u/mommysmooches

Hello everyone! My name is Michelle. I’m a Midwestern mommy/caregiver looking for a monogamous, preferably female or feminine-presenting partner (NOT REQUIRED,PREFERRED) for something long term only.
I’d prefer someone in Oklahoma or the surrounding states, but I am open to someone further away as long as they’re within the United States.
I’ve been a mommy for eight years now, and I genuinely love being a mommy. It’s something that really completes me and makes me happy. Do I consider myself a diaper lover? No. I don’t consider myself a diaper lover, although I do think diapers can be cute. I understand that some people enjoy that aspect sexually, and that’s completely fine, but please understand that I do not enjoy it sexually at all.
As a mommy, I can be a little strict, but I’m also fair. I do have rules, but they’re there for the betterment and growth of the person I’m with. At the same time, I really enjoy being the fun mommy because I don’t think this kind of dynamic needs to be stern and serious all the time.
I’m the kind of mommy who will randomly send you a coloring book or a stuffed animal just because I want to see you happy. I’m the kind of mommy who will go out of my way to push you into that little space when you need it and help you feel comfortable enough to embrace that inner child. I really believe that part of this can also be about healing and loving on our inner child, even spiritually, and learning to give ourselves the love and patience we may not have gotten before.
I’m the kind of mommy you can count on. I’ll be there for you, I won’t judge you, and I’ll be patient and kind with you. I want you to feel safe being yourself with me. I like cuddling, laughing, talking on the phone, video chatting, and just enjoying each other. I want to be the mommy who can be nurturing and comforting, but also someone you can laugh and have fun with.
Of course, I’m not perfect. There are still things I’m working on even after eight years of being a mommy. But I’ve done my research and my due diligence. I’ve been vetted at two dungeons here in my state, gone to classes, talked to older Doms, and gotten feedback. In my heart, I really do feel like I’m in a place where I’m ready to find someone.
I’m posting here because I know ABDL/CGL/MDLX can sometimes intertwine in different ways, and I don’t want to limit my options when it comes to potentially finding someone who is right for me.
I’m currently in school for radiology, and honestly, the deeper I get into school, the harder it is to find someone. I’d really like to find someone who is just as dedicated as I am.
You MUST be monogamous. Absolutely no polyamory, play partners, or anything along those lines. Once we decide we’re together, I’m looking for something committed.
Outside of that, I love to laugh, thrift, paint, listen to music, watch horror movies, and I love rock music.
If this post finds you well, feel free to send me a message.
And for the men: please understand that I am very particular when it comes to men. I prefer women MUCH more than men. If you do decide to message me, please be respectful. Come at me disrespectfully and you will get an immediate block.

Because firstly, trying to find someone within my own state is an absolute NO GO. The kink community in my state are all entangled, they’re all sleeping together and they’re all connected in some way. So I have to look outside of my state and find someone long-distance. then, even that is impossible. Either they don’t fully appreciate me, or turns out that they actually wanted a daddy the whole time.

I don’t judge anyone that is into having multiple partners or anything of that nature. However, what does get me upset is wasting my time, them knowing my boundaries and thinking that my mind will change on it.

Hey guys, I’ve been down a rabbit hole researching induced lactation lately. I’m seriously thinking about buying a breast pump/supplements because I think adding adult breastfeeding into a dynamic sounds like the ultimate level of comfort and connection, both sexually and non-sexually.
I’m curious how common this actually is in the community?
Also, if real lactation isn't happening, has anyone tried those supplemental nursing setups? (The little tube simulator things that run from a container to the bra). Do you feel like a simulator still gives that same cozy, nurturing feeling for a Sub/Little, or is real lactation usually the main goal?
Would love to hear some general thoughts or experiences on how people handle this!

I can’t wait 😫

“Uh-oh. Somebody’s trying to use grown-up brain privileges they clearly don’t have right now.”

No, sweetheart. You don’t need to sit there thinking about everything that’s gone wrong or all the bad things that have happened. That’s not your job right now. You’re just a baby…..

Come here and sit on the bed for Mommy. I’ll get you changed into something soft and comfy. Mommy will pick out your clothes, Mommy will choose your show, and Mommy will decide what you’re going to eat.
No choices. No questions. You know your place.

All that worrying, overthinking, and trying to carry the weight of the world? Mommy’s taking that away from you for a while. You are safe here. Safe enough to let go. Safe enough to stop fighting it.

Let Mommy distract your busy little mind…. and take care of everything. The more you relax, the easier it becomes. No resistance. No stubbornness. Just let yourself sink into that warm, happy little headspace where you don’t have to be responsible for anything at all.

Good baby. That’s it. Just sit there, cozy and content, and let Mommy handle the rest….🖤