r/OlderManPersonals

I would love to find a young woman for a FWB type style arrangement. Now that it's summer, I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by. I prefer to keep things casual and fun, however I am willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together. Regardless, I prefer something regular and ongoing even if it just stays casual.

In relationships, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure everyone is good. In exchange, I seek a woman who looks up to a man like the one described and naturally falls into her submissive feminine role. I am very aware that things like submission is earned over time and is not just handed out freely. The way we get there is through mutual respect of one another. Love does not exist if respect is not present. I don't believe in big blowout arguments, screaming matches, name calling, or belittling of each other. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When it comes to our private time, I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am mixed race. White and Hispanic however everyone thinks I'm white. Height: I am 5'10 and weigh around 160 lbs. I have brown hair and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. I am pretty fit but have still not reached all of my fitness goals.

me

Me: https://a.l3n.co/XKtO92.jpeg

Looking for someone who I can't wait to hangout out with and rip their clothes off again...

42, single (have my own place and live alone), no kids, slim to average build, 6ft, dark long hair (apart from the inevitable greys) and dark eyes. I'm very laid back, love music, food and travel - so if you're also looking for someone for trips away that could work out well.

I'd really like to find something regular and perhaps even more than just casual. I generally prefer younger women but connection is more important. I detest dating apps so dip my toe here.

Sexually... I'm a pleaser, and it makes me happy and empowered by getting women off. I love giving oral, kissing, nipple sucking, sex from passionate missionary to hard doggy session. I also have a thing for giving creampies (yes I went there, but no kids please). I'm reasonably well hung so it would help if you like it deep.

If you're around an hour or two from Basingstoke that would be perfect - what's better than meeting up for some food/drinks, a few laughs and great sex?

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TL;DR: Kinky daddy dom with a hot voice is looking for his sweet, cute, needy sub for a dynamic, hopefully both nsfw and platonic! Please be comfortable calling and chatting, I'm not seeking a text-only dynamic. Can't wait to meet you! :)

I'm a 31/M daddy dom with several years of experience with intentional BDSM and kink, but instead of a tryst for only one night, I prefer something more substantial and long-term. I'm seeking my subby little girl for a relationship that will hopefully have more depth than just calling when we're horny. I'd love to meet if we're close too! I'm currently traveling NZ's South Island, but I expect I'll end up Auckland-based.

I'm assertive and know how to take charge of my sub's pleasure and guide her to where she needs to be be. I have many kinks which we can discuss later as we ecome more comfortable, but I'm definitely seeking a dd/lg dynamic and I'd love to take you under my wing. I also have many interests and hobbies that I'd be happy to chat about when we're feeling less lecherous, and I'd be happy to learn about yours too :)

If this sounds like something you're interested in but you're new to kink/BDSM, don't despair! I have experience teaching newbies and I'm happy to take the lead, guide you, and keep you safe as we explore together.

Reach out if what I'm looking for attracts you, and tell me a little about yourself and what attracted you to my post!