r/DDlg_IRL_Personals

Hiii, I’m 25 and looking to have a serious relationship with someone who’s older and has a bit of an age gap. I do enjoy someone who is caring yet dominant that can be my best friend too.

Id like to really get to know someone and see if we connect before rushing into anything serious. I like to be outdoors, chat with new people, try new foods and have a good laugh! I’m also very kink friendly and open to trying most things :) Love to be in your lap right now and plan a cute Disney trip! I may suck your cock too hehe

feel free to message and find out anything you’re curious about! I don’t really respond new new blank accounts

Craving male validation or like a daddy/ fatherly figure rn somehow

Hello there!:)

I'm willing to start online but would hopefully like to move from there if we mesh. I'm pretty shy first off but not dry and once I'm out of my shell I'm pretty energetic! Little about me is that I was with the same guy since I graduated high school and yes we are still legally married however I’m starting the process of a divorce. I get it if that’s a deal breaker. Spent so much time with one person so l'm pretty inexperienced. What l'm looking for is someone who doesn't mind that, someone who's well experienced and can show me what l've been missing out on. I'd like someone who's willing to give reassurance without being prompted, someone who will make decisions for me because they know better than me. I'd like companionship and guidance. Someone who's still a gentleman but kinky and encourages exploration with him. I'd like someone who's consistent too and reaches out daily not leaving it all to me, taking interest in my day and what l've done etc.
I'm not just wanting something sexual, l'd like for this to become something more serious if things work out.
I've always been interested in older men so now I'm finally exploring that. Preferably 32-50 but any age is fine still. I do enjoy the ddlg dynamic but it's not a necessity.

I'm 5'6, curvy, a little chubby, DDD, dark hair, freckles, glasses, pale, tattoos. My style is feminine and sometimes country. Willing to exchange pics if you ask because physical attraction is important still:)

The non sexual things I like are hiking, going to museums, zoos, record shops, comic cons, horror movies and all things macabre. I play video games, read a lot, and I enjoy writing, coloring and crafting. I'm a bit of a nerd, comics, Star Wars, etc. I have a huge collection of stuffed animals.
I do smoke&, it's fine if you don't though:) I also enjoy lots of music and movies!

I don't really have any limits except scat and vomit!

We can talk kinks more in depth and what not or if you have any questions. Feel free to dm me. Can’t wait to hear from you :) <33

hello hello!! F27, looking for a DD. can be online to start with eventually u moving to me or me moving to you. i am willing to possibly move to a european country down the line.

i want to preface this by saying i am quite picky but i know what i want/need and dont think i can falter on that.

right now i’m mostly looking for a sfw ddlg relationship that will eventually grow into bf/gf and then marriage 🥺.

i am saving myself for marriage and i would like to keep it that way (can explain why in dms). i know a lot of people are gonna be like wtf why would u post on here looking for someone.. but on the off chance it works i figured i may as well try. i am still open to discussing kinks and such.

in terms of what i want in a DD:
- good person. like genuinely
- monogamous
- well educated
- has a stable career
- 25-35 yrs old
- wants marriage/possibly kids in the future
- tall and strong. i like going to metal concerts and in desperate need of someone to put me on his shoulders
- LIKE TO TALK ON THE PHONE.
- good at keeping me updated throughout the day as i get rlly anxious and like to keep an open stream of communication thru text
- genuinely interested in my day to day life
- left leaning politically
- i dislike facial hair bc it makes it hard to kiss. plz no facial hair ty
- will help me keep my day to day life in check. i’m so busy with work it’s hard to take care of myself. i need help staying on top of my chores/groceries/eating.

about big me:
- doctor, doing residency at hospital rn
- 5’2 brown hair brown eyes glasses pale skin and curvy
- love traveling
- love working out
- love baking, really good at it
- play league of legends
- love metalcore bands like bad omens, bmth, miw
- i have strong opinions
- hate ai
- needy, clingy, jealous. love cuddles

about little me:
- needy, clingy, jealous. love cuddles
- big stuffie collection (only getting bigger)
- love baking, horrible at it without help
- big time pixar fan
- barbie princess movies >>>
- love coloring but i grip the markers too tight and it hurts my thumb which makes big me not happy

anyways again i know this is extremely picky but if my person is out there and sees this… hello!

About me: I'm 6'2, short brown hair, mustache, brown eyes, average to slender body, tattoos. I'm a PhD student, I read a lot of philosophy, I love fashion, I listen to a lot of music, and I love to go to raves, shows, etc. Strong, quiet type is an accurate description of how I carry myself.

Perfectly fine with online only, thought needless to say I would prefer an in real life connection.

I am looking for my primary partner which is to say I am non-monogamous/monogam-ish. However, I am *not* polyamorous. We can discuss what that means more in-depth in messages.

Communication, mutual understanding, and consent need to be established for us to do anything together. I want to know about your interest in kink, your boundaries, but also about your life outside the bedroom as well. I want a real connection not only based on sex!

About my approach to this kink: I'm a pleasure dom. I want to be in control, but I also want to help you become the best version of yourself. Help provide structure and positive reinforcement, I want to reward you for doing a good job, and praise you when you've earned it. However, you will be punished just the same if you don't perform to the level I believe you're able to achieve. To that end, I like to go to the rougher end of the spectrum too though, within reason, and based on mutual consent. I like degradation and humiliation, but they are not dealbreakers if they are not for you.

Please be able to share pictures eventually. Mutual physical attraction is important to me (I'm sorry, I can't just take it on faith that you are who you claim to be). I won't rush you, but I don't want us to talk for weeks or a month only to find out we are not attracted to each other.

If any of this sounds appealing to you, shoot me a message and let's talk and see where it goes!

i want to be someone’s little girl.

i want to feel like i’m his responsibility, his priority, his safe place to protect.

i want a daddy who genuinely enjoys taking care of every part of me—checking in on me, reminding me to eat, drink water, take my meds, sleep, and making me feel safe every single day.

i want to rely on someone completely.

i want to know that when life falls apart, i don’t have to carry it alone anymore because i have him.

i love praise, pet names, baby talk, soft eyes, gentle hands, and constant reassurance.

i want to be held when i cry, comforted when i’m overwhelmed, and guided with patience and love.

i want a dynamic where dependence isn’t a flaw—it’s part of the intimacy we intentionally build together.

i love the idea of having a safeword or even a simple phrase that doesn’t stop a scene—it simply means:

“i’m overwhelmed. please hold me.”

i don’t always know how to ask for comfort when i’m falling apart. i want us to have a word that’s ours. a word that instantly tells you i need your calm voice, your arms around me, your reassurance, your patience.

i want to know that when i say it, everything else can wait for a moment. you slow down, you check in with me, you remind me to breathe, tell me i’m safe, and help me find my way back to you. that’s the kind of trust and care I dream about.

i’m looking for a daddy interested in a real 24/7 DDLG/TPE relationship, not just bedroom dynamics. hopefully with relocation. also need to take things very very slow, as to build trust, all of the above is ideal in an already secure & safe ddlg relationship🤍

hiiiii <3
im a lil girl (at heart!!) and a very soft submissive from the very very south of england, lookin for a long term daddy / caregiver for somthing serious that can grow into real life. im really hoping to find my forever person not just a casual thing.. :3
a bit abt me: blonde hair, blue eyes, midsize squish. im not skinny so if u only like super skinny littles im probly not ur girl and thats okie
personality stuff: im sweet, gentle, shy, traditonal and super soft spoken. i really dont like arguements or confrentation it makes me wanna cry and hide under a blanket. id love a daddy/cg who can be my voice and protecter in scary big places (shops, resturants, events, all that).
what im looking for:
a daddy whos kind, paitent, attentive, very caring and who acctually likes taking control. its such a big turn on when a man can speak properley, uses nice grammer and just… knows exactly how to get under my skin in the best way. im very into a tpe style dynamic where daddy makes the desicions and i can just be his good girl and not have to worry abt anything big and scary.
i also have a size kink and i love feeling teeny tiny, overpowered (in a safe way) and protected in ur arms.
i want someone wholl set clear rules and routenes, look after me and help me grow into the best girl i can be. im very clingy and affectonate so id love a daddy with enough time and energy for me who acctually enjoys lots of messages, cuddly chats and constant little check ins.
pls be paitent with me i can be a bit slow and confused somtimes and i overthink literally everythin ╥﹏╥
my intrests are pretty simple and homely: i love music, doodling and cooking. im really family orientated and i daydream abt cooking for a big family one day. i love spending time together in person or online and id be super happy having movie nights, playing games or just sitting on call while we potter around doing are own stuff.
kink wise i like:
ageplay, ddlg, a bit curious abt abdl, praise, choking, breeding, risky/public ish play, orgasm control/denial, pee (NOT drinking it!!), petplay and rough very take charge dynamics where ur properley in control.
hard limits: gunplay, heavy blood, scat, anal and anything illeagal.
if ur intrested pls message me with an acctual introduction. “hi 25m” is gonna get ignored sorryyy
im looking for a real relationship not just sexting. i want someone whos happy being sfw aswell as nsfw, wholl send me selfies and voicenotes abt his day and let me feel like im really part of his life.
a few last lil things:
• pls dont start arguements with me im very sensative and itll just make me shut down
• pls dont spam me with “???” or “hello??” if i havent replied it makes me anxous and pushes me away
thank u for reading all of this i hope ur having a lovley day and maybe well talk soon:D

hi i'm katie, i'm a little both in how i look and act. i'm petite so i hope that's ok and naturally submissive to older Men it's how i've always been. If you want someone brand new to train that's not me but i do want more training obv. I can relocate though isn't ideally just me if so but can say more in chat maybe. I'm a girly girl and very hyper focused on my looks and hyper oral fixated also that's extremely important to say early on. I want to chat first, answer any questions. I have few limits in chats, i'll never get upset at a question.

I love shopping, doing pageants, cheer. I'm obsessed with pink and dressing up and shoes and having pretty nails

Hello there 👋🏽

Putting this up again……

I am 35 female bbw virgin based in Hamilton, Ontario. I grew up in a Muslim conservative household and was told no sex before marriage. By the time I hit my 20s and wanted to my virginity, I was too insecure in my body and the way I looked. I hit my 30s and became ready to lose my virginity. I am in desperate need of a new suckling partner. I miss having my nipples suckled. I am 46 dd with pierced nipples.

I have only ever had one sexual partner. I meet him off of Reddit and he was an amazing Daddy Dom. We meet up a couple times and he was very patient and understanding with my need to go slow with everything. I unfortunately got super into my head and couldn’t relax when we were finally going to full way. We parted ways due to him leaving the province.

I am looking for a Daddy Dom that is 30+ in the GTA/Halton area that is able to host. Someone who is good with taking lead and control and I able to turn my mind off. I am the oldest siblings and have been the caregiver of my parents and siblings. I want to be able to just turn off and have someone take care of me and make the decisions for me.

If you made it this fair send me a DM stating your favourite food place in your area.

Hiii, I’m 25 and looking to have a serious relationship with someone who’s older and has a bit of an age gap. I do enjoy someone who is caring yet dominant that can be my best friend too.

Id like to really get to know someone and see if we connect before rushing into anything serious. I like to be outdoors, chat with new people, try new foods and have a good laugh! I’m also very kink friendly and open to trying most things :) Love to be in your lap right now and plan a cute Disney trip!

feel free to message and find out anything you’re curious about! I don’t really respond new new blank accounts

Hi hi I dunno how to start these thingies so sowwy if I totally do it wrong. 🙈I’m 24 and really shy kinda little brains a whole lot of the time. 🙈I’m really sweet promise and not a meanie butt at all. I love cartoons and coloring I have a doggy that I love to bits and pieces and stuffy friends too🤭I love pink and princesses I am really girly toos🤭I’m a paddy butt kinda princess too if that’s matters and I’m looking for my daddy toos 😋🤭I don’t mind relocating for my forever daddy either I kinda love romantic lovey dovey stuffs too🤭 I hope you haves amazing day 🩷

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Lets spend time together with some horror and or make some art play some games. Story or horror or all of them.

I paint and sculpt with foam clay and acrylics. I also work on 3d digital modeling sculpting painting

I'm a 5'9 chubby/ fat dad bod teddy bear perfect to cuddle. I have a beard and curly stache. I dont drink or smoke. I'm clean and tested recently. Can show results hope you are too.

Please dont smoke. And don't be allergic to cats I have an orange floof.

Let's talk about horror movies, art? I do digital art too. Let's game together. My game right now is palworld.

Well yeah hopefully you're out there.

Mostly online or LDR - Dm me

hi! im interested im a more experienced and older dom as I have little experience.

about me! :
- bbw
-black
-5’6

hobbies:
-cooking
-reading
-yoga
-crafting/sewing
-anime

what im looking for:
- I would prefer to start online and move to irl experiences eventually.
- someone older (26+)
- i DO want this to become an exclusive, monogamous relationship
- stable career
- reliable
- affectionate
- involved
- confident

I would like to validate before continuing too far into the conversation. if you’re interested please reach out!

Hi there!

A little about me: I am an alt/goth girly with a soft heart at my core. If I’m not out on a hike, you can find me annoying my dogs or with my nose in a book. I tend to stick to my horror, spooky, paranormal vibes with movies/shows and books but I do sprinkle in some Disney, documentaries (lover of all things space and stargazing), and comedy…but you will never find me watching a romance movie. The key to my heart might be a LotR marathon… I’m an avid writer and reader, I tend to enjoy most artsy hobbies such as painting, crochet/knitting, coloring, and baking. I have also recently discovered a love of running; it’s my goal this year to run my first marathon.

I thrive under structure and clear expectations and communication. I’m looking for my person that can be my safe space; that knows when to be soft and nurturing and when enough is enough. A dynamic built on trust, mutual respect, and consistency. While I understand and don’t expect constant communication (although I will be sad if I don’t hear from my partner for majority of the day), there is nothing I love more than sharing little updates about my day, memes, or any of the random thoughts that I am known to have and receiving the same in return.

Ultimately, I want someone I can laugh with, lean on, go on adventures with, and build something meaningful.
I hope to hear back from you!

Edit: Currently located in Vegas but open to anywhere

Looking for a strict daddy that can handle someone that’s sometimes bratty.
I am kinda new to ddlg. I would like to start online and meet if we do good and you don’t have to live in Minnesota.
My interest are animals right now I work at a pet store and go to school for vet tech my dream is to be an exotic vet and have a farm someday.