r/u_mishinessss

I’m a 35-year-old married guy from Delhi, and my wife is 36. We’ve dated for about 2 years, and have now been married for another 2 years. We also have a baby together.

Since an early age, I’ve had strong sissy, submissive and cuckold tendencies.

My wife, she doesn’t know about my submissive and sissy desires.

Although I had told about my bisexual nature in the dating phase to my wife, and we had an intense discussion where I calmed her told her when a bi-cycle comes we can manage it together by using tools like toys, or porn, or even a threesome, but we had left the conversation there and never further talked about it. It’s been 2 years if not more since we had this talk.

However, while dating, our relationship dynamic was the complete opposite. My wife is very submissive, and our sex life was about me being dominant with her in a daddy-kitten relationship.

I was usually acting that dominant role rather than feeling it. After spending time with her during dating days, I’d return home and get back to my own sissy side by wearing panties, using dildos or talking to men on grindr.

After marriage, pregnancy, and becoming parents, our sex life slowly disappeared. For roughly the last year and a half, we’ve not been intimate at all. But reason for that is not anything as my wife wants it, she’s turned on and craves me but during this time, my attraction toward men continued to grow, and now I’m not sure if I’m attracted sexually. It’s usually me who has refused her advances and she has used vibratory to satisfy her urges.

More recently, I’ve tried faking it in bed and be more sexually active. My wife has been enthusiastic and patient, but I’m struggling to become aroused by women in the way I used to. She has spent hours trying to help me get hard, yet I find myself unable to. And it’s really not her, it’s me. At this point, our is basically me using my fingers and tongue to satisfy her.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I don’t love her. Really do love her a lot and want to keep that love alive and will work extra hard for that, but I need help in fulfilling her sexual life, something which I feel I’m unable to provide.

I’ve realised that both of us are submissive, with fantasies revolving around surrendering control to a stronger, more dominant man. For her till now that was me. Now I feel I need to pass that torch to a more true person.

Ideally, one things are set and you are moulding are relationship through me, we’d like to begin by exploring a traditional MMF dynamic where both men focus on the woman together but some streaks of bisexuality. Over time, I’d be interested in shifting more authority and control toward the third man.

I am particularly attracted to dominant bisexual men who enjoy both male and female submission. The idea of a man who can lead, direct, mentor, and shape a couple’s dynamic over time is incredibly appealing to me.

Who I’m looking for:

1. A bisexual dominant man interested in both my wife and me
2. Someone naturally confident, assertive, and controlling
3. Muscular, fit, healthy, a big cock is a plus
4. Hairy and traditionally manly is a plus
5. Well-educated, respectful, hygienic, and emotionally mature
6. Creative and imaginative
7. Interested in building something long-term rather than a one-time encounter
8. patient as this will require work and to and fro conversation.
9. Someone interested in chatting regularly and building trust first
10. Someone willing to micro manage and give me daily tasks to fulfil to assert my submissive nature and to progress the dynamic in moulding my relationship

At the end of the day, I’m not looking for someone who simply wants sex. I’m looking for a dominant man who enjoys taking charge, building trust, exploring fantasies, and potentially helping guide a couple into a new chapter of their intimate life.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and introduce yourself.