u/-Unseen-Presence-

39 [M4F] #Tennessee - Looking for my Babygirl

Hello, you may call me Mr. G. I'm terrible at pitching myself well, since I'm more about the transparency rather than "You should talk to me over anyone else".

I'm 39, currently nomadic, incredibly busy, but know that my system needs someone to ground me. I've found that this community tends to give me that grounding as I've always loved being a father figure to the children that have been in my life and the littles I've cared for.

Saying that I'm incredibly busy is not me saying I won't have time, it's that I acknowledge I have several projects in working on at once and tend to hyper focus until I hit another wave of anhedonia and finally come up for air. I'm looking for a break in that cycle.

Notable Red Flags so I don't waste your time:

Diagnosed (but integrated) - Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Addicted to nicotine - Vape

I have some very unique views on the world.

I'm looking for the bright and bubbly counter balance to my often analytical and dark mindset.

No idea of you're actually out there, but what harm can it cause to look?

Why don't you stop in and say hello?

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u/-Unseen-Presence- — 15 days ago

Hello, you may call me Mr. G. I'm terrible at pitching myself well, since I'm more about the transparency rather than "You should talk to me over anyone else".

I'm 39, currently nomadic, incredibly busy, but know that my system needs someone to ground me. I've found that this community tends to give me that grounding as I've always loved being a father figure to the children that have been in my life and the littles I've cared for.

Saying that I'm incredibly busy is not me saying I won't have time, it's that I acknowledge I have several projects in working on at once and tend to hyper focus until I hit another wave of anhedonia and finally come up for air. I'm looking for a break in that cycle.

Notable Red Flags so I don't waste your time:

Diagnosed (but integrated) - Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Addicted to nicotine - Vape

I have some very unique views on the world.

I'm looking for the bright and bubbly counter balance to my often analytical and dark mindset.

No idea of you're actually out there, but what harm can it cause to look?

Why don't you stop in and say hello?

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u/-Unseen-Presence- — 17 days ago

Greetings and Salutations,

May not makes sense in the context, but I'm back and feeling better than ever. Spent several months in self isolation trying to effectively put myself back on the right path, and now... 🎵 Guess who's back? 🎵

Anyway, a bit about me, since you didn't know me from Adam, or Jake, or Trevor for that matter... What ever happened to him?

So obviously 39 years wise, currently home based in Tennessee, but considering moving back to Texas (I miss that place). I am nomadic by nature and profession, have you seen housing prices. 🤯

I think comedy and humor need to be the forefront in interactions, because if you can't laugh (especially at yourself) why bother having emotions?

I can be serious when the need calls for it, but don't prefer to be when not needed.

I'm severely addicted to entertainment, YouTube, movies, TV, role-playing games, board games, but I don't really play much currently since my schedule can be demanding and inconsistent. Especially since I'm typically running evening/over nights.

Currently deep into AI and trying to get more of my novel down. Been spending far too much time, energy and money in this rabbit hole.

Anyway, about what I'm looking for. Someone who is adaptable and can roll with whatever life throws their way. I have somewhat of a screening process, but if we switch off Reddit, that's usually a great sign.

As far as "my type" goes, I prefer shorter than me (6'0", 230 Dad Bod here), soft body style, and a pretty face. But these are preferences, not hard lines, so throw your hat in the ring for this circus and see if you fit into the mix.

If you think anything I have said, screens you out, you should probably message anyway. I can be fairly fun, even if we don't click on the romantic sense.

Anyway, I'll be waiting. Have a wonderful rest of your day!

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u/-Unseen-Presence- — 19 days ago