r/DatingOlder

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TL;DR: Kinky daddy dom with a hot voice is looking for his sweet, cute, needy sub for a dynamic, hopefully both nsfw and platonic! Please be comfortable calling and chatting, I'm not seeking a text-only dynamic. Can't wait to meet you! :)

I'm a 31/M daddy dom with several years of experience with intentional BDSM and kink, but instead of a tryst for only one night, I prefer something more substantial and long-term. I'm seeking my subby little girl for a relationship that will hopefully have more depth than just calling when we're horny. I'd love to meet if we're close too! I'm currently traveling NZ's South Island, but I expect I'll end up Auckland-based.

I'm assertive and know how to take charge of my sub's pleasure and guide her to where she needs to be be. I have many kinks which we can discuss later as we ecome more comfortable, but I'm definitely seeking a dd/lg dynamic and I'd love to take you under my wing. I also have many interests and hobbies that I'd be happy to chat about when we're feeling less lecherous, and I'd be happy to learn about yours too :)

If this sounds like something you're interested in but you're new to kink/BDSM, don't despair! I have experience teaching newbies and I'm happy to take the lead, guide you, and keep you safe as we explore together.

Reach out if what I'm looking for attracts you, and tell me a little about yourself and what attracted you to my post!

u/LatentLimerence — 9 hours ago

18 [F4A] #Online/US. Want someone older and causal (35+)

Hi, I’m 18, i’m bi, and in my last year of school. I like staying active as I’m on my school’s volleyball team, and I do some conditioning, which helps me clear my head.

I’m 5’6, 140lb, hazel color eyes, black straight hair, athletic ish.

I value effort, thought out replies, loyalty (big one), being there for me, and good communication.

I’m pretty quiet and introverted. I usually keep to myself and don’t really like big crowds. I have a few friends because of that, but I like to have a smaller friend group.

I do smoke sometimes when I’m stressed or want to relax/have fun. Not the best habit, I know, but it helps me relax. (Weed)

I like to read books, fantasy and romance. I love Anime as well, my favourite one being Haikyu ( Big volleyball girl if you can’t tell lol).

I’m not super outgoing, but once you get to know me, I’m really loyal and I actually listen. I’d rather have a real conversation than small talk.

Please describe yourself and don’t just have a couple of words.

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u/MariXfight — 10 hours ago
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If the title didn't clue you in, I really love DDLG and age gap relationships. Basically giving my baby girl a mix of sweet treatment for most SFW times and aftercare, along with a bit (or a lot?) of roughness for naughty times. I'm pretty switch in the regard that I really enjoy seeing my partner pleasured, which leaves me open to a lot such as CNC, threesomes, or my partner being slutty in lots of ways.

I'd prefer a partner younger than me, but am open to long term or short term. Can meet casually just to hang out too. I would love to go on a gym date honestly.

As for SFW me...? I spend a lot of time working, and prioritizing my grindset of goals. That means exercise, study, and meditation everyday - even if it's just a few minutes a day. My hobbies consist of mainly 2 modes - my active hobbies such as gym time, rock climbing, yoga, traveling, hiking. I especially love mountains and being out in nature overall. Then my more quiet time hobbies, where I'd just enjoy a nice night in instead of going out. I spend a lot of free time reading - lots of dark fantasy and some non-fiction.

What's really important to me is taking care of one's self. That means both physically and mentally. I've had some rough experiences that made me appreciate the value of being alive, so I try to be fully in every moment enjoying it in totality. It also made me appreciate the value of having a good mindset about life overall as well, which is why I'm really into philosophy, especially Stoicism.

Small album~ https://imgur.com/a/5XNYvbK

u/Draddock — 1 day ago

50 [M4F] #SanDiego #SoCal - companionship and fun

Just a chill and laid back WM looking for someone fun and real.

I'm tall, salt and pepper hair (though increasingly salty).blue eyes

Not super rich or anything but stable and comfortable.

Good conversationalist and listener. Kind and compassionate.

Would prefer someone *in* San Diego or the surrounding area, but open to further out for the right person.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in shoot me a message and let's talk!

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u/notapunk — 1 day ago
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F4M 24 Los Angeles - Looking for Locals Only in Los Angeles to Start A Family W And Breed Me in Front of My Cuck

Hi looking for locals the centrally located in Los Angeles ( not even an hour away) to breed me and continuously do so until I get pregnant and me and my cuck will separate. must be someone who wants a family and can provide for one . Must be Caucasian with colored eyes. Must have recent std results.I’m 5’8 , Black American , with Few Visible Tattoos ( a red sunflower on my neck and a tattoo going down my arm ) I’m attractive . I’m looking to start tonight. Please be no older than 40 and attractive

Here’s a selfie of me to save time , message me with your selfie: https://imgur.com/a/pCLsbvZ

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u/Cautious-Stable8908 — 3 days ago

37 [F4M] #USA - Looking for a genuine connection with someone older than my age

I’m here looking for something real and genuine, a meaningful connection with someone who is kind, respectful, and has a good heart. I prefer someone older than me, 40 years old and above, as I truly value maturity, life experience, and wisdom.

I believe the best relationships start with friendship. I’m not rushing into anything at all. I want to take our time, build trust, and create a solid foundation first, then just see where things naturally lead us. Distance is never an issue for me; what matters most is the bond we share.

Also, please know I’m only here for sincere conversations. I’m not interested in games, lies, or nonsense talk. If you are honest, serious, and looking for something real too, feel free to reach out.

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u/Sharp-Grade6811 — 1 day ago

18 [F4M] #SouthDakota, looking for an older man who wants a traditional marriage

I’m a country girl looking for her country man. You really don’t have to be country but it would be nice. I want a traditional marriage with an older man in the USA. Someone who is loyal, caring, protective, conservative,and a natural leader. I only want to get married once iny life so I want to take time and get it right. Message me if you think we might be a match.

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u/AffectionateRun5581 — 2 days ago
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only looking for something online. i want a flirty, consistent online bf/fling that stays online and actually feels good to be in.

being upfront, i’m unhappily married but not in a great place. my husband knows i talk to people, just not the details. if that’s not your thing, no worries.

not looking for something purely sexual. i like flirting, but i don’t rush and want a real connection too.

i need someone consistent, communicative, and emotionally present. if you go quiet, disappear, or avoid real conversations, we won’t click.

i’m 5’9, so i do prefer taller guys (being honest about what i’m attracted to - since im tall)

I’m a huge homebody into modded minecraft, cozy games, good convo, a little chaotic energy. down for discord (text + some vc).

i don’t chat on reddit, if we vibe, we’ll move to discord.

here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/FUAEV6p

if you message me:

send your age, a bit about you, AND a selfie (imgur link or selfie after I accept msg is fine)

i’ll ONLY respond if there’s mutual attraction + effort from the start (sorry <33)

u/Starlitfalry — 3 days ago

48 [F4M] #Los Angeles California

Some mornings I stand in front of the mirror and appreciate how far this body has carried me. Years of experiences, lessons, and quiet strength have shaped it. Still healthy, still capable, and still hoping to share slow conversations, deep laughter, and real connection with someone who values the same.

u/PoliteAshley — 3 days ago

18 [F4M] #sweden Seeking traditional men over 30.

Last post got removed for being too short and low effort so here goes

I am an 18 year old girl from sweden and im looking for a stern and traditional man over 30 years old (40s is my favourite).

I am stereotypically swedish, blonde with blue eyes, i looove the gym and exercising, i love cooking and travelling, i really like video games. I dont wanna include photos because it will just invite creeps that are looking for sexting and other stuff like that.

So if anyone is interested, send a fun and interesting introduction!

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u/TheGymWhore — 4 days ago

23 [F4M] #Online – PH girl, shy in person but very talkative online, looking for older men to chat with

Hi!! I’m a shy and introverted girl in real life, but I’m very outgoing and talkative online. If you’re older and want a younger girl to chat with when you’re bored, I’m here for you! I’m open minded and okay with almost anything as long as it stays online and I don’t have to show my face. I really love attention, affection, and having someone to talk to every day <3

Thanks for reading, and I’ll be waiting for your message :))

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u/Full-Composer-7313 — 3 days ago
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51 [M4F] #Calgary. seeking younger black or brown companion

Im in Calgary. Generally Im attracted to darker women… younger with large breasts.

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u/EggplantTiny4630 — 3 days ago
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As the appointment begins, you glance over at the tray of medical instruments and begin to get nervous. Your doctor gives a reassuring smile, taking a moment to explain each step of the exam and answer any questions.

“We’ll start with your vitals and your breast exam”, I say, “then move on to the more “fun” part of your exam”. You glance at the speculum on the tray and begin to get a bit more excited than you anticipated…

If this story intrigues you - let’s finish this story together - with an in person exam!

Currently accepting a new patient for a very pleasurable, very thorough exam ;) I have a fun assortment of medical instruments, tools and toys ;)

u/kfrothing2 — 4 days ago

18 [F4M] #sweden Seeking traditional men over 30.

Im a gym girl, from sweden, 18, love travelling, so if you are over 30 and wanna chat please hmu asap!

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u/TheGymWhore — 5 days ago
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49 [M4F] #Oklahoma

If you’re not into having your seatbelt buckled or your forehead kissed, then you probably shouldn’t read this…🤭

Lvl 49, steady, protective, and affectionate, and know exactly what I want… someone to share a peaceful together with who enjoys a partner who can lead and make them feel safe… someone who feels like home💕

Hopeless romantic by night, gym rat by day, prefer cozy nights > clubs. Playful with a nerdy streak; Star Wars, Marvel/DC, Disney, 🖤The Nightmare Before Christmas🖤

Looking for that old school kind of love.

Holding hands. Long walks. Looking up at the stars together. ✨

I live life with purpose, laugh often, and hand out fist bumps and smiles like candy on Halloween. (Ps… it’s my favorite holiday.) 🎃

Cancer ☀️ Pisces 🌙 Sagittarius ⬆️

Big heart. Soft soul. Playful spirit.

Please be local to Oklahoma or open to building something here.

And maybe you’ll be my Thor’s hammer… you know, at Wally World, when I reach my hand back and yours just magically appears in it..🥰🥰

My favorite quote:

“Without music, life would be a mistake.”

Bonus points if you know who said it. 🎶

When you reply, tell me what you have on repeat right now.

Pics of me: (https://imgur.com/a/QJ5M80S)

Que sera sera…

u/darknite99_ — 4 days ago

24 [F4M] #Ghana, any mature man seeking for a genuine interracial relationship?

Hey Everyone!
Im Tina 24yr by my age residing in Kumasi, Ghana. Single with no kids, living with my mom and two younger brothers

I am seeking a genuine and compassionate partner who is understanding of my background and willing to build a future together. I desire someone who is sincere, supportive and focused on creating a better life for themselves and their loved ones. As a patient and resilient individual, I am willing to wait for the right person, believing that meaningful connections are worth the wait

In my leisure time, I enjoy simple yet fulfilling activities that bring me joy and relaxation. As a home oriented individual, I prefer quiet moments to myself, often indulging in music, particularly the highlife genre with a special fondness for the legendary Ghanaian musician, Daddy Lumba (may his soul rest in peace). His timeless classics continue to provide solace and inspiration. I also appreciate watching comedies, as they offer a healthy distraction from life's challenges and help me unwind

If you resonate with my post and interested in building a meaningful connection, I welcome you to reach out. Thank you 🙏

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u/Known-Thing-4019 — 5 days ago