u/here--now

Hello! ❤

I've posted earlier but I am still looking, so feel free to message me again if you have before.

I'm posting here for the same reason you're looking: I'm into this dynamic. But ultimately I'm seeking an equal partner who wants a **healthy, secure, long-term relationship.** Where kink is something we explore only after a trusting, caring relationship has already been established between us. I don't want to be reduced to a role but seen as a whole, complex human that you genuinely want to know and grow with. And I'll give the same to you.

**About me:**

Tall, caucasian, dark hair. I don't go to the gym but I'm active everyday. I'm very passionate about my career and making a positive impact on the lives of others. I have friends from all stages of my life and spend most weekends catching up and traveling to see them. But in my free time, I have a lot of artsy/sciency hobbies and play casual video games. I also have a dog that I'm obsessed with. I would love someone who has the patience and curiosity to try new things with me and simply make the most out of life together.

**What I'm looking for:**

Above all else, I'm looking for something that feels safe. Where we both have a soft place to land. Where we can communicate honestly and keep showing up for eachother.

I adore masculine guys with big softie energy who are patient, emotionally intelligent and intellectually curious. I am primarily looking for someone in the age range of 23-35, where you have a reached a point in your life where you have dreams and aspirations you're working towards (tell me about them, I'd love to know!) I've done a lot of internal work on myself and hope you find psychology and self reflection interesting. I would also prefer you to be local so we can meet up relatively soon after we start chatting.

**Kinks:**

Again, I think its best for us to be partners first before we play with this side of things. I am completley fine talking about it over text but would prefer we table it when we're first getting to know eachother in-person (I want to know your full self first.)

But for when we get there, I am in the "gentle mommy" category meaning I'm way more into the comfy/cozy stuff than causing pain. Interests for me include gentle femdom, ABDL (CG/mommy role only), ANR/dry nursing, teasing, giving praise. Cuddling and holding your hand. 🤭 I may be open to switching but only in vanilla contexts; I am primarily a Domme so please do not message me if you're not a Sub. Overall, though, I'm pretty openminded. Any experience level (or none) is fine.

Hard limits for me are anything illegal, anything public, anything involving blood/severe pain, and anything that's not monogamous. I'm also not particularly interested in femboys or sissification (sorry!), although it may not a dealbreaker with the right person. Just be upfront about it.

**Before you message me:**

- Consider sending a SFW pic: Not a requirement, but it will help your message stand out as I may not reply otherwise. You can't send a pic in a request, so please send an Imgur link or indicate that you will send one when I accept. I'll send you a pic shortly after we start messaging. SFW only please!

- Tell me about yourself. The longer the message, the better. I want to get a sense of who you are and whether or not we would click. Ramble about your passions, what's been on your mind, how your day was, your dealbreakers, whatever feels natural. I will NOT respond to "hey how are you."

- Ask me questions: I'm an open book when asked over text and nothing is off the table.

- Optional questions you can answer: CGs/Doms give a lot in these relationships. How would you reciprocate care? Why are you here, what about this dynamic appeals to you?

- Be yourself. Be honest. I'm a normal person outside of these kinks, there's no judgement here. Authenticity is what will spark my interest the most.

Thanks for making it through to the end! I look forward to hearing from you ❤

Hello! ❤

I've posted before, feel free to message me again if you have in the past.

I'm posting here for the same reason you're looking: I'm into this dynamic. But ultimately I'm seeking an equal partner who wants a **healthy, secure, long-term relationship.** Where kink is something we explore only after a trusting, caring relationship has already been established between us. I don't want to be reduced to a role but seen as a whole, complex human that you genuinely want to know and grow with. And I'll give the same to you.

**About me:**

Tall, caucasian, dark hair. I don't go to the gym but I'm active everyday. I'm very passionate about my career and making a positive impact on the lives of others. I have friends from all stages of my life and spend most weekends catching up and traveling to see them. But in my free time, I have a lot of artsy/sciency hobbies and play casual video games. I also have a dog that I'm obsessed with. I would love someone who has the patience and curiosity to try new things with me and simply make the most out of life together.

**What I'm looking for:**

Above all else, I'm looking for something that feels safe. Where we both have a soft place to land. Where we can communicate honestly and keep showing up for eachother.

I adore masculine guys with big softie energy who are patient, emotionally intelligent and intellectually curious. I am primarily looking for someone in the age range of 23-35, where you have a reached a point in your life where you have dreams and aspirations you're working towards (tell me about them, I'd love to know!) I've done a lot of internal work on myself and hope you find psychology and self reflection interesting. I would also prefer you to be local so we can meet up relatively soon after we start chatting.

**Kinks:**

Again, I think its best for us to be partners first before we play with this side of things. I am completley fine talking about it over text but would prefer we table it when we're first getting to know eachother in-person (I want to know your full self first.)

But for when we get there, I am in the "gentle mommy" category meaning I'm way more into the comfy/cozy stuff than causing pain. Interests for me include gentle femdom, ABDL (CG/mommy role only), ANR/dry nursing, teasing, giving praise. Cuddling and holding your hand. 🤭 I may be open to switching but only in vanilla contexts; I am primarily a Domme so please do not message me if you're not a Sub. Overall, though, I'm pretty openminded. Any experience level (or none) is fine.

Hard limits for me are anything illegal, anything public, anything involving blood/severe pain, and anything that's not monogamous. I'm also not particularly interested in femboys or sissification (sorry!), although it may not a dealbreaker with the right person. Just be upfront about it.

**Before you message me:**

- Consider sending a SFW pic: Not a requirement, but it will help your message stand out as I may not reply otherwise. You can't send a pic in a request, so please send an Imgur link or indicate that you will send one when I accept. I'll send you a pic shortly after we start messaging. SFW only please!

- Tell me about yourself. The longer the message, the better. I want to get a sense of who you are and whether or not we would click. Ramble about your passions, what's been on your mind, how your day was, your dealbreakers, whatever feels natural. I will NOT respond to "hey how are you."

- Ask me questions: I'm an open book when asked over text and nothing is off the table.

- Optional questions you can answer: CGs/Doms give a lot in these relationships. How would you reciprocate care? Why are you here, what about this dynamic appeals to you?

- Be yourself. Be honest. I'm a normal person outside of these kinks, there's no judgement here. Authenticity is what will spark my interest the most.

Thanks for making it through to the end! I look forward to hearing from you ❤