u/spoiledqueenbee

Here I am again.

Let’s just get into it. As a preface, I know my tone is not the most submissive and/or feminine, but I need to weed out as many guys as I can in order for the right guy to identify himself with what and who I’m looking for. So please excuse the intense straightforwardness.

What I’m looking for is a monogamous D/s marriage and no sex before marriage. I date for marriage. If that’s not you, please don’t message. D/s meaning I’m the submissive, and you’re the Dominant. I lean towards TPE style. Dominance and submission to me should come naturally, otherwise it’s just a label, and I don’t like being superficial. A deep psychological connection is what I’m looking for. However, this doesn’t mean you start barking orders at me within the first month of us talking. This should come gradually and naturally. If this isn’t or hasn’t been the case for you, then you’re not the one either. This does also mean that I’m looking for a bit of a traditional marriage with a modern twist to it. What that means to me is that I’d be more than happy to cook and fold clothes for you and let you lead our marriage, and you would provide for us, while also splitting some of the chores. It’s a bit of a mix of the two roles, but ultimately allowing each other to fall into our natural instincts. Also, I’m on the fence about children. So, if you are completely sure about having children, we would not be compatible.

Now about me (5’4”, HWP, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, medium-light skin tone, and glasses) is that I recently graduated in June. I have an entrepreneurial mindset, always wanting to be my own boss and bringing something in my mind to real life. It’s always just been a part of me. There’s many interests and things I like to do like baking, reading, writing poetry, and a lot more. I can absolutely be feminine around the right man. I’d also say I can be quite clingy. Not in a “I’m dependent on you” kind of way, but rather a “I really like you and want to share things about my day with you”. I’m quite affectionate, submissive, and feminine when met with real dominance and leadership, but can still intentionally remove all of that. In other words, some people take my affection for granted. I just don’t like playing games and will message you and spend time with you when I am available, and if that means I see your message, and I have the time, I’ll reply. No sense in playing games or ghosting. A bit more about me is that I take care of myself whether that’s eating healthy, working out, learning to expand my knowledge, working on my future/career, etc. I’ll admit, I still have work to do in regard to that, but that’s also where the TPE aspect and you come into play.

About who I’m looking for is someone who has their life together. And if you know, you know who you are (but in no way, shape, or form am I asking you to be perfect). I will not be someone’s submissive if they don’t know what they’re doing with their life. It doesn’t make sense to me to obey orders from someone who doesn’t practice what they preach or who doesn’t even give me orders that would benefit me/the dynamic as a whole. As I like to say, how you do one thing is how you do everything (to an extent). I’d prefer if you’re between the ages of 33-45. I can be flexible on this, so please don’t hesitate to message me! Another thing is that you’d have to be willing to relocate to me.

Some of my favourite kinks are praise, rituals, protocols, pet names, orgasm control, edging, ownership, cock warming/cock worship, and light degradation/humiliation. Some of my limits are threesomes, cheating kinks, hot wife, bimbofication, ENM, sadism/masochism, intense impact play, watersports, scat, diaper play, etc.

Brownie points (+50 points) if these apply to you: dark hair, business owner, and proper spelling/grammar/punctuation

Even if some of the things in the criteria aren’t things you possess, that’s totally fine (unless it’s the obvious)! Please do message either way. You never really know! If you do message, please include your age, location, a brief description of what you look like, and your favourite food and/or dessert.

Talk soon! 😊

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

A monogamous D/s marriage with children or without children are both fine. No sex before marriage. Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

I want us to be life partners where we are each other's favourite person with a deep psychological connection with each other. Not anything superficial.

I’m looking for a man who provides for the house and the family. For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

I’m 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin. My ethnicity is East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada). I’m not religious but am agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values.

I take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking). I’m also highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man.

And of course as the title says, I’m a brat. I will push your limits, but at the end of the day, I know when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me. It’s more so a playful type of brattiness rather than challenging your dominance.

I am also someone who enjoys physical touch.

As for my goals, I’d like to get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children. And some of my interests are baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more.

Who you are:

You are between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this). You don’t do any drugs, don’t drink alcohol much (rare occasions is fine), and don’t smoke/vape, take edibles, etc. You take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout).

And most importantly, this tells a lot about someone’s level of self-awareness and character. You are not someone who ghosts people (and can keep a conversation going).

You have an established career, no previous kids, and you are completely single (not polygamous nor separated).

And of course as the title says, you are a soft/gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern. I’m not into sadism/masochism not being anyone’s slave.

Last but not least about you. You are educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you’re interested and have most of the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

A monogamous D/s marriage with children or without children are both fine. No sex before marriage. Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

I want us to be life partners where we are each other's favourite person with a deep psychological connection with each other. Not anything superficial.

I’m looking for a man who provides for the house and the family. For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

I’m 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin. My ethnicity is East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada). I’m not religious but am agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values.

I take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking). I’m also highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man.

And of course as the title says, I’m a brat. I will push your limits, but at the end of the day, I know when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me. It’s more so a playful type of brattiness rather than challenging your dominance.

I am also someone who enjoys physical touch.

As for my goals, I’d like to get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children. And some of my interests are baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more.

Who you are:

You are between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this). You don’t do any drugs, don’t drink alcohol much (rare occasions is fine), and don’t smoke/vape, take edibles, etc. You take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout).

And most importantly, this tells a lot about someone’s level of self-awareness and character. You are not someone who ghosts people (and can keep a conversation going).

You have an established career, no previous kids, and you are completely single (not polygamous nor separated).

And of course as the title says, you are a soft/gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern. I’m not into sadism/masochism not being anyone’s slave.

Last but not least about you. You are educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you’re interested and have most of the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- My goals: get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Soft/Gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria (unless stated otherwise in the post), message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Sub seeking marriage with Dom

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- My goals: get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Soft/Gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria (unless stated otherwise in the post), message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Sub seeking marriage with Dom

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- My goals: get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Soft/Gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria (unless stated otherwise in the post), message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Hello! (Only for people from Canada or the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

I will not necessarily sound submissive or feminine in this post because I need to weed out the guys who like wasting time. I promise though, once you get to know me, I’m a lot nicer and sweeter 😇.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- My goals: get an MBA or another degree of some sort, be the best version of myself (career-wise, knowledge-wise, academically, financially, physically, and mentally), build a business, and start an NGO for children

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually workout)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Soft/Gentle Dom who can also be strict and stern

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious (these are absolute. If you do not have even just one of these, please don’t bother messaging).

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Some of my kinks & interests:

TPE, orgasm control, light degradation/humiliation, ownership, rules, rituals, protocols, bondage, cock warming, cock worship, hair pulling, rough sex, and spanking.

Some of my dislikes:

Heavy degradation/humiliation, sadism/masochism, heavy impact play, water sports, scat, diaper play, threesomes, hot wife, bimbofication, or anything illegal/permanently damaging.

Timeline:

Meet each other within less than a month maximum to see how compatible we really are. Get married in a maximum of 2 years. No longer than that. Earlier is perfectly fine, but I want to make sure we both know each other really well before we make that choice.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria (unless stated otherwise in the post), message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is just so I know you read my entire post!

Talk soon 😊

Hello! (Open to people from Canada and the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage (no ENM, polygamy, nor any sort of threesome or kinks like that)

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- Personal goals: get an MBA, have financial independence, being the best version of myself

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight — and you actually work out)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. I want you to be possessive of me. I want to be yours. This is all rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is.

Hello! (Open to people from Canada and the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

So, I'm just gonna literally bullet point things and be extremely straightforward to save time. I probably sound a bit domineering, but this is only to weed out the guys I don’t want. Once we get to know each other, I usually have a more feminine and softer presence/tone.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- Personal goals: get an MBA, have financial independence, being the best version of myself

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

So, if you enjoy a D/s dynamic for the sole fact that you’re kinky, this is not going to be for you, and we will not be a great match. However, if you resonate with what I said, then maybe we should get to know each other. Also, if you’re into threesomes or have some sort of cheating kink, just skip to the next post. If you’re not, keep reading!

My preferences/bonus points:

- Business owners

- Dark hair

- Impeccable spelling, grammar, and punctuation

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is. If you do not put effort in your message, I will NOT reply. (I know I sound rude, but it's necessary because of the amount of low-effort messages that waste my time. Otherwise, I promise, I'm a nice person!)

Hello! (Open to people from Canada and the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

So, I'm just gonna literally bullet point things and be extremely straightforward to save time. I probably sound a bit domineering, but this is only to weed out the guys I don’t want. Once we get to know each other, I usually have a more feminine and softer presence/tone.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- Personal goals: get an MBA, have financial independence, being the best version of myself

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

So, if you enjoy a D/s dynamic for the sole fact that you’re kinky, this is not going to be for you, and we will not be a great match. However, if you resonate with what I said, then maybe we should get to know each other. Also, if you’re into threesomes or have some sort of cheating kink, just skip to the next post. If you’re not, keep reading!

My preferences/bonus points:

- Business owners

- Dark hair

- Impeccable spelling, grammar, and punctuation

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is. If you do not put effort in your message, I will NOT reply. (I know I sound rude, but it's necessary because of the amount of low-effort messages that waste my time. Otherwise, I promise, I'm a nice person!)

Hello! (Open to people from Canada and the US who are open to relocating to Alberta, Canada)

So, I'm just gonna literally bullet point things and be extremely straightforward to save time. I probably sound a bit domineering, but this is only to weed out the guys I don’t want. Once we get to know each other, I usually have a more feminine and softer presence/tone.

What I'm looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage

- Children or no children are both fine

- No sex before marriage

- Traditional but modern roles (e.g. I would love to take on the nurturing role of creating a loving home environment and taking care of the children, but I would also love to have my own career/something going on the side for myself)

- Life partner where we are each other's favourite person

- A man who provides for the house and the family

- A deep psychological connection with each other (I'm not into anything superficial)

- For the D/s part, if there is an off and on switch when you're a Dom, this will NOT work. It has to be who you are at the core, not some label or role that you play.

Who I am:

- 5’4”, hwp, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, glasses, and light-medium skin

- East-Asian (but was born and raised in Canada)

- Agnostic/spiritual and have my own set of beliefs/values

- Take care of my mental and physical health (fitness + nutrition and no drugs, alcohol, nor smoking)

- Highly ambitious, wise, affectionate, respectful, compassionate, kind, feminine, and submissive and clingy around the right man

- A brat that pushes your limits but who knows when to stop, when to obey, and when to do what is told of me

- Enjoy physical touch

- Personal goals: get an MBA, have financial independence, being the best version of myself

- Interests: baking, piano, sudoku, being a foodie, Muay Thai, and a lot more

Who you are:

- Between the ages of 33-45 (I can be slightly flexible on this)

- No drugs, alcohol (rare occasions is fine), smoking/vaping, edibles, etc.

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight)

- Not someone who ghosts (that’s embarrassing and shows low EQ)

- Established career

- No previous kids

- Completely single (not polygamous nor separated)

- Educated, respectful, dominant, caring + stern, possessive + protective, open-minded, and highly ambitious

- Knows how to carry a conversation

More about the dynamic:

I’m envisioning something along the lines of TPE. Power exchange. Something real. Something that connects and merges two souls together rather than just you telling me what to do. It’s rather the intense depth of trust and vulnerability that are fostered through time, effort, and energy from both sides that allow this dynamic to thrive. This is about knowing each other so well to the point where you know my limits and how far to push me. It’s about me having trust in you that you won’t harm me but rather do what’s best for not just me but for both of us.

I want to let my walls down and let someone in. I want someone to know what things I like, what annoys me, and what scares me because that’s what love is. Love is when you choose someone and value their traits and character. It’s when you decide on committing to someone and following all the way through with them. Love isn’t a fleeting moment or a feeling that comes and goes. To me, it’s a choice. It’s when you choose to know someone inside out, and no matter what, you cherish them, and it’s something you choose to do. That’s how love is created.

So, if you enjoy a D/s dynamic for the sole fact that you’re kinky, this is not going to be for you, and we will not be a great match. However, if you resonate with what I said, then maybe we should get to know each other. Also, if you’re into threesomes or have some sort of cheating kink, just skip to the next post. If you’re not, keep reading!

My preferences/bonus points:

- Business owners

- Dark hair

- Impeccable spelling, grammar, and punctuation

Now, as much as I’ve said good things about myself, by no means am I perfect. I’m far from it, so I don’t expect perfection from you either! We’re all human and have our own flaws.

If you've made it to the end and are actually serious about what I've written above or even if you have any questions/clarifications about whether or not you fit the criteria, message me! Please include your age, location, a description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is. If you do not put effort in your message, I will NOT reply. (I know I sound rude, but it's necessary because of the amount of low-effort messages that waste my time. Otherwise, I promise, I'm a nice person!)