r/ABDL

I've been thinking a lot about discreet public wearing lately. For me, I like wearing during long work days where bathrooms aren't easy to access or nearby. I keep it purely practical (and a little fun for myself), never bringing any obvious kink into non-kink spaces. I wear looser work clothes that are a size up to help hide any bulge, plus a plain onesie underneath so nothing peeks over the waistband. It works great for me and stays very low-key.

A few questions for the community:
Do you wear in public? If yes, how often and in what situations? If no, what's your main reason?
How hidden does a diaper need to be for you to feel comfortable? What's your best hiding tips/tricks (clothing, onesies, boosters, etc.)?
Have you ever noticed someone else in public who might be wearing (crinkle, bulge, etc.)? How did it make you feel?
What about seeing little attire (onesies, cute prints, etc.) in everyday non-kink spaces? How do you think people react, and does it depend on gender? It feels like women can pull off cuter/little-looking clothes more easily and it's more socially accepted. Do you agree?

Looking forward to hearing your stories and advice. Let's keep it respectful and positive!

Hey everyone,

Last weekend I decided to go full little mode and attend the Bruno Mars concert padded up like the big baby I am. I had my thick diaper on under my clothes, feeling cute and excited for the show. Everything was perfect… until I got to the venue and saw the security line. I completely forgot they do full pat-downs and bag checks. My heart started pounding so hard!
I was super nervous the whole time in line, sweating and overthinking everything. At one point I almost slipped away to a bathroom to quickly take the diaper off and hide it somewhere. I was this close to chickening out.
But then I told myself: “You’re a big baby. You got this.” So I took a deep breath and just went through with it. The security guard patted me down… and didn’t notice a thing. I made it inside without any issues at all!

The concert was absolutely amazing, and wearing my diaper the whole time made it even more special. Dancing, singing along, and feeling that comforting padding under my clothes while Bruno killed it on stage 10/10 experience.

Anyone else ever had a close call like this at a big event? How do you handle the nerves when going out padded in public? Would love to hear your stories!

Stay padded and stay brave, littles! 💕🍼

I’ve been diapered on and off for the past 2 years of my life. I used to need to stand perfectly still to pee while padded, but today changed that! I felt the slightest urge, and decided I have to try this again. And… I did it! All without breaking pace either! I’m proud of me now :3

Just wondering other abdls experience with there if you are both AB and DL.

As I am in a busy season of life, this is really the only consistent thing I am doing day to day. Regressive play, and sexual diaper or ab play with a partner is minimal.

Just wondering how much wearing diapers only meets your Abdl needs?

I am also almost 40 and diapers have become more of an emotional comfort thing for me and less of a kink or sexual thing even though that aspect is still there.

Helloooo, let me introduce myself quickly :D, My name‘s Tim I‘m currently living at my parents house but probably moving out soon due to university. I‘m 19 years old and kinda short irl, sooo yea hope that‘s fine.
As you may have noticed my english isn‘t great but I will try my best… -I promise. Also until university starts I have 5 weeks of vacation so I‘ve got a lot of time :D

I‘m not sure if I‘m allowed to post this here because I don‘t obtain diapers (If I‘m not allowed to I‘ll obviously delete this) but maybe I can get a pass because I‘m really looking forward to buying some (It isn‘t the first time I told myself that :(

What I‘m looking for is a person to talk with more frequently during the next days. (Maybe someone who helps me to finally be able to actually buy some) Or we can just chat about kinky / casual stuff
Also I‘m leaning into the submissive side but I‘m open to anything new.

I F18 have started to frequently wear my onesies outside, I wear them like a normal shirt with jeans or sweatpants. So far I’ve only gotten one compliment on it from a cashier at a store who probably just thought the design was cute. I wear my OnesiesDownUnder ones most which have very popular designs recognized in the community. I always hope that someone will recognize it and feel happy that they’re not alone and remember that there’s more of us out there :>>

Today I had my first abdl diaper sighting that wasn’t mine.

So I was travelling far for work today so I was in a relatively new area. I was zoned out on my way home and I was turning onto a freeway.. I was looking out my window driving slow in traffic when I spotted a pile of rubbish on the side of the road. For some reason I was examining it more than I normally would where there was right at the top clear as day, a full little kings diaper. I was kind of grossed out that there was used diapers thrown out on the street but it was the most surreal feeling of suprised, relieved, shocked all mixed into one. I literally jumped out of my seat I was so shocked I couldn’t believe what I saw. It was the very first time seeing something abdl related that wasn’t from myself. I just wanted to share my experience, let me know if something similar had happened to you.

I'm struggling, I met a girl, she had some little space tendencies and we talked about things a couple years ago. We had some little space events and some play time together. Fast forward a couple years and she moved into my place. She's lived with me about 6 months now. I've been 24/7 for a long time, a few weeks ago everything blew up. She just on a dime as far as I can tell flipped that she hates abdl and little space and everything.

Just 2 months ago she was asking to be diapered and I brought stuff back from a convention for her. I had definitely relaxed how hidden I was with things, I was far more open with her and around her. I don't know if that wore her down?

In a conversation just the other day she said that she had just been putting up with stuff, I had no fucking idea. If that's actually true I didn't see it

I feel terrible right now and this is really hitting me hard.

My favorite diaper to wear during the day is a PeekABU, and I usually wear them to work, like today.

Every time I wear one I forget how freaking crinkly they are and I can hear it with every step I take at work. I wear a onesie, underwear, and semi-tight jeans or khakis over it to try and mask that crinkle, but theyre still SOOOOOO LOUD.

If you have suggestions on a plastic back diaper that’s not as crinkly please suggest. I love the crinkle, but all my co workers have to be hearing it when I walk past, which I walk past them a lot…. Not sure what else they think it could be. I keep telling myself after work to get new diapers, but I forget and then a couple days later the cycle continues.

Asking for a friend. Definitely not me I'm a big girl

I’m wondering if anyone here is turned on by just diapers, as in diapers not on a persons body. It’s weird, but I think seeing a fresh pack of diapers or just taking one out to touch and feel is super exciting. Does anyone else feel the same?

When I was a kid, literally a good 99.9% of what I'd daydream about, and imagine, was ab/dl, cg/l stuff, even if I didn't have the right terminology back then to verbalize what it was that I liked and thought about. I'd create characters specifically for these stories in my head, and I'd legit sometimes spend hours daydreaming about this stuff as much as I possibly could. Or I'd play games with my stuffed animals that they were being treated like babies, or being punished by having to *be* treated like a baby, or forced to be a baby by a romantic partner.

I'm curious to know if anyone else was like that.

Anyone else beyond frustrated? Nearly 40. Married. Wife is OK and accepting, knew before we got married. Participates when I engage but otherwise not really.

ABDL has gotten to be a decently sized portion of my life, but only in my head. Not in practice.

Conversations in the past fall on deaf ears.

Community involvement is risky for those of us with privacy concerns.

It’s not something worth changing my whole life over. It’s also depressing to not enjoy it semi regularly.

I’ve seen similar frustrations on here.

Just seems ABDL in general gives you few good options to not be isolated. Can’t tell my friends. Hard to find real ABDL people without too much risk.

I’m gonna answer these questions about myself.

1. Yes, I have told my parents about me liking diapers. They thought it was a little weird.

2. I’ve liked diapers for about 5 or 6 years.

3. The internet mostly, but it was also because of a different reason. When I was younger, we had spare diapers for some reason, and I was curious so I tried them on, and .. it made me a little sexually aroused.

I’ve been using it and I think it does work! What’s your opinions, and is there a good place to find more?