I’m a 34F black hucow who is currently dry but attempting to induce lactation. I’m looking for an owner who would see me as his property and my breasts as his udders for milk production. I would like to be hooked up to a milking machine multiple times per day and once I’m producing have production goals that must be met.

I like a strict owner who keeps track of his property and punishes me when he sees fit. With the right partner, he would eventually control what I wear, and what I eat because my udders will need to produce the best milk for him and I need to stay hydrated and eat lots of oats, fruits, and veggies.

If this is you, please reach out. My DMs are open 🐮

i am single, and my long term goal is to be married, to be submissive to my husband, and to be a good wife. i have a career, which i hope to step down to part time when i am with him and the relationship itself is ready. i find men honorable, lovely, and impressive. i have respect for you. please be respectful of me and let's observe sensible pacing.

i am looking for a long term relationship in which i can be owned and dominated on a 24/7 or 24/7 minus career basis. to others, we are vanilla, but between us, there's a disparity of power which is both fun and kinky. the relationship i'm seeking is more real than vanilla relationships, and it includes a real desire to follow your leadership and seek your grounding and stability.

me: white, skinny, sexy, sweet. i am beautiful, sweet, gentle, and open minded.

you (my preferences): are about my height or taller (5'10") and stronger than me. when meeting men, i tend to prefer east asian men. i like men within 10 years of my age, either direction. i have to find you attractive. i don't mind you being older than me, but i prefer taller. I tend to like serious looking but playful men, and i have a great sense of humor. i hope you do!

please be near: if you aren't, we'd have to find a way to meet irl within a sensible amount of time, vibe check, and find out if it's the connection we need ... but i would love to move, and in particular i'd love to live in a major city with lots of diversity or high values. or east asia. it's up to you, isn't it? :)

most importantly...

• i hope for chemistry, relationship, friendship ... plus a lot more. if you don't see a possibility of a ltr which could yield a marriage (assuming pacing and everything works out) we might not be on the same page. i am not interested in trivial casual things but i'm also in no rush!
• the right person can reassure me that there's no evil intent on the way to owning me by using pacing
• i have absolutely no interest in this part of me being exposed, so i like to share pics once i'm comfortable, and if you reach out and send pics, i promise not to share your photos, so do not share mine
• i'm most attracted to east asian men, not in a fetishy way at all, just in a "those guys fire me up" way. please consider reaching out if my kinks interest you and you fit this preference <3 it is sincere
• i find men with fitter, more muscular bodies, the most attractive
• sexual health and safety is the most important. protection is a 100% requirement. until a long term committed relationship happens, this is an expectation.
• while the kinks i talk about below are something i would like to engage with often, and as a relationship dynamic, i also have a career and i'm able to care for myself entirely. long term, i'd like to work less than full time. but then when you own me, anytime when i'm not working i would belong to you fully

here are my main kinks:

• animal roleplay in which i'm your dog and you're my (naughty) owner (the dehumanizing aspect of this kink is very appealing to me) who insists i am a pet and forces me to wear a collar :3 this goes as far as you want, but i really like it, and forcing me into a gag so i can talk as much as other animals is definitely ok :3 i would be more than happy to eat out of a bowl and live in a cage to whatever degree you enjoy, even if you prefer the slave angle to the pet angle
• piss play, especially if you can commit to keeping your piss clean (from drugs, alcohol, prescriptions), when using me for this. i really really like it, and if you forced me to shower and dry but not rinse your piss it would be pretty humiliating ! ! !
• ball worship, me on my knees, you being appreciated! :3
• ideally each hole is something you're interested in, and long term, daily 😩
• taking my ass with no lube (or just spit) is something i will need <3 as both a punishment and as a reminder
• humiliation
• essentially master/slave, TPE dynamic is the longterm goal
• aftercare is a must. i need to be held. and i will want to be held fairly often due to emotional needs!!

in order for this to work, you'd have to be a pretty special man with a big heart. i think the idea of serving as someone's private joy and punishment vehicle is really thrilling. other dynamics which would excite me could involve lots of different dominant/submissive angles ... care to tell me more about what you're interested in?

if it's possible to start a real relationship (which works towards a real ltr) and then work towards a close-to 24/7 (private) relationship, that would be awesome. so if this was an arrangement we could both work, it'd be pretty much TPE however that suits you once i'm comfortable with you. i'd love to talk to you about how you'd use a slave like this. i have a life outside of this, so it would take a lot to make me not live my life, but there's a real possibility of marriage (and longterm ownership) for the right man (and in fact, that would be ideal)

reach out via chat or message. i would love to submit and look up to you and be your private abuse slut. this post is pretty tpe and assymetrical, so only sane discussions would precede anything real happening... but something real could happen! <3

it's difficult to respond to all replies, so only nearby, well-matched people get prioritized. i'm sure you're awesome, i just can't reply to all <3. when you reach out, please tell all of the following if you hope for a reply:

• where are you located?
• how old are you?
• are you sexy?
• do you have your own home?
• do you have a job and a life of your own?
• are you an east asian man?
• are you tall?
• are you single?

if you send pics first, i will follow suit, but i'd prefer to see your body and face first, junk later

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The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex or attach the MommyDom/Worship/AgePlay angle to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, and not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one time hookups. I like a lot of things and have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just here looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play.. ideally primal, erotic ANR-ABF in a kinky FWB dynamic

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

If this post is up, I'm accepting messages. I'm not here to do a few spicy scenes and a vanishing act. My submission runs deep once trust is established. If you're interested in unshakable loyalty and service, keep reading.

About Me

• Basics: 26, located in Virginia, 5'3 (around 127lbs), INFJ, relatively fit (looking to be more active, I'd love a gym partner), pear body type; thighs for days. I'm more alternative, I have two tattoos, I'd love to get more. My pfp is my face. I'm willing to verify.

• Lifestyle: When I'm not working, I love to game with my friends or solo (maybe with you too!). I mostly play Overwatch and Dead by Daylight. I make traditional and digital art. I write as well. I love making floral bouquets and cake decorating when I have time. I'll preserve all the bouquets you give me. Music and movies (especially horror) are a staple in my life as well.

• Personality: I can be shy at first, still sweet and respectful. Once I'm more comfortable, you'll see how intense and needy I am, my humor, my submission. I feel things deeply, I love hard. If you don't like the thought of me liking you so much, I want to crawl in your skin, then I'm not the sub for you. I'm sharply observant and very sentimental. I'll notice how you respond to certain things I do. Even your quirks. Maybe you fold a towel a certain way, and I'll do the same for you. Do you like your coffee or tea a certain way? Of course you do. I'll watch. I'll ask. I'll remember. I love to please. I do have my bratty streaks, though, I will admit. Playing toxic games has given me a smart mouth at times. Good thing I love being reminded of my place.

• What I Value: Deep conversation and connection, consistency, presence, emotional intelligence, mutual intensity. Don't just tell me nice things, do it.

What I Offer

• Service and Submission: Shocker, I know. My submission and service would extend beyond the bedroom. Even if it's something as small as you ordering me to give you a kiss the second I see you, or sit at your feet while you work on something.

• Emotional and Physical Fulfillment: I'm very compassionate and passionate. Once we've established a connection, my care for you will run as deep as my submission. I'll take care of you beyond sexually, especially on your bad days. Aside from my limits, I'm pretty open-minded. I get off on pleasing. So if you have a specific kink or fetish, it will turn me on seeing how turned on you are.

• Commitment and Consistency: I've never cheated before. I'm strictly monogomous (and possessive), and I'm single. Communication is very important to me, I will always be open about my schedule and time constraints. I will show up as much as you show up for me. I match energy.

What I'm Looking For

• Dominant Man: Preferably around my age or a little older. Although I'm not extremely shallow, physical attraction is still important to me. I will need some sort of connection physically as well as emotionally, I can't have one without the other. I will be asking for selfies. I will share as well. Taller (size difference kink), fit or in relatively good shape (I want to be active together), good hygiene. I love brown eyes and dark, shorter hair. That's not a deal-breaker for me, though, but I have noticed I'm more drawn to the clean-cut look. Bonus points if you have a nice voice.

• Experience: I prefer a Dom who is experienced, I don't tolerate abuse of power. The more you respect my boundaries, the more I'll let you disrespect me, if you catch my drift.

• Structure and Routine: I am neurodivergent, specifically on the spectrum (high-masking). Following a routine is very important to me, I struggle with inconsistency and last minute changes, that's why communication is so important to me. I want to feel molded and trained perfectly to tailor to your needs. I want to learn you inside and out.

• TPE: I'm open to Master and Daddy Doms. Depending on who you are will depend on our dynamic. I love a dynamic that exists outside of the bedroom, even in subtle ways. I want to be able to shut off my brain around you. Your pleasure, satisfaction, and care will feel like a mental vacation for me.

• Princess Treatment: I love being spoiled, but I'm not easily impressed by material things. I mostly mean being spoiled with attention and affection. I'm not going to stop you if you want to buy me things, but I'm the kind of person where if I want something nice, I just get it myself. Since my focus on you is to please, it's not too hard to please me (since I'm already pretty satisfied with submitting and serving). I like being coddled and babied. Sue me. Chivalry is attractive. I'm a slut for pet names (literally and figuratively).

• Emotional Maturity: I'm actually very silly and playful (I reference brainrot memes a lot), but it's important to me that you know yourself and you have a relatively confident self-concept. If conflict arises, we both need to feel heard and understood to maintain trust and safety. I need to be able to be vulnerable with you. If I don't feel safe, I can't submit. If I feel like I can't trust you, I can't submit.

• Physical Intimacy: I don't mind if you're a state or two away as long as you plan on meeting up at some point. If you're not in my area, I totally understand having to plan things out and get to know each other for a bit longer before seeing each other instead of having casual dates at first. If I feel a genuine connection, I'll do everything I can to work things out, but I do prefer if you took initiative. I don't enjoy the mental load of planning everything out especially dates. I like a 'be ready at this time, wear this' kind of dom. :)

• Shared Investment: You want a deep connection, potential love, power exchange, and intimacy all in one relationship.

Kinks: prey, praise, degradation, masochism, orgasm control and denial, free-use, impact play, choking, light pet play (meow), masks, corruption/dumbification, and CNC. I have more, but we can discuss that better in DMs.

Limits: age-play, abdl, zoophilia, scat, watersports, emetophilia, sounding, anal (light play is fine), cuckholding, poly or open relationships.

If You're Still Reading

Thank you for your time! :3 Feel free to DM me on here. Tell me how you'd break me down just to rebuild me again, or what you like about my post. Or just introduce yourself and we can build something more. Effort is way hotter than a simple "hi" especially since I took a lot of time curating this post. Once we get past the basics and I feel like we are compatible, we can go from there.

Also, I can tell if you're using ChatGPT for your responses, if you need AI to tell you how to dom, you are not experienced enough for me.