r/DatingOlder

Here I am again.

Let’s just get into it. As a preface, I know my tone is not the most submissive and/or feminine, but I need to weed out as many guys as I can in order for the right guy to identify himself with what and who I’m looking for. So please excuse the intense straightforwardness.

What I’m looking for is a monogamous D/s marriage and no sex before marriage. I date for marriage. If that’s not you, please don’t message. D/s meaning I’m the submissive, and you’re the Dominant. I lean towards TPE style. Dominance and submission to me should come naturally, otherwise it’s just a label, and I don’t like being superficial. A deep psychological connection is what I’m looking for. However, this doesn’t mean you start barking orders at me within the first month of us talking. This should come gradually and naturally. If this isn’t or hasn’t been the case for you, then you’re not the one either. This does also mean that I’m looking for a bit of a traditional marriage with a modern twist to it. What that means to me is that I’d be more than happy to cook and fold clothes for you and let you lead our marriage, and you would provide for us, while also splitting some of the chores. It’s a bit of a mix of the two roles, but ultimately allowing each other to fall into our natural instincts. Also, I’m on the fence about children. So, if you are completely sure about having children, we would not be compatible.

Now about me (5’4”, HWP, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, medium-light skin tone, and glasses) is that I recently graduated in June. I have an entrepreneurial mindset, always wanting to be my own boss and bringing something in my mind to real life. It’s always just been a part of me. There’s many interests and things I like to do like baking, reading, writing poetry, and a lot more. I can absolutely be feminine around the right man. I’d also say I can be quite clingy. Not in a “I’m dependent on you” kind of way, but rather a “I really like you and want to share things about my day with you”. I’m quite affectionate, submissive, and feminine when met with real dominance and leadership, but can still intentionally remove all of that. In other words, some people take my affection for granted. I just don’t like playing games and will message you and spend time with you when I am available, and if that means I see your message, and I have the time, I’ll reply. No sense in playing games or ghosting. A bit more about me is that I take care of myself whether that’s eating healthy, working out, learning to expand my knowledge, working on my future/career, etc. I’ll admit, I still have work to do in regard to that, but that’s also where the TPE aspect and you come into play.

About who I’m looking for is someone who has their life together. And if you know, you know who you are (but in no way, shape, or form am I asking you to be perfect). I will not be someone’s submissive if they don’t know what they’re doing with their life. It doesn’t make sense to me to obey orders from someone who doesn’t practice what they preach or who doesn’t even give me orders that would benefit me/the dynamic as a whole. As I like to say, how you do one thing is how you do everything (to an extent). I’d prefer if you’re between the ages of 33-45. I can be flexible on this, so please don’t hesitate to message me! Another thing is that you’d have to be willing to relocate to me.

Some of my favourite kinks are praise, rituals, protocols, pet names, orgasm control, edging, ownership, cock warming/cock worship, and light degradation/humiliation. Some of my limits are threesomes, cheating kinks, hot wife, bimbofication, ENM, sadism/masochism, intense impact play, watersports, scat, diaper play, etc.

Brownie points (+50 points) if these apply to you: dark hair, business owner, and proper spelling/grammar/punctuation

Even if some of the things in the criteria aren’t things you possess, that’s totally fine (unless it’s the obvious)! Please do message either way. You never really know! If you do message, please include your age, location, a brief description of what you look like, and your favourite food and/or dessert.

Talk soon! 😊

33m from Scandinavia, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/YGvKMH9

What I love and so is a plus if we share more interests.:

- Working out (got a homegym, love talking equipment and what not)
- Gaming (I’ve been gaming probably since I was 4)
- Anime & k-drama watcher
- 100% a nerd

Alright, if we share interests, just hit me up.. I don't bite.

The exam room is quiet as you settle onto the table, your eyes wandering over the neatly arranged tray of medical instruments beside me. Curiosity gets the better of you, and I can't help but smile.

"First time for one of my exams?" I ask with a warm grin.

You nod, glancing back at the polished instruments.

"I'll walk you through everything," I assure you as I set the clipboard aside and move a little closer. "Nothing is rushed, and we'll go at whatever pace feels right for you."

Your shoulders relax as I begin explaining each instrument, what it's for, and how it's used. What seemed intimidating moments ago now feels fascinating, and I can see your curiosity replacing any lingering uncertainty.

"So..." I ask with a knowing smile. "Ready to begin?"

A playful smile spreads across your face.

"I'm ready."

If you've ever been curious about an immersive medical roleplay with plenty of playful teasing, attentive bedside manner, and a doctor who takes his time, I'm currently accepting one new patient for a very thorough... and very pleasurable... in-person examination.

Send me a message if you'd like to schedule your appointment. 😉

Looking for my daddy!

I’m naturally very submissive + love having a man to cater to. I know I need a specific type of man though. Someone who is very masculine + a provider + protector in every sense of the words. Good with spoiling but also discipline when necessary.

Please be older than me. Open to long distance but not looking for a forever penpal.

Say something other than hi 💕

I’m told I’m an old soul. Always been more attracted to older, successful and well groomed older men. Boys my age are none of those. I'm willing to relocate for the right guy. Ready to be stay at home mom/wife. Never had a good or stable home life and I want that

dear future partner,

my letters keep getting lost, there must be something in the airwaves. i'm writing to you, again, tonight, in hopes that this one makes a successful landing in your feed and into your view.

i wish you were here tonight, i finally finished moving my new room around. i've still got a lot of organizing to do, and reorganizing, but it's one of my favorite pastimes if i have a good podcast on. my bed is too big for just myself, but i've been comforted by (and comforting) my poor lil dog who shivers at the sound of the first rain drop on the pavement outside. the smell of petrichor sends shivers down her spine, but i quite enjoy the sound and feelings that follow.

i know this letter might fall into the wrong hands, but i'm patient and willing to wait for you. maybe you aren't even here on reddit, or haven't bothered using it the way so many of us here do, and i've just been exposing my what-should-be-only-between-us-or-kept-in-my-journal, intimate feelings into the void of publicity.

i hope you're doing alright out there. i miss you. there isn't a day that goes by that i don't think about you, nor a night that passes over this sparkling city that i don't find myself fantasizing about what will be; what we'll be.

come find me, darling, i beg of you.

with love,

your little maus

Alternative, pierced, a little bratty, and apparently I've developed a serious weakness for older men. 🖤

I'm 28 and looking to meet someone older who's confident, emotionally mature, funny, and actually knows how to hold a conversation. I tend to like men who know what they want without needing to constantly prove it.

I'm affectionate, playful, sarcastic, a little weird, and much sweeter than my aesthetic probably suggests. I love music, horror, gaming, animals, adventures, and conversations that accidentally last way longer than intended.

I'm open to seeing where a genuine connection goes. Age doesn't matter nearly as much to me as chemistry, personality, and how you treat people.

If you're interested, tell me your age and something about yourself besides “hey.” ♡

I would love to find a young woman to be my FWB. Now that it's summer, I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by. I prefer to keep things casual and fun, however I am willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together. Regardless, I prefer something regular and ongoing even if it just stays casual.

In relationships, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure everyone is good. In exchange, I seek a woman who looks up to a man like the one described and naturally falls into her submissive feminine role. I am very aware that things like submission is earned over time and is not just handed out freely. The way we get there is through mutual respect of one another. Love does not exist if respect is not present. I don't believe in big blowout arguments, screaming matches, name calling, or belittling of each other. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

me

When it comes to our private time, I'm very giving in bed, and always care about how my partner is feeling. I'm very much a dominant and love to be in control and love a woman who just let's herself go and surrenders herself in the moment.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am 5'10 and weigh 163 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. I am pretty fit but have still not reached all of my fitness goals. I am usually told I am attractive when I have exchanged pics on here.

STD free

hellooo i am looking for a relationship with an older man (50+ preferred) I want to fulfill the step daughter fantasy and other interests. if you’re interested in having an intimate connection please message me :3