u/littlegirl10003

Craving male validation or like a daddy/ fatherly figure rn somehow

This might be a slightly unusual request, but I figured this would be the best place to put it out there.
I already have a Mommy and am very happy with that dynamic. However, I’ve recently realized that there’s another kind of connection I’ve been missing. I grew up without much of a father figure, and I think because of that I really crave the feeling of having a safe, caring and reliable masculine figure I can look up to.
So I’m looking for a Daddy/little dynamic, but not a romantic or sexual relationship. I’m a lesbian and I’m not looking to change that or experiment sexually with men. What I’m interested in is the emotional/caretaking side of the dynamic.
I’d love someone who genuinely enjoys being nurturing while also having some gentle authority like checking in on me, asking about my day, giving me advice and guidance, being protective, praising me when I’ve done well, holding me accountable, and potentially giving me little rules or routines once we’ve established trust. I really like the idea of having someone whose opinion I can ask for and who takes some initiative in looking out for me rather than the entire dynamic being something I have to initiate myself.
I also experience genuine age regression, so sometimes I become much smaller and more vulnerable mentally and need more patience, reassurance, simple guidance and comfort.Anything involving my regression needs to remain completely sfw. I want that headspace to be treated as something vulnerable and safe, never sexualized.
I’m not expecting somebody to immediately become “Daddy” just because we exchanged a few messages either. I’d want to talk normally first, establish boundaries and trust and see whether our personalities and expectations actually fit.
Basically, I’m looking for the emotional experience of having a safe daddy, someone nurturing, consistent, protective and gently authoritative who enjoys taking care of their little, without romance or physical stuff being the price of receiving that care.
If that sounds like the kind of dynamic you’d genuinely enjoy too, feel free to tell me a little about yourself and reach out 🧸🥺🫶🏻

Im a little girl (cis), 19 and looking for caregiver who enjoys nurturing, reassuring, consistency and a little authority sometimes cuz at times I like to be a little bratty hehe. I'm a little (little age 4) who feels safest when met with consistency, affection, praise and gentle guidance. I love being babied and sweet talked to and getting routines and rules from my cg and would love a 24/7 dynamic. Don’t get me wrong I like to still be my own person but I also like when my cg decides things for me or does things for me cause I’m too little. When I regress, little me loves cartoons, coloring, pacis, cuddles with plushies or to diaper up and be all cozy and small 🥺 now all that’s missing is a gentle loving mommy who guides me thru life, older women have my heart 👀. Looking for something longterm and monogamous, idm long distance.
I’m quite sensitive so you should be able to ground, be affectionate, reassure and be gentle. I struggle with regulating my emotions properly so a soft mommy in that concern would be amazing.
I love praise, punishments and rewards, being called little one, nursing, being held and babied and given rules such as bedtime or outfit control, being bratty and being put in my place. I wouldn’t mind a tpe dynamic with the right person, but most of all I crave someone whom I can feel emotionally safe with and who makes me feel like I can just be little and they take care of me. For me mdlg isn’t just a kink or a role, it’s a lifestyle in which I feel the safest and most comfortable like I can be truly me.
Looking for a deeper connection, not just sexual stuff, for me that’s not the purpose of mdlg and it’d be nice if my partner would see it the same way. I rather value emotional intelligence and communication. Idm appearance since I don’t have a type in women so just be you and I’ll be happy! Each size shape and color welcome 🫶🏻 I’m around 5‘5 with darkred hair and green eyes, I’d say my appearance is between average and a lil chubby. I love squirrels and dogs lmao.
Outside of little space I'm goofy, laugh about my own jokes way too long , creative such a crocheting or drawing, write poems and love taylor swift, and would say I’m kindhearted as well 🙂‍↔️💗
No poly people or men pls:) also stuff like fwb or all those fake dom people dni 😊 I’m just here to find a genuine long term mommy who actually knows how to lead and doesn’t just use her power of being a domme. If you feel like we could match don’t hesitate sliding into my dm, hopefully my mommy is out there it’s tough being little on my own😖🫶🏻 so feel free to dm:3

Im a little girl (cis), 19 and looking for caregiver who enjoys nurturing, reassuring, consistency and a little authority sometimes cuz at times I like to be a little bratty hehe. I'm a little (little age 4) who feels safest when met with consistency, affection, praise and gentle guidance. I love being babied and sweet talked to and getting routines and rules from my cg and would love a 24/7 dynamic. Don’t get me wrong I like to still be my own person but I also like when my cg decides things for me or does things for me cause I’m too little. When I regress, little me loves cartoons, coloring, pacis, cuddles with plushies or to diaper up and be all cozy and small 🥺 now all that’s missing is a gentle loving mommy who guides me thru life, older women have my heart 👀. Looking for something longterm and monogamous, idm long distance.
I’m quite sensitive so you should be able to ground, be affectionate, reassure and be gentle. I struggle with regulating my emotions properly so a soft mommy in that concern would be amazing.
I love praise, punishments and rewards, being called little one, nursing, being held and babied and given rules such as bedtime or outfit control, being bratty and being put in my place. I wouldn’t mind a tpe dynamic with the right person, but most of all I crave someone whom I can feel emotionally safe with and who makes me feel like I can just be little and they take care of me. For me mdlg isn’t just a kink or a role, it’s a lifestyle in which I feel the safest and most comfortable like I can be truly me.
Looking for a deeper connection, not just sexual stuff, for me that’s not the purpose of mdlg and it’d be nice if my partner would see it the same way. I rather value emotional intelligence and communication. Idm appearance since I don’t have a type in women so just be you and I’ll be happy! Each size shape and color welcome 🫶🏻 I’m around 5‘5 with darkred hair and green eyes, I’d say my appearance is between average and a lil chubby. I love squirrels and dogs lmao.
Outside of little space I'm goofy, laugh about my own jokes way too long , creative such a crocheting or drawing, write poems and love taylor swift, and would say I’m kindhearted as well 🙂‍↔️💗
No poly people or men pls:) also stuff like fwb or all those fake dom people dni 😊 I’m just here to find a genuine long term mommy who actually knows how to lead and doesn’t just use her power of being a domme. If you feel like we could match don’t hesitate sliding into my dm, hopefully my mommy is out there it’s tough being little on my own😖🫶🏻 so feel free to dm:3

Im a little girl (cis), 19 and looking for caregiver who enjoys nurturing, reassuring, consistency and a little authority sometimes cuz at times I like to be a little bratty hehe. I'm a little (little age 4) who feels safest when met with consistency, affection, praise and gentle guidance. I love being babied and sweet talked to and getting routines and rules from my cg and would love a 24/7 dynamic. Don’t get me wrong I like to still be my own person but I also like when my cg decides things for me or does things for me cause I’m too little. When I regress, little me loves cartoons, coloring, pacis, cuddles with plushies or to diaper up and be all cozy and small 🥺 now all that’s missing is a gentle loving mommy who guides me thru life, older women have my heart 👀. Looking for something longterm and monogamous, idm long distance.
I’m quite sensitive so you should be able to ground, be affectionate, reassure and be gentle. I struggle with regulating my emotions properly so a soft mommy in that concern would be amazing.
I love praise, punishments and rewards, being called little one, nursing, being held and babied and given rules such as bedtime or outfit control, being bratty and being put in my place. I wouldn’t mind a tpe dynamic with the right person, but most of all I crave someone whom I can feel emotionally safe with and who makes me feel like I can just be little and they take care of me. For me mdlg isn’t just a kink or a role, it’s a lifestyle in which I feel the safest and most comfortable like I can be truly me.
Looking for a deeper connection, not just sexual stuff, for me that’s not the purpose of mdlg and it’d be nice if my partner would see it the same way. I rather value emotional intelligence and communication. Idm appearance since I don’t have a type in women so just be you and I’ll be happy! Each size shape and color welcome 🫶🏻 I’m around 5‘5 with darkred hair and green eyes, I’d say my appearance is between average and a lil chubby. I love squirrels and dogs lmao.
Outside of little space I'm goofy, laugh about my own jokes way too long , creative such a crocheting or drawing, write poems and love taylor swift, and would say I’m kindhearted as well 🙂‍↔️💗
No poly people or men pls:) also stuff like fwb or all those fake dom people dni 😊 I’m just here to find a genuine long term mommy who actually knows how to lead and doesn’t just use her power of being a domme. If you feel like we could match don’t hesitate sliding into my dm, hopefully my mommy is out there it’s tough being little on my own😖🫶🏻 so feel free to dm:3

Looking for caregiver who enjoys nurturing, reassuring and a lil authority sometimes. I'm a little who feels safest when met with consistency, affection, praise and gentle guidance. I love being babied and getting routines and rules from my cg. When I regress little me loves cartoons, pacis, cuddle with plushies or diaper up and be all cozy and small 🥺
Looking for a deeper connection, not just sexual stuff. I value emotional intelligence and communication.
Outside of little space I'm goofy, creative, write poems and love taylor swift, and would say kindhearted as well 🙂‍↔️💗
No poly people or men pls:) also stuff fwb or all those fake dom people dni 😊

Looking for caregiver who enjoys nurturing, reassuring and a lil authority sometimes. I'm a little who feels safest when met with consistency, affection, praise and gentle guidance. I love being babied and getting routines and rules from my cg. When I regress little me loves cartoons, pacis, cuddle with plushies or diaper up and be all cozy and small 🥺
Looking for a deeper connection, not just sexual stuff. I value emotional intelligence and communication.
Outside of little space I'm goofy, creative, write poems and love taylor swift, and would say kindhearted as well 🙂‍↔️💗

Hi everyone! 🌸🧸
I’m a 19 year old little from Germany (idm long distance, but not looking for something purely online) who’s hoping to meet a gentle, patient and loving wlw mommy for a genuine long term connection. For me, being little is about feeling safe, comforted, and cared for. I love cuddling with plushies, coloring, pacis, cozy evenings, watching cartoons, being nursed, babied and praised and all the little moments that make life feel softer. I love to regress and feeling all little and cozy, the only thing missing to make little space perfect is a mommy >•<
I’m more on the soft side of this community so I just want someone who knows how to lead and guide gently, is good with words and being affectionate, knows how to reassure and ground me and keeps me safe. I crave someone I can look up to, who’ll hold and baby me all day long and is able to make me feel comfortable enough to regress and let little me out. Another thing worth mentioning would be that I’m not just looking for a dynamic, I can’t just have a cg/ little dynamic without falling in love at a certain point so I’d want a mdlg relationship. Appearance isn’t really important for me since i don’t have a type in women, what I do look out for is the depth of your soul and if you’re able to make me feel safe in being with you. So id say my criteria is more based on emotional values and compatibility in that concern. Also I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’d much rather build trust, get to know each other and see if we naturally click. Communication, kindness, reassurance, and emotional consistency mean a lot to me. I’m not looking for anything purely physical tho since I don’t like being just seen as a toy for someone to play with, if that’s your thing that’s alright, it’s just not for me. I’m demisexual so I need emotional connection before anything else and also a lot to gentle and softness. I’d much rather know every thought you think, things you never say out loud and the deepest longings of your soul than do any physical stuff. I carry deep emotions everywhere I go and would want my emotional needs to be met much rather seen as a priority. Also I’m monogamous so I’d appreciate my mommy being monogamous too since I can get a bit jelly and possessive (not in a toxic way tho) sometimes. I crave someone who can make my sometimes overthinking mind feel understood, my nervous system feel safe and little me being taken care of mostly in an innocent way. If you’re someone who enjoys nurturing, values open communication, gentleness and don’t mind a deeply feeling heart full of love and softness I’d love to get to know you💗🫶🏻

Hi everyone! 🌸🧸
I’m a 19 year old little from Germany (idm long distance) who’s hoping to meet a gentle, patient wlw mommy for a genuine long term connection. For me, being little is about feeling safe, comforted, and cared for. I love cuddling with plushies, coloring, pacis, cozy evenings and all the little moments that make life feel softer.
I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’d much rather build trust, get to know each other and see if we naturally click. Communication, kindness, reassurance, and emotional consistency mean a lot to me. If you’re someone who enjoys nurturing, values open communication, gentleness and don’t mind a deeply feeling heart full of love and softness I’d love to get to know you💗🫶🏻

Haii, im a little and experience age regression to the age of around 4. I’m looking for a long term mommy idm long distance. One thing I do mind tho is specifically age regression being sexualized and people only reaching out for fun or physical thing or whatever so if you’re that kinda person pls don’t interact. I’m looking for an emotion connection before anything! I have quite a sensitive heart kind soul and oftentimes a loud mind therefore someone who’s able to ground, reassure and be soft and gentle is quite important to me. I’m big on consistency, open and honest communication and emotional intelligence also id be nice if you stay emotionally present cause I got abandonment and rejection wounds so id wanna protect myself from more possible hurt. Little me loves to curl up with her stuffies and paci and watch cartoons, listen to children’s audiobooks or color and I just wanna be held, babied and taken care of with loads of sweet and reassuring words. Meanwhile big me (19) enjoys crocheting, being creative or crafting things, artists like taylor swift as well as making music myself or writing poetry. My mommy should definitely be a soft dom, gentle, patient, kind and sweet, the heart at the right spot, understanding and with a good emotional depth and not scared of big emotions. Since I’ve noticed it’s not a matter of course that everyone accepts boundaries like that, I don’t do anything too extreme and am more on the soft side and since my focus is emotional connection I don’t send dirty pictures or stuff like that first cause I don’t feel comfortable with it and second cause intimacy really comes second to me, I’d much more prefer if you tell me about your passions, your inner world, your deepest desires and secrets, explain how your brain and nervous system work or just anything you feel comfortable with:) as for my appearance, I have around shoulder length darkred straight hair, green eyes and am around 5’5. I’d consider myself average built or maybe even a bit chubby idk tbh haha. I don’t have a specific type when it comes to women I date, since I’m also demisexual leaning my criteria is more based on your inner world and values and if we’re compatible emotional wise. I’m definitely femme leaning but I really don’t care that that much about your appearance as long as we get along emotionally and on a value level we‘ll be good:) oh and also since I’ve seen so many people on here being poly (not in a shameful way tho!), me for myself I’m definitely monogamous and I’d say also way too jealous (not in a toxic way) and possessive of my mommy to let a third person in, so I’d appreciate if you’re monogamous as well. And please be emotional mature cause I love deep talks and connecting on that level as well. So all in all you could say if you’re an older soft dom woman who’s nurturing gentle and has emotional intelligence you practically already won 😌🫶🏻 so if there’s someone like that out there don’t hesitate to reach out my DMs are always open 💗

Haii, im a little and experience age regression to the age of around 4. I’m looking for a long term mommy idm long distance. One thing I do mind tho is specifically age regression being sexualized and people only reaching out for fun or physical thing or whatever so if you’re that kinda person pls don’t interact. I’m looking for an emotion connection before anything! I have quite a sensitive heart kind soul and oftentimes a loud mind therefore someone who’s able to ground, reassure and be soft and gentle is quite important to me. I’m big on consistency, open and honest communication and emotional intelligence also id be nice if you stay emotionally present cause I got abandonment and rejection wounds so id wanna protect myself from more possible hurt. Little me loves to curl up with her stuffies and paci and watch cartoons, listen to children’s audiobooks or color and I just wanna be held, babied and taken care of with loads of sweet and reassuring words. Meanwhile big me (19) enjoys crocheting, being creative or crafting things, artists like taylor swift as well as making music myself or writing poetry. My mommy should definitely be a soft dom, gentle, patient, kind and sweet, the heart at the right spot, understanding and with a good emotional depth and not scared of big emotions. Since I’ve noticed it’s not a matter of course that everyone accepts boundaries like that, I don’t do anything too extreme and am more on the soft side and since my focus is emotional connection I don’t send dirty pictures or stuff like that first cause I don’t feel comfortable with it and second cause intimacy really comes second to me, I’d much more prefer if you tell me about your passions, your inner world, your deepest desires and secrets, explain how your brain and nervous system work or just anything you feel comfortable with:) as for my appearance, I have around shoulder length darkred straight hair, green eyes and am around 5’5. I’d consider myself average built or maybe even a bit chubby idk tbh haha. I don’t have a specific type when it comes to women I date, since I’m also demisexual leaning my criteria is more based on your inner world and values and if we’re compatible emotional wise. I’m definitely femme leaning but I really don’t care that that much about your appearance as long as we get along emotionally and on a value level we‘ll be good:) oh and also since I’ve seen so many people on here being poly (not in a shameful way tho!), me for myself I’m definitely monogamous and I’d say also way too jealous (not in a toxic way) and possessive of my mommy to let a third person in, so I’d appreciate if you’re monogamous as well. And please be emotional mature cause I love deep talks and connecting on that level as well. So all in all you could say if you’re an older soft dom woman who’s nurturing gentle and has emotional intelligence you practically already won 😌🫶🏻 so if there’s someone like that out there don’t hesitate to reach out my DMs are always open 💗

Im a little and the longer I talk to different doms the more I notice a lot of people fully se*ualize little space and I don’t like it at all, like I just wanna be taken care of and feeling safe enough to regress. Not in a dirty way, more in a nurturing caring way 😖 does anyone else also struggle with that?

Im a little and when I regress I love to curl up with my plushies and paci and watch cartoons or color but also I’d love to suckle. For me getting in little space is such a safe space I feel taken care of, loved and just all safe and cozy but there’s no one who babys me and just holds me or lets me suckle. Also I’m looking for a mdlg dynamic long term 💗

Im craving a mommy 🥺 not just for physical stuff but especially emotionally wise. I just wanna be babied held and sweet talked to and I love praise and petnames. I love being in little space and would be open to exploring that further. Pls no men I’m a lesbian 💝

F19 [F4F] wlw, little girl seeking soft dom mommy to guide hold and comfort her 🥺 I really crave for someone to be my mommy not for se*ual stuff tho I value emotional connection and closeness. For me mdlg is more than just a kink it’s a place where I feel at peace and like I’m taken care of protected and loved 🥰

I miss having a mommy, longing for an older soft dom woman who lets me be little, takes care of me, is good at reassuring and giving a lot of affection naturally and seeks an emotional connection rather than just a physical one. Emotional depth is one of the most important things for me and I need it like the air to breathe. I’m deeply feeling with a sensitive heart and oftentimes loud mind so someone gentle, caring and softly leading would be important for me. I also love being praised, babied or sweet talked to. I’m 19, little age is 4 but I wouldn’t mind getting deeper into little space. I love being babied, curled up with my plushies watching cartoons, coloring and being taken care of. Big me enjoys crocheting, listening to taylor swift or being creative in general such as crafting things or drawing. I’m from Germany but idm long distance especially since I prefer English over German. For me mdlg isn’t just a kink, it’s a place where I feel the safest I ever felt, I seek a relationship with care, softness, mutual understanding and love. I’m big on consistency, open and honest communication and reassurance. I just wanna feel small and cared for, ugh someone please be my mommy 😖

I miss having a mommy 🥺 I’m a little (little age 4, big age 19), preferably an older soft dom woman who leads with gentleness, affection and softness. I value emotional connection and closeness, feeling seen, emotional depth and someone who’s able to hold big emotions and stays emotionally present. I’m from Germany but i prefer English and idm long distance. I wouldn’t mind getting deeper into little space so if you’re curious just write a dm 🥰

Im a little with a soft and kind heart that seeks protection and a body that wants to be held for hours straight. I experience age regression so I spent a lot of time in little headspace. With that being said I need quite a soft, reassuring, caring, kind and patient person on my side. All I want is being taking care of by an older woman, having rules and routines, getting deeper into little space, having someone I can rely on and overall just a mommy to lean on and be safe with. I love being babied and praised and getting called petnames so I’d consider myself definitely more on the soft side of all this. I’m a demisexual leaning lesbian so purely sexual stuff is not what I’m here for , I’m looking for a genuine emotional deep connection, someone who’s able to laugh with me on the good days and watch cartoons with me and stroke my hair but also can dry my tears and ground me on bad ones. Communication, being able to take accountability and self awareness are fundamental for me for anything relationship wise. Besides my little side there’s also big me, which enjoys crocheting, singing along to Taylor swift songs, playing piano or exploring nature. If you feel like we could be a good match, my DMs are always open 💗

19 • Germany • WLW 🌷
I’m a pretty sensitive and affectionate person and what I love most about this dynamic is feeling safe, cared for, guided, and having someone I can be soft with. I’m naturally very nurturing appreciate people who are patient, consistent, and emotionally available.
Outside of a dynamic I spend way too much time listening to music, writing, crocheting and daydreaming. I love deep conversations, sharing little parts of everyday life, and building connections slowly. I’m definitely more demisexual-leaning, so emotional closeness means everything to me.
As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet an older woman with a gentle, protective, nurturing side. Someone who enjoys giving reassurance, values communication, and prefers a dynamic built on mutual trust, affection, and genuine care rather than rushing into anything. Bonus points if you’re a bit clingy too, because I honestly love feeling close and involved in each other’s lives.
Not looking for hookups or anything purely sexual. Just hoping to find people I can connect with and maybe something meaningful if it naturally grows into that. 🩷
Feel free to say hi, I don’t bite (unless we’re talking about plushies, then all bets are off 🧸✨)