29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 5 hours ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 4 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!

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u/Genesis_21397 — 6 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 6 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany - Woke up feeling very horny. Let's chat and see if we do something about it

I didn't find the time to jerk off all week so I am quite pent up. Balls heavy, cock aching. So I am looking for a nice woman to chat with. What happens is up to you though. Would you like to just have a mundane conversation, knowing that I am horny and frustrated and hoping for something sexual? Would you flirt and tease and turn me on, but not allow me to touch myself? Or would you make me touch myself? Edge me as you like and making me cum on command... or deny me if you wish? It's all up to you. I think that is a fun game to play, giving a woman control over what happens. Let me know if you are interested.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 7 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Nerdy and very gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a nice woman on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and dynamic and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends and keep it online if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviors that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 8 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for eachother.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 9 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!

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u/Genesis_21397 — 9 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Really pent up and looking to text or voice chat with a woman. You decide what happens

I did not cum in a few days so I am really pent up and looking to text or voice chat with a woman. But you decide what happens. We can just talk about something mundane, flirt and tease while you don't allow me to touch myself or you may make me jerk off as we talk. Edge me as you like and make me cum on command... or deny me if you wish.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 9 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Nerdy guy looking for something genuine with a younger woman

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Very much an introvert and, as you saw with my interests, a nerdy guy. I would say I am very affectionate, my love language is physical touch so if you enjoy being hugged and kissed and cuddled you might be happy with me. Definitely the nurturing caretaker kind of guy too since I am the oldest in my family so that is just the role that is natural to me. However when it comes to relationships, I do believe in things being mutual. So I'd very much prefer a partner who is also affectionate and nurturing so we can both take care of eachother. Find comfort in eachother when life gets hard. Be eachothers strongest ally and most trusted advisor against all hardships life throws at us. Basically I will treat you the way you treat me, we will be equals.

As for what I am looking for, well, ideally a romantic relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I would love to find the right person I can one day settle down and have kids with. I am not in a hurry though, just want to be upfront about long term intentions. Also I consider myself an atheist in case that is important to you. So I would like to find the love of my life here but I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 10 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for eachother.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 10 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany - Wholesome gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life or at least a nice online dynamic on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviors that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 11 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for eachother.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 11 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviours that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 13 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life

Hey! I know there are many men like me here but I thought maybe I get lucky and you find me here:)

I am a 29 years old guy from Germany. Of Turkish descent, 1.74 m with a slim fit build, short brown hair and a short beard. Definitely the introverted type with plenty of nerdy hobbies.

Hobbies include stuff like gaming, anime/manga and fantasy literature. But also stuff like cooking or cleaning (I value cleanliness, hope that counts as a green flag?). Oh and my taste in music includes many genres but I am especially fond of rock and metal music, bands like Linkin Park were a big part of my life.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for eachother.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 14 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online — I yearn for the gentle guidance of a very wholesome dominant woman in my life. Online friendship with JOI & orgasm control. Open to a romantic relationship

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

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u/Genesis_21397 — 14 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany - Gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life or at least a nice online dynamic on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and Dom/sub dynamic and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other. So if you are just looking for an online dynamic that is perfectly fine too.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviors that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 14 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany - Gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life or at least a nice online dynamic on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and Dom/sub dynamic and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other. So if you are just looking for an online dynamic that is perfectly fine too.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviors that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 16 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany - Wholesome gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life or at least a nice online dynamic on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviors that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 16 days ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Gentle dom looking for friendship, online dynamic and maybe IRL romance

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

I am open to start with an online friendship and if we get along get into a relationship. Ideally a relationship of course but I am a bit of an idealist in that regard so I intend to let things develop over time and am fine with just being friends if we don't end up developing any more serious feelings for each other.

Of course I should also talk a bit about my kinks. I am very much a gentle dom. And I really mean gentle. I like being in control, being possessive and guiding someone to levels of pleasure they didn't even think were possible. Being playful, teasing, edging, and driving my partner mad with desire is what makes my heart throb. In online play this mainly consists of orgasm control and masturbation instructions, and any other form of control my sub is willing to give me. In a relationship IRL I would like to have something like a traditional relationship from the outside and TPE in private. A master/servant dynamic if you will, though I do not like any sort of derogatory elements so while I would like total submission and servitude, I will not refer to you with any mean titles or otherwise engage in behaviours that aren't wholesome. Also I am strictly monogamous so I will not share you with anyone else and won't play with other women once you have agreed to submit.

As for you, I don't mind you being older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. Would be cool if you are from Germany, but if not I do not mind starting with an online/long distance friendship. Just message me if you are interested and we will see.

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u/Genesis_21397 — 17 days ago