I’m 5’9 140lb slim redhead, I very much prefer to be a caregiver, but I could be convinced otherwise…

Primarily abdl to me is more of a kink, it doesn’t really reflect on my day-to-day.

I have a whole mountain of other kinks, and I really enjoy listening and learning from others and helping them indulge. Abdl is definitely the pinnacle of that!

Sfw I’m considerably nerdy, lots of reading and boardgames. Work takes up a lot of my time, but I’d be open to a longer term arrangement if the vibe is right.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\++preference for people on the femme side pls

Anyway if that sounds like your thing and you’re nearby shoot me a dm and lets chat!

DISCLAIMER :: I am currently in a toxic relationship that I want to leave. I currently live with the partner I am in said relationship with. Please keep that in mind!

Hello there! I am a 26 year old, autistic, little girl who is currently in search of a forever daddy!

I work a full-time job, 12-hour shifts, three days a week. I'm currently living in an apartment with my ex partner, and two cats! Some things that I enjoy doing with my time away from work include ( but are certainly not limited to ) : playing video games, writing short stories, doodling, going on hikes, long walks around town, biking, and swimming!

As a little, some of the things I enjoy doing the most are : playing with my toys ( I've got a pretty impressive stuffie collection ), going to the park, coloring, doing arts-and-crafts, walks around town or through the forest, watching childhood movies, having sleepovers, bonfires, and reading fairy tales. I'm normally around 2 to 5 years old as a little. I do enjoy being padded, but it's not something I do all the time. Dressing up is something that I like to do almost all the time, though! I've got a few onesies, and am always looking to extend my wardrobe. I can be a brat at times, though for the most part I'm just a sweet girl who loves playing around and spending time with daddy.

I've been in the lifestyle since around 2020, though have never actually had a daddy / CG for myself before.

This little girl is a night owl! I live for the night, and love looking up at the stars! I would love to have a daddy that wants to go out for walks with me once the sun has gone down!

I am looking to be a 24/7 little.

On the relationship side of things, I'm hoping for something that can start online and can grow into more over time. Something that isn't jumped into right away. I prefer for my possible forever daddy / CG to get to know me a bit first before we get more into the relationship.

What I ultimately want is a relationship with the end goal of being together forever. I want someone who is willing to put effort into this, and in return I will also show the same amount of effort back. If you're just looking for something short or something that's only ever strictly online, then please don't even bother messaging. I want a possible daddy / CG who, once the relationship gets to that point, won't have a problem with coming and visiting me. Or who wouldn't mind me going to visit them! Because of this, I would prefer for any possible daddy / CG to be close to where I am. However, it's not a dealbreaker if you aren't in my state or a bordering state! All I ask is that you be willing to come and visit me no matter where you are!

Eventually, I would like to have my daddy / CG live with me, or have me go and live with him. Getting to voice chat or video chat to get comfortable first would be nice, and getting to eventual physical meetings is a must! When it comes to eventually living together : While I do prefer to stay in my state, I am also 100% fine with relocating.

Relationships are built off love and trust. I will give 100% to you, will share everything with you, will communicate with you, and will always do everything in my power to make the relationship work, so long as the same energy and effort are given back. If you're someone who has a problem with communication, please don't bother messaging as it won't work out.

In a daddy / CG, I'm looking for someone who is kind, caring, respectful, and affectionate - yet also knows when to be more stern if needed. I'm looking for a daddy who enjoys going out and doing things, and who will actively want to go out with me - whether that be trips to the park, walks down to local shops, or just a nice little walk around town. I love being active, and it would be a dealbreaker if my daddy / CG doesn't enjoy being active as well!

I need a daddy / CG who is looking for their forever little. I have a preference for someone who is monogamous and doesn't have / doesn't want any other littles. I'm a bit of a clingy little and will always want to be around you. so please be sure you don't mind having a clingy little that will follow you around and always be curious about what you're doing.

Thank you to any possible daddies and CGs who read this. Please feel free to DM me if you think I would be a good match as your little!

Hi everyone. 😊

I’m a 28 year old plus sized woman from New Jersey looking to meet someone interested in building a real connection that could naturally grow into an ABDL caregiver/little dynamic. Friendship comes first for me. I believe the healthiest dynamics are built on trust, communication, and enjoying each other’s company outside of the dynamic too.

My style leans much more toward gentle caregiving than strict authority. I enjoy providing reassurance, structure, praise, routines, and creating a space where someone feels safe, accepted, and cared for. I’m interested in a relationship where both people feel valued, respected, and genuinely excited to invest in one another. To make sure you read my post, please send the word pancake somewhere in your first message!

Outside of kink, I’m a horror fan, an avid reader, a writer, and a gamer. You’ll usually find me curled up watching movies, visiting libraries or museums, enjoying some devil’s lettuce, or spending the night chatting with people I care about. I’m definitely a night owl, so bonus points if you are too.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone who is:

• Single or practicing ethical non-monogamy.

• Somewhere between New Jersey, eastern Pennsylvania, or New York, though I’m open to online if we really click.

• Kind, communicative, emotionally mature, and interested in taking things slowly.

• Looking for something long-term rather than a one-time interaction.

A little about my preferences: I tend to be especially attracted to bigger, heavyset guys, but personality and compatibility will always matter more than appearance.

If you’ve read this far, tell me about your favorite comfort movie, game, or book when you message me. I’d love to know what makes you feel safe and at home.
Looking forward to hearing from you. 💜

Edit: DISCLAIMER: I’M A MOMMY NOT A LITTLE!

I’m always looking for abdl friends, not just littles but caregivers as well. Please don’t DM if you live super far from me, I don’t really like dealing with time zone differences. I want someone cool and friendly who won’t secretly be using me to get off. Please don’t DM me immediately talking about you wetting your diaper or anything like that. I’m looking for regular friends with no benefits.

Like the title says I’m looking for some online friends as I have no-one irl to talk about my ABDL interests. If anybody wants to be my friend message my account. I’m a trans girlie and am a very big nerd, looking for anybody from (19-40), caretakers and littles are welcome. Hoping to hear from some of you wonderful folks soon.

Edit: Located in the UK so anybody hoping to meet irl would have to live there

I don’t know what I’m going to do between college and my DL life. I really want to go full time and was wondering is it possible to manage everything and keep up with being a full time baby🥺If anyone can help me with ideas I’d love to talk so dm meeee🐣

Hi folks, Im Sam. Currently padded and playing video games and thought id find some folks to talk to. Come say hey!

Abt Me:

Im a Daddy dom who likes to switch middle and little as well. I like boardgames and hanging out with friends. I also host a monthly abdl meetup irl and love chatting to new people, and folks new to the scene/curious.

TL;DR: cute girl seeks cute boy with ABDL kink and chemistry beyond ☺️✨ 27+ please. Don’t be shy 🙈 say Hi 🤗

Helllooo 🤗 lol I hope everyone is doing well!! Took some time for myself but I’m back. Dated vanilla for awhile butttt it’s just not the same. I want to feel understood.. just looking for that special someone like everyone else- my Best Friend y’a know?

I'm a 33yr trans woman🏳️‍⚧️ (5'11", fit, pretty haha✨) based in the New England area. That said, I'm open to connections anywhere — if it clicks, it clicks

A bit about me and my kink:

ABDL is really my only kink (and some that pair well, like chastity, sissification, etc. But not necessary) — specifically, l'm a switch who leans DL, but I have love for both sides of the dynamic. I initially explored from the Mommy/Caregiver side (early crush on a bedwetter - go figure 🤣), but l've recently been connecting more with my own little side too. Diapers are a major turn-on for me - this is definitely a sexual fetish - but I also enjoy the gentle, affectionate, and nurturing elements that go beyond sex 💖I’ve had enough vanilla relationships and taken the time to accept this part of myself to know this is something that I need in some capacity.

That said, what really excites me is finding someone I genuinely connect with outside of kink — chemistry, mutual attraction, and compatible energy are so important to me. Whether you're a Daddy type looking for a little to pamper and play with, a baby boy/little looking for a sweet/soft domme Mommy, or just a handsome dude who likes to dip up lol— I'm open to exploring. It's really about connection, shared interests, and openness to building something. This is something that I’m very discreet about and not something I disclose to anyone in my day to day life-hopefully you feel similarly.

Who I am IRL: I'm an artsy, creative, ADHD professional 🤓😆. I love painting/sketching, write poetry and going to museums. I love horror films/rom coms, running, hiking, paddle boarding, kayaking, and gardening. Discovering new cultures/ traveling/eating new foods/going out to eat(right now I’m obsessing over Thai). I'm ambitious, curious, and passionate— hoping to find the same.

Limits(that I know of): Not really into scat, no blood, no pain. I'm into the softer side of this kink — care, play, gentle domination/submission, bonding. Think cute and cuddly ☺️🎀

Photos available on my profile-open to sharing more if we connect. Looking for: 27+ (ideally 30-38), open-minded, optimistic, empathetic, and ideally someone I can vibe with both emotionally and physically.

Hi there! 36 year old cg in NE DC looking for someone I can care for. Kinda chubby, had knee surgery not too long ago so im slowly getting back into the swing of things. I work as a counselor for a public school, usually very busy but my summer is super open, thank you public school job. Child free and not really looking to change that any time soon. Very nerdy, into warhammer, magic, ect ect. If its a nerdy hobby im probably into it. Am bi but I've had male, female and trans littles over the years. I do have a tendency for the more feminine individuals but open to all.

Kink wise I'm into a whole bunch. But the biggest thing that I need is a partner to take care of. I'm a caregiver at heart and have a compulsion to take care of my partners every needs. Into diapers, abdl, orgasm control/denial, cnc, chastity, impact play, watersports, and more. I just want someone who I can focus on and take care of their every need.

Would ideally like someone to call mine, be it a relationship or not.

NOT looking for anything long distance. I need someone local to the dmv area.

If you're interested lets chat

I am not looking for an RP so please don't ask, more just a conversation or talking about wholesome cuddly things we like doing, cute things, comfort things, things we like doing with other people. Would likely go well if we have a lot of commonalities in this front, for me that is diapers, using them, being changed, being dressed, being held, etc. The whole nine yard of classic ABDL things. Onesies and shortalls, cute little booties and maybe mittens. I must admit to also have a huge weakness for all things princess like, disney princess or classic architypical ruffles and fluff kinda of princess stuff.

It can even just be about simple diapers, meeting someone who wears them 24/7 for one reason or another. Maybe they never got potty trained and are fine with it? Maybe it's a medical condition, maybe it's just for comfort?

From there it is easy to build on adding more, as a diaper is used it of course grows heavy with it's new contents so wearing a onesie would be obvious, supporting it's weight and making sure it doesn't droop. Bottles or sippy cups are great if you are prone to bringing your drinks with you wherever you go, or just like drinking something for the same of drinking so that coffee disappears pretty quickly but with a sippy cup or a bottle it is slowed down enough to still let you drink but without having five cups per day.

Maybe eventually adding some bondage aspects to it so it makes the wearer really helpless. Like a pacifier gag that makes it so they can't talk, padded mittens so their hands are useless, spiked booties so walking is impossible. Maybe even straps on the bed, a locking crip top, arm and leg restraints on the high chair so they have to be fed?

Any sort of punishments you like? Are you the soft kind that only does corner time, maybe a spanking? Sent to bed early with or without dinner? Or do you take your punishments further because sparing the rod will spoil the brat? I'd love to hear your takes c:

Another thing I have been huge on is using special needs items or clothing to help with that. Such as sleepers or undergarments that are back zippered to discourage stripping or diaper removal, harnesses with a lead so they don't wonder off, hell, we could find a use for a wheelchair in there somewhere too.

If you want free extra credits since this has come up a bit. If you had a magic machine that could magically adjust my height to whatever you would want. How tall or short would you want your diapered girl?

Hiiiii I’m 18 I like to wear diapers and I’m looking for like minded individuals who just are open to talk about anything I also am a femboy just chilling in thigh highs and a diaper rn please message I’m so bored

Heya!
Hope your day is going well!
Please feel free to send a message if you want to chat!

I'm looking for a creative and kinky dominant who would love to take charge and put me in my place, I'm naturally submissive and love it when someone else takes the lead leash. ;3

I'm a Pet/Little/Sub still exploring and learning about myself, For me, being a little or pet can be sexual or not depending on the person I'm with, I normally play with ABDL and Petplay separately as my kinks alternate slightly between the two, but I am super open minded and happy to try new things! :3

A little about me:

I'm extremely friendly and open minded, more than a little quirky with a love for life that keeps me wanting to visit new places and meet new people, absolutely love the chance to have new experiences and try to do so whenever possible!!
Very mental health aware, polite and caring, extremely social and can have fun whatever I'm doing, decent chance I will be able to make you laugh, upbeat and energetic with a bubbly attitude, love to help out where I can, with the right company anything can be fun. :p

Big fan of nature and animals, cute clothing (would love to be made to wear cute outfits! :3) furry stuff, anything cute, role playing games, D&D (Chaotic good ;p) and most games in general! also a big art nerd love to spend ages drawing and painting!
Love to go on walks to pass the time, I have energy for days and absolutely love the outdoors!
If you can think of an activity, I'll most likely be down to try it!

I feel I would match well with someone who gets great enjoyment out of being dominant, who likes to own and take charge, somebody with a kinky, creative mind, who relishes the idea of demanding my obedience and keeping me in line. :3
I also like the idea of someone that gets enjoyment out of being a little mean, enjoying the thought of teasing and reminding me of my place. ;3
Some ways I really enjoy this is being forced into rolls that clearly state my place and strip me of any power I may have mistakenly think I held, Petplay and ABDL are the two main focuses for this, I love the idea of being put in these roles for extended periods of time, having rules set in place and punishments if they are broken, creative and immersive punishments to fit the role always get me super blushy x3

I cannot state enough how much I adore dominant people. :3

Kinks

Most of my kinks are universal when it comes to play, but some are more specific, being tailored to fit of the role I'm in, these are not a hard rule but to give you an idea of how I like to experience kink :3
This is also not a complete list, this is to give you a bit of insight into what I like, I'm very open minded and love creative and kinky scenes ;3

Universal kinks:
control, power exchange, humiliation, chastity, restraints, being bullied, rules and punishments, being talked down to, pet or abdl focused bondage gear and quite a few others.

more Pet focused:
degradation, obedience and clicker training, drool, scents, muzzles, training collars, knotted toys, cages, fear, bitchsuits, blindfolds.

more ABDL focused:
forced ageplay/ABDL, belittling, diapers/nappies, thematic punishments and ABDL being used as such, being forced to use my nappies/diapers for their full purpose, spanking.

ABDL

I absolutely love the idea of being forcibly treated little and all that it entails. The power exchange and control elements, stripping away any autonomy I may have previously had and forcibly reducing and belittling me to my rightful status as toddler in your eyes.
This could entail rules, punishment and embarrassment being used to keep me blushy, obedient and in line, changes where ever you see fit, forcing me to ask for anything I want rather than just getting it myself, nappies/diapers full time under your care. Are all just a few ideas among many ;3

I get super blushy and flustered when embarrassed so sometimes I may try to argue back that I'm big and don't need nappies/diapers in an attempt to try and grasp at what little rights I have left, trying my best to ease the embarrassment, possibly earning myself a punishment or two in the process.

Petplay

Pet me is about having all my control stripped away, to be seen as nothing more than your obedient dog, forced to act as and given the same rights appropriately. For you to degraded, push around and punish as you see fit. Ensuring I know my place by your heels and at your beck and call.

This space is a lot more sexual for me, so anal toys such as tail plugs, vibe plugs, and knotted dildos come into play a lot more here, this pairs well with the fact that I absolutely love being denied, made to serve but having to earn my rewards so things that cause stimulation causing me to strain and struggle against my chastity, keeping me aware of my situation and needy are amazing! ;3
Ontop of this I love pup themed BDSM gear, anything that makes me look more the part and keep my more reliant on my owner, this could be locking pup mitts, a bitchsuit or any other fun thematic thing you can think of!

I'm still learning about my kinky self and exploring, would really like to find someone open minded and adventurous to explore and hopefully build a relationship with. :)

If you made it this far, Thank you for taking the time to read, you're the best!! <3 If you would like to chat, it would be awesome if you would include a bit about yourself and what you like in your opening message, including age and location please <3

Spending all morning diapered. Planning on picking my brother up from the airport in a heavily wet diaper and a full bladder. Need a naughty daddy to chat with me and humiliate me. The more perverted and humiliating the better

Haiiiii!! I just caved and bought my first diapies after 2 years!! I really need to get back into this so if anyone wants to come talk >~<

Hey there! ✨

I’m a 25-year-old female living in Europe, and I’m looking to find a genuine, long-term connection with a strong, dominant Daddy who wants a truly kinky ABDL dynamic. I am naturally very sweet and deeply submissive, but I also have a playful, bratty side that loves to be put in my place.

I am looking for a full Ddlg/ABDL dynamic where you have total control.

My Little & Kinky Sides:

The Little: I love wearing cute, colorful outfits, onesies, and using my pacifier. Being padded up and cozy in diapers is my happy place, and I love being messy and taken care of completely.

The Kink: I am highly submissive and crave strict rules, rewards, and punishments (spankings are highly encouraged when I'm a brat!). I want to be your property, controlled, and kept in diapers by my Daddy.

What I’m looking for:

I need a protective, nurturing, yet strictly dominant Daddy. You should enjoy taking total control, setting clear rules, managing my diaper changes, and disciplining me when I push the boundaries, all while keeping me feeling safe and loved.

Distance isn't a dealbreaker for the right person if we can start online ☺️

If you’re ready to take charge of a sweet, loyal little girl and make her yours, please send me a DM! Tell me a bit about yourself, your style of dominance, and your favorite kinks. 🍼💖

HI my name is Lulu I am 33 from Va.

LITTLE ME:

The little she is 2 years old she not the best at potty training at all she sweet kind bubbly shy clingy get excited easily especially if she excited about a topic or game she will blab about it show excitement. She has tons of stuffies and cutes onesies and paci and babas. The big She a dorky girl who introverted and homebody who builds computers and legos and robot models and play video games dnd and other nerdy things watches anime and cosplays well used to. She also loves to cook and go to amusement parks. She swims and trys to dance and sing and be silly big and little intertwined personality wise. Just a start to magical world of lulu. She also wears diapers when she can. Im also transfemale intersex.

Big Me:

She works alot and like to travel and sleep listen to music and spend time with friends. Favorite food is Korean and Japanese food. Color is purple.

My name is Khloe! I'm 27 MtF (pre-HRT but hoping to get the appointments to start it soon) from Ontario in Canada and a switch (with a strong little lean).

A little bit about myself: I'm pretty easy-going, bubbly and a little ditzy. I like to dress rather conservative (lots of pretty skirts and dresses :3) & act very femme and love kawaii things; I absolutely adore Sanrio and the like \^\^

I studied graphic design and enjoy doing various creative things in my spare time. But, now I'm back in school studying social work.

My little age is 2-6; When in little space I like to colour, watch cartoons (Bluey, Paw Patrol & MLP:FiM are my fav) & movies, play video games & with my toys, cuddling and of course wearing & using my diapers :3 (I'm hoping to wear 24/7 and unpotty train myself eventually). I VERY much live by the mantra, "don't think, just stink" perhaps to a fault 🤭.

Bonus points if you're REALLY into MLP, Bluey or Sonic the Hedgehog 🥺👉👈

Outside of ABDL; my hobbies are learning languages, graphic design/drawing, listening to music and playing instruments, web design & game dev, anime, playing video games (PC; mainly retro games, I love Pokemon, Sonic the Hedgehog, Mario, Crazy Taxi), cooking & baking (I'd love to cook for you 🥺), writing, yoga, learning languages (currently learning Japanese & French and I speak some Spanish) and new things in general

I'm also a stoner so if you smoke weed or do other drugs, that's cool with me :3

If you think making diapers stinky & messy are cuddle and makeout worthy, then we may be a good fit~ uwu

I'm hoping to find another person around my age — ideally in Canada (or open to relocation, I have medical issues so it's very difficult for me to relocate) - who loves stink just as much as me; please don't feel shy to DM me

Hey little ones contact Mommy if you want to give up control of your little pee pee and potty breaks. Mommy promises to make you giggle and squirm as you let go off your adulthood. Are you ready to be mommy’s little diaper slave?

It’s so big and bulky. I love it ☺️☺️

Hey there!

I’m a 24 year old girl from Germany and a switch who’s been missing letting her Mommy side shine again. I want to live out both my loving, caring side and my strict, guiding Mommy energy. I’m looking for a fit, cute boy or femboy (18+) who would enjoy being spoiled, cared for, and gently or not so gently put in his place.

I have a variety of kinks I’m happy to discuss openly in chat. I’m very open minded and nearly everything is on the table. We can start by getting to know each other a bit and chatting, or jump straight into it if the vibe feels right. Your pace and comfort always come first.

Everything can stay completely private and in confidence. That said, I would personally love it if you could send me pictures of your diapers/outfits for checks (head and face don’t have to be visible at all, privacy is important) but if sending pictures is a no-go for you, that’s totally fine and not a problem at all.

If this sounds like something for you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

All of that online at first!