u/Timely_Chocolate2583

Hi! I’m looking for more friends in the community, I’ve been looking for a while and have a few but conversations never seem to be as consistent as I’d like. That being said I’m looking for someone who wants to have consistent convos, I prefer friends who can talk on the phone or send each other voice notes back and forth.

Looking for genuine friendships which means don’t DM me expecting things to go from friends to lovers. Please don’t ask me if I’m wearing a diaper currently or what I do in my diapers or anything of the sort. I’m looking for friends in the community but can our conversations please not be diaper focused all the time. Especially at the start. Please don’t DM if you’re the type of person to ghost or delete their account impulsively, I’m looking for friends who are proud of this side of them whether they keep it a secret or not. I don’t mind being friends with anyone over my age so don’t ask if you’re too old to be friends, I don’t discriminate against age.

I mostly use discord and instagram so when you DM me please be willing to switch over to either of those platforms. I don’t check Reddit as often as I do those. Also I’m really only looking for friends who live in the US so only DM me if you live here, dealing with time zone differences is frustrating. Please reach out if all this sounds good to you I’d love to be friends 💗

(Please don’t DM me if you’re gonna be very dry and not try to continue the conversation. Constant 1 word replies aren’t fun)

I hate when I think I’m having a regular conversation with someone I met from the community and then they immediately get sexual or start asking me questions like “do you wet your diaper?” “Are you wearing right now?” “Can I see your diaper?” Like can we please act like decent human beings and not treat each other like personal porn suppliers. I know for sure it’s not all abdls because I’ve talked to some cool people from the community but it just feels like those people are not easy to come across. Just because I wear diapers doesn’t make me obligated to send you pics and it doesn’t make it okay for you to be sexual towards me for just being in this community. It feels like I’m begging people to just be respectful atp

Does anyone make or recommend channels or pages that do abdl roleplay audios? Audios with detailed roleplay of different stuff in the dynamic: feeding time, bath time, diaper changes, playtime etc. I’d prefer sexual ones but I’d love the non sexual ones too! If anyone has any recommendations or is willing to make them please comment :>>

I F19 for years have known that being a little is more then just a coping mechanism or something I do for fun. I’ve wanted it to be apart of me and my everyday life. I’ve been a childish person for basically my whole life and everyone close to me knows that. Since recently I’ve started collecting more and more little gear, from onesies, to pacis, to bottles, toys, diapers and more. Apart of me wants to be a 24/7 little and have my entire life revolve around it but apart of me is scared that I won’t be able to maintain that longterm. Not everyone is willing to have a 24/7 little even if they also think the idea is good. Realistically I don’t want a job, I want to stay home and be baby but the world doesn’t work that way and sadly I need to support myself one way or another. Does anyone here also want to be 24/7? Or is it just a fantasy that you don’t think could sustain you?

I’m currently not in the school or working so I have a lot of free time on my hands. Looking for friends and people to talk to! I have little gear and am always willing to show it off. Would love to be friends with someone who’s really nice and kind. Don’t mind being friends with older guys as well but please don’t expect me to send you diaper pics especially because I’ve run out and sadly cant afford any without any help. That being said if you want to help me get little gear I would really appreciate that!
Please feel free to reach out and ask me for my discord or instagram

I’d love to know some punishments you guys have or are interested in having, something that can be done over the phone. Anything except for lines and spanking yourself.

If abdl is an important part of your lifestyle, why hide it from someone who you want to be with long term? Why hide it from your partner who you’ve been with for years or even married? I think it’s so important to communicate wants and needs and important stuff in relationships to make sure everyone is on the same page. I understand being scared they’ll disapprove of it but if it’s a dealbreaker for you if they don’t support this side of you then why keep prolonging telling them?

I believe we should date people who we can trust and who we know will support us. If you think your partner is gonna lash out and break up with you over this then why keep dating them just to hide this and end up being hurt in the future.

Whenever I see posts where someone’s like “my wife of 5 years doesn’t know about my abdl side” it irks me because how did you get to the point of marrying someone who you’re still hiding something like this from. I understand people who like abdl but don’t necessarily need it in their relationship but if it’s something you love and try to do all the time then it’s important enough for you to make your partner aware of.

For me being with someone who shares the same kinks as me or is at least accepting of it and willing to try it, is very important. I really get being scared of the negative reactions but it’s a conversation that needs to be had.

Hii I have an Instagram account where I live to interact with people who are abdl, agere, and all the above! Please DM me if you wanna add me on there! I’m always looking for more friends, sorry if my replies might be slow sometimes. As long as you’re above 18 then I’d love to talk :>>

Since I started occasionally wearing diapers I’ve always put them on without applying anything to my skin. I want to avoid possibility getting diaper rash, and to protect my skin. Is there anything you guys recommend? I’m a girl so I’m careful about what I put down there but I’m seeking advice and recommendations from everyone :>>

I feel like I’ve been ghosted or randomly blocked in the middle of having a decent conversation with the majority of people I’ve met who are into abdl. This is specifically for blocking randomly after having good or decent conversations, not someone who was being weird in DMs or harassing anyone. Like I’ll step away from my phone for 1 second and come back to see that I’ve been blocked by someone I thought I was vibing with. In this community I feel like it’s hard to find genuine connections and not people who just want to talk to me for like 5 minutes then dip. Trying to find friends who are into the same stuff I’m into is such a drag, I’ve noticed this cycle will never seem to end. Dear ghosters and blockers why do you do this? Is it the sudden feeling of shame or is it just a sudden loss of interest

Hii I have a cg but he’s busy most times so I’m looking for a baby sitter who will help me and we can provide company to each other. Just looking for a kind gentleman who lives in the US and wants a little friend to baby and have platonic fun with. I love long voice calls and talking for hours endlessly. Also you must have discord or Instagram and be willing to talk talk off the app and actually get to know each other. Basically I’m looking for a friend who can also provide that nurturing role for me

I F18 have started to frequently wear my onesies outside, I wear them like a normal shirt with jeans or sweatpants. So far I’ve only gotten one compliment on it from a cashier at a store who probably just thought the design was cute. I wear my OnesiesDownUnder ones most which have very popular designs recognized in the community. I always hope that someone will recognize it and feel happy that they’re not alone and remember that there’s more of us out there :>>

I’m always looking for abdl friends, not just littles but caregivers as well. Please don’t DM if you live super far from me, I don’t really like dealing with time zone differences. I want someone cool and friendly who won’t secretly be using me to get off. Please don’t DM me immediately talking about you wetting your diaper or anything like that. I’m looking for regular friends with no benefits.

Hii I’m looking for friends I can easily talk to and have nice conversations with! :>> I have discord and instagram and I’m trying to be active without the communication. I love meeting new people feel free to DM me. I don’t mind friends of any age or gender. I have a caregiver so I’m not looking for a dynamic like that.

F18 starting my abdl journey, I’ve only ever tried plastic back diapers but I’m wondering if anyone has a preference and why? Use, durability, comfort etc