r/DDlg_IRL_Personals

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TL;DR: Kinky daddy dom with a hot voice is looking for his sweet, cute, needy sub for a dynamic, hopefully both nsfw and platonic! Please be comfortable calling and chatting, I'm not seeking a text-only dynamic. Can't wait to meet you! :)

I'm a 31/M daddy dom with several years of experience with intentional BDSM and kink, but instead of a tryst for only one night, I prefer something more substantial and long-term. I'm seeking my subby little girl for a relationship that will hopefully have more depth than just calling when we're horny. I'd love to meet if we're close too! I'm currently traveling NZ's South Island, but I expect I'll end up Auckland-based.

I'm assertive and know how to take charge of my sub's pleasure and guide her to where she needs to be be. I have many kinks which we can discuss later as we ecome more comfortable, but I'm definitely seeking a dd/lg dynamic and I'd love to take you under my wing. I also have many interests and hobbies that I'd be happy to chat about when we're feeling less lecherous, and I'd be happy to learn about yours too :)

If this sounds like something you're interested in but you're new to kink/BDSM, don't despair! I have experience teaching newbies and I'm happy to take the lead, guide you, and keep you safe as we explore together.

Reach out if what I'm looking for attracts you, and tell me a little about yourself and what attracted you to my post!

u/LatentLimerence — 8 hours ago

31[F4M] CA/Anywhere- bubbly sweetheart seeks doting daddy

I'm sick right now and all I can think of is how much better it would be if I had JUST THE RIGHT DADDY to climb into his lap. If you have a good lap and like having a girl in it, maybe you're in the right place. A bit about me- I'm 31, I love kitties and cute things and reading and learning and making literally everything as cute as possible. I'm on the thicker side, but all the curves are perfect and the other day a man on the street told me I look like a goddess so I think it depends on perspective. I'm a little broken, like we all are, and may need some extra care and understanding. You (hopefully)- Love cuddles. Have time during the day to talk and don't mind being yapped at. Can yap back. Want to build something based on mutual trust and care and desire.

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u/naiveromantic108 — 16 hours ago

20 {F4M} - little looking for genuine daddy🤍

ABOUT ME: 🎀🎀

PERSONALITY: sweet, loving, affectionate, silly, talkative, a bit shy, girly, clingy, a little of course! a genuine little, i don’t just want money or presents or sexual things!

APPEARANCE: white, 5’7, long brown hair, blue eyes, tiny bit of freckles, average build (pictures on my profile)

LOCATION: connecticut/ new jersey!

KINKS: praise, oral fixation/having things in my mouth, ddlg, breeding, light degradation, teasing, c\\\\\\\*ck warming, spanking etc.

LIMITS: anal, anything with toilet play, hitting roughly, cursing at me, diapers, or being too mean in general;(

LOOKING FOR: <3

PERSONALITY: protective, flirty, teasing, calls me pet names, gentle, spoils me, babies me, loving, affectionate, talkative, puts in effort, caring, understanding

APPEARANCE: just taller than me! besides that it doesn’t matter :)

AGE: 19-28 ish

LOCATION: anywhere!

RELATIONSHIP:

i love being babied and looked after, someone who loves to take care of someone and be there for me. i love affection, looking for something more long term and a genuine ddlg relationship! this is not just a sexual thing for me, i love both the sfw and nsfw sides equally! i very affectionate and give a dom lots of loves n affection as long as i get the same back :) being babied and being called pet names is my favorite thing ever, and we can watch movies and do all kinds of fun activities and talk about everything! we can set up rules / punishments, but its ok if ur not into those specific things! i looking for someone who actually wants to get to know me and can baby me, make me feel small and understands the ddlg lifestyle! i’m also very 420 friendly and smoke myself just not nicotine!

DISCLAIMERS

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- if ur going to reach out, PLEASE don’t be dry with texting.. it woulds be much more fun to have good conversations!

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- if ur only interested in sex / nudes kindly don’t message :) i looking for a forever daddy who wants more than just that!

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u/princess-cat_ — 1 day ago
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If the title didn't clue you in, I really love DDLG and age gap relationships. Basically giving my baby girl a mix of sweet treatment for most SFW times and aftercare, along with a bit (or a lot?) of roughness for naughty times. I'm pretty switch in the regard that I really enjoy seeing my partner pleasured, which leaves me open to a lot such as CNC, threesomes, or my partner being slutty in lots of ways.

I'd prefer a partner younger than me, but am open to long term or short term. Can meet casually just to hang out too. I would love to go on a gym date honestly.

As for SFW me...? I spend a lot of time working, and prioritizing my grindset of goals. That means exercise, study, and meditation everyday - even if it's just a few minutes a day. My hobbies consist of mainly 2 modes - my active hobbies such as gym time, rock climbing, yoga, traveling, hiking. I especially love mountains and being out in nature overall. Then my more quiet time hobbies, where I'd just enjoy a nice night in instead of going out. I spend a lot of free time reading - lots of dark fantasy and some non-fiction.

What's really important to me is taking care of one's self. That means both physically and mentally. I've had some rough experiences that made me appreciate the value of being alive, so I try to be fully in every moment enjoying it in totality. It also made me appreciate the value of having a good mindset about life overall as well, which is why I'm really into philosophy, especially Stoicism.

Small album~ https://imgur.com/a/5XNYvbK

u/Draddock — 1 day ago

22 [F4M] #india/online-looking for my daddy

Hiee, I am little brat. I am looking for long-term daddy. I want my daddy to be a little sadistic.only daddy doms request please.i am finding someone between 28 to 35 in age.

I am 4' 11".I am little bit fat.In free time i like scrolling, movies, series and sleeping. Sometimes I read fictional books.

I am preparing for govt jobs, so mostly I am at home and bored all day. I am not able to focus on studies, I would really like it if I get some help in concentration.

I don't want to start d/s relationship directly, before starting dynamic I want to get to know eachother and get comfy.

I would like to have a relationship if we get along well. I don't have any dating experience.

I am looking for someone nice, silly, caring, playful. I am looking for monogamous relationship. I am looking for someone who can handle my mood swings.

I don't want to share pics in the starting.

Kinks: degradation, oversimulation, waxplay, edging, petplay, bondage, anal, denial, praise, impact play. I am masochist.

Limits: scat, puke, gore any permanent marks.

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u/Patient_Pride_7942 — 2 days ago

30 {F4M}

So I’ve not ever posted before in a subreddit like this but I’ll try it out now!

Like the title says I’m 30 female looking for a Dom/Daddy. I have little to no experience with this but have known this is a desire of mine for quite a few years now.

Like Ive said I have no experience, but I’m not a young girl either - I’m a grown woman who is looking for someone to chat to and form a connection and a bond with.

I won’t be rushing into creating a dynamic with the first male I meet, and I won’t be comfortable send nsfw photos for a while yet.

Let’s act like real people on a dating site and just connect first! We know we have one thing in common, so let’s learn the rest.

If you’re interested send me a chat about yourself. I’m excited and hopeful to talk to you!

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u/Decent_Tackle_9613 — 2 days ago

26F [F4M] #London Smol autistic nerdy girl looking for a daddy

Hi everyone! I'm a 26yo autistic nerdy girl looking for a daddy. I live near London in the UK and ideally I'm looking for something where we know we want to meet in real life at some point! My age limit is around 40

I'm in an open relationship / poly and my partner is aromantic, so what I really crave is someone that makes me feel really special and loved haha, I would love to be someone's special little princess ❤️

A bit about me, I'm 5ft1, 92lb / 42kg, petite, pale with long brown hair, brown eyes and dimples, often described as cute/innocent/youthful looking (idk my self esteem is really low that's just how I've been described 😅) I'm very shy and awkward at first, but also I like to think I'm a very open minded, easy going and silly person once you get to know me! I'm super liberal also so all for human rights and such! 🌈 I'm a bit clingy but I think I have a lot of love to give lol, I'm looking to build a special connection with someone

I love to dress in cute styles with dresses and skirts especially in the summer, and in general I love dressing up and cosplay!

I'm also a massive nerd and love video games, anime, and fantasy stuff! Some of my favourites are elden ring, Skyrim, lord of the rings and game of thrones. I also love Pokémon and collecting Pokémon cards!

I'm autistic and I get stressed and overwhelmed really easy, mostly from my job 😭 usually feel like I'm a mistake because I wasn't made to live in this scary world 😅 I can also get a bit overwhelmed with bright lights and loud noises, I would love someone that helps me feel safe and like everything is okay. I get anxious going places and doing things by myself too, so I'm kinda an anxious bean lol

In terms of ddlg, I'm kind of new to it all and still exploring! I think having a caregiver daddy really appeals to me as well because being an adult is so scary and hard and I feel overwhelmed a lot, I know how pathetic that sounds lol 😅 Things I know I love are cuddles and praise, being called little girl, princess and stuff like that. I have a plushie collection and plushies are probably my favourite thing ever, I like to dress them up too. Being a brat and then being punished for it is my biggest fantasy, although i need to practice that 😅 There's a lot of stuff I haven't tried yet, like little space and I've never had a proper daddy before, but I really want to try deeper into the lifestyle!

Some of my kinks include bondage, CNC, spanking, size difference, roleplay / dressing up, punishment, praise. Only thing is I'm not into diaper stuff I don't think

Sorry if that was too long! Thanks for reading if you got this far 😋

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u/dumb-plum — 3 days ago

32 [F4M] #Texas #US - Little looking for her forever Daddy!

Hi there! I hope your day is going well and if not, I hope it gets better soon :)

Thank you so much for looking at my post!

I am very liberal and support human rights of ALL humans. I do not support bigots or butthole billionaires. While I do respect other people's views and opinions, I'd rather not associate with them unless it's necessary.

I am looking for a real connection with someone, where we can grow to trust and care for one another and turn it into something long-term. I am looking for my forever person, my rock, my ride or die.

Online is fine to start, but I would love to transition to IRL eventually.

*I am strictly Monogamous and do not want children*

In my ideal dynamic, I want to be comforted, taken care of, and made to feel like the most special little girl in the world. We would be each other's support and #1 person. We would support and love each other during the good and hard times. Let's share some laughs and cuddles!

I am looking for a Daddy that can treat me like his princess during the day, but also make me his naughty mess in the bedroom. I want to be able to be in my little space and feel safe, but also have intelligent conversations and debates outside of it.

I believe that open and honest communication is essential when it comes to DDLG, as well as trust in your partner. Let's grow together and support each other's goals and aspirations!

Me: I am a 5'2" Hispanic/Asian 32 yo woman. I love music A LOT. I also really enjoy reading, watching movies and shows, crafting, F1 and spending time with my 2 cats. I can enjoy a night in cuddling as much as a night out on the town. I have been described as kind, creative, and genuine. I like to give attention as much as I like to get it.

I like to play with LEGO, color, do arts and crafts, dress up, use pacis and cuddle with my stuffies when I am in my little space. I also really love stickers and bedtime stories!

YOU: I prefer a Daddy between the ages of 30-44, and has a nice voice. Caucasian daddies are a plus! Please be patient, playful, emotionally mature and sweet, but also firm when it is needed. I am clingy and would need consistent communication. I understand that we all have our own lives going on, but I would like to be a priority in yours. I am looking for someone that is motivated and has goals.

I'm still exploring kinks, but there are some that I definitely like. I'm willing to try things, see what I do and don't like. We can discuss more over time :)

Limits: humiliation, minors, bodily fluids (blood, piss, scat), permanent damage, CNC, anything illegal, and race play.

If any of that caught your eye, send me a chat with a bit about yourself!

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u/Thunderous_huntress — 4 days ago

27 [F4M] #Utah/Online - Little Kitten Looking for Daddy Dom

Hi there! My name is Lexi Im a sweet and shy little girl looking for a caregiver to form a special bond with. I am looking for a Daddy Dom who is willing to form a friendship and a relationship built on trust and open communication

About me

I am a 27F I am kind I love animals I am silly And i love spending time with friends and family. I am practice Ethical Non Nonogamy. I do have lifestyle friends that I spend some time with frequently. I also regress intentionally and unintentionally.

My favorite cartoons and are scooby doo, courage the cowardly dog, and fnaf if that counts.

I also love coloring, reading a book, or just cuddling up together and talking, being in each other's presence (physically or electronically)

Some of my favorite things that make me happy are soft blankets, pillows, stuffies, soft pj sets, comfort shows and anything else that helps me feel cozy

My little age varies between 3-7 years old, but I love my paci and sippys/bottles all the time

I am white, with a curvy pear shaped body. I have brown hair that is dyed red, brown eyes and I wear glasses.

I don't do diapers. No hate to anyone who does it's just not for me!

NSFW can be discussed in messages

What i want in a caregiver

I would like my caregiver to be nurturing, kind, and playful, but also know when it's time to be stern or assertive with me

Qualities i appreciate are patience, protectiveness, consistency, and reliability.

I would love to have a daddy who would like to do daily check-ins, bedtime routines, and daily tasks with rewards and consequences, and someone who just likes to chat with me as often as is reasonable

I am in Utah, USA and am in the Mountain (GMT -7:00) time zone. I prefer to start with a (flirty) friendship and continue going from there. I can't wait to hear from you!

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u/loreofthecat — 4 days ago

19yrold girl looking for genuine relationship wit daddy!

HAIIII ☺️ im a 19 yr old girl looking tu find everlasting true luv wit a daddy, a bit about mi, im 5'3 going on 5'4, i hav darkish auburn hair, light/pale skin, fwreckles, brown eyez, average body, i do hav thyroid issuez so its easy for mi tu gain weight :c espically wehn depressed/stressed but been taking care of maself since! im a luver girl & get attached super easily.

I looking for someone who iz genuine, if you are here for sum quick fun or tu rush tingz den dis iz not for u!! i am willing tu be long distance for a bit as stuf at home iz a bit complicated (family oriented person while alzo going to taek college courses!) & it takes sum time for mi tu trust & warm up to someone but once I do I am super luving & trusting, i want someone who iz willing to be long distance for awhile & iz okay wit playing videogames wit me as dat iz the core in what i do daily! (if ur not familar wit videogamez hopfully u can give it a shot!) & also is caring for mi evryday, a honest & true relationship, sumone dat is da true embodiment of a daddy! dominant, manly, a daddy who givs mi all dere attention & luv, makez sure i am alwayz happi, cheers mi up, motivates mi evryday tu better myself, takes da time to write supr long beautiful caring messagez evry mornin&night, (& thruout da day too!) creates special nicknames for eachothr & Alwayz uses nicknames on mi all da time! spoils mi wit luv , affection , gifts & makez sure i am alwayz fed & taken care of 🥺 sumone dat mesmorizes details about mi and my plushies! iz supportiv of mah hobbies & alwayz listens to me blabber & allowz mi to be myself! (also iz oke wit showing off our relationship ;3) if dats either mi showing off tu my little friends or postin cute stufs on mi privat insta in da agere/ddlg community! as i am a very creativ person & lov drawing and creatin cute posts :3 OHH AND if u are wondering.. of corse tingz can b sexual aswel wit all sorts of kinks (as I am open tu anyting!) but we culd chat about dat privatly hehe.. i use platformz like discord or instagram but we cans get to kno eachother a bit on here first!

if all dat sounds liek something u are intrested in and also looking for a everlasting genuine longterm forever relationship den send mi a message!! pls describe a bit abwot urself aswell! ☺️

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u/littlgirlbambi — 5 days ago

23F Canada question

Journeying into some Reddit forums and wondering if the sugaring type lifestyles take place in these types of dynamics, and if so, what has that been like? 😊

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u/PureCapital1253 — 6 days ago

18 [F4M] #usa I’m new to DDLG and i’m looking for a soft/gentle daddy.

Hey there! I'm Madi, and I recently decided to turn to the wonderful world of DDLG. l've always felt a special connection to my inner little one - my favorite stuffed animal Maggie has been my constant companion. I have been into dolg for a few years but felt it was only appropriate and more safe to wait until i was over 18. and here i am! I'm looking for a gentle daddy who understand and appreciate the joy of being my daddy. I'm not sure of my age yet. I'm hoping my daddy can help me figure that out. It can be so lonely finding others who get it, so l'd love to connect with like-minded individuals on Discord.

Maybe we could share our favorite cartoons and stories? I'm still learning about the community, but would love to make some new friends who share similar interests. please feel free to reach out even if you're not interested in being my daddy but to lend advice or tips. I really want to be the best little girl i can be. Thank you for reading this awfully long post! have an amazi day!!!

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u/a_CertainRomance — 6 days ago

24 [F4M] I’m really new to this

Hi I’m very new at this and I’m looking for the perfect Daddy to guide me

I’m looking for a confident, no nonsense, firm but kind, and patient daddy. I need someone who can help me learn everything about being a good girl for you and to keep me on set routines and following your rules

Please don’t message if name calling or immediate sexting is in your mind - I want to learn about you, text like normal people, but with our own dynamic in mind.

I’m not picky on looks or age, but the firm hand, confidence, and stoic personalities that come from older daddies are usually the ones for me.

I’m excited to get chatting with you! Please be kind, alot of messages can make me feel really overwhelmed and anxious… I promise to do my best to get back to you quick!

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u/Shy-Subbie — 7 days ago

25 [F4M] daddy’s girl

Hiii, I’m 25 and looking to have a serious relationship with someone who’s older and has a bit of an age gap. I do enjoy someone who is caring yet dominant that can be my best friend too.

Id like to really get to know someone and see if we connect before rushing into anything serious. I like to be outdoors, chat with new people, try new foods and have a good laugh! I’m also very kink friendly and open to trying most things :) Love to be in your lap right now and plan a cute Disney trip!

feel free to message and find out anything you’re curious about! I don’t really respond new new blank accounts

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u/cutesubby4u — 7 days ago

18 [F4M] #Oakland Cali looking for my Daddy

Ideally much older. Experienced. A DaddyDom. Traditional gender roles and Patriarchy at all times.

I'm very submissive and a lifelong little I've always had family support which is so important to me. I'm open to relocation but would need to check on a few big questions with Him first but obviously I want Daddy to make those decisions for me. I'm very girly and quite petit and prefer feminine over feminism

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u/jessicawilson__ — 7 days ago

18 [F4M] #Texas Looking for my daddy

Hi! I’m very new to this dynamic and looking for a traditional, caring Daddy who wants something soft, loving, and genuine.

I’m looking for someone confident and steady, a man who enjoys leading, guiding, and taking care of his girl in a sweet and patient way. I want a dynamic where I can feel safe being soft, submissive, affectionate, and cared for.

I love the little things most. I want someone who remembers my favorite snacks, asks if I got home safe, holds my hand in public, remembers my stuffies’ names, helps me stay on routines, and makes me feel protected and adored. I want structure, consistency, reassurance, and a Daddy who enjoys taking care of his girl emotionally just as much as in the dynamic itself.

I’m naturally very gentle and eager to please, and I’d love someone who can help me grow into being a good girl for them. Patience, kindness, and emotional maturity mean a lot to me.

I’m not picky about looks or age, I love calm, masculine, protective personalities, especially men who are a little more traditional and nurturing.

I’m excited to get to know you

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u/SummerDoe07 — 6 days ago

18 [F4M] #canada #online

Hi :) I’m honestly really shy, but I thought I’d try posting here anyway.

I’m 4’10, 82lbs, with long blonde hair and light grey eyes. I’m very quiet when I first meet people, but once I feel safe around someone I get attached really fast and become very affectionate and clingy. I’m sensitive in a soft way. things like thunder, yelling, or loud noises genuinely scare me, and I tend to overthink a lot.

I’m looking for someone kind, patient, protective, and emotionally warm. I really value gentleness and feeling comfortable with someone. I love late night conversations, reassurance, attention, and just feeling close to someone I can trust. I am however looking for somebody a little older than me, who’s mature :).

I’ve been into ddlg for as long as I can remember, it’s just a part of me :) i love acting and feeling little so much, i enjoy colouring, watching cartoons, playing with stuffies, using my paci etc etc
I feel my little age is pretty young :)

As for regular hobbies I love reading, writing, baking, playing Roblox etc

If you message me, please be respectful and genuine. Please tell me a bit about yourself & what you look like!! I’m willing to send a picture once we talk a little so you know I’m real. :D

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u/babybunnygal — 9 days ago

30 [F4M] #online New to this

Hi! I’m 30F, blonde/ blue eyes, white, married, mom - seeking a new dynamic with a daddy dom.

By day, I’m a corporate leader, mom to two, overall in a happy marriage. (Discretion is mandatory)

Ive had previous D’s relationships, but as I’m learning about myself- I believe a DDlg relationship is a better route for me. I’m craving someone who wants to ease the loneliness I feel, create a LTR online relationship and enjoy one another with the kink along the way. Consistent communication is a must.

I’m very attracted to intellects and my previous Doms have been lawyers, corporate leaders, doctors, etc. Your intellect and drive to be successful is highly attractive mixed with your need to claim, own and protect.

If interested, let me know your age/sex/race and a little about yourself. 😊

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u/Zealousideal_Gap7409 — 8 days ago