r/AgeGapPersonals

25 [F4M] #Vegas

I travel a lot for work and will be in Vegas the week of 7/11 with my own hotel room. Looking for a man 50+ to have kinky, sloppy, hotel sex with.

I’m 25, DDF and live on the east coast. I’m 5’5, 34DDD, fully bare pussy, have longer light brown hair, blue eyes, tan.

I’m looking for something discreet/NSA, and purely physical. We make sure we are compatible, pick a location and show up, and you fuck me hard and raw for a few hours. Extremely attracted to larger, hairy, men. Especially hairy dad bods, make my pussy soaking wet. Love grey/white hair and beards. The thicker and bigger the hands the better. Please include age in your message or I won’t respond. 

Have a long list of kinks, but here are some of the main ones: age gaps, size gaps, collar/leash, ddlg, edging, role play, CNC, spit play, kissing (sloppier the better), breeding, creampies, oral, dirty talk, light bondage, cheating, light degradation and humiliation, begging, cock warming, humping, orgasm control, free use, toys, and 69ing.

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u/hornycumslut4oldmen — 5 hours ago

20 [F4M] #sanfrancisco CA - looking for my older husband

Hi :) I’m 20F, I’m 5’1”, mixed race, and curvy but not plus size. I care about how I look and present in the world and I love fashion espically second hand I care deeply about the environment and do my best to keep it in mind.

I’m currently in my last year of college. I love people and I love better understanding how they operate and why. People mean a lot to me and so does connection I’m an extrovert and deeply care for children and the vulnerable.

For fun I like to bake, cook, draw, paint, go for a hike, call a friend, read a book, or write. I love having creative outlets and the arts in general. I’m always looking for a new museum.

My friends would describe me as gentle and extremely loving. I very much know who I am and won’t allow myself to be treated poorly at the same time it’s very important to me that I’m kind to everyone I meet. Especially the people I care about. My family would say I’m ambitious and thoughtful, an old soul.

I would love to get married to someone older and have children whenever I find my person. Being a mother would mean the world to me as would being a wife.

I’d love someone dominant and kind, patient and loving. I’m open to a lot of ages but I tend to prefer 30-38 :)

Okie dokie, I hope you’re having a lovely day and if you’d like I’d love to chat with you 😊

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 8 hours ago

30 [F4M] #London, UK - Eager kinky submissive longing to obey and please an older, successful man

I’m a 30-year-old slim submissive woman, with a genuinely filthy streak and the strong desire to ditch the corporate grind forever. I tried the professional hustle, realised it’s soul-crushing, and now I just want to serve a strong, wealthy, dominant man the way nature intended.

Picture this: I’ll cook your meals from scratch, keep our home spotless and welcoming, bake like a 1950s goddess, look pretty and feminine on your arm at events, and be your eager, obedient little fucktoy once the door closes.

Well-spoken and adoring in public /// perfectly submissive and kinky in private.

I’m UK-based but very happy to relocate for the right traditional dynamic (as long as there’s a solid plan in place!). I’m not looking for a SD. I want a proper masculine provider who’s ready to lead, cherish, and spoil a real tradwife.

If you’re a successful, assertive man who craves a peaceful, loving, old-school life (kids optional), come rescue me!

Pros & Cons of me as your traditional adoring girl
Pros:
• House will always smell like fresh baking
• Your shirts will be perfectly washed and ironed
• Extremely enthusiastic about pleasing you in every way
• Actually wants to make your life easier and more pleasurable

Cons:
• Will look at you with big “please use me” eyes constantly
• Might accidentally moan “yes Daddy/Sir” in public if you give me that look
• Zero interest in being an independent boss-babe ever again

Serious inquiries only, please. Tell me about you and what kind of traditional dynamic you’re looking to build.

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u/Quirky_Ad_2363 — 14 hours ago

31 [M4F] #Buenos Aires

Hi,

I will cut to the chase I am a 31 years old Dom seeking an online submissive to explore and have fun with.

My kinks include orgasm control/denial, degradation, humiliation, body writing, setting tasks, ddlg, impact play and public play among others. My limits are blood, needles, anything ilegal and knives.

What I really like to do though is get to learn what makes you tick.

Looks wise I'm 6ft with short brown hair and brown eyes, tattoos on my arms, septum on my nose. I do go to the gym and keep myself fit but I do not claim to have a gym bod.

As for what I am looking for in a submissive, is someone who is willing to explore with me and try new things, someone willing to let herself go and let me take control.

Outside of kink my hobbies include cooking, reading and game development. I also like hiking, but there's nowhere nice to do it where i live.

If there is anything I have not covered, that you want to ask or if you just want a chat feel free to drop me a message.

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u/AccursedPariah — 1 day ago

26 [F4M] #Manchester, U.K. men from the states

I’m a 26 f in the uk and looking for a man 50+ ideally and in the USA. I know family won’t approve so looking for another country too to make it easier.
Please message with your ASL, it’ll tell me you’ve read this post too.

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u/Fun-Peak3860 — 1 day ago
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18 [F4A] #Asheville NC

Woke up on the day for celebrating freedom and wanted nothing more than to give mine away to a strict, sadistic older man or woman. I would do absolutely anything to please him or her and to be the best sex slave toy that I can for them🥰

u/maddieking743 — 2 days ago

20 [F4M] #Austin - just want to have some discrete fun with an older man

Its summer break and I want to fill these days with something fun. Im a shy and nerdy person who would like for you to push me into the good girl I should be. Im a virgin and looking for an older man to teach me and be patient with me. Im into many things and would love to experiment with the taboo and dirty things you've been fantasizing about. Im closer to south Austin and New Braunfels, and cant host but would love to discuss what we can do. If you want to make each other feel good and keep it discreet, reach out and let's see what we can do.

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u/coolermoose — 1 day ago

18 [F4M] #Pensacola, FL

about to move to Pensacola Florida in August, and I’d really like to meet an older partner to connect with once I get there! I’d like to talk for a bit before we go out but I’m pretty much open to anything relationship wise! feel free to reach out :)

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u/Comfortable_Sun_7029 — 2 days ago

26 [F4M] #Seattle looking for a fit cute guy to chat with :)

F26 - here in bed, needing a fit handsome daddy sliding in me😩

In bed thinking of a sexy fit man to slide into me 👀

Hmu open to all, love myself a sexy fit man. Love bi men, Open to married or taken guys 😈 hmu with pictures to see if we’re a match. Love freaky freaky men. Added plus if your submissive and hung. Need someone to come satisfy me

u/always_looking-5520 — 2 days ago

27 [F4M] #phoenix looking for an older man that loves to go down.

As the title says, I’m looking for an older man who enjoys spending time between a women’s legs. I’m a 27-year-old Black woman with curves, a cute bush, and a smile that tends to get people’s attention.

This could be a one-time meetup or something ongoing if we click. I’m pretty open-minded and don’t judge, so I’d appreciate the same energy in return.
I also travel to California a lot as well for work.
Open to all races. 35-60

I’m happy to verify, and I’d expect you to do the same. If you’re interested, send me a message and let’s see where things go.

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u/NBeauty98 — 2 days ago

28 [F4M] #Knoxville, TN — Hopeless Romantic seeks the Grumpy to her Sunshine ☀️

TL;DR — hopeless romantic remains hopeful she will live out her contemporary romance fantasies with a man that fellow readers can only dream of, the grumpy to her sunshine. Are you him?

Tall, dark, handsome, older… all the makings of a swoon-worthy male main character (MMC, for my book girlies). If I were to flesh you out a bit more, for fantasy’s sake, you’d be smart, funny, a little weird, affectionate, attentive, kind. Single, ready to mingle with me specifically, and hopefully localish (flexible on that one). You’re the kind of man who holds doors open for little old ladies and calls them “ma’am”, who makes conversation with strangers waiting in line to check out at the grocery store, who stops to pet every dog on our evening walk around the neighborhood. The kind of man I’d absolutely bring home to my Nana and share her banana puddin with. That’s not too much to ask, is it?

So, there’s you, the MMC, but what about me, the female main character (FMC)?! I’m so glad you asked! I relish the opportunity to talk about myself, because I’m definitely not the shy, mysterious type of FMC… oh wait, I totally am! Whoops! Anyway, let’s flesh out your FMC: 28, on her official Saturn return (ahhhh!!!) educated, dog-lover, banana puddin demolisher, Uno master. Southern granny vibes, from the voice to the idioms to the wardrobe. Tall(ish), dark(haired), and handsome, if I do say so myself. 😉 Funny enough to be a world-famous comedian, yet too chicken to ever get on a stage and let her jokes be heard. Voracious reader, whose love language is books (okay, and maybe words of affirmation…) of the romance variety. I’m no stranger to some romantasy in the mix, though! Also known to be a horror girlie, when the air gets that delightful autumn chill to it. If you know you know!

Do I sound like just what you need? Was I plucked right out of the book on your nightstand? (Swoon!) Message me and let’s crack the spine on this adventure! 📚

Am I not your type of girlfriend, but absolutely your type of book buddy? Sign me up anyway, let’s trade book recs!

Is this the most annoying post you’ve ever read and you hope you never cross my path again? Totally get it, and I hope you find what you seek! 🙂‍↔️

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u/imwalkingwithspiders — 2 days ago
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38 [M4F] #Vancouver #Canada — primal, erotic ANR-ABF in an ongoing kinky-D/s FWB dynamic

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex or attach the MommyDom/Worship/AgePlay angle to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, and not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one time hookups. I like a lot of things and have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just here looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play.. ideally primal, erotic ANR-ABF in a kinky FWB dynamic

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

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u/1cantsaythisonbumbl3 — 2 days ago
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60 [M4F] #London — 6'4, fit, and 60. For the woman in her 30s or 40s who wants an older man who actually acts like one.

Let’s be honest: finding a mature man online who is actually well-adjusted, keeps himself in good shape, and understands boundaries can feel impossible. If you are tired of the low-effort messages and want an uncomplicated, high-intensity escape with a genuine respectful...ish gentleman, let’s see if we click.

I am 60, but I don’t look, think, or move like a typical 60-year-old. I take pride in my health and presentation. I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, athletic, and uncut. I offer a commanding, heavy physical presence combined with the emotional stability and intelligence that only comes with life experience.

Whether you’re in your late 20s, 30s, or a sharp, independent 40-year-old, I care far more about a quick wit, mutual attraction, and chemistry than a number on an ID. I love a slow burn—starting with a proper, sophisticated drink, laughing easily, and building that electric mental tension before the bedroom door even opens.

To be completely transparent, I am attached. For a woman with a busy career, her own relationship, or just a life she wants to keep private, this is the perfect setup. My discretion is absolute, my opsec is flawless, and I bring zero drama, zero clinginess, and zero expectations into your world. We enjoy the heat completely when we're together, and we step back into our realities with a secret smile when we're apart.

Behind closed doors, I naturally take charge. I don't do rushed, low-effort encounters. I like to take my time, focus entirely on your response, and provide a raw, passionate escape where you can completely switch your brain off and let Daddy take care of everything.

If you’re ready for a sophisticated, very naughty summer secret with a premium silver fox, let’s talk.

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u/alonthemove — 2 days ago
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33m looking for a long term & genuine connection with someone who has shared interests.

33m from Scandinavia, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/YGvKMH9

What I love and so is a plus if we share more interests.:

- Working out (got a homegym, love talking equipment and what not)
- Gaming (I’ve been gaming probably since I was 4)
- Anime & k-drama watcher
- 100% a nerd

Alright, if we share interests, just hit me up.. I don't bite.

u/Ok-Rutabaga-3362 — 5 days ago
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35 [M4F] #OrlandoFL - Cute divorced wasian guy looking for a local fwb/ongoing connection

A little about me: I’m into photography (film for fun, digital for work), love video games (pc gamer) and movies even if I can never keep up with the superhero stuff, and I’m really good at starting books without ever finishing them. I’m more of a homebody overall, but I still enjoy going out with friends, trying new places, and finding good food and spots to take photos.

My friends would probably describe me as goofy, sarcastic at times, easy to talk to, and someone who’s equally more likely staying in for a movie/gaming night over spontaneously going out for drinks. Also I’m not much of a drinker lol.

Physically: Half Korean and half white, 5’11”, thick black hair with a little salt and pepper coming in, sometimes wear glasses, have a couple tattoos, and am somewhere between “average/dad bod” and “works out during the week.” I’ve also been told I have a pretty cute smile.

If any of this caught your interest, feel free to message me and let’s see where things go. Prefer someone ideally somewhere around the Orlando/Central Florida area. Don’t necessarily have a type but I’ll probably swoon if you have short hair lol.

Still looking if post is up

u/abag — 3 days ago
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Gentle Dad, 63, into much younger guy - fun or LTR

For fun or more. Message for more pics! Can accom or travel. Masculine but gentle daddy (not punishing sub/dom vibes). Vers.

I have a STEM background. Into Psychology, science, philosophy, politics, tech, aviation, medicine and lots more.

u/ukscienceydaddy — 4 days ago
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41 [M4F] #FountainValley - FWB. Southern California

I would love to find a young woman for a FWB type style arrangement. Now that it's summer, I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by. I prefer to keep things casual and fun, however I am willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together. Regardless, I prefer something regular and ongoing even if it just stays casual.

In relationships, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure everyone is good. In exchange, I seek a woman who looks up to a man like the one described and naturally falls into her submissive feminine role. I am very aware that things like submission is earned over time and is not just handed out freely. The way we get there is through mutual respect of one another. Love does not exist if respect is not present. I don't believe in big blowout arguments, screaming matches, name calling, or belittling of each other. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When it comes to our private time, I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am mixed race. White and Hispanic however everyone thinks I'm white. Height: I am 5'10 and weigh around 160 lbs. I have brown hair and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. I am pretty fit but have still not reached all of my fitness goals.

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u/Low-Plenty-4576 — 4 days ago

29 [F4M] #LosAngeles pillow princess seeking older mentor to dote on me

Hi, tall, black, athletic body. Small waist and cute ass. I like yoga, Pilates, plants, dogs, sci-fi. I am a natural flirt and will make you feel like the only one in the room. We will have fun even if we don’t get to the next level. I’ll make you feel wanted, and you will make me feel pampered and adored. You’ll leave our date buzzing, guaranteed.

Looking for a GENTLEMANLY older man, please be at LEAST 45. I like a lot of men. Financially secure, salt and pepper hair and an exec job that makes you wear a suit do a lot for me. Artists with tattoos. Or, beards, strong hands, you can build me a house types. I want an intimate dynamic where I feel like your young ingenue. No need to play daddy unless the vibe is there. I like the taboo of an age gap - someone who knows they’re going to make me squirm with their words but doesn’t need to brag about the act because he has experience and confidence.

I’m not interested in raunchy adventures off the bat, any d*ck pics will be ignored. I want to be wined and dined and have everyone in the restaurant looking at us wondering how you managed to bag the hottest young tight body woman in the room.

TLDR. Me, young, hot, taut body. Flirty and charming. You, over 45, DDF, 420 is cool, please be over 6’ because I am very tall. Financially secure and able to afford a decent first date without complaining.

Let me know if this is you and where we’d go for dinner.

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u/Far_Singer_ — 4 days ago

25 [F4M] #Detroit MI Late bloomer looking for a mentor

Hi there! I’m a regular girl in her mid twenties searching for an older man to teach and guide me sexually. I spent most of my college years and early twenties in an unfulfilling relationship, and I haven’t had the opportunity to truly embrace my sexuality. Sex and dating honestly make me really anxious.

I’m not looking for a traditional relationship, but trust, companionship, and emotional connection are huge for me. I’m not a casual person. I want someone I can rely on and be my most vulnerable, naive self with. I have been intrigued by BDSM for a long time, and I would love to explore submission with the right man.

I’m tall, white, and curvy with long brown hair and glasses. I think most people perceive me as blunt and a bit deadpan, but I am truthfully pretty anxious and insecure. I would love to have someone to bring out more of my little girl side and help me relax.

If this interests you, please feel free to reach out! I am looking for an in person connection and have the ability to travel shorter distances.

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u/bunnintheworld — 5 days ago