Before you read another word, take a breath. A real one. Not the shallow chest breath you've been running on all day. Let your shoulders drop. Unclench your jaw. There you go. Now keep reading.

I'm 24. I live in Florida. I've been a domme for a few years now, and I've learned that the best control isn't about yelling or demanding or making someone afraid. It's about making someone want to listen. It's about getting so deep inside their head that my voice becomes the quiet place they go when the rest of the world gets too loud.

I'm soft. Not because I'm weak. Because I don't need to be loud to be in charge. I praise as much as I tease. I reward as much as I deny. I will build you up and take you apart in the same sentence if I think you can handle it.

I love psychological play. The slow kind. The kind where you don't even realize you're being conditioned until you catch yourself checking your phone for my message. Until you hear my voice in your head when you're making a decision. Until you crave my approval more than you've ever craved anything.

I want a submissive who is sweet. Needy. A little bit desperate to please but trying to play it cool. I want the overthinkers. The romantics. The ones who send me random thoughts during the day because they genuinely want me there. I want someone who falls asleep on voice calls and wakes up to my good morning texts.

I am not looking for part-time submission. I don't want someone who disappears when life gets busy and comes back when he's horny. I want consistency. Daily check-ins. Voice calls. Real effort. I want to build something that actually exists, not just a fantasy we visit when it's convenient.

About me outside of kink: I work from home, so I'm around most of the day. I like horror movies, true crime, and baking things that are probably too sweet. I have a dark sense of humor and a soft heart. I'm introverted but open up fast when someone feels safe. I have adhd so my brain jumps around you'll have to keep up.

What I'm looking for: A boy between 22 and 35. Someone who is emotionally intelligent, curious, and not afraid to be vulnerable. You don't need experience, but you do need to actually want this not just think it's hot. You should enjoy voice calls, daily conversation, and the kind of dynamic that bleeds into your everyday life in the best way.

Kinks I enjoy: orgasm control, praise, denial, tasks and routines, attention conditioning, light humiliation (the sweet kind), and psychological play that makes you question where your thoughts end and mine begin.

Limits: blood, scat, permanent marks, anything illegal, and cruelty for the sake of cruelty. I'm not mean. I don't want to hurt you. I want to own you.

If you've read all of this and felt something click, message me. Tell me your age, your time zone, and something vulnerable about yourself. Not a kink. Something real. Show me there's a person under the submission.

End your message with "butterfly" so I know you actually paid attention.

I'm picky because this takes real energy. Don't waste mine.

Well hello there my good boys, mommy is here and wanting to find my perfect submissive good boy that will be serving and fully offering themselves to me. I prefer someone at the age range of 18-22, a real good boy that will only have one thought which is to serve and make me happy. I do not want someone that acts like a brat, like a misbehaving boy who keeps on pushing ideas and thoughts. I want someone that will just fully surrender, I am very strict and do not really like someone who acts like they are the one in control instead of me. I also hate complains, if you will be serving then I only expect that you already know what you signed up for so complains will just annoy me and maybe cause me to give up on you. I have 8 years of experience in this dynamic so I understand if you cannot meet my standards but that doesn't mean that I will adjust for you, your job is to make me feel like I chose the right good boy not to make me adjust around your standards. Those are the things I hate but aside from that, I am a very loving mommy, I will take care of you and treat you with love and care. Treating me right will earn you praises and rewards, that is automatic and doesn't need to be said. There are so many things to be said but all I want you to know is that I am a great mommy. To let you know more, to whoever good boy that wishes to serve me, I want you to know that serving me will make you feel noticed and taken care of. For the specifics, what I enjoy most in having a good boy is probably the act of showing off, I really like it when a good boy is comfortable in showing all of what he has, it lets me know that you really love serving me and that you are very willing to submit yourself. I enjoy small talks too, finding out more about you and learning how you enjoy being mine and serving me. I also prefer long term duration of service, I hate the process of finding another good boy every single time, but I do not really require since sometimes there are good boys that just want to feel noticed and loved even for a short time which is fine for me, I'd love to have you as long as you do know your place and purpose. I hope you did read the whole thing, it is a long post it shows a lot on what I want and enjoy. If you wish to serve then let me know, just don't message me with a simple "hi" or "hello", I'm not gonna guess about what you are there for, message me with your purpose and reasin instead. Mommy will be waiting sweetie, make sure you behave and actually read all of my post, I made a big effort to write it sweetie :) . I hope you read this all, I would be upset if you didn't ;)

Hey everyone!!! My name is Anna and I'm a mexican girl who has lived in Ireland my whole life. I am a very strict yet caring domme who is looking for someone to bond with and have conversations with.

Lookswise I am about 5'4, Latina, Thick and muscular with a gorgeous face! I expect you to see me as the most beautiful woman you've ever met or this won't work out.

If you wanna know about me as a person, music and the gym are the two largest parts of my life. I workout 5 times a week and I eat extremely clean. Id love to talk about training and our diets. My biggest passion though is music and drumming. I have been drumming since I was 16 and it is the one thing in life I'm genuinely amazing it. Its my passion and I think I have maybe missed playing daily less than 5 times this year. I play in a band which takes influence from hardcore punk, pop punk, ska and 90s alt rock. My favourite bands are operation ivy, minor threat and descendents.

Itd be really cool if I met another drummer. Id love to talk about the stuff we like playing the most, our kits and our favourite drummers. For example, I really like 13x7 snare drums and huge toms. My favourite drummers are dave grohl, brendan canty, dale crover and bill stevenson!

Itd be also cool if I met people who ate well and worked out but there will be plenty of people like that on here.

So I know you have read all of this, please tell me your favourite part about my post.

As for employment, I am currently a waitress in a fairly fancy restaurant but I dont get paid the best and I do still live with my parents.

Now lets get into my kinks: I absolutely love pain and humiliation but then I also love the aftercare and taking care of that comes after that. I love hurting you and breaking you down then taking care of you after. I also love making my submissives become better people and quit their uses of substances like nicoteine and alcohol so they can get addicted to their new goddess. Another thing I find really really fun is chastity! Im into so many things and Im a totally open book so ask me about anything youre interested in.

My only hard limits are diapers/nappies, blood, vomit, scat and sounding. Please do not dm if you like sounding its so vile 😭.

I want to thank you for reading all the way through my post. I really hope you've found yourself taking an interest. Please shoot me a dm and Ill reply as quick as I can. Ask as many questions as you can because I can sometimes be a bit vague, like this post probably is haha.

P.S. I love short guys a lot! (Not a deal breaker if you're tall though)

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(This is for Long term only, and voice I'm free to voice chat right now, ask if you would like to voice chat in your intro message if you're free, sfw blended with nsfw questions).

my Appearance: shortish, 98lbs, very skinny petite frame, medium boobs, long hair, tan skin, Polynesian Mixed white, light-ish eyes and hair.

I love pegging men, chasity, male maid slave butler service sub slave, JOI, Cuckold. being both bossy and cute think a blend of sadist and gentle, punishing bad boys but good boys get rewarded.

☆ DISCLAIMER:☆

If you do not know what you want, and you're just looking for a kink dispenser please do not message me. This is not an online only relationship for me.

Hello I'm a petite skinny little femdom, looking for a nurturing former Daddy Dom or dominate man 21-47 years, very sweet and loving, that likes littles/middles, but was never sadist, because I want a man with contrast, coming from being a Dominate man to now serving and being owned by Femdom is a mind fuck.

The Daddy is now with a Mommy dom in bed, he gives up his control and sees how it feels. She's in charge, she's the boss now 24/7 you can keep being a care giver but you no longer make the rules.

I seek a care giver true and through, where you can switch into my playmate in my cute bedroom/playroom. the catch is this isn't sexual for me. I'm your femdom top, and you're being dominated by a slim skinny little lady who pegs you aggressively, and makes you rim her ass, I'm bossy but you love it cause I'm cute for you.

This post is me looking for a serious long term who actually loves talking about dolls, plushies, switch ges little shows, girly stuff, becauss you're into anything she's into playroom things, I'm very feminine, I'm not very tall and not very short, slim fit frame, toned body, long hair and tan skin.

I want you to also be my puppy, wear a straight jacket sometimes, sleep in a dog crate and be locked in a chastity while I'm keyholder.

my preference for men: Men who are 5'6 and taller, bmi under 29, age range 21-39, full head of hair, from the USA, New Zealand, Bali, Costa Rica, Canada, London, must be into voice chatting sooner rather than later. Ideally you're into or okay with being a cuckold. I'm okay with relocating to New Zealand from Hawaii but not many other places, those other listed places visiting ideally.

Visiting the midwest for a little while (Minnesota, Chicago, Wisconsin, Iowa).

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IMORTANT INTRO message questions:

Where are you from? How old are you? What do you like about ddlg? Describe you appearance to me without sending a pic, I respect boundaries and would love if you respected mine as well, as I don’t prefer to send pics right away.

Hi there

I'm looking for my beautiful boy. The one I can hold and take care of. I want to feed him, read to him, cuddle with him, stroke his hair, praise him and keep him safe. I want someone who can be emotionally small, vulnerable and innocent with me. Someone I can lead and guide. Someone who is a needy beautiful boy for me. Someone who cries when I have to go and begs me to stay.

However I need to emphasize I'm looking for my life partner not just someone to fulfill a kink. And the dynamic I want doesn't work for me if I don't love him. I have to truly love someone to want to nurture him like that. So we need to be aligned in ways beyond kink. We need to share similar values and have chemistry. The caretaking dynamic is one expression of our love but it can't be the only one. I also want someone I'm able to have intellectual discussions with, someone I can have banter with and someone I can have deep talks at 5 am with while watching the sunrise. That's a lot to ask for but I'm going to search until I find it.

Who am I? I'm into health and fitness, science and politics. I don't take life too seriously my philosophy is that we're just monkeys in suits. I'm very opinionated and I feel strongly about a lot of issues in society. I'm unable to pretend to hold opinions I don't have just to be politically correct. I'm left leaning politically. I'm not very materialistic I don't strive to make a lot of money, my dream is to have a big happy family and live a simple but beautiful life.

Who I'm looking for You need to share my values. I want someone who is very sweet, kind, considerate and romantic. I love prudish men. I don't want a crude boy or someone who objectifies women, those kinds of men turn me off. Men who get sexual too quickly also turn me off. I lead the sexual dynamic. You follow. I want a prudish innocent submissive boy.

You are MONOGAMOUS. And by that I don't just mean not wanting to sleep with anyone else, I mean I need to be your emotional and sexual center.

You're inexperienced when it comes to submission. I don't want someone who has submitted before. Sorry. Then it's not special. My good boy has only ever been mine.

You're needy and desperate. None of that macho crap.

Health is important to you. You don't need to look like a greek god (but I wouldn't complain if you did :p) but you do need to prioritize health or our lifestyles will be too different.

You're conscientious and organized.

You want to get married and have kids in the near future (≈3 years).

You are between the ages 24 and 36.

Your location doesn't matter. I'm willing and able to relocate.

Now hurry up and write to me!

Hi there, I am Luna, 30 F from Indonesia. Looking for a good obedient Boytoy (prefer 18 to 29) who likes to perform on cam for me. Prefer fit and lean but I will make exception if you have a cute face. No Cam shy and show Face please (it's a dealbreaker). I would love to be called Mommy or Miss Luna, I am not looking for findom, all purely for fun and genuine connection only.

I am a gentle Domme but I could be strict and harsh if you prefered it that way. However, I wouldn’t call myself an expert but I did have some online subs in the past. Prefer long term and serious people only, I am really looking for a genuine connection not just kinky stuff. It would be nice to have a casual meaningful conversation outside of kinks. So if you're looking for short term or one time thing, please don't bother to write me.

I like edging, teasing, denial, TPE, JOI, CEI, CBT, orgasm control, public risky, anal play, pegging, watersports, spit, micromanagement, humiliation, voyeur, exibitionism, forced bi, sissyfication, chastity, mommy kink. It's alot :). Recently I am very curious about forced bi and risky public play (keep it legal, don't want you to get in trouble ofc), so if you're into that it would be awesome. My favorite are edging, anal play and voyeurism. I would love to edge you and tease you for hours until you beg me to let you cum. I love to watch you struggling, makes me feel good and powerful. I also love anal play, peg your ass deep until you moan and scream. It would be nice if you had toys to play with if not we could figure something else to use. Lastly, I like voyeurism. Just watch you do your daily stuff naked like gaming, working out, cooking, bathroom routine etc while talking about our days and have discussion about stuff. You don't have to like them all, I am open to explore other kinks as well and will respect your limits. My limit are only blood and anything gore.

I prefer to have live sessions and calls (not a fan of endless texting) where I could bossy you on cam and tell you to do naughty things for my pleasure, I would be only on mic, I could share pics ofc but to get me on the cam you had to earn it, you cannot just ask. I don't mind you being needy but I don't like you being bratty. I don't like being ignored. If you're busy, I prefer for you to let me know instead not replying or keep me waiting. We can set rules and schedule if you prefered it that way.

Hit me up if you like the idea of being bossed around by an Asian Mommy, we can talk more details in DM. Please attached your pic and your ASL (Age, Sex, Location) when you send the DM. Xoxo

Hi there, I'm a college student who enjoys domming and mommy energy, Im 23f from east coast US. I have a sub already so if that's a problem I just wanna get that out there in case you're looking for more than a fem dom dynamic.

Short replies will be ignored, read everything if you are serious.

I'm looking for a second obedient devoted male sub who will devote themselves to me in mind and body. I want clear communication and worship to me.

I earn my subs respect as I know they must earn mine too.

People that start off their messages calling me mommy or ANY adoration/cutesy nicknames are instantly ignored, again to the respect note. You will address me as miss, or ma'am.

I care a lot for my subs, my number one sayings as a domme so far lately have been "our fun is great but your safety comes first always" and "communication is everything", especially if they tell me they're hurt or something feels uncomfortable/wrong. I want open communication completely and will drop the roleplay instantly to check up on them.

My top kinks are from favorite to regular favorite are:
**Sounding**, and **feminization/sissification**, edging, **orgasm control/denial**, JOI, rewards and punishments, ruining, pegging, guiding a persons life for them(with consent, TPE), **bathroom play/control** **anal play**, transition coaching, **anal stretching**, public humiliation.. I'm looking for a sub who is willing to submit into all of them or try them to please me. Of course it's not a dealbreaker if you're not into all of these but if you're a not into atleast the starred ones then we have nothing in common.

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So what I'm looking for in a sub that rules out if you'll be a good match with me:

Are you able to communicate your limits, soft/hard limits, discomfort, upsets, any negative emotion towards life or me?

Will you disappear simply because you are emotional?

Will you communicate what you need and how I can best support you or give space to you?

Are you a good communicator even in stressful/strained emotional or sexual moments?

Can you express yourself freely without shame or embarrassment towards telling me?

Are you comfortable not being my only sub?(as I'm dating a sub of mine and I'm free to play with subs)

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I expect a detailed response to me if you are interested, I'm not looking for a short reply I want as much detail as you're going to give me normally. I thrive off big replies and people who don't fall off from texting that much consistency, so I want to see that you really are going to put in the same effort I'll put into you. The longer the reply the more likely I will reply. Ai messages will be ignored.

I don't want anyone over 40 and I preferably only 3 hour time difference anymore than that doesn't work.

I'm here to help you grow, explore, and experience the best pleasures under my control. If that's what you're looking for then let's talk~

Hello! ❤

I've posted before, feel free to message me again if you have in the past.

I'm posting here for the same reason you're looking: I'm into this dynamic. But ultimately I'm seeking an equal partner who wants a **healthy, secure, long-term relationship.** Where kink is something we explore only after a trusting, caring relationship has already been established between us. I don't want to be reduced to a role but seen as a whole, complex human that you genuinely want to know and grow with. And I'll give the same to you.

**About me:**

Tall, caucasian, dark hair. I don't go to the gym but I'm active everyday. I'm very passionate about my career and making a positive impact on the lives of others. I have friends from all stages of my life and spend most weekends catching up and traveling to see them. But in my free time, I have a lot of artsy/sciency hobbies and play casual video games. I also have a dog that I'm obsessed with. I would love someone who has the patience and curiosity to try new things with me and simply make the most out of life together.

**What I'm looking for:**

Above all else, I'm looking for something that feels safe. Where we both have a soft place to land. Where we can communicate honestly and keep showing up for eachother.

I adore masculine guys with big softie energy who are patient, emotionally intelligent and intellectually curious. I am primarily looking for someone in the age range of 23-35, where you have a reached a point in your life where you have dreams and aspirations you're working towards (tell me about them, I'd love to know!) I've done a lot of internal work on myself and hope you find psychology and self reflection interesting. I would also prefer you to be local so we can meet up relatively soon after we start chatting.

**Kinks:**

Again, I think its best for us to be partners first before we play with this side of things. I am completley fine talking about it over text but would prefer we table it when we're first getting to know eachother in-person (I want to know your full self first.)

But for when we get there, I am in the "gentle mommy" category meaning I'm way more into the comfy/cozy stuff than causing pain. Interests for me include gentle femdom, ABDL (CG/mommy role only), ANR/dry nursing, teasing, giving praise. Cuddling and holding your hand. 🤭 I may be open to switching but only in vanilla contexts; I am primarily a Domme so please do not message me if you're not a Sub. Overall, though, I'm pretty openminded. Any experience level (or none) is fine.

Hard limits for me are anything illegal, anything public, anything involving blood/severe pain, and anything that's not monogamous. I'm also not particularly interested in femboys or sissification (sorry!), although it may not a dealbreaker with the right person. Just be upfront about it.

**Before you message me:**

- Consider sending a SFW pic: Not a requirement, but it will help your message stand out as I may not reply otherwise. You can't send a pic in a request, so please send an Imgur link or indicate that you will send one when I accept. I'll send you a pic shortly after we start messaging. SFW only please!

- Tell me about yourself. The longer the message, the better. I want to get a sense of who you are and whether or not we would click. Ramble about your passions, what's been on your mind, how your day was, your dealbreakers, whatever feels natural. I will NOT respond to "hey how are you."

- Ask me questions: I'm an open book when asked over text and nothing is off the table.

- Optional questions you can answer: CGs/Doms give a lot in these relationships. How would you reciprocate care? Why are you here, what about this dynamic appeals to you?

- Be yourself. Be honest. I'm a normal person outside of these kinks, there's no judgement here. Authenticity is what will spark my interest the most.

Thanks for making it through to the end! I look forward to hearing from you ❤

Hello dears,

I'm a gentle domme and also an experienced hypnotist for well over 7 years. I've been fascinated with hypnosis since I was very young, seeing it on TV and movies and such. I’ve always been drawn to the creativity and the control aspects of hypnosis, but also the consent and cooperation involved between hypnotist and subject. It's like a long and elaborate dance as we play together. After learning how to hypnotize people from streamers and other content creators, I've been doing my own hypnosis sessions on calls with dozens of guys through the years. I started practicing on Omegle, for anyone who used to use that lovely service! Please let me know if you did, as I love connecting over this. I still enjoy having sessions with experienced subjects over and over, and I also enjoy introducing newbies to hypnosis for the first time.

It's enjoyable to build rapport with a sub to go deeper and deeper every time. I do prefer building a bond longer term rather than with a one off session, assuming we click well and you enjoy yourself.

I do prefer college-aged guys in their 20s or younger looking 30s who are fit or at least pretty well maintained. No need to be completely ripped, although that certainly doesn't hurt. Your personality and imagination capabilities are more important though. There's nothing worse than a hot guy who can't hold a conversation, or with hypnosis imagine his hands simply being magnetized together. I'll take a solid 7 body with a 10 personality and imagination over a 10 body with a 1 personality and imagination any day.

Important: I'm mic-only for all of my hypnosis sessions on calls, and I have guys show their face on cam with me for proper hypnosis induction (mic-optional for you, though preferred).

If you’re not into hypnosis and prefer just being told what to do, please let me know. I enjoy a gentle domme with eager to please sub dynamic. I love showoffs and guys who will gladly do tasks for me, both on calls and in between sessions.

If you're interested in trying my hypnosis and domme sessions, shoot me a personality filled chat message that will grab my attention, since I do get a lot of requests, so please don't just say hey or hypnotize me. I like people who show off their personality from the jump. Wow me. :)

I get a lot of messages, so please do your best to stand out. Tell me what makes you especially YOU. Sharing a SFW pic or two after I accept your chat helps me too, since I get so many responses. Please, don’t send me any NSFW pics. Finally to make sure you read my message, please share your favorite part of your own body with me.

I look forward to meeting you and perhaps taking you under and/or instructing you soon!

– Hypno Jess

I’m looking for a particular energy that’s proven to be hard to find. I enjoy desperate boys. Someone who isn’t afraid to express all the dirty thoughts that go through their mind, but who also knows the right place and time. I want someone who is easily wrapped around my finger. I could send a fully clothed photo and you’re already turned on, hoping that I use you. I need you to understand how lucky you are to get anything, and not dare to ask for more.

I love orgasm control, edging, denial, chastity, and worshipping. I want someone who is able to send me videos and voice clips talking about how much they enjoy seeing my body, and all the things they’d happily beg on their knees to be able to do. I enjoy compliments, and I really enjoy teasing. I want to see how obsessed you can become.

I also need a gentleman. Respect and patience are very important. I don’t want to hear how you’ve been edging all week in your first message, or for you to ask me to use you. This isn’t about you or your pleasure. Personality will get you further than explicit chats. I need to enjoy talking to you before I consider anything sexual, therefore I am only looking for something long-term.

Outside of my love to control, I’m actually a pretty soft, nurturing, and gentle person. Definitely more mommy dom than anything else. I’m not the one for you if you’re looking for a daily dominating presence or anything extreme. I do enjoy littles but feel most people here see mommydom as just gentlefemdom. Im open to any and all types of subs though. I enjoy caring for others and its easier when you're adorable feel small.

If you feel like you could be a good fit, send me a message explaining why. Include your age and location. If you’re missing either of those, you’re already showing that you aren’t the good boy I need, so I will not reply.

Outside of kink, Im a teacher and a big homebody. I live alone and have come to enjoy my own company. I enjoy going to the gym, going on trail runs, watching anime or finding good tv shows. My favorite is currently Gachiakuta.I don't have many hobbies outside of that. I do have adhd and can definitely be all over the place, especially during phone calls. I do smoke frequently so please be 420 friendly. Physically, Im 5'4, 140 lbs, curvy, and a woman of color. 500 words is so damn many, what else is there to say. Im very big on communication and emotional intelligence. Im looking to be able to vent and talk about my day to my partner and have them listen, but also be able to here about your day. Being able to support each other while also having kinky fun.

Hey! I hope you’re having a lovely evening. I have posted in subreddits similar to this before and I’m someone sure of myself and what I’m looking for. So make sure you read the whole thing before reaching out, I put effort into this post and I’m only interested in someone that cared enough to read it and seriously consider if we are actually a match or not. I understand a lot of people are looking for connections but me personally I would rather spend a decade alone than pretending that me and someone who clearly shouldn’t be together would be forcing things to try to.

I also wanna preface this by stating that I’m in latin america (so kinda far from most people here unfortunately. Willing to move this in person but this can prove to be difficult, and on top of it, I miiiiight move to Europe at the end of the year). So I understand connections might be shorter term, I’m open to different things with different people. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual / still meaningful connection.

And nowwwww, in relation to things outside kink, I love all types of arts and crafts, concerts, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values different artistic endeavors in my life and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone just into “sports, cars, videogames”.

Talking about kinks, (which we can discuss further after knowing each other for a bit) some are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. I don’t want something purely sexual. I’m also not I’m not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

About how I look, I am 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, brown curly hair. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same since you know, attraction is important for this type of thing. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up, and add a :3 to your message to make sure you read all of it.

I am very chatty and would prefer to talk through audios or a call but I’m okay with texting at a bit at first to get each other’s vibe. I don’t wanna force things, I wanna let them flow and see what happens. I value effort and genuine connections.

If you read this entire ad you'll learn a bit about me...and lose three minutes that you'll never get back. Choose wisely!

I'm exactly what Reddit needs...another Domme in a sea of them. If you want a hard-working professional Domme then keep looking. I'm a you-get-what-you-pay-for Domme and I don't charge. If you've ever been on a cruise ship you know they have the crappy free coffee or the delicious coffee you pay for. I'm no fancy latte, but I have been called "wholesome" and "a breath of fresh air" by past subs.

Subs have told me that some Dommes won't accept a sub if he has no experience. How is that supposed to work? I was very lucky that subs let me learn on them because I had no experience then. I will always choose youth and energy over experience and maturity. One of the sexiest things a prospective sub can say to me is that he's 18, inexperienced and full of energy. Speaking of age...I prefer guys my age or younger and in the US or Canada. That's mostly a language a timezone problem. I also prefer hairless chests and circumcised cocks.

I'm very progressive politically and love NPR, community theatre and random groupon classes where I learn something. Oh look...a feminist Domme...not quite a unicorn. But equally horny. I'm back to helping guys realize that porn is a really bad way to decide if your cock is average. I have never watched porn and seen a woman with two watermelons on her chest and thought that was average. I really love going to plays and musicals and quote them at random times. "You gotta go after the things you want while you're still in your prime!"

I'm really more of a Mommy Domme than anything else. I bet you can find someone else to call your garbage or inferior so I'll let you get your kicks there. I degrade with the same skill Brenda talks dirty in Scary Movie 2. Starts out fine enough but the wheels come off really fast. My kinks are Cum eating instructions, anal play, chastity and forced bi. Ask me about my former sub who is now dating another guy!

I have a real life and I know you do too. Please...don't let your service to me jeopardize your job, health, family or anything else. We can have an amazing dynamic without you having to choose between me and other important things in your life. Speaking of health...ask me about the time I yelled at a subby son because he wasn't drinking enough water.

A little advice for the subs out there...if you DM me with "hey" or "hi" or "heeyyyyy" or "asl" or something less than a sentence I'm not going to respond. Use at least one noun, one verb and one bit of punctuation.

You know who you are… even if you don’t say it out loud.

That quiet craving to be cared for, guided, reassured… and truly seen for who you are beneath the surface. The desire to finally let go for a little while and hand things over to someone gentle, patient, and in control.

Maybe you’ve been carrying too much on your own lately. Maybe your thoughts get loud at night. Maybe you overthink, crave reassurance, or secretly wish you had someone to turn to every day — someone who listens, comforts, teases, guides, and keeps you grounded.

That’s where Mommy comes in.

A soft place to land… but also a firm hand to guide you.

I want the messy thoughts, the needy moments, the clinginess, the nervous excitement, the things you usually keep hidden. I want you comfortable enough to be honest, and flustered enough to blush when I praise you.

I’ll guide you gently, encourage you when you need it, comfort you when your mind is racing, and tease you just enough to leave your heart pounding afterwards. Some days I’ll spoil you with affection and attention… other days I’ll remind you exactly who’s in control.

Soft boys. Sweet boys. Nervous boys. Golden retriever energy boys. Anxious boys who just want somewhere safe to belong… you’re all welcome here.

🧏🏻‍♀️ About Mommy:

26, F, based in the USA. 5’6 with a soft voice, a playful attitude, and just enough of a mean streak to keep you on your toes.

Experienced, open-minded, affectionate, and confident. I enjoy building genuine dynamics where trust, teasing, communication, and consistency matter just as much as chemistry. I love getting inside your head, learning your reactions, figuring out what makes you melt, squirm, blush, obey, or completely lose your train of thought.

I can be nurturing one moment and demanding the next — the perfect mix of comforting and addictive.

I enjoy guiding, training, teasing, praise, denial, control, playful humiliation, worship, attention, structure, routines, and making you feel deeply wanted. I love verbal control, voice messages that make your stomach flip, and the kind of tension that lingers in your mind long after we stop talking.

And yes… aftercare matters to me too.

I don’t just enjoy the teasing and control — I enjoy the closeness afterwards. Making you feel safe, appreciated, reassured, and wrapped up in affection. Being dominant doesn’t mean being cold. If anything, I enjoy the emotional side just as much as the playful side.

🧏🏻‍♂️ About you:

Maybe you’re experienced. Maybe you’re completely new and still figuring yourself out. Either way, what matters most is honesty, respect, communication, and the willingness to let yourself explore.

I like boys who are eager to please, emotionally open, affectionate, a little clingy, a little needy, and excited by the idea of belonging to someone. Boys who enjoy attention, structure, praise, teasing, guidance, and feeling wanted.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to be genuine.

Tell me what excites you. Tell me what makes you nervous. Tell me what you think about late at night but rarely say out loud. Tell me about the things you’re curious about, the dynamics you crave, the attention you miss, or the thoughts that keep circling around in your head.

And maybe… tell me a little about those mommy issues too.

🤍 Interested?

Send me a proper little introduction:
Age, location, experience level, what you’re into or curious about, what kind of dynamic you’re looking for, and maybe something secretly exciting or embarrassing about yourself. I love thoughtful messages and boys who know how to communicate.

Bonus points if you’re shy while doing it.

🫶🏼 Still unsure?

Then pay attention to your body for a second.

Did your heart race while reading this?
Did you blush?
Get nervous?
Feel butterflies in your stomach?
Catch yourself rereading certain parts?

That feeling means something.

Maybe your mind is still trying to play it cool… but your body already knows exactly what it wants.

And maybe Mommy does too.

👉🏼 P.S. My inbox can get hectic sometimes, but I do reply. Patience is important, good boys. Consider it part of your training already. Learn to wait nicely, keep your composure, and don’t spam message like an impatient puppy begging for attention.

Mommy notices the boys who can behave th