r/MommydomPersonals

Hey, I’m Rosie. I’m 26, originally from the US but currently living in the Netherlands. I have dark hair, brown eyes, and a personality that can be sweet one minute and a little trouble the next.

I love getting to know people beyond the surface and having conversations that actually go somewhere. When I’m not working or being busy with life, you’ll usually find me watching a series, gaming, spending time with friends, or just enjoying a cozy night in. I’m definitely someone who enjoys the little things, and I appreciate people who can relax, laugh, and just be themselves.

My dominant side is definitely more subtle than strict. I’m not interested in acting like a character or constantly trying to prove a point. I enjoy teasing, playful control, routines, praise, denial, service, and building a dynamic that develops naturally instead of feeling forced. For me, it's less about giving orders and more about understanding someone. I like figuring out what motivates people, what they're trying to hide, and watching trust grow over time.

Seeing someone slowly become more comfortable, more disciplined, and more eager to please because they genuinely trust me is honestly one of my favorite parts. It's never about being the loudest or the harshest. The psychology behind it is what I enjoy most.

I usually click best with people who understand that respect isn't something you can fake. Begging, spamming my messages, or trying way too hard has never been attractive to me. Consistency is. If you say you'll do something, do it. If you make a mistake, own it. Those little things matter much more than empty words.

I'm open-minded when it comes to different dynamics, and I don't expect everyone to have years of experience. Of course, experience is nice, but attitude matters much more. If you're respectful, patient, willing to learn, and able to communicate honestly, I'm always open to seeing if we click.

Everyone has different interests, limits, and expectations, and I believe communication comes before anything else. Your boundaries should always be respected, and I'd expect the same in return. Nobody gets everything right the first time, including me, so I'd rather have someone who communicates than someone who disappears over one misunderstanding.

Outside of that, I'm honestly just a pretty normal girl. I love movie nights, binge-watching a new series, gaming (into V rising right now), sending random memes, and spending time with people whose company I genuinely enjoy. Sometimes I'll stream a game while you watch, or we'll just chat throughout the day about whatever comes to mind. I think the best dynamics are the ones where you actually enjoy each other as people too.

I also like seeing a little effort. I have a couple of simple obedience tasks that help me get a feel for someone's personality, patience, and ability to follow instructions. They're nothing extreme, but they tell me a lot about whether someone is genuinely interested or just here for a quick thrill.

I'm mainly looking for people from the US or Europe since being able to communicate properly in English is important to me. Good communication honestly goes a long way. If you're known for ghosting, disappearing for days without saying anything, or only showing up when you're bored, we're probably not going to be a great match.

Nobody is perfect, and I definitely don't pretend to be. I value honesty, patience, respect, and people who are willing to talk things through when something isn't working instead of walking away. That's worth so much more to me than trying to impress me for five minutes.

If you think we'd get along, send me a brief introduction about yourself and tell me a little about what you're looking for. Nothing too long, just enough for me to get an idea of who you are. ♡

I am 29, from the UK and looking for something kind of specific. Previously I've specifically looked for guys that aren't confident, or guys that are fit but smaller in certain areas. I recently had an experience I loved, and it's something I'd like to do with someone new.

Basically I want someone that's already on a fitness journey, but could do with some encouragement to keep it up. The experience I had was with a guy who was already quite fit, but had got no praise or compliments from people and was wanting to give up. He initially messaged me wanting my opinion on his body, and seemed surprised that I said positive things. We ended up chatting quite a lot, and it turned into a mommydom dynamic with a big focus on praise and encouragement.

Generally we'd have calls and he'd be showing himself. Sometimes we'd just talk about life, or tv shows, or his problems or lack of motivation. Sometimes I'd make him work out while we talked. Sometimes I'd be feeling bossy and just tell him what to do to entertain me. I liked starting a call without anything in particular planned, just see how we both felt at the time and see what happens.

Sadly for me, but happily for him, he began a relationship with someone that lives very close to him so it had to come to an end. It ended on good terms and I am happy for him, but it has left a bit of a void.

I've made other posts over the years looking for practically the same thing, but they never last long, due to time zones or ghosting, or just discovering that we don't really click.

Even though I'm posting this at 00:45 my time, I'd ideally like someone from the UK or a time zone that's not too different. I really don't want to start something with someone very far away, make all kinds of promises that it can work, and then have it fizzle out because it's too much effort to find regular time we're both free.

I don't like to include all my likes, but I will leave my dislikes/limits.

I'm not into anything extreme, so no extreme pain, anything that leaves marks, blood, scat, illegal. I'm also not into feminisation, sissies, femboys etc. It just isn't for me.

Voice calls are a big thing for me. I like to call sooner rather than later to see if we click, as I find it difficult to like someone from text alone. I have some very strict rules about showing that we'd talk about before moving off of reddit.

If this post is of interest to you, please message me some basic information about you. Your age, location and time zone, your sfw interests and hobbies, your nsfw ones too. Describe yourself physically and what kind of journey you're on. Tell me why my post appealed to you, and how much experience you've had with online dynamics.

Please don't message me if your only interest is getting joi.

Hi everyone, I’m Hannah. I’m 23 years old, I’m from beautiful Austria, and I’m looking for a loyal online slave who presents himself as femininely as possible, both visually and in personality—a passionate sissy sub, femboy, or crossdresser.

To give you an idea of what I’m like: I’m about 170 cm tall, weigh a petite 50 kg, and would describe myself as a typical Austrian girl. I love nature and absolutely love being active outdoors. In the summer, I’m drawn to the mountains for hiking, to the lake for swimming, or out on my bike. As soon as winter sets in, I absolutely love to go skiing. When I’m not out in nature, I find balance by baking in the kitchen or relaxing with my guitar.

But now I’d like to learn more about you. Who are you, how do you live, and what excites you in your everyday life? Tell me about the different sides of you.

To rule out any misunderstandings right away, here are the guidelines for our potential dynamic. I know exactly what I want—and what I absolutely reject.

My Kinks: Femdom & Humiliation: I love being in control. You should enjoy submitting both mentally and physically and have no problem with playful to strict humiliation.

Chastity & Cum Control: Your pleasure is entirely in my hands. I decide when, how, and if you find relief.

Crossdressing & Anal: Expressing your feminine side is essential to me. I expect you to celebrate your femininity and to be open to and willing to explore anal play.

My absolute no-gos:

Anything illegal, blood, Findom, and any form of permanent physical or psychological harm.

Important Note: I have absolutely no financial interest. I am not looking for a paypig, nor do I sell worn underwear or anything similar. I am purely interested in the psychological and erotic dynamics of surrendering power.

What You Must Bring Legal Age: You must be at least 18 years old. Equipment: You should already own a solid collection of your own toys as well as appropriate feminine clothing (lingerie, dresses, wigs, etc.). Documentation: Obedience must be proven. You must be absolutely willing and able to promptly document the tasks I assign to you via photos and videos.

If you recognize yourself in this profile and meet the requirements, I expect a detailed and compelling application from you. As soon as I accept the chat, send me your cover letter and an initial, compelling photo of yourself without being asked. Of course, you don’t have to show your face. Please take this search seriously and put your heart and soul into it. Clichés or one-liners will be deleted without being read. If you don’t meet the criteria or don’t agree with the rules, please refrain from sending a message.

If I turn you down, please accept it immediately and without discussion. Who knows, maybe a new opportunity will be later on.

I’m looking forward to your message and to seeing how well you can present yourself.

Hannah

Hi there!

My name is Airi I'm 28 years old. I live in the US so I'd prefer someone in the US as well so the timezones line up. I'm in EST but other US timezones are fine too.

I am a mommydom with quite a bit of experience. I've had 4 long term subs in the past that I've had great dynamics with and I've loved every second of it. I am a very gentle mommydom and I also love petplay. Because of this, I would like a sub who is either a little or a pet. I mostly like to focus on comfort and nurture rather than control but of course, I do like a bit of structure as well. I would like to have set rules and level of respect the goes both ways.

As I've said, I do have experience but for the past year or so, I've been single so that I could focus on myself. So, I finally feel that I'm in a good place to meet someone new but please be understanding that I am a bit nervous to hop back into things. Even us dommes get shy sometimes, we're all human. So, I do think we will start at a slow pace.

A bit about me, I'm an artist. I love all kinds of art so I dabble in pretty much everything. I draw, paint, crochet, sing, write music, but my main hobby is writing fanfiction. I spend quite a lot of my free time writing. I love animals as well and I have two cats. I like video games at times too and mostly like cozy games. Stardew Valley is my favorite of course but I also play Tomadachi Life and some puzzle games.

I'm looking for a very kind and well mannered sub who would like to be pampered and adored. Preferably someone between the 22-32 years old. I love to make my sub feel pampered and adored. I want to make you blush and swoon. I want to dress you up and cuddle you and read you bedtime stories. And, I will be honest, I do have a preference for rather feminine men. Im into feminization quite a lot so I'd love to dress you up and maybe do your makeup! I like my subs to be well behaved. Brats are adorable but they're not for me. I want a blushy, shy little thing.

My main kinks are feminization, petplay, JOI, CEI, MDLB, orgasm control, humiliation, praise and objectification. I also occassionally like chastity but I don’t partake in that often.

Ideally, id like something long term and id like to begin slowly. I like to get to know my subs very well before we dive into things because it's very important to understand comfort levels.

If this appeals to you, please message me! Don't be shy, tell me all about you! And you can start by answering a few questions for me:

1.What's your name and age?

2.What about my post appealed to you?

3.What are your hobbies and interests?

Hello, and good morning ! ☺️💕

First thing I would like to say is I am new to this, but extremely curious and would like to make a genuine, long term connection if at all possible.

So I consider myself a submissive, but I am a bit of a brat. I would like to find a submissive male to take on a playmate role with. I would be the more dominant one, but think gentle teasing… dressing you up in cute outfits while you blush, some edging, during play dates being a bit bossy and telling you what we are gonna play & how we are gonna play it, etc.

So think a bit of a bully, but I will also adore you and be a bit clingy. I just show my affection in bossy ways.

This isn’t set in stone, but it excites me to think that maybe one day the two of us could share a dom together, but because I will be oh so attached to you, i will always put you first, but the idea of the two of us kneeling together in front of a dom that we both agree is deserving of our submission is very exciting. Think of how cute we will be kneeling in front of him, holding hands 💕 of course you’d be kinda shy, but I’d coax you into he a good boy for them. 🙈 but !! this is only a fantasy… my main priority is building a connection with you, and maybe something like this could come later if we are both comfy !

I am very cuddly & affectionate? did I mention clingy..?? I want you to be my favorite play thing. What I want is kinda abstract, but I hope it will come together when I find the right person.

I am very giving!! If you can make my fluffy dreams come true, I will do my best to give you what you’re looking for too.

Outside of kink, I am a bit of a weeb! I like watching anime, and have been learning Japanese seriously for the last year. I have a puppy that I take care of, so at times i can be a bit busy with him. I am interested in fashion, make up, and I love horror movies. I love going on cute dates too !! think like the aquarium, to play on the beach, movie dates inside \^ \^ 💕 I just wanna be your very best friend first and foremost, and though kink is very important to me, it comes second.

So as for my looks, I am 5’5 a bit chubby (not in any way huge, but it’s something I am a bit self conscious about and am working on so I can have more confidence inside the bedroom & out), I have dark brown skin, big eyes & a baby face. I think attraction is import, I want you to think I am hot / vice versa ! I would like to just swap pictures early on to see if we are what each other are looking for, and no harm if not ! I just don’t want us to waste time.

I am looking for something in person only ! I am affectionate and a cuddle hungry monster. I need to be able to hold you & see your blushing face while I tell you how good of a boy you are.

Thank you so very much for reading, and I hope maybe i am your match & that we can chat, be friends & see where it goes ! ♡

I am a fit woman, who likes tall or short men if you're 4'11 I'm interested if youre 6'8 I'm interested, height doesn't bother me, I just ask that toh have full head of hair and that you're under 47 and over 23yrs.

looking for men with any one of these fetishes:

●Muscular women

●Cuckold (optional, not required)

●Men being degraded/humiliated

●Petplay (you're the pet)

●Sadistic Femdom (NOT gentle)

●Futanari

●Big Clits 4"inches on a very muscular women

●pegging using huge clit/toys

●JOI to huge boobs

●Belly inflation

●Sissification, while the woman is masculinization

●Golden showers (you receive)

●RoleRoversal /FLR

●small penis humiliation (sph)

●Chasity

●Service Sub

●Slave

●straight jacket

●Busty Skinny

●Extreme Sissification, large boob job or wearable silicone boobs

●cumflation

●TRUE mommy dom little boy (aka, you're a little, and play with dolls, plsysets, toys. If you so not then im not interested in being called mommy.)

●freeuse

●big clit growing, Extreme length and girt, to insert in a ass

Extreme fetishes and kinks are my favorite aspect to bdsm, normal vanilla stuff bores me.

High sex drives preferred, no shy men, no lack of experience please, I like when you know what you want as much as I do.

DEAL BREAKERS: poop, farts, Forced bi, married, poly, online only. Low effort, bossy men, Extreme brats, bald, men who don't like big perky breast, men who refuse to wax or shave, too insecure, too shy, too Introverted to the point you dont have a hobbie.

if you have any of these messages me with the one you're into or multiple

this is for Long term roleplay only.

Please message me wirh the ones you like and how old are, and a physical description.

Ideally you're from places that are reachable/meet able like Canada, the United States (USA), Any state or province, willing to voice chat some time, I don't care to see pics of you anytime soon, so we can keep things private for now and just message and call, im not interested in nudes unless its just of your small cock if you have one, or if you want to share a faceless cross dress Pic wearing fake tits, or of your smooth bare bubble butt. I prefer men who prefer big boobs, if you say you say you dont like them don't dm me, if tou say tou prefer smaller chests, dont dm me. Thats a huge deal breaker as well as if you didnt manage to read over this post. I like effort intros even if its not paragraphs just something to show you're actually interested and read the post. So where are you from? How old are you? What are you sexually into, what kinks from the list, listed above caught your eye? Do you like voice chats after getting to know one another? Let me know in your message, hope to hear from you soon!

Confident, experienced lifestyle domme looking to meet my match and build a cozy life together. I am seeking a thrilling, yet sustainable long term romance supported by a foundation of mutual respect, reciprocated attraction, deep trust, a shared worldview, tons of filth and kink. I want a smart, self-aware and service-oriented gentleman, age between 25 - 43

I am a curvy, beautiful, redhead woman. I have a career I enjoy that takes up a fair amount of my time. In my free time, I am an avid reader, gamer, crafter and passionate about horror movies and arts. I travel a fair amount of time for work and pleasure, so I would love someone who enjoys new experiences

What I'm seeking;
I want to live an authentic life alongside someone with whom I can share my full complex self. I want to be charmed by all your idiosyncrasies and create an easy but intense connection with someone who lights me up. I am looking for a relationship that blends an established and discreet, pervasive, d/s dynamic. I want to feel giddy thinking about you. If you're only seeking kink, look elsewhere, I am not the one for you. I want to be the authority figure and breaker of all ties in our happy FLR. I want the reins and I want them held with continuity, not impulse. I want the responsibility of guiding someone who wants that guidance. I want a dynamic built on conscious structure rather than momentary sparks. I am a dominant who leads from a place of clarity, patience and intentionality, not force.
If you choose me, I will take the time to learn you deeply. Your temperament, habits, the way you think when you're confident, the way you react when you're unsure. I will learn your soft spots, your stubborn edges, your patterns when no one is watching. I'll learn what makes you second-guess yourself, and what makes you feel grounded. And slowly, never rushed, never careless, I will guide your life into a structure that reflects the dynamic we build together

I enjoy both the sexual and non-sexual expressions of BDSM. I want a partner who feels at home within his desire to serve, submit and totally embrace guidance and training. I have a kink list as long as my arm haha, which falls in and out of rotation but some of my favorite acts includes body worship, erotic breastfeeding, orgasm tease/control and denial/chastity, lifestyle control, painplay (cbt and spanking), breeding, pegging and a whole lot more. I like confidence that softens when I step closer, eye contact that turns shy when I lift your face up. I enjoy subtle control. A quiet command. A slow instruction. The kind of energy that makes you focus and forget everything else
I am big on consent, safe words and setting boundaries

My ideal sub:
A smart, mature, self-possessed charmer whose kinks and vanilla interests align with mine. I have a soft spot for clingy types, even if it takes a while to unlock that particular character trait. I am looking for someone confident in their desire to submit to another

If you feel the pull, if the thought of belonging settles into your chest like something inevitable, then reach out! I tend to pour a lot of myself into my relationships, so I want someone who has the time and energy to match my contribution

Hello! ❤

I've posted earlier but I am still looking, so feel free to message me again if you have before.

I'm posting here for the same reason you're looking: I'm into this dynamic. But ultimately I'm seeking an equal partner who wants a \*\*healthy, secure, long-term relationship.\*\* Where kink is something we explore only after a trusting, caring relationship has already been established between us. I don't want to be reduced to a role but seen as a whole, complex human that you genuinely want to know and grow with. And I'll give the same to you.

\*\*About me:\*\*

Tall, caucasian, dark hair. I don't go to the gym but I'm active everyday. I'm very passionate about my career and making a positive impact on the lives of others. I have friends from all stages of my life and spend most weekends catching up and traveling to see them. But in my free time, I have a lot of artsy/sciency hobbies and play casual video games. I also have a dog that I'm obsessed with. I would love someone who has the patience and curiosity to try new things with me and simply make the most out of life together.

\*\*What I'm looking for:\*\*

Above all else, I'm looking for something that feels safe. Where we both have a soft place to land. Where we can communicate honestly and keep showing up for eachother.

I adore masculine guys with big softie energy who are patient, emotionally intelligent and intellectually curious. I am primarily looking for someone in the age range of 23-35, where you have a reached a point in your life where you have dreams and aspirations you're working towards (tell me about them, I'd love to know!) I've done a lot of internal work on myself and hope you find psychology and self reflection interesting. I would also prefer you to be local so we can meet up relatively soon after we start chatting.

\*\*Kinks:\*\*

Again, I think its best for us to be partners first before we play with this side of things. I am completley fine talking about it over text but would prefer we table it when we're first getting to know eachother in-person (I want to know your full self first.)

But for when we get there, I am in the "gentle mommy" category meaning I'm way more into the comfy/cozy stuff than causing pain. Interests for me include gentle femdom, ABDL (CG/mommy role only), ANR/dry nursing, teasing, giving praise. Cuddling and holding your hand. 🤭 I may be open to switching but only in vanilla contexts; I am primarily a Domme so please do not message me if you're not a Sub. Overall, though, I'm pretty openminded. Any experience level (or none) is fine.

Hard limits for me are anything illegal, anything public, anything involving blood/severe pain, and anything that's not monogamous. I'm also not particularly interested in femboys or sissification (sorry!), although it may not a dealbreaker with the right person. Just be upfront about it.

\*\*Before you message me:\*\*

\- Consider sending a SFW pic: Not a requirement, but it will help your message stand out as I may not reply otherwise. You can't send a pic in a request, so please send an Imgur link or indicate that you will send one when I accept. I'll send you a pic shortly after we start messaging. SFW only please!

\- Tell me about yourself. The longer the message, the better. I want to get a sense of who you are and whether or not we would click. Ramble about your passions, what's been on your mind, how your day was, your dealbreakers, whatever feels natural. I will NOT respond to "hey how are you."

\- Ask me questions: I'm an open book when asked over text and nothing is off the table.

\- Optional questions you can answer: CGs/Doms give a lot in these relationships. How would you reciprocate care? Why are you here, what about this dynamic appeals to you?

\- Be yourself. Be honest. I'm a normal person outside of these kinks, there's no judgement here. Authenticity is what will spark my interest the most.

Thanks for making it through to the end! I look forward to hearing from you ❤

I'm a dynamic kinky mistress with many area of interests and kinks. I enjoy exploring various areas, and I'm open to discovering new ones.

I’m only looking for a LTR D/s relationship with a slave who would cherish to be owned, to be enslaved by mind, heart, soul and body all under total control and to be used as desired.

To me communication, trust and honesty are essential aspects to any relationship moreover in this aspect where in power and control are handed over with delight when there is chemistry. My slave should have complete dedication towards building the relationship at the same time having no expectations but sheer respect, obedience and values of servitude.

I have explored with subs in the past. I am, technically, a switch but I have more experience as a Domme than as a sub myself. Des Moines seems to ripe with submissive men lol but I am appreciative of it. Puppies and subs in general will always have my heart. My previous subs (despite their varied interests and personality types) all had some similar qualities. They were all very responsive to physical touch (sexual or otherwise), intelligent and hard working, service oriented, eager to please, responsive, obsessive, and thoughtful. So while I wouldn’t say that I have a type lol I would say men with these qualities tend to go well with my personality.

It could also be said that I’m naturally very maternal. Even if it’s not a MDlb dynamic. I’m very sweet, give gentle instruction (the first time), big into positive reinforcement, and making my sub feel small, cared for, possessed, and cherished. But make no mistake, if a firm hand is what the situation calls for, I can absolutely take it there. Lastly, I will also warn that I like to keep my subs on edge lol it’s my guilty pleasure. I won’t give you more than you can take but I will absolutely keep you dancing on the line. Whether it be through little touches, texts, or words I know will get to you. I will tease and edge you constantly lol. Because it brings me joy lol I love a sub that’s a bit keyed up, if you’re catching my drift. But don’t you worry your sweet little self, if you’re good, I’ll reward you. But if you’re not…well let’s just say, you’re going to hate that you love it.

My kinks are sissification, bondage, rope, role play, humiliation, face sitting,pegging,ass play,butt,nipple torture, ass worship and pussy worship and toys.having My slave to please Me orally, using My slave as My sex toy, bondage and discipline, foot worship, anal play, erotic and sensual tease, maid or sissy training, whipping, verbal and physical humiliation, body worship, spanking, golden showers, strapon play

I do love corresponding in a thoughtful, detailed way about my fetish passions. I have assembled my fetish list below with care. If your passion isn't on my list then there is no real need to message me.

I have been a dominant woman for the past 15 years but as I've gotten older, the need to nurture has been growing inside me. It started when one of my subs asked me to be nice and gentle with him instead of using my traditional method. Everything changed when he asked if he could call me mommy. I still like to be dominant and strict with sub, but sometimes I want a handsome boy to nurture and play with. If you are interested in serving me, reach out. I have general guideline on how I like to be approached on my profile to make the process smoother. I do not charge money. I have a wide arrange of preferences but you MUST be 18+, non negotiable.

About me: I have various domination styles that depend on our individual dynamic. I don't think one size fits all and would be missing out on some great experiences being one "kind" of dominant so if you are interested but are worried about my domination style, you can message me and we can talk about it. I generally am more gentle on younger subs and get stricter the older they are, but like i said it depends on our dynamic. Over the course of being a mistress I have learned many things about they male body and am excited to teach you if you are interested. One of my favorite things to show new subs is how to tribute me, not with money but with their bodies 😘

My Kinks include: Athletic/muscular, CEI (cum eating instruction), Two slaves playing together, Costume/uniform, Forced Bi, Public/risky jerking, Compression clothes, Himbofication/peacocking, remote toys, Condom play, Hypnotism, tight/sexy underwear, Edging, JOI, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Light humiliation, Mommydom, Fleshlight, Oil play, Ruined orgasm, Poppers, Hypno/Brainwashing, Milking

My turn offs include very needy men, pestering men, ghosting, or flaking. If you think you may not be comfortable with something, please communicate it with me rather than flaking.

About you: I like a lot of different things when it comes to submissives so if you don't 100% fit this section, don't worry. I generally like masculine slaves with a clean cut aesthetic (short hair, but not buzzed, no facial hair unless neatly kept or trimmed no tattoos, I have zero issues with tattoos if you have them though). You should be submissive and want to be commanded by a woman. Too often I run into guys who just want to jerk off for a woman and be watched and not really be told what to do. That is not really my style so I do want to state that I want a submissive man. Some brattiness is ok but you really have to know how to work it.

Really craving college athlete types but again don't worry if you don't 100% fit my description.

So if you are interested in serving, I recommend looking through my profile and sending me a message to see if we have an initial connection. If i don't answer right away, don't be worried it can just take me a while to respond but also sometimes i let my messages from interested subs sit for a bit to give them a chance to simmer down and reflect if this is what they truly want. A lot of times someone will message me and delete their profile right after, presumably after "post-nut clarity" and they've calmed down.

I make several posts like this recruiting potential submissive candidates so mention you come from this sub so I know you are looking for a mommydom type.

Anything else just ask 😊

I’m supposed to use this space to describe what I’m looking for but I can’t seem to find the words to describe the finer details of the sweet boy I have yet to find. So instead, I’m going to tell you about myself, describe how I want to make you feel, and what exactly I’d like to do to (and with you). Then it will be on you decide if it’s a future you would be interested in being a part of.

In short, I am a not so short business professional. Natural born leader and someone that people typically defer to whether my position demands it or not. I live in active life but I’m no social butterfly. I’ll speak when I deem it necessary but prefer to listen. It’s been said that I’m quite spontaneous and I love an adventure. My hobbies include shopping, travel, volunteering, baking, board games, pool side tanning, going to the spa, reading, painting, puzzles, going to the movies, etc.

I have explored with subs in the past. I am, technically, a switch but I have more experience as a Domme than as a sub myself. Des Moines seems to ripe with submissive men lol but I am appreciative of it. Puppies and subs in general will always have my heart. My previous subs (despite their varied interests and personality types) all had some similar qualities. They were all very responsive to physical touch (sexual or otherwise), intelligent and hard working, service oriented, eager to please, responsive, obsessive, and thoughtful. So while I wouldn’t say that I have a type lol I would say men with these qualities tend to go well with my personality.

It could also be said that I’m naturally very maternal. Even if it’s not a MDlb dynamic. I’m very sweet, give gentle instruction (the first time), big into positive reinforcement, and making my sub feel small, cared for, possessed, and cherished. But make no mistake, if a firm hand is what the situation calls for, I can absolutely take it there. Lastly, I will also warn that I like to keep my subs on edge lol it’s my guilty pleasure. I won’t give you more than you can take but I will absolutely keep you dancing on the line. Whether it be through little touches, texts, or words I know will get to you. I will tease and edge you constantly lol. Because it brings me joy lol I love a sub that’s a bit keyed up, if you’re catching my drift. But don’t you worry your sweet little self, if you’re good, I’ll reward you. But if you’re not…well let’s just say, you’re going to hate that you love it.

Now, for my preferences, because we all have them. I prefer brunettes that are at least 6 foot. I don’t have the strongest preferences on body types just that you’re fully functional/able to keep up. You need to have a career, be at least 26, and have reliable transportation. I’m looking for someone that submits to me because they want to, not because they can’t take care of themselves and want me to do it. I would strongly prefer you were local to the metro/greater Dsm area. But if you’re not, you’d need to be able to get here at least 2 weekends a month with the ability to relocate eventually.

But I think that’s plenty of information for this post. If you think you’re the boy I’m looking for, message me. Fair warning to put effort into your message. Laziness won’t get you far with me.

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. Before you write to me, I kindly ask you to read the entire message carefully. This ensures we both understand what is expected and that we are on the same page from the very beginning.

Who I Am

I am a 24-year-old Domina with several years of experience in both online and real-life domination. My approach is genuine and driven entirely by personal satisfaction. I do not require any form of payment for my time or attention. This is something I do for my own pleasure and fulfillment, not for financial gain.

I have a wide range of kinks and I am always willing to adjust the intensity of our interactions to match your capabilities and preferences. However, I want to be clear from the start: I am very strict. Any form of insubordination will result in punishment. In the worst cases, it leads to being blocked. I truly dislike having to do that, but from time to time, it becomes necessary when boundaries are not respected.

What I Expect From You

I do not expect you to have any prior experience. Beginners are more than welcome to apply. The only thing you must do is follow my commands patiently and willingly. That is the foundation of our dynamic. Without it, nothing else can work.

Basic Requirements

You must be at least 18 years old. If I have any doubts about your age, I will verify it. I am open to almost all body types, but I must be honest: a very large build is not for me. I am truly sorry about that, gentlemen.

How to Apply

Your first message to me should contain proper information about yourself. Please include the following details in your initial message:

How old are you?

What experience do you have, if any?

What are your kinks?

What do you enjoy most about submission?

What toys do you own or have access to?

What are your limits?

Sending SFW pictures along with your application can significantly improve my response time. I appreciate seeing who I am talking to, provided the images are appropriate.

Including the following sentence in your message will boost your application: "I agree on all conditions and I promise to follow commands patiently." This shows me that you have read and understood everything and that you are ready to commit to the dynamic.

Verification

I am always willing to verify myself to submissive males who have proven a sufficient and adequate approach to their Queen. However, please keep in mind that this does not mean you can ask for pictures anytime you want. Doing so is highly inappropriate and will result in punishment. Verification is a privilege earned through good behavior and respect, not a right you can demand.

A Note on Response Time

Please give me a moment to reply to your message. After I post an ad, my DMs fill up very quickly. I am doing my best to respond to everyone and to provide each person with my best skills and attention. I hope you understand that this takes time. Patience is a virtue, and it is one I value highly in those who approach me.

Final Words

If you have read everything and feel that this dynamic is right for you, I look forward to hearing from you. Approach me with respect, honesty, and a willingness to follow, and we may build something meaningful together.

Hello! I’m a 26-year-old Domme girl from Ohio looking to meet a fun, open-minded, and extra kinky sub who’s interested in chatting, getting to know each other, fooling around, and being a good little slut for me. I’m not necessarily searching for a super serious or long-term dynamic right away. Instead, I’m hoping for something casual, relaxed, and fluid where we can both enjoy ourselves without unnecessary pressure or expectations. I believe the best connections happen naturally, so I’d love for us to simply have fun together and see where things go.

My biggest priority is making sure we’re both comfortable and enjoying ourselves. I want you to feel safe being yourself, sharing your interests, and exploring your kinky side without feeling judged. Whether you’re experienced or just starting to discover BDSM, you’re welcome to message me. Everyone has different interests and limits, and I genuinely enjoy learning what makes each person unique.

I’m open to all body types, so whether you’re slim, athletic, muscular, chubby, or on the curvier side, please don’t be shy about reaching out. Confidence, honesty, and a good attitude are far more attractive to me than fitting any particular look. If you’re respectful, playful, and eager to have some fun, I’d love to hear from you.

Race is absolutely not an issue either. Everyone is welcome to message me regardless of their background. I do happen to have a small preference for Asian men, but that’s simply a preference—not a requirement. If we click and have good chemistry, that’s what really matters to me.

I’d love to meet someone who’s just as kinky as I am, but don’t worry if you’re still exploring. I’m open to talking with people of all experience levels. Just be honest with me about what you’re into, what your limits are, and anything that’s completely off the table for you. Good communication makes everything more enjoyable, and I appreciate people who know how to express themselves honestly.

One thing I do ask is that you’re comfortable exchanging pictures and videos while we chat. It helps make the experience feel more personal and exciting, and I enjoy putting a face to the person I’m talking with. Of course, everything should always be shared willingly and with mutual comfort.

If your profile is completely blank or gives off sketchy vibes, I will probably ask you to verify yourself before we continue talking. It’s nothing personal—it’s simply important that we both feel safe and know we’re talking to a real person.

Above all, I’m looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, playful teasing, mutual respect, and plenty of fun. If you’re genuine, open-minded, and excited to explore a casual dynamic together, don’t hesitate to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, your experience, your favorite kinks, and what you’re hoping to find.

I can’t wait to hear from all you lovely subbies who are ready to have a little fun together. Don’t be shy—I promise I don’t bite… unless you ask nicely.

I am a mature, successful, in-control woman with a career and family life. I am a mom, a leader… and behind closed doors, I enjoy the idea of being in authority over a young fit man’s body. As a Domme, I get seriously turned on by taking ownership of that powerful, instinctive male sex drive. I’ll stoke it, edge it, and strategically milk it when I decide. The goal? Channel all that pent-up load into real gains: crushing workouts, clean eating, building a stronger, more sculpted body that turns me on. Abstinence plus disciplined and strategically allowed release creates an intensely motivating energy I love redirecting for both your growth and my pleasure.

If you’re a young, healthy, high-drive man, you have a strong primal urge and instinct to breed. Without proper self-control and discipline, you likely jerk off at every opportunity and it leaves you feeling drained, unmotivated, and stuck in a fog. You’re biologically wired and designed for peak sexual performance; but that raw energy needs to be harnessed and used\ with intentional direction. That’s what I enjoy giving you.

I genuinely enjoy feeling proud of a sub who’s putting in the work for me. I want to watch you level up physically and mentally while I hold the reins. At the same time, my natural sweet, maternal energy gives you the structure and accountability you’ve been craving and needing to be successful.

Do I get sexual pleasure out of watching you? 100%. Are you going to hear me have an earth-shattering orgasm every time you need a milking? No. I need a man that understands it’s his responsibility and job to be milked… and is doing it service to me. While sometimes I’m wildly horny and you will be present to hear some intensely hot orgasms from me, that may not be every, single, time. I’m hoping to find someone that understands that and truly loves the service aspect of the responsibilities I give you… and not purely in it for your own entertainment.

This isn’t about turning you into a sissy. You’re a stud. I’ll give firm instructions that make you melt as I edge and milk you, owning every drop like a bull under my care. No $$, no BS, just safe, sane, private connection with real discipline. Specific kinks used in the process: joi, edging, orgasm management, tasks, routines, body inspections, etc.

What I’m looking for in a man:

* Live independently (US-based)

* Comfortable on cam (body visible. At minimum torso/upper body; face optional with mask if needed. No phone-at-crotch angles, please)

* Fit but always working toward improvement, with a very high sex drive

* Open to building a genuine connection while exploring ownership

I love getting to know you on camera first. Talking, teasing, watching your reactions. No instant dick pics or crotch cams.Eventually, you check in with me, train hard, eat clean, all to build and produce impressive loads. You will feel the satisfaction of making me proud, and also your body being used for its primary purpose.

If this resonates and you’re ready for structure that pushes you to the next level, hit me up.

—-Send: Your age, general location, and a physical description (plus a SFW body pic if you’re comfortable).

Note: Your “sexy” pics are way better and more satisfying to me when they’re within the context of who you are. While I’m certainly not looking to identify you personally, it’s also true that it does nothing for me when I receive the SAME disembodied dick pic, or one-in-a-million headless torso shot. I love thinking about how I see a guy at the gym, or walking around in the grocery store and I can tell he has a nice body.. and then being able to strip him, etc.

Again, safety, discretion and connection must be established and are required before moving into more explicit territory, so please respect that. But basically…

No dick pics

I'm a slim/athletic university student living in London, looking for a Femdom/Mommydom relationship. I've been interested for a while, and my last relationship allowed me to really explore it for the first time, and now I need something more dedicated. I'm pretty kinky, incredibly dominant but very gentle (trust me VERY domme, VERY gentle), looking for a femdom relationship dynamic online that could maybe lead to IRL in the future. What I appreciate about Mommydom dynamics is the reversal of sex/gender roles, I find it really erotic, and it makes me feel good about my body and sexuality. This is something that really matters to me, and really connects with me on a spiritual level, I hope I can give you that same passion. One time, with an ex-partner, I edged him for a week straight and then when we both finally orgasmed at the same time it was the most intense, intimate experience.

Kinks (non-exhaustive): JOI, edging, milking, anal play, toy play, body worship, gooning, orgasm control, giving instructions

About you:

I'm looking for a committed submissive around my age (18-30), and I have a preference for muscular or slim builds. I want you to be obsessed, obedient and attractive. Toys of any kind are a bonus! Dick size does not matter to me, but general hygeine is important. You must be comfortable sharing yourself (I have posts and will also share more of myself). UK/Europe based is preferrable for potential IRL but anyone is welcome. I expect an ASL, and to be called mommy/ma'am/miss, whichever you prefer. I am very gentle and respectful, I hope to recieve the same respect. Tell me your kinks and limits, then ask me how you can be of service, hopefully we can build a special relationship dynamic together. I appreciate honesty and respect more than anything else, so if you do approach me, one word introductions or effortless 'yo' wont get a reply.

Again, this is fun and erotic for me, I hope that it is also for you. I'm excited to get back into the world of Femdom relationship dynamics, and to edge you until you're begging for it. I'll make you keep begging and stroking until I want you to cum, then you'll have my permission. I don't live alone, and I work, so I'm not available 100% of the time, but nobody is free all the time either, the balance between kink life and real life is really important! Hopefully there's a pretty boy out there who wants to be mine, wants mommy to mould his brain, to just be the perfect little subby toy for me to use for my own pleasure until I own you completely. If that sounds like heaven to you too, you know where to find me. Hoping to find a meaningful relationship dynamic, this all comes with open communication and honesty about your feelings and desires, that’s what’s most important!