r/MommydomPersonals

Hello Beautiful Humans.

US TIME ZONE SUBS : I SEE U and I love you all but unfortunately the time zones won't work out and it wouldn't be fair to Domme you like that as the time difference would be too rough and would make communication very difficult as I am located in the middle east.

So please find another Domme in a better suited time zone.

First let's get things out of the way, I don't want someone new for this, I don't want a hi how r u, I want you to read this and feel it in ur gut that you were born to submit and serve me.

I want to consume your thoughts and have your crave me, I want any sort of attention from me to have you craving more.

I am not a new Domme and I know what I want, I want a kinky slut that lives by it. Understand my pleasure is their priority.

I need a sub that shows off proudly, loves sending pics and videos and absolutely gets off on calls.

Also i don't mean you need to have ur face pic in every task but ideally I would like knowing how my subs look like as I am more than willing to do the same.

I have been doing this for 3 years now and I am looking for my perfect submissive. Someone that ticks all the boxes and maybe transition into a real life situation.

I am looking for a submissive that truly can't function without being one, I need a submissive that will live by my rules and have enough respect for themselves and me to be obedient.

I want someone who sees my message and immediately gets needy and horny.

If I give u a task, I expect a yes mommy and not excuses.

I do find hunky and tall men that do not appear submissive at all to be more My type but I don't necessarily only seek that out, I don't care about your body type as long as you can draw me in.

Someone willing understand that my pleasure comes first, someone not letting me repeat myself, someone that sees my message and immediately pops a boner and loses any sanity in his brain cause they know my word is absolute.

Someone not afraid to show off and send videos and pictures, someone that is truly looking to be used but also build a connection. Someone that understands their purpose has always been to serve.

What will I be ? A very adaptable Domme with a sexy voice, I love giving tasks, I love teasing and I LOVE making sure my subs don't forget our sessions. I get horny alot but I will not always let you cum, I Love making sure you are experiencing a lot of emotions and keeping you on your toe.

I like to describe myself as a baby face with a milf body.

Kinks and what not : I am very open minded and kinky however I really can't stress this enough : communicate your kinks and limits to me, I need someone that knows what they want and aren't afraid to talk about it.

Some of my kinks include : public play, cum play, tasks, humiliation and degradation, race play, cuckolding, forced bi etc.

I would love to control your toys, I love guys with big butts, love turning them into anal sluts and I absolutely love exploring new kinks.

My biggest strength is that I love to see what my sub has as limits and respect them while indulging in their kinks as well as mine.

I truly want a long term thing with commitment, not necessarily JUST about sex and fun times. I would prefer we also get to talk about real life and hobbies etc.

I have had a lot of subs and have had countless sessions, so I am pretty confident but always looking to learn and improve as a Domme so I want a sub that understands that. Some days we will hop on a call and talk, other days I will be extremely horny all day, other times I will be very horny but teasing. I don't think I have ever had one strict style.

If you are an Arab man ashamed and scared to feel the truth, this this is a safe space for u to submit and realize your truth. 😉

Also if you message me JUST hi and how r you or whatever I will ignore you message. I want someone that knows what I desire and respects the effort and time I put

Your message shows your effort and respect towards your Domme.

I am also not looking for brats or femboys or girls at the moment. appreciate you but it's not what I am looking for.

Thank you and let's see who's my good boy

I am a responsible, smart, and charismatic woman with a passion for personal growth, self improvement, and meaningful connections. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime, I lead a quiet life and usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out. So I love to read, watch horror/thriller movies, video games (just getting into it)
I am a good looking, long blonde hair, blue eyes, average height, curvy, white woman

My primary experiences have been mostly irl, but for some personal reasons, I'm currently looking to start with an online/LDR. Please be open to an irl dynamic eventually, but don't be overly hasty for one

Kinks aspects:
I’ve come to realize that fantasies change and evolve depending on our emotional life at the time, and would be influenced by whatever relationship develops between us, but as a general tendency my idea of domming is to take over responsibility and control with the sub's best interest at heart, in order to give them the privilege of letting go and experiencing pleasure in the knowledge that they're safe. My needs are therefore more about loving, doting, sensual, pushing vulnerability, giving praises.
My Limits: scat, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I look absolutely vanilla to the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but when we’re all alone he is there to serve, please and be used by me.

My Ideal submissive:
A worthy, confident and obedient man who is eager to evolve, learn and grow
19+ obviously
I don't care about your weight or height, so far you can submit to me
Someone comfortable with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and open communication
Someone who understands that this is not just a kink, but a lifestyle
Someone who is confident and competent in daily life, but who once I earn the trust and right, melts in my hands

Instructions for messaging me:
No honorifics until I tell you to
At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), and one word to describe yourself.
In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that.
Give me a list of your kinks and limits

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply:
You lead with sexual conversations (I'm not here to be your kinky fantasy)
You haven't put effort into your message.
You haven't followed all of my instructions.
You want to top me.
You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!

Hi, I’m a 27 year old cis woman living in Europe, and I’m looking for someone to build either a short term or long term dynamic with, online only. I’m preferably looking for someone younger than me, but 20+ only. Ideally, you’re also based somewhere in Europe, since being in similar time zones would make communication much easier.

I’m very much into soft, gentle dynamics. I like being nurturing, affectionate, caring, guiding, and protective; I want to be someone you can feel safe and comfortable with. I enjoy the idea of being a steady and reassuring presence in someone’s life; someone who can encourage you, look after you, help you when you need direction, and give you a sense of security and belonging. I like the idea of building trust gradually and creating a dynamic where both people genuinely enjoy each other’s company and feel comfortable being themselves.

For me, a dynamic doesn’t have to be intense or complicated to be meaningful. I’m more interested in the connection between two people, the little routines we can build together, and the feeling of having someone who is there for you. I enjoy the idea of checking in with each other, talking about our day, sharing things that make us happy, and gradually figuring out what works for us. I’m patient and I don’t expect everything to be defined immediately, I’d rather let things develop naturally as we get to know each other.

I’m also very interested in getting to know your interests, kinks, and curiosities. I’d like for us to explore and discover things together, at a pace that feels comfortable and fitting for both of us. Communication is important to me, and I want both people to feel heard and respected. I’m not interested in extreme kinks or sissification, and I’m generally looking for something that feels more intimate, caring, playful, and personal rather than purely focused on intensity.

A little bit about myself: I lead a pretty normal, routine oriented life. I enjoy spending time with my loved ones just as much as I enjoy having some personal me time. Personality wise, some of my favorite traits about myself are that I’m calm, understanding, and patient. As for looks, I’m brunette, fair skinned, and have a slim, athletic build.

Ultimately, I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with, rather than simply trying to fit someone into a particular role. I’d like us to get to know each other as people first and see whether there’s a natural connection. Whether it ends up being something short term or develops into something longer term, I’d like it to be enjoyable, comfortable, and mutually fulfilling.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, what your interests are, and what made you reach out.

Hi baby 😊🥰

A bit about me:

\\-I'm 5'10

\\-Very physically active (one might say I'm a muscle mommy 🤭)

\\-I have brown hair, brown eyes, and I'm pretty tan

\\-I love working out, mostly lifting

\\-I love gardening/taking care of my house plants.

\\-I'm an absolute animal lover! I own multiple pet arachnids.

\\-I also making bioactive terrariums.

\\-Nature in general is awesome. Long walks with nature surrounding me could never ever bore me.

\\-I enjoy learning about neuroscience and psychology. I wanna hear about your childhood and then analyze how it's affected you into adulthood 😂😭

Here's what I like in relationships:

I'm a dom-leaning switch. In a relationship I'm the nurturer, someone you can cry with, be goofy with, seek for comfort/reassurance, and just be vulnerable with. I genuinely enjoy being a sweet boys safe space.

I love a boy with a sense of humor. Even if your jokes aren't even that funny, I'd still like to hear you be all silly and goofy.. It's so precious!

I'm loyal as absolute fuck, and I'm a very good communicator. There's a lot of people who struggle with communication because they're afraid of expressing their needs/wants. Worried their partner will think they're being too needy or that they'll be judged. I am not that way at all! Tell me what you're thinking :)

As far as my type, I'd like someone who has a somewhat similar body type to me. Either some muscle or a bit skinnier.

Here are my kinks that aren't really negotiable, if you're not into these things, (respectfully) we're simply just not compatible. If so, that's okay :)

\-Being calling mommy/mama

\-Breast play (Such as sucking)

\-Edging

\-Orgasm control/denial

\-Spanking (I'm super flexible with the intensity of this FYI. If you want mommy to be rough with you, don't be shy honey, tell me. Orrr if you just want light little bum smacks, that's totally fine and I think it's super cute)

\-Pegging

\-Fingering (prostate play in general)

Sooo yeah, your little butt is gonna get a lot of attention 👀

Here are some of my other kinks that I enjoy, but I am totally fine if my partner is not into them:

\-CNC

\-Hardcore BDSM

\-Bondage

\-Tickling

There might be more that I just can't remember lol

Anyway, with all of that said- sex is not the only thing I care about ♥️ I want to hear about who you are and what you like. I want to see your personality and be your safe place to feel protected and cared for.

Slight side note- I find shyness so adorable 🥰 And if what you need is patience and reassurance, I'm happy to do that for you :) Buttttt, if you like all your embarrassing little fantasies and thoughts to be teased out of you, I love that too 🤭

I’m Katie—a 27-year-old, pocket-sized Asian powerhouse who loves being the absolute boss every single day. They say the best things come in small packages, and when it comes to psychological and physical control, I pack a massive punch. I might be tiny, but my presence is huge, and my expectations are even bigger.

I’ve been an active, highly experienced Domme for over three years now, and I’ve learned exactly how to get what I want. There is absolutely nothing better in this world than taking a big, strong, intimidating guy and bringing him completely under my thumb. In fact, I have a massive soft spot for huge daddies. I love the sheer visual contrast of a tiny girl taking absolute control over a massive, muscular frame. If you think your size or your muscles protect you from being bent to my will, think again. In my world, the bigger you are, the harder you fall for your tiny mistress. 😉
Today, I’m looking for a specific type of man to step up to the plate and keep me thoroughly entertained. I want a goodboy who understands the privilege of being pushed to his limits by someone who knows exactly how to pull the strings.

\\\*\\\*What I’m bringing to the table for you today:\\\*\\\*
\\\*\\\*Absolute Mind & Body Control:\\\*\\\* I know how to occupy your thoughts until you can't focus on anything but my next command.

\\\*\\\*Fierce, Teasing JOI:\\\*\\\* I love using my voice to guide you, tease you, and keep you hanging on my every single word.

\\\*\\\*Strict Edging & Cum Control:\\\*\\\* Your release belongs to me. I will take you right to the brink, hold you there, and make you beg before I even consider giving you permission.

\\\*\\\*A Demanding But Highly Rewarding Dynamic:\\\*\\\* I am a strict boss, but I know exactly how to praise a boy who does exactly what he's told.

My only goal today is to be completely pampered, obeyed, and entertained by someone who lives to please. But I don't just let anyone into my inbox. I have a very specific wishlist, and I need you to hit these boxes before you even think about messaging me.

\\\*\\\*My Ultimate Wishlist:\\\*\\\*
\\\*\\\*The Physical:\\\*\\\* I want you tall, handsome, fit, and muscular. As I mentioned, I love huge daddies—so if you have a broad chest, strong shoulders, and abs that you’re proud of, you’re already at the top of my list.

\\\*\\\*The Mindset:\\\*\\\* You must be highly verbal, deeply respectful, kind, and a true gentleman outside of the dynamic. I demand obedience, but it must come from a place of genuine respect.

\\\*\\\*The Execution:\\\*\\\* A true goodboy who understands that my happiness is the only priority today.

If you think you have what it takes to be my boy today, do not just send a lazy "hi" or a generic one-liner. Show me you know how to take direction right from the start. \\\*\\\*Send me a high-effort introduction telling me all about yourself: include your age, your current location, and a clear body picture so I can see exactly what I'm working with.\\\*\\\* Let me see those muscles and that physique.

\\\*A quick, final warning: This post is strictly for the serious guys who are ready to serve, submit, and be a goodboy today. If that’s not you, or if you can't handle a tiny boss, do us both a favor and keep scrolling.\\\*

Let’s see which huge daddy is ready to drop to his knees for me today. My inbox is open—make your impression count.

I’m a 39 year old married mum, and what really sets my world on fire these days is younger, athletic guys who will do absolutely everything I want online, through video, exactly as I direct them. The thought of watching a fit, eager guy in his twenties or early thirties on my screen, obeying my every command in real time, gets me incredibly worked up. No physical meetups, just pure, intense, remote control. That distance only makes the power exchange hotter.

I crave total surrender over video. You strip when I say strip. You stroke exactly how I describe, at the pace I set. You edge for as long as I demand, holding back until I give permission to finish, or perhaps not at all if I feel like teasing. You position the camera where I want it, show me every angle, every detail, and respond instantly to my instructions. The screen becomes my playground, and your body is the toy I get to play with however I please. Knowing you are alone, hard, desperate, and completely focused on my voice or my typed commands is intoxicating.

I have a whole lineup of games built for video sessions. One classic is the strip tease guessing challenge. You start fully clothed in front of your camera. I ask questions about your age, your body count, your cock size, your dirtiest secret. Every wrong guess means you remove something slowly while I watch and comment. Shirt off for missing your age. Pants down after a bad guess on body count. By the time we get to size, you are usually naked, throbbing, and begging for the next round. The build up, the exposure, the way your breathing changes when you realise I can see everything, it all drives me wild.

Role play takes on a whole new level online. You can be my naughty stepson sneaking video calls when the house is quiet, whispering how badly you need your stepmum’s approval. Or my son’s best friend who has been fantasising about me for years and finally gets caught on camera doing exactly what I tell him. Maybe you are my daughter’s boyfriend, the cocky one who thinks he is in control until I make you prove otherwise, all while your girlfriend is in the next room. The risk, the taboo, the way you have to stay quiet or risk getting caught, adds such a delicious edge.

Of course I love an athletic build. Tight abs, strong arms, powerful legs that flex when you move for me. But looks are just the icing. What matters far more is your attitude: how eagerly you follow directions, how quickly you respond, how much you enjoy being told what to do. I want genuine enthusiasm for submission, creativity in performing for me, and the ability to stay locked in no matter how filthy or drawn out the session gets. Bonus points if you are vocal, descriptive, and love hearing me praise you with a simple “good boy” when you get it right.

If you are young, fit, open minded, and genuinely turned on by the idea of being my online plaything, message me. Tell me which game sounds hottest to you or which role you would love to play on camera. Show me you get that this is all about my pleasure, my rules, my timing. The right guy will be teased, commanded, praised, edged, and left trembling long after the call ends. Prove to me you can handle being mine completely through the screen.

INTRODUCTION

I guess an introduction is in order since this subreddit “requires” five hundred or more words to post. Not sure who came up with that,but here goes nothing. Feel free to skip to the “IMPORTANT” section and read from there  if you’re ready to get down to it.  I am Madam C. I’m half asian and half black. I’m 6 foot on the dot. I’m thirty four years old, I’m a manager at a petstore, and I’ve been a domme for 8 years,after a beautiful experience with an ex boyfriend of mine.  My ultimate goal is to dominate two men into playing with each other and making them compete to see who gets to be my pet.

My main forms of  domming are edging,pegging, impact play, ruined orgasms, and degradation. My favorite colors are green and blue, so if you’re wearing those colors as underwear,you’ll definitely score extra points with me. For most of my experience being a domme, I’ve done in person sessions, but due to the pandemic and other life challenges I’ve switched to majority online play and I’ve gotten quite used to it. Names like mommy, goddess, queen, and mistress all work for me.  Honestly, the less dignity you have, the more fun you and I will have darling.

IMPORTANT

I’m on the prowl for some young male submissives. If you’re a loser in the 18-22 range that just loves to pump your greasy cock all day and night til there’s nothing left,come put that to good use and be my property. If I select you,you will show yourself off and play with yourself in any way I command you. You will be rewarded based on how good you do what I say and how quickly you get it done.

I’m decently lenient,but that doesn’t mean I allow mediocrity 

BEFORE YOU MESSAGE

Here’s some things you should be aware of before you shoot me a message so neither of us wastes our time. I require a face pic along with a naked body pic. I know this is a lot for some, but it is nonnegotiable that I be attracted to who I’m dominating. Don’t worry, there are pictures of me on my profile as well. I’m a very to the point person who doesn’t like to engage in small talk, so I’d much rather you tell me that you’re ready to get down to business.  Something along the lines of “I’m ready to be trained by Madam C”.

PREFERENCES

Now these aren’t mandatory, but these are things that’ll certainly get you extra attention from me. Black dudes definitely. I tend to enjoy skinny,athletic, or muscular builds. Something about bs just gets me going lol.  I mainly go for younger guys like 18-25 because they can keep up with my sex drive and they tend to be excited to learn. Finally,you having toys is a really huge plus for me. Dildos,plugs,fleshlights , whatever you got, as they really enhance the experience.

Thanks for reading and I hope to see you in my DMs!

About me:

I’m 27 Asian, living in Austria. My daily activity could be very exhausting but I really enjoy what I do. I do enjoy cooking and cooking is one of my love languages. During my free time I like cycling, playing boardgames, window shopping or just walking in the nature.

My appearance is curvy, with brown eyes, black long hair and looking innocent outside with glasses but I’m totally controlling, strict, bossy. Yet my soft sides are loving, caring and gentle.

What I’m Looking for:

I’m looking for a golden retriever sub with strong commitment and mutual respect, the most important is “connection” between us. Someone I can meet in person, though with the high chance of online in the Future but eager to see and meet by visiting each other. I prefer deep personal and emotional connection, good at communication is non-negotiable. I’m not looking only for kinky things but also looking for serious long term with Female Lead Relationship, someone who wants to get to know before start the dynamic.

Don’t waste my time if you just looking for casual, have fun and don't know how to build connection and communication. Ideally someone who living in Austria or nearby.

My kinks:

Micromanagement, cum eating instruction, mommydom, pegging, TPE, begging, worship, anal play, pegging, butt plug, vibrator, sucking tit, some more kinks to explore together and break you down yet desperate for my attention

If you have a good job, good life, wearing suit at work, looking like a normal man with muscular body, manly but have desire inside of yourself always wanted to kneel down to submit yourself to become a slut and good boy for mommy.

You can have your normal life, let anyone see you as normal person, without anyone knowing you are just a slut and want someone to fully control over your life and make yourself depend on me. I’ll be your safe space for you.

Prefer:

* Ready with the commitment
* Age 25-35, I do not tolerate minor or older than 35
* If you are muscular, hung, white, single, straight and want to try this experience. I’m open if this is your first time.
* MUST good at communication: Someone who can share his daily life, his feeling and his hobby, you can share your feeling: happy, sad, upset to me.
* Not just looking for sexual
* Looking for Long Term Relationship.

Send me message in details:

* Your name or what should i call you
* ASL (Age, Sex, Location)
* It’s important to tell me your kinks and limits.
* Tell me the reason how eager you are to be my little one.
* Something fun about yourself
* Tell me your secret that nobody around you know it
* Verify yourself

I got lots of messages and I will delete your msg if you don’t send me your details, I prefer someone who puts effort to try to approach me with their words, not just short message. I‘ll ignore text with low effort.

It would be great if you have toys that I can control from the app.

Let mommy be your comfort zone xx

Hi there!

Looking for cute and submissive men that are willing to serve and do whatever I tell them to. I like good boys who aren’t afraid to show off and touch themselves for me.

Please be around my age and tell me a bit about you — age, location, etc. (pics catch my attention faster and are responded to sooner). Please try harder than a simple “hi”. Give yourself a proper introduction so I can get a sense of who you are as a person — first impressions mean everything and I normally ignore lazy attempts to catch my attention.

I’d also prefer someone from the US for timezone reasons since it’s a lot easier to chat with someone that’s within an overlapping schedule but if you’re really cute enough I may make an exception depending on where you’re from and what you’re willing to offer me.

I’m only interested in handsome and obedient men — if you’re the kind to hesitate or overthink then let’s not waste our time. I want someone open minded and kinky — someone who’s willing to give a lot of affection and attention to me.

I’m also looking for something potentially long term though I want to see what our chemistry is like first before I can commit. If you can carry a conversation as well as satisfy my needs then I want you to hit me up but please understand that i want someone to serve me and my needs which always come first.

I also want someone loyal. I hate having to share with someone else. I want someone all to myself so that their main focus is on me. However, I’m also not the type to judge someone based on whatever their actual situation is regarding a partner, just as long as I get equal share

As for myself, I’m an open book. I’m always willing to get to know you, in fact, it’s my preference. I like to build a bond with my sub to make it feel extra special. If we connect then you have my full attention and affection. I’m usually almost always available to chat and my hope is that you’ll find a good amount of time too. I get that we all have lives and I like to think that I’m pretty understanding - all I ask is that you make time for me.

I’m also very demanding. I know what I want and how I want it. I can be very direct at times and I hate having to small talk my way to get what I want. I’m not a hard woman to please. You just have to do what I say :)

If any of this sounds interesting to you then please DM me. If I don’t get to you right away

please don’t feel discouraged. I’m sure that I’ll get to you eventually. I’m excited to see where this will take me and I’ll be eagerly waiting for your messages. So please, don’t be shy. Mommy’s waiting for you.

Hello! I’m Vanessa, 25, and I’m looking to connect with a cute, fun sub guy.

I was born in Germany, but when I was around 10 years old, I had to relocate to a different country because of my parents' work. Can you guess where do I live right now? ;)

On my free time, I love to listen to music and dance, I'm always working out to maintain a balanced mind and body, and on many nights you'll find me hosting game nights with friends. More about vanilla me at the end.

Now, to give you the quick picture about looks and kinks, I’m a slim-fit brunette with dyed hair, intense brown eyes, fair skin, and an average height. I’ve been exploring BDSM for quite a while now. I absolutely love giving orders, issuing cheeky dares, and enjoying some fun whenever the connection feels right.

Like a kaleidoscope, I have a mix of different interests, moods, and styles. You know, life can be lived in so many ways, and the exact same goes for kink!

So to try something a little different, let’s start this journey at a crossroads. Multiple paths lie ahead of you right now, and I wonder which one best fits your personality:

-Path #1 The Hopeful Competitor: Driven, ambitious, and always eager to prove yourself under a little pressure. So let's play a game and make a bet. If you, a reward awaits for you. But if you lose, punishment is coming your way ;)

-Path #2 The Good Boy & Strict Trainer: Eager to please, highly attentive, and ready to be molded with strict guidance. You will follow many sets of tasks and dares, until your mind gets programmed to serve and enjoy life under my control.

-Path #3 The Adventurous Risk-Taker: Bold, unpredictable, and always ready to dive headfirst into playful, thrilling risks. You will face many hidden public tasks and experiment with sensations, objects, and unusual kinks, always expanding the frontiers.

So, what will it be?

Let’s chat and see if we click! To kick things off, send me your ASL, a detailed description of what you look like, your favorite color (and why), and how you love to spend your free time.

And when you think you're ready... choose your path ;)

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So, here is a little more about the "vanilla" side of me. I really believe that a genuine personal connection is essential for great BDSM dynamics.

I’d describe myself as thoughtful, easygoing, with a playful sense of humor. I genuinely care about people and am always rooting for others. Maybe that is why I have a bit of an artistic side to me. I have this huge passion for dance and music in all its forms. To give you two examples of songs I love: Björk’s Pagan Poetry and In Flames’ raw, powerful Come Clarity.

Underneath this lighter side, I can be intensely focused. I believe that I can accomplish anything once I set my mind to it. You might even catch a glimpse of that when I get a little bossy! haha

Professionally, I studied business and work as a business/data analyst. I honestly love it because it forces me to balance precision, sharp focus, and a surprising amount of creative intuition.

Alright, I think that’s a good to start with. I’d love to hear more about you!

Love,

Vanessa