'm less likely to respond to an empty profile And I won't respond to just a "hi there"

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u/Blizzy_Phuff — 8 days ago