r/ABDLPersonals

I’m a Trans Mommy who is looking for my little. I do like to wear and could be open to switching roles. But mainly play the Mommy role :) I want a baby whom I could control , fuck him wherever and whenever you want, and use him for my pleasure :)

Specific kink interests include ABDL (obviously), diapers, light BDSM, rewards / punishments, etc. I find the nurturing / intimate dynamic with a little really fulfilling, and while I definitely default to the more gentle, uplifting, and supportive style of play, I'm also well-equipped to handle bratty behaviour with discipline and punishments that are appropriate to the little's age and behaviour. :)

I appreciate your time in reading this, Connect with me if your interested. hope you have a wonderful night/day 💜

I’m a 21 male little who is a verse (top and bottom, sub)

My little space age sits around the 2-8 years old and I enjoy colouring, anime, cuddles and gaming.

I’m looking for a daddy/Cg that is strict but also sweet and gentle.

I’m located in Australia and I would prefer a daddy/Cg who is also in Australia but it’s not mandatory.

I have a range of kinks outside of little space as well and I’m looking for a daddy/cg that will also communicate to me outside of just little space.

Hey hey. I'm a 27 year old little who is looking for new connections and people to talk with. I am pretty new to the world of littles and diapers but i really enjoy it so i want to explore more of it!

I'm looking for nice people to talk to, share experiences and just having casual conversations and was hoping to find said people in this subreddit haha.

I dont know what more to say to be honest if you want to chat just reach out i guess. (I dont send pics)

Hello everyone! My name is Michelle. I’m a Midwestern mommy/caregiver looking for a monogamous, preferably female or feminine-presenting partner (NOT REQUIRED,PREFERRED) for something long term only.
I’d prefer someone in Oklahoma or the surrounding states, but I am open to someone further away as long as they’re within the United States.
I’ve been a mommy for eight years now, and I genuinely love being a mommy. It’s something that really completes me and makes me happy. Do I consider myself a diaper lover? No. I don’t consider myself a diaper lover, although I do think diapers can be cute. I understand that some people enjoy that aspect sexually, and that’s completely fine, but please understand that I do not enjoy it sexually at all.
As a mommy, I can be a little strict, but I’m also fair. I do have rules, but they’re there for the betterment and growth of the person I’m with. At the same time, I really enjoy being the fun mommy because I don’t think this kind of dynamic needs to be stern and serious all the time.
I’m the kind of mommy who will randomly send you a coloring book or a stuffed animal just because I want to see you happy. I’m the kind of mommy who will go out of my way to push you into that little space when you need it and help you feel comfortable enough to embrace that inner child. I really believe that part of this can also be about healing and loving on our inner child, even spiritually, and learning to give ourselves the love and patience we may not have gotten before.
I’m the kind of mommy you can count on. I’ll be there for you, I won’t judge you, and I’ll be patient and kind with you. I want you to feel safe being yourself with me. I like cuddling, laughing, talking on the phone, video chatting, and just enjoying each other. I want to be the mommy who can be nurturing and comforting, but also someone you can laugh and have fun with.
Of course, I’m not perfect. There are still things I’m working on even after eight years of being a mommy. But I’ve done my research and my due diligence. I’ve been vetted at two dungeons here in my state, gone to classes, talked to older Doms, and gotten feedback. In my heart, I really do feel like I’m in a place where I’m ready to find someone.
I’m posting here because I know ABDL/CGL/MDLX can sometimes intertwine in different ways, and I don’t want to limit my options when it comes to potentially finding someone who is right for me.
I’m currently in school for radiology, and honestly, the deeper I get into school, the harder it is to find someone. I’d really like to find someone who is just as dedicated as I am.
You MUST be monogamous. Absolutely no polyamory, play partners, or anything along those lines. Once we decide we’re together, I’m looking for something committed.
Outside of that, I love to laugh, thrift, paint, listen to music, watch horror movies, and I love rock music.
If this post finds you well, feel free to send me a message.
And for the men: please understand that I am very particular when it comes to men. I prefer women MUCH more than men. If you do decide to message me, please be respectful. Come at me disrespectfully and you will get an immediate block.

I thought a bit about what really does make me different as a little and what I actually want from a daddy that is unique to me and here are a few I came up with:

One reason i am little is most likely because I'm neurodivergent

Hyperfocus is a challenge for me, creating clear boundaries or expectations of when I'm little or diapered and thinking through transitions is really helpful for me so i can be the best baby i can be. Like changing into little clothes right when arriving at your house or a mandatory diaper after bath time. I also love having a 5 minute warning before hanging up so i can get used to the idea of you not being there 🥺!

I am also an over thinking, high achieving, very good girl.

I need my daddy to be my supervisor and approve of all of the plans i make for myself. i often overplan and don't consider any things that might pop up and derail me and i definitely don't plan to drink any water. 🙅‍♀️ Some littles need someone to make the plan for them, I need higher level control.

I also can have a very strong personality!

If my daddy replies aggressively by demanding i stop feeling what I feel that will only make me feel bigger and I'll use my logic even more 😡! I'm too smart for my own good. But the best thing is when my daddy says "did daddy hurt your feelings? Or did you get embarrassed little one?" Anything condescending that keeps me little totally kills any attempt at staying big. I love (consensual) forced regression.

Lastly I'm a very embarrassed diaper girl and i need a daddy to put me in a predicament or train me with baby steps to get me to be the best baby i can be!

If this naturally sounds like you I'd love to talk 🥰! I'm a chubby 5'2 left leaning little who loves voice calls and I'm looking for someone the same! Please let me know how you would tackle any of these caretaking scenarios above to see if we're a good match!

Come say hi!!! Tell me about your day or your hopes and dreams, idgaf

Hi hi I dunno how to start these thingies so sowwy if I totally do it wrong. 🙈I’m 24 and really shy kinda little brains a whole lot of the time. 🙈I’m really sweet promise and not a meanie butt at all. I love cartoons and coloring I have a doggy that I love to bits and pieces and stuffy friends too🤭I love pink and princesses I am really girly toos🤭I’m a paddy butt kinda princess too if that’s matters and I’m looking for my daddy toos 😋🤭I don’t mind relocating for my forever daddy either I kinda love romantic lovey dovey stuffs too🤭 I hope you haves amazing day 🩷

hello! my name is belle, i'm 23 and a little :3 i'm into ddlg and abdl. i am looking for a full time 24/7 ddlg/abdl relationship or caregiver. i love wearing pull ups as much as i can!

i'm in northern california & would prefer someone who is also in california or a close state! i also prefer someone who is closer to me in my age :)

i looooove cuddles, coloring, and having dance parties! if this interests you, please feel free to message me! ☺️

HI my name is Lulu I am 34 from Va.

Im looking for a cg who will love me for me who want me for me!

Cis or trans welcome!

LITTLE ME:

The little she is 2 years old she not the best at potty training at all she sweet kind bubbly shy clingy get excited easily especially if she excited about a topic or game she will blab about it show excitement. She has tons of stuffies and cutes onesies and paci and babas. The big She a dorky girl who introverted and homebody who builds computers and legos and robot models and play video games dnd and other nerdy things watches anime and cosplays well used to. She also loves to cook and go to amusement parks. She swims and trys to dance and sing and be silly big and little intertwined personality wise. Just a start to magical world of lulu. She also wears diapers when she can. Im also transfemale intersex. My chromosomes are XX partial Y. I have ovaries but birth defect on outside. No uterus. I am poly and have 3 partners.

Big Me:

She works alot and like to travel and sleep listen to music and spend time with friends. Favorite food is Korean and Japanese food. Color is purple.

If you are interested message me about what your ideal first date would be with me! And your favorite color!

Xxxx

Lulu

This isn’t about pretending. I’m not looking to be babied, scolded, or dressed up. When I wear, it’s not for show it’s for stillness.

There’s something about padding up after a long, exhausting day that helps me breathe differently. I feel softer. Quieter. Less guarded. More me.

What I’m really craving is someone who doesn’t see that as weird or fragile. Someone steady. Someone who understands comfort as a form of connection. Someone who’s warm with their words, consistent with their presence, and who knows how to stay not just show up.

We don’t need rules or scenes. I just want natural routines. Morning check-ins. Encouragement when the world feels too much. That quiet kind of closeness where even silence feels safe.

If you’re emotionally available, DL-friendly, and genuinely want to build something slow, real, and rooted in care message me.

Let’s make softness the point. Not the exception.

Hello! I’m Sage (she/her)! I’m 27! I’ve been in the community for over 10 years!

I’m gonna keep this post a bit short as my pinned post goes into more depth but I am a gamer, pansexual, a collector of rocks, stuffies, pacis, and pins. I am 24/7 by choice.

When I’m small I like to color on my iPad, watch bluey, hello kitty, mlp, carebears and paw patrol, I also enjoy going to the park to swing and going outside to collect more rocks and go adventuring!

I got into this when I got diagnosed with AuDHD and my therapist noticed my child like tendencies. For a while I was in the age regression community but once I turned 18 I joined abdl.

As I said I’m 24/7 by choice because I enjoy the security and softness of diapers. My favorite brand is ABU!

When I’m not small, I still love adventures such as hiking, traveling, even just taking long walks. I enjoy going to the gym,finding new foods, daily toke sessions, drawing, playing video games, listening and finding new music. I also like watching true crime, some reality tv, paranormal shows, adult animation and anime.

I have discord and Snapchat but rarely use them (once a day). I’m also open to answering questions as long as you ask politely and don’t make it weird (I.e asking for diaper pics-unless we’re close)

Feel free to look at my pinned post for more details and if I missed something on either post feel free to ask me!

(Repost and edited slightly from my other personals post)

I padded up for the first time in a while and miss chatting with people in the space!

Please feel free to comment, or DM me if you are looking to chat about anything at all!

Open to any tasks/challenges and I love to show off with pictures of my diaper :))

Ideally we'd voice chat right away, like right now or later,
Looking for an experienced care giver who likes ABDL diaper wear women, I'm cis woman very slim around 99lbs, fairly petite height. I want to explore diaper wearing, but not unpottery train. to start I would like to wear them for sleep then maybe out in public when I build confidence, I'm not looking for a care giver who only likes diapers and not other cute cozy things that comes with bing a little/middle/baby, I like toys (sfw), dolls, cute things, baby things and would likes someone who also loves the sfw play side of things as well.

Right now (this might make or break) but rn I only use cloth diapers for PMS, so 7 days a month, as I find it to make things easier and cuter for me, if that turns you off please find someone better suited for you. I hope to get to know an experience cg to help influence me and guide me, and let me talk about all the little things and baby things I enjoy and diapers/pull ups that are cute.

Love fantasizing about forced regression, public humiliation, public changes 😭😭 just want to feel pathetic 🥺

Hi! I’m looking for more friends in the community, I’ve been looking for a while and have a few but conversations never seem to be as consistent as I’d like. That being said I’m looking for someone who wants to have consistent convos, I prefer friends who can talk on the phone or send each other voice notes back and forth.

Looking for genuine friendships which means don’t DM me expecting things to go from friends to lovers. Please don’t ask me if I’m wearing a diaper currently or what I do in my diapers or anything of the sort. I’m looking for friends in the community but can our conversations please not be diaper focused all the time. Especially at the start. Please don’t DM if you’re the type of person to ghost or delete their account impulsively, I’m looking for friends who are proud of this side of them whether they keep it a secret or not. I don’t mind being friends with anyone over my age so don’t ask if you’re too old to be friends, I don’t discriminate against age.

I mostly use discord and instagram so when you DM me please be willing to switch over to either of those platforms. I don’t check Reddit as often as I do those. Also I’m really only looking for friends who live in the US so only DM me if you live here, dealing with time zone differences is frustrating. Please reach out if all this sounds good to you I’d love to be friends 💗

(Please don’t DM me if you’re gonna be very dry and not try to continue the conversation. Constant 1 word replies aren’t fun)

Hey everyone! I'm currently looking to explore ABDL as a caregiver! Looking to support a little one and take care of them :) Diapers and all!

I am looking for femme presenting people, but anyone can reach out since I'm also looking for friends and fwb, so other CGs are welcome too!

I'm a student, lover of sports, gym goer and outdoorsy person/traveller. I love the big parks and little ones (no pun intended lol), and enjoy fun outdoor activities like kayaking or going on adventures to cities and other countries!

This is a kink for me as much as it is a caring and comforting relationship, so please be open to that if you're looking for a Daddy. I am open to supporting you, in person or online too! Otherwise reach out expecting a yapper :)

Looking for a connection of something more than just kink…. I want it all! :) message me if serious only! And if you messaged me before maybe try again. Give me an interesting message vs hey… maybe tell me how you would want me dressed first meeting each other ?

Hello! 31F & 32M couple here making the drive up to San Francisco from Los Angeles to attend the 2026 Pokemon World Championships (Aug.28-30th). VERY EXCITED!! Can’t wait to shop at the Pokemon Center, do some side events and meet some content creators I follow <3

Buuut… while we’re NOT nerding out- I wanted to ask if anyone had suggestions on sightseeing locations (vanilla time) OR any San Fran abdl locals wanting to hang out (or munches in the area) or catch dinner with us! We’ll be by the Moscone Center where the convention is and I got a box of diapers with me, planning on being padded the whole week we’re here ^^)

Talk soon! - Shelly aka Shinxcess

haiiiii!!!! I'm a college student with some mild urinary incontinence. I think I could get by without diapers but I'd rather wear than have an accident! unfortunately I'm ditzy and often forget to put one on in the morning, and just go around in my panties without any padding 🫣

I need very structured rules to help keep me padded. I'm very into forced diapering (and hearing what rules you'd impose on me). wetting is all good with me, but I'll make it clear from now that messing is an absolute hard limit. send me a quick intro and an example rule of what you'd do to keep me diapered!

Ladies, does your husband need a little supervision while you're away having some grown-up fun?

Introducing Cucksitter Services — discreet, consensual husband-sitting for couples who enjoy a little cuckold dynamic.

You go enjoy your getaway, and I'll make sure your cuck isn't sitting around bored at home. I'll keep him company, keep him occupied, and, put him through some playful adult diaper-training while you're away, ill even stretch his ass out for you to peg when you get back if that's what you want, help teach him a Cuck's only thoughts should be how to serve better.

Do you want your bratty Cuck to be a well behaved diapered little boy?

Discretion, clear boundaries, and the Domme's rules come first. If this sounds like something you and your husband would enjoy, ladies, feel free to hit me up in the DMs.