r/vancouverr4r

had too much coffee, not enough sleep, and in a state of restlessness that desires some cozy cuddly energy - without clothes on and maybe some wandering hands

you: single, consent aware, can host, located in van or richmond, have a cozy bed set up, smell nice

me: single female on the shorter size, consent aware perfect little spoon, likes to cuddle, might fall asleep on your chest after being finger blasted, willing to verify on signal

vibe: less blacked-dom-crush-pussy and more cozy-pillow-spontaneous-orgasms

dm me your age, body type, ethnicity, and how your bed might be cozy for cuddle (and more??) time if any of this interests you

Message me with pics and what your looking for love watching my girl get used looking for locals I'm near highgate

Married couple looking for a single male or couple for an ongoing connection. We're brown, most will find us attractive, drama-free, and hoping to find people who are interested in becoming friends first and seeing where things go.

Looking for someone respectful, non-pushy, comfortable with safe play, and okay with being recorded. Ideally, if the chemistry is right, we'd love something ongoing, including someone she can spend time with when I'm out of town.

If you're interested, send a pic and tell us a bit about yourself. If your not into getting to know each other first this probably isn't for you.

In your response please let us know if you are good with being recorded so we know you read the ad. One liners will not be responded to. We will send a pic back if there is interest.

Hey, I’ve been hard on myself lately by depriving myself of the sexual satisfaction I deserve and I’m finally looking to set that right. I’m looking for a casual link where we can both get the sexual satisfaction we deserve mainly explor oral. I love to swallow, I’ll be open to anything that comes my way

I'll want if we can share pic, clean and tested so should you too. I'll be optimistic.

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex or attach the MommyDom/Worship/AgePlay angle to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, and not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one time hookups. I like a lot of things and have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just here looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play.. ideally primal, erotic ANR-ABF in a kinky FWB dynamic

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

So I am finally coming to terms with how much I so badly desire to explore kinks and I would love to chat and connect with anyone who knows anything about the kink community here in Van or if you have any shares on how you started exploring in the city!?Anytime I share what I’m really excited about I get blank stares but I can’t be the only pansexual girl who wants to explore both sides of cnc and the other dark arts! Anyways all tips, kinks and shares welcome!