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Just as the title says, but here’s some more backstory -

I got out of a 10 year relationship last year, we just grew apart from each other and was wanting different things, it was hard at first but it’s much better now. When I told her about diapers 6 months into our relationship she was so accepting at first and liked doing it with me. Fast forward to today, and I’ve been chatting with this girl for about a month, I’ve told people here and there online about what I’m into and it always leads to a dead end in the conversation.

Over the last year I really tried putting myself out there on the personals here, the ones on fetlife, and I even went to a few munches 😁 but nothing ever comes from it and anybody I would meet online into diapers, was either so far away, or the conversations didn’t last.

Which now leads me to today! I really like this girl, and she seems super open to trying things! But I’m scared it’ll be like my last relationship where she would let me wear, but seemed annoyed by it happening more than once a week.

Any advice? TLDR - I met a girl whose vanilla but she’s open to trying things, and I’m scared to tell her about diapers

OK I have tried lots of different things and have yet to make this happen I need your guys help to make it 100% helpless and stuck in my diaper. Im looking for at least a few hours so I can maybe even do forced hypnosis regression etc but stuck in my diaper. so im in the US and ive reached out to other people on Etsy like straight jacket group but because of the tariffs it would be a no at this time but need some ideas. So far I bought some restraints but hard to do by my self and no be able to take them off with either my mouth or other hand so have yet to make that happen. bought a locking waddle diaper cover but no matter how tight I make it with segufix lock I can still slide it off (no ass at all lol). I bought locking mitts but hard to put both on by my self I cant get one of them tight enough to squeeze my hand back in after setting the strap. so I have a new zipper locking onesie with waddle diaper cover and mitts im going to try and I also have a timer lock box so there's that now just need more ideas. I want to drink tons of water and take laxatives and then diaper up and ideally be strapped down if I can and need a way to make it 100% unable to remove my own diaper. any ideas ive tried quite a few things just hard to do solo

Starting tonight I’m gonna be 24/7, I’ve been heavily depressed the past 6 years did start to get better the past year. Last night I received some shitty news that my most recent ex ago wants to try again and start a family; mind you we’ve not stopped talking since breaking up. Noo she’s moved on apparently in the space of a month after talking about getting back together and starting a family. It’s hit me like a tone a bricks and can feel myself just getting lower and lower everyday not to mention how fcking lonely I feel. So I’ve decided, from tonight on, I will wear diapers to bed, and pull-ups in the day due to limitations in privacy as I am my sisters guardian, even tho I might just buy tena maxi/ultima diapers as there’s practically nothing to them compared to other brands. If anyone has any suggestions for discreet but thick-ish tab style diapers. Be much appreciated 🙏 although I do have to say the Incontrol Bedry’s are nearly perfect to be diapered in the day but they are just a little too loud imo. Also if anyone has any suggestions or tips or what not with using diapers to combat depression, again be much appreciated🙏. (not a little so no regression)

A while ago, I was at my babysitter's house, like every other Thursday. While she was changing my wet diaper after my nap, she said, "You're the only one still in diapers, out of all the children I look after..." ...that made my stomach churn. She looks after 3 young children, all under 3 years old, and I'm the only one who still can't stay dry and needs regular diaper changes... how embarrassing...

To give some context, I have a mommy and also a babysitter. My mommy lives in another state and I visit her from time to time. So, to ensure I wouldn't be without care, and also because she found out I had Tuesdays free, she decided to register me on a website where babysitters look for services. She found a sweet lady who has been taking care of me ever since...

Hey everyone! Just have a question for simulated messing. I myself love the idea of messing but absolutely hate clean up and smell. So what do you other diaper wears do to simulate messing? In the past I have experimented with oatmeal and bananas, which are awesome. I did see a post on another subreddit for cake and water and that sounds like it could be a lot of fun. Thank you all for your advice!

I am having a hard time finding a mommy and it's making me sad. Any advice is welcome.

I’ve got this crush and we hang out when he’s in town..cause he’s mil. We been buds for 2years about.. but mainly hanging out more this year.. I recently asked him if he likes me.. cause he always invited me places and pays for our dates.. we got to adult daycare, little events and other stuff together.. etc opens my door, touches my thigh.. touches my body sometimes? When I asked him if he liked me he said “ah did I make it obvious?”
So he flirts buttt we’ve never fucked? Is this a bad sign?
We haven’t talked in like 2 months and my girls friends saying “if he wanted to he would”
Should I be patience or just ask him out when he comes back?
Is it normal for a man to spend money of woman and not have an intention of sleeping with them?
He last said “don’t forget about him”
I should just wait right?

I would have never guessed that I would write this but I just had a genuine bedwetting accident.
For context, I wore diapers for the last 3 days non stop and didn’t hold it at all when I felt the need to pee. Today was an extremely exhausting day for me and because I have some business to do tomorrow and I can’t wear diapers doing that I changed out of my last one after taking a shower. I immediately fell asleep once my head hit the pillow of my bed and just woke up and lie and behold my crotch and my bed was wet…
Should I be worried ? I haven’t had any bed wetting accidents in the last 15years.

Does anyone have a favorite pair of shorts to wear over their diapers? I used to love wearing an old pair of lacrosse shorts or some (aussie) footy shorts. But these days, I'm thinking of trying a fabric that "clings" to the diaper a bit more. Maybe lululemon shorts or something with that kind of fabric.

Any favorite shorts to wear over diapers, guys?

So for reference I’m a 19 m and I’ve been on the hunt for someone for a real long time here on Reddit I’ll get a dm or reach out and it might last a day before I’m blocked and also I might add i am straight so I’ve been looking for a female. I’ve tried fet and it’s hard, I would like to commit to something but I’ve never had the chance I am strictly online for now unless things get super serious if anyone has any advice I’d me so thankful

Hi Guys just wanted to share this story of how my boyfriend(m20) told me (f19) he likes wearing diapers.

So we have been together 2 years now, he told me about 6 months in. I could always tell there was something he wasn’t telling me. I just knew he was hiding something. He had told me before that he has a secret fantasy but he would never tell me what it is One evening, I gently asked him about it. It took a while to get it out of him. And that’s when he told me something I hadn’t expected: he likes to wear diapers and use them for both number 1 and 2.

At first, I was a little surprised. But as he talked about why it mattered to him, how it gave him comfort, I feel honoured that he trusted me enough to share.I listened. I asked questions, I didn’t judge. I actually really like the idea and told him I don't mind him wearing diapers and I would even wear them to if he wanted.our relationship has grown stronger. He feels safe being himself around me, and I feel grateful that he trusts me so deeply.xxxx

I am so excited i put a plug in while diapering for the first time today and i cant wait to soak myself! What a great combo :))

So last night me and my girlfriend were talking and she was saying that she “liked something else” so I asked and she mentioned being taking care of and I asked which parts then she said “I wouldn’t mind a pacifier” and “maybe a diaper” which holy made my heart skip a beat and I was so happy she doesn’t particularly want me wearing them while during horny experiences but she’s ok if I wear them while cuddling she’s a bottom and is uncomfortable being top

https://www.reddit.com/r/interesting/s/CUUT56jKkf

Couldn't crosspost but this was the first thing I thought of.

Curious if the open source ABDLs will put out a good robot hand soon with an AI model focused on diaper changes :3

Hi everyone! Just wanted to see if there’s any other AB/DL medical students here. Sometimes I genuinely feel like I might be the only one, and it’s just.. a little scary. I’m not really an AB, more a dom/cg that is also a DL. But you know, I’m in the community.

Obviously pls do not doxx yourself, I just wanted to try a lil roll call perhaps.

I think it was speedydiaper reviews that said ATN's have a new plastic, and my supply is low, and I don't have money to order a case of abdl premium diapers so I thought sure, the only thing I didn't link about ATN's was the loud plastic.

So I ventured into a healthcare store and bought a bag, but it's the same old plastic! They are too thin and blah for special occasions and too loud to wear to work/out in public. So now I'm stuck with them. Any ideas? I guess I'll try to wear them at home but not around family

MY OTHER QUESTION IS: does the ATN's with the new plastic, have makings on the packaging?

I’ve sent them a couple messages and haven’t gotten an answer. I LOVE the Classic Rounds, but they’ve been gone for so long! I really wanted a dark green one, but the page for the primary colored (darker) ones is just completely gone. Are they coming back at all? ):

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