u/Ok_Individual_9815

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

Seeking younger woman for Dom/Sub relationship in Southern California.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

Hello, married but separated. (don't have any kids) I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. Have tried dating singles, but it's been a pretty big shitshow. Had success here in the past so I figured why not.

Honestly, just looking for sex. Emotions and feelings are fine... I'm not devoid of those things but would like to find someone who is sexually frustrated and wants a release.

I'm very giving in bed, and always care about how my partner is feeling. I'm very much a dominant and love to be in control and love a woman who just let's herself go and surrenders herself in the moment.

I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

Prefer someone who is local enough to come over so I don't have to pay for hotels anymore.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.

When it comes to being involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 165 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit body type. I workout twice a week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

In the very early stages, I like to keep things casual/fwb style. Keep it stress free, easy going etc... If things progress further, everything below is what a relationship with me looks like:

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. This begins on the day we start talking. If I feel you are being overtly or repeatedly disrespectful, I will see myself out. In turn, I will always treat you with respect. I will never yell at you, or raise my voice at you. There will never be any verbal abuse of any kind in our relationship. I don't believe a man should treat a woman like that and he should always be stoic, composed, and in control of his emotions at all times. Because of women's emotional nature, a man must always be strong so that he can pick her up when she falls.

Once respect is established, this is where trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens I got it handled. And that gives you comfort.

The dom/sub aspect of this isn't about me deriving pleasure from ordering you around and having you complete daily tasks. It's about a mindset between 2 individuals who are in tune with each other. I will tell you what my expectations are of you and what makes me happy. If you are feminine and are good at being a woman, this will be really easy for you. I'm a man. We are extremely simple and easy to please. You just have to use common sense.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am leading you and I know what's best for you. Discussion is always allowed but I'm not interested in arguing. Arguing isn't something I do with anybody anymore. A man who is confident and stern can get his way without escalating his voice.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. The things I want to do to you and have done to me, I only want done if you are a willing participant. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 40 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs, fit, and workout several times per week.

I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes. While I am looking for something meaningful and potentially long lasting, I am not marriage minded as I have been there, done that, and became a statistic. I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it. I will always make sure you are physically safe and protected when you are in my presence.

The kind of woman I am looking for is very feminine and craves the attention and approval/validation of an older man that she looks up too, admires, and respects.

I am STD free.

In the very early stages, I like to keep things casual/fwb style. Keep it stress free, easy going etc... If things progress further, everything below is what a relationship with me looks like:

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. This begins on the day we start talking. If I feel you are being overtly or repeatedly disrespectful, I will see myself out. In turn, I will always treat you with respect. I will never yell at you, or raise my voice at you. There will never be any verbal abuse of any kind in our relationship. I don't believe a man should treat a woman like that and he should always be stoic, composed, and in control of his emotions at all times. Because of women's emotional nature, a man must always be strong so that he can pick her up when she falls.

Once respect is established, this is where trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens I got it handled. And that gives you comfort.

The dom/sub aspect of this isn't about me deriving pleasure from ordering you around and having you complete daily tasks. It's about a mindset between 2 individuals who are in tune with each other. I will tell you what my expectations are of you and what makes me happy. If you are feminine and are good at being a woman, this will be really easy for you. I'm a man. We are extremely simple and easy to please. You just have to use common sense.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am leading you and I know what's best for you. Discussion is always allowed but I'm not interested in arguing. Arguing isn't something I do with anybody anymore. A man who is confident and stern can get his way without escalating his voice.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. The things I want to do to you and have done to me, I only want done if you are a willing participant. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 40 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs, fit, and workout several times per week.

I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes. While I am looking for something meaningful and potentially long lasting, I am not marriage minded as I have been there, done that, and became a statistic. I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it. I will always make sure you are physically safe and protected when you are in my presence.

The kind of woman I am looking for is very feminine and craves the attention and approval/validation of an older man that she looks up too, admires, and respects.

I am STD free.

Seeking younger woman for Dom/Sub relationship in Southern California

In the very early stages, I like to keep things casual/fwb style. Keep it stress free, easy going etc... If things progress further, everything below is what a relationship with me looks like:

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. This begins on the day we start talking. If I feel you are being overtly or repeatedly disrespectful, I will see myself out. In turn, I will always treat you with respect. I will never yell at you, or raise my voice at you. There will never be any verbal abuse of any kind in our relationship. I don't believe a man should treat a woman like that and he should always be stoic, composed, and in control of his emotions at all times. Because of women's emotional nature, a man must always be strong so that he can pick her up when she falls.

Once respect is established, this is where trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens I got it handled. And that gives you comfort.

The dom/sub aspect of this isn't about me deriving pleasure from ordering you around and having you complete daily tasks. It's about a mindset between 2 individuals who are in tune with each other. I will tell you what my expectations are of you and what makes me happy. If you are feminine and are good at being a woman, this will be really easy for you. I'm a man. We are extremely simple and easy to please. You just have to use common sense.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am leading you and I know what's best for you. Discussion is always allowed but I'm not interested in arguing. Arguing isn't something I do with anybody anymore. A man who is confident and stern can get his way without escalating his voice.

When it comes to the sexual, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much into being in control and love dominating a woman in bed. I believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. The things I want to do to you and have done to me, I only want done if you are a willing participant. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 40 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs, fit, and workout several times per week.

I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes. While I am looking for something meaningful and potentially long lasting, I am not marriage minded as I have been there, done that, and became a statistic. I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it. I will always make sure you are physically safe and protected when you are in my presence.

The kind of woman I am looking for is very feminine and craves the attention and approval/validation of an older man that she looks up too, admires, and respects.

I am STD free.